Robert Burale on the dangers of a rebound and the best way to handle a breakup | Lynn Ngugi Show 

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*Heavenly Father I pray that you keep the person reading this alive,safe, healthy and financially blessed Amen 🙏🙏🙏*

Hugs to anyone out there going through a heartbreak coz they were betrayed😢 hugs , there's life outside that relationship💯🙏 sending love ❤

Upon listening to the coach, I can honestly say I have never dated, I was only used and dumped at one's will. May God Help me to find someone who will genuinely love me and care for me.

I like Robert coz he is very genuine. He is not fake.

Very powerful, mixed reactions, mixed comments, hurt and unhurt voices speaking from their point of view, everyone's opinions count! Yes we want Robert Burale Back more insights and advises ! He is full of truth, full of wisdom!

There is nothing like falling in love 🔨 you nailed it sir. Falling in love is a deceiver. One has to take conscious decision to marry the other part. That is why there is too much divorce because once you fall out of the so called love you decide to move away from the relationship. But once you take a concious decision you be with that person no matter the challenges you face together you find a better solution and continue to build each other because you decided.

I have just undergone a serious breakup and was soo stressed so couldn't sleep and decided to watch something on RU-vid, thank God I came across your show Lyn because you guys have just given me strength to go through this strongly. Thank you Lyn

We all need a person who can really talk to us afta a breakup,coz this what we lack....Lynn thanks for bringing Mr.Burale,he's a man who oozes wisdom and never lacks solution to any problem

One wise man once said, Fools multiply when wise men are silent. We need people like Burale to talk more and educate people in this break-up path..

And now without further ado, allow me thank Lynn ngugi for today's content ,it's reality💯 real life we all living

Great talk, i can listen to Burale over and over again, the guy has wisdom

When you meet Christ while alive you meet the saviour; when you meet him when you are dead you are meeting the judge.So profound.

Trust me, there is no road map to healing a broken heart. And don't feel horrible because you're not healing magically the way people around you expect you to heal.

Lynn. You know what your people want to hear and learn. This Robert show was great and very educative. Thank you once again Lynn and thank you Robert for telling us that there is nothing liking falling in love, it is supposed to be intentional love or friendship.

I wish those who are going through a break up a quick recovery. Rebound is a pandemic.

This channel is all about learning something each and everyday, road to 300k subcribers. Keep moving girl

Wonderful conversation. I once dated a white guy after 5 yrs of divorce and he was so upset with his ex wife and he was wishing her dead, i saw him only 3 dates, I cut off. Never date a bitter ex of someone else.

Robert Burale is the epitome of Bold and Courageous...the bible commands so, Coach I hear you loud and clear.

Lynn, im from the Solomon Islands very very far from Africa... but i just want to thank you for sharing with the world these amazing and very inspiring stories. May God richly bless you and your team for getting people to share their stories. I like how you say 'even if the story inpact one life you are happy'... Tagio tumas.... means thank you so much!

Lynn we need more of this.What a wisdom packed guest.

Hi darling Lynn, next bring BENJAMIN ZULU on the show, much love from qatar🥰

He is gifted with witty words or one-liners "... When you meet Christ while you are alive you meet the savior, when you meet Him after your death, you meet the judge...."

Excellent one. Am in my early 50ties and has been so hurt. Still single but his talk has really healed me.

I love the fact that Burale appreciate need to see a therapist especially when dealing with this breakups. May God heal our broken generation and raise more coaches like him to help others professionally

I did exactly that Robert, vented on the opposite sex and they tried to be better than my ex and I played myself in the process! I did not last long though as I saw that I needed time alone to deal with me. Thank you Lynn for bringing Robert on your show. Appreciation from South Africa.

I love the spirit. I have been single for 7 years after several broken relationships, and today I feel more confident of what God has done in me.

Am I the only one who doesn't skip ads on Lynn's channel💯👏

I love this son of the Most High God. He’s full of wisdom and he’s so real. May The Lord keep uplifting you. Lynn, Thanks as always. This is so resourceful 🙏🏾🙏🏾

That is so true about falling love. One has to be intentional and grow loving each other. It takes intentional commitment to love the other regardless. Perfect statement

“Nothing like falling in love!…… falling from where?”♥️

Robert burale to run for 2022 coach seat tunasema aje tena Na tena. You are here falling in love with his voice. I'm here looking at the shoe and salivating. We love you Papa.

He honestly spoke well. I like the way he ended by saying; it's the little things that open up to the big things. Yes, that's so true. Lynn did a good job bringing him to speak on these messed up happenings in relationships.

I loved the bit about rebound relationships. After my separation, someone tried to convince me to sleep around and use men 'to revenge what my husband did to me' and I realized that those were the kind of people I didn't want to associate with at all. Just because a person has gone through divorce doesn't mean they're the best to seek advise from. Be discerning, and go for professional therapy!!

I've never hurt over someone breaking up with me, but the loss of relatives gets me. I can give testimonies of healing and getting over grief.

So true...there's no falling in love..."love is a feeling" ......you can wake up in or out of it...Good advice...loved it!!!!

This is powerful Lynn.. forgive yourself and forgiving the other person..also plays a key role in the healing process...

Nice nice , thanks Lynn for bringing us Robert . He gave me the food my heart needed 🙏🏼, please bring him more and more.God bless you.

This conversation is just the PLAIN TRUTH..... loud and clear

I agree there is nothing like falling in love. I believe grow in love.. I chose to marry my husband because of his personality and i said yes to him then I started growing in love with him. Intentionally made my mind to stay with him forever. Its a deliberate choice to live with him based on what i saw in him.

The conversation was lit. There could be no other better way to discuss this topic. Very well said and articulated ❤️❤️

Today's episode is so educative to majority of us who are going the rough road of break-up.As he's say,the situation is very traumatizing especially to the one being left.

This man is good. I like his thinking. Seasoned and full of wisdom. Only same thinkers can understand his knowledge. Hello Burale from London ❤️🇬🇧. Lynn, you're always beautiful my lady. ❤️❤️❤️❤️

I like burale's way of teaching..he has great insights on relationships

If you meet christ when you are alive you meet a saviour when you meet him when you are dead you meet the judge..... Wow wow even if i don't learn anything else in this interview that one thing is enough 🙌🙌

Pounding on the truth again and again and again! Informative! To Lynn and Robert, kudos!

Very true Lyn,his voice is unique.. have learned alot ,it hasn't been easy to get over my ex but at least now I have a clue where to start , thank you.

Love Mr.Burale's insights....and he has a great sense of humor as well!

I have stayed for toxic marriage for 20 years before I could run away 3 time trying to make things work out and fearing to be called single mom coz I have raised up by a single mother so I hated that and I need to be in a man hands,I did have a Dad, grandfather or a brother and to uncles it was not good place to be coz of much things so in that marriage I tried to tie myself to him hata madharau yote nilikua na samehe coz I was saved and in me nilikua na jalibu kunyenyekea nione kama ita work but please it was killing me slowly and I was wrong to make someone know your most fear juu nimegogwa na kuto taka kua single but now for 8 months from the time I Divorce I feel I don't want to be near eny man and I feel to stay a lone is best , I have forgiven him and he have moved on and have married but for me I want to stay listening to the word of God all the time waiting for God guide line and He God who is helping me through Jesus and my helper Holy spirit 🙏🙏🙏 am composing my music and now I have a lot of song and believing to get money to record and to praise my God is my priority for now.

Last month my husband and I disagreed to an extent we had to involve parents and wazees but by God's grace we were able to talk and settle things. I was so angry and I blamed everything on him and forgiveness was not easy but by the help of the Holy spirit I read John 8:3 about the adulterous woman and then romans 2:1,22 immediately I had to repent and I feel free and ready to let go of anger and bitterness.

Where were you Lynn in the past two days?Kept on checking on RU-vid for something in vain.Thank God you're back . I can't be quiet anymore.he he been a silent follower. Just wanna say you're amazing

Very true people confuse LOVE and LUST so it should be intentional love I like that

This issues of people breaking up in relationship and trying to look for rebounds is becoming a major crisis in our nation.. this are things that happen each and everyday due to inadequate therapist and as well ignorance frm spouses.. Mr Burale thank u we really need more people like you🤝

Best coaches are not the footballers. Single hoyeee! We give raw advice.

Competent, sharp, humble, all. .this is one of the few who can give relationship advice. He knows his limits too. Some dude advices on everything and anything in relationships. True, if you cannot be together just being, you cannot be together. Just be there chilling

I love the way pastor handles and balances answers spiritually and physically cuts the edges...

This is the best conversation I have ever heard. Life experience and the truth being told. God bless you so much for bringing real people to this channel to speak about real life . God bless you too Robert Burale..

Yes Robert......we need to ask ourselves where did we also go wrong? That introspection alone makes one to realise one's own mistakes.

Simple way to avoid other Factors; Make Sure Both Parties Are On The Same Page. ... Communication Is Key. ... Figure Out Why The Breakup Happened. ... Take It Slow And Be Patient. ...Experiment And Embrace Change.... Time heals all wounds. A relationship is never the end there are so many things in life to appreciate.

I've learned a lot from this ...Thank you so much I needed to hear this.I'm scared of being alone/lonely so I tolerated lot of heartbreak .I sometimes jumped from one relationship to the next...trying to fill a void that can't be filled and it has got me in a situation that I'm now not happy with.🤔

Wooow! Bring Benjamin zulu too please🙏

Lynn You have saved ,encouraged so many souls ,,,Burale this Busia guy is always spiritually guided

ouch! my bad! that i cannot have this gentleman all for me💗💗💖 this man is a whole vibe.... i always search for him just to solve my issue and know what step to take nxt more blessings more wisdom from above🙏🙏🙏🙏

Was really waiting for this interview... Burale is full of wisdom

This guy is gifted. I got encouraged.

Waoh! The man is with a lot intelligence. Whatever he is saying is absolutely true. He should teach this generation the truth about the word of God which is is the light and it witl set them free.

I love this wisdom ... my journey of healing and self restoration, is moving in the correct direction. I have accepted my mistakes - what an eye opener. Thank you from South Africa 🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦

A rebound is very dangerous when rushing to it for convenience. RB is 100% correct. Do not rush to the opposite sex for comfort by bed warming. Bad mistake. From a rebound, you need to stay far away from telling what happened to the wrong people. Take time to process away from bad influence groups fond of gossip. Quick fixes and hostile quest to fix a failed relationship is rethal. Take time to find your own side of contributing to that breakup and seek to be cautious next time. Relationships fail. It is the manner in which you handle it that matters guys. Lynn a breakup has no timeline, it depends on your support systems and secondly what Burale has said about how fast you accept reality and your own mistakes. "There is too much wrong information out there" perfect message. Love is not enough guys, we can repeat this again and again till Jesus comes.....There is much more.

Great show thank Lynn for hosting Burale great man full of wisdom👏👏👏

Lynn Ngugi you always do a good job. Looking forward to sitting on your show and talk about men. However, you guys have tackled what I wanted to hear today.

Lynn U are amazing mum for what u are bringing to us in this channel,today l feel like hugging u it only that am far ,l always follow Robert in all his pages in social media he is a man with destiny his advices changes my life🙏🙏🙏

Always beautiful and educative to hear from coach burale. Never never be judgemental but Let God to walk in all situation.

This was really a blessing 🙏 thank you lyn ngugi and Robert 😘

Apo kwa after heart break don't run to the opposite sex for advice or comfort I can relate 101%

WOW...burale 🔥🔥🔥🔥,am inspired ,I thought I was the only one who went through the trauma of breakup.thumps up burale.

Learning every day from this channel much love ❤️ ❤️ ❤️

Good evening Lynn, kindly when you host Burale talk about widowhood and the healing process.

Wow this is what I needed to hear thanks Lynn for bringing Mr. Burale.

Some serious morning life classes before work 😊 Thanks Lynn.

Lynn, that was awesome discussion with My friend Mr Burale. He's an amazing guy to always listen 👂. I like the content in his brain. Strength of his spiritual life. Amen team..

Learning from your own book. Good experience Mr. Burale

May God continue blessings this wonderful channel 👏👏👏👏👏👏Thankyou Lynn for bringing Doktari Burare

I just love this gentle man's advice

Insightful topics there. Thanks Lynn & Burare for airling it🙏

Am learning day by day thank you Lynn❤,, coach i love your word's am happy thank you...

Thanks Lynn for bringing burale,he speaks wisdom Ile watu hawapendi good job.

Thank you Lynn,, I really need this... meanwhile I'm still healing 🙏🏾

Weeh...I love the wisdom that flows from his mouth~

I also know one day will sit here with Lynn🙌🙌💯🙏

Single pple we give advice out of experience, that's y we offer the best, Burale I'm ua fun

Every time I pass through this Chanel , I learn so many things ❣️

Great lesson Lynn👍🏿Bring him back!He is speaking the Truth to shame the devil! Wow!wow!Truth👍🏿🙏🏿🙏🏽

I like the voice too...when he talk I really get everything clear....am happy for him may God bless him so much for this show

Man of wisdom. Comment section imejaa watu wana agree na wewe. We love you

The best topic so far. I love his thinking and saying reality as it is

A very sober mind. Big up Robert. Nice job Lynn.

Asanteni sana. Nimefahamishwa, nimecheka kama kumbafu. Tuaschane na ujinga mob tu. Mungu awa bariki sana.

I needed to hear this, Lynn thank you. This rebound thing has cost me but am learning

Hi. Robert God bless you. Keep speaking to the broken hearts. This is an area the church has neglected.

My love for this man's wisdom is in ratable , feeling energized 💪