Thankyou so much Lynn ngugi for hosting me in your show and having a Candid conversation on sexual abuse and rape ❤️🙏. Am happy to have shared my story and helped people to learn that childhood sexual abuse and rape can affect a child's development and affect their growth into adulthood. To parents out there if your kid goes through sexual abuse or rape take that kid for therapy. Parents should teach their kids about their private parts and that nobody should touch them. This applies to both girls and boys. Doing this will help them to open up if they go through such a thing. Lastly people should learn that childhood sexual abuse and rape affects a child's development in many ways, psychologically, mentally and even their relationship with men.
Jacinta you are a worrier, a conqueror, a champion and a victor.Your future is brilliant and your destiny is great, i believe God will grant you with the love of your life,who matches you and suitable for you.
We are so humbled you gave us a chance to be reminded to take sexual abuse seriously. I work Kara home which hosts sexually abused gals. These stories are so sad. May God give you help and heal you completely.
Thank you so much Jacinta for being so brave and sharing your story💛💛💛 Thank you for trusting me too with your story🙏 My people, feel free to connect with Jacinta via +254742560671 or instagram.com/cinta_njoroge? Her number is also in the description box:). Thank you
I'm from Zimbabwe and only discovered this show recently. The level of empathy and professionalism Lynn shows her guests is just phenomenal. You're such a lady
This is true I struggled with fact that marriage was not an option for me. I grew up watching my father emotionally and physically abuse my mother so badly and it didn't help that my uncle also did the same. All through campus I hated men and so bitter. But the Grace of God gave me courage, I still have fears but knowledgeable and have a support system.
For Jacinta and any other survivor of rape. God does heal and restores all the lost years.i was raped at 19 and it's only after I got born again and grew with God did all the trauma leave. Your relationship with Him will uproot fear because that is not a spirit of God but of the enemy. You are able to change the language you speak about yourself and your environment. The tongue has power to dictate life or death. Choose life . Take the baby steps and celebrate every small achievements each day. Ask God to erase every bad memory and replace with Good memories . And I am also a big proponent of therapy it goes a long way in helping in the healing process. As I conclude I can say that it is possible to heal and have a happy life . It is now 13 years since my assault and I can say that I am now happily married to the love of my life . So jacinta and any other survivor you shall thrive
The worst part about trauma is one time you think you are doing well and When something triggers you 😭you go Back to square one. Unfortunately our parents also didn't have idea of existence of therapy or idea of how to handle such.. healing from any kind of trauma isn't easy. May God heal everyone walking through the healing journey.
Sexual harassment. Hitting 30 single with 90% fear of men. The Agent who was getting me a job in gulf back then sexual harassed me back in 2014. I have never told my family before but I talked it out with a friend. In 2017 my Arab boss sexual harassed me they never penetrated me though but there actions, forcing you to touch their private parts. . I never ever spoke out about this. Thank you so much @Lynn Ngugi for giving us this platform to air out our fears and traumas. I believe healing begins when you speak it out. We shall heal one day through God's grace. I remember the start of 2021 I had a boyfriend but he tried to force a kiss on me and all the past memories flashed back in my minds. I was soo scared to death I dumbed the guy. Sexual harassment is soo traumatic no matter how strong I am those memories will always crush you down.
We truly hope you enjoy this episode💛 You can reach Jacinta on +254 742 560671 or connect with her here instagram.com/cinta_njoroge? Thank you for your incredible support. To share your story, send a summary of your story to lynnngugi4@gmail.com or lynnngugishow@gmail.com
Thank you for helping and supporting us, yes us, making our voices heard and ousting our hidden memories, worries. This was inspiring for sure, God bless you! I would want to share my story too but I'm not in Kenya 😭😭😭
i have an uncle who has sexually assaulted us at home. He assaulted me in 2007 when i was a small girl and when i told my parents they could not believe and therefore nothing was done.Just recently before xmas,one of my other cousins came out and said this same man actually has actually been having sex with her and her younger sisters and since then like 3 more cousins have come up with the same story.Guys pray for my family cause i don't know what is going to happen next, and after listening to some of these stories, i blame my parents for not taking action then. I wish i could come and share my story but unfortunately,am in Uganda.Thanks Lynn.
You all need to come together and stop that man by reporting him. Some will not believe you but eventually someone will. Yes your parents have failed you😭❤️🤗
You never know. Lynn might just accept your story on her show. We are all East Africans, f not Africans and Lynn herself ha been recognized internationally. So maybe contact her and find out if she can? You never know. Might present some challenges, though, but if thats what you need to break though then so be it.
Miss Lynn am just happy for you! You are the next Kenyan Oprah in the making! I really love watching your shows. I love your humbleness, authenticity, down to earth ,and the respect ,sympathy& empathy you show to your guests. May God continue to expand your territories! Amen!
Am 28 and I have been afraid of getting married because of what my mum went through in the hands of our step dad ....i know it's a process but I Pray to God that I'll overcome it
Hii jane I truly understand you because am also going the same thing ,,,its hard even if you come across a serious guy who is ready to marry me I end up rejecting the proposal
Lynn you a blessing to this generation, those who have never went through sexual assault cannot understand it's not easy, I personally survived by the grace of God. God bless you Lynn.❤️❤️
I was sexually abused by 2 brothers who were neighbors. When I told my mother and aunts who were supposed to protect me, they said I was too ugly for anyone to abuse me. This affected how I looked at the world and myself. My male relatives always tried to "pimp" me out. As an adult I realized that most of my friends were also sexually abused; but had no safe space to heal. I am glad that now many are talking about it and that men are also calling and demanding accountability from those who are committing such atrocities to both boys and girls
This was superb expecially the part of looking her into the eyes and reassuring her that not all men are bad, she will get married coz she is beautiful and courageous. Thanks Lynn you can't imagine how that one show changed that ladies life. God bless you and the crew.
Childhood Traumas are breaking the society, Parents MUST protect their Kids, there MUST be free Therapy Centers and follow ups. The Kenyan Juridistic System MUST take harsh steps on these monsters! POLE SANA JACINTA. Thank you Lynn for this plattform. God bless you.
Lynn, this lady has her purpose cut out for her. See how brave she is and how passionate she is telling parents to take their children to therapy.. I am so proud of her. She will partner well with Njeri. God bless her and give her strength.
Why do I feel like the family and society failed her? No one in the family or around would notice that the anxiety and fear of men is unusual and that demanded a candid talk? Am so sorry my sister. Esp in a society where people are insensitive and mean. It shall be well and it is
That's what happens with our societies, they are too quick to judge instead of talking to someone and find out, that's why I have failed to open up with some people with fear of how I will be judged, it's not an easy world for some people 😢 but I continue being strong..
Uh! I thought i was lost. Glory to God for this show. I have been with u Lynn since ur first tuko show, and here we are. Thank you for allowing God to use u
I went through the same and the person who did it was my father's blood brother,His thing could not fit in my small v so he would put it in my mouth,I never told my parents cause they were busy fighting each other.When I started to develope breast he touched me and I got very mad and reported him to my mother who told my father.My father was soo mad but kama kawaida it was solved kifamilia.I would look at them and tell myself mgejua kuna ingine mbaya sijawaambia.I was also this shy anti social person,with very low self esteem.I can't wait for my abuser to die cause that day I will be celebrating.God's justice.
What a way to start the year. This is big in all aspects... It's like our own Kenyan Dr Phil show. Thank you Lynn. Many souls are being healed by just watching the show. This is just awesome.
I was born in Congo but I grew up in Canada now I’m currently in the USA for school. As I was readying through all the comments, I realized how so many people have suffered alone for so long. So from a fellow survivor.. you all aren’t alone. Xoxo💜
We live in strange times today where men and women are encouraged to despise one another. Ultimately society will suffer, sexual abuse is very serious and doesn't make this dynamic any easier. Especially when many men today start to distrust women out of hand and stop engaging at all.
I don't know why every show u bring touch my history I keep crying hoping this is the only way my heart can heal may God bless you because today this lady is speaking for me today 😭😭😭.
I studied with this beautiful soul...she was always looking depressed but only her knew what was killing her inside....You are a hero...blessings shall follow you.
I have not watched but I must admit I feared men until I met a guy 2yrs ago .I stayed for more than 28yrs for what happened when I was 13 and didn't want anything to do with men.I feared him too but I don't know what happened since it was different. I met the love of my soul. My twin soul
Who defiles a 4 day old baby or a 5 months or any child at all? These people should be killed or isolated from the world completely. It's sickening even to think of it. Suerly njeri you are a strong woman to handle this case,. May God bless you and give you more strength to carry on.
Our Ugandan president keeps proposing that these people should be kept away from society but the so called human rights. Oh God this is so sad. Men please have mercy and self control. This saddens me so much!
Lynn Ngûgî you're a blessing to our generation#Kenyan Oprah Rev Pst Charles Wanjîgî you're indeed a man of God and blessing to our generation. Dr.Joyce W.Charles, we're lucky to have you.
Am happy of this platform, giving people chance to express themselves. Its a healing stage. This girl will heal slowly and overcome, she explained what some of us went through and we are still fighting 💪
I totally understand and sympathise with you Jacinta. Congratulations Lynn keep going. I also feared going out and dating men. And actually I really never dated till I was 30 years when I had done therapy, prayed and had the support of amazing close friends. I gunned courage and settled with my current husband but it was not easy.
"unless you've gone through it, you may never understand!" That's very true. You are already in a great lane of healing and God will certainly see you through
This the most important topic ever, that lady really did it demonstrating 2 of them, i was really touched cried kabisa, lynn umebarikiwa, youv saved life youv changed most of peoples life be blessed
Lynn I'm in love with the new set, we are going places! Just 3 minutes in and the tears are flowing already,😭 as a mother of 2 daughters this is just so traumatizing. She has a long way to go in healing, I hope she can get aome counselling
Jacinta, thank you for honouring us with your story. I celebrate your courage to own and Honour your story. Wishing you love, strength and healing. You are Loved, Valued and you matter. You're not alone. 💜💜💜💜 Thank you Lynn for amplifying the survivor's voice. Thanks for believing. I celebrate you for this! 💜💜💜
This is beautiful...Jacinta you are a hero not a victim. You will heal and you will take the world by storm. This is your chiron. I send love and light and lots of hugs
Big up to you Lynn, I really love you. The level of of empathy you display is just amazing. The show is very therapeutic, educative and inspirational. May God bless you. I'd like to request for a follow up on the Mum who was assaulted by Truck drivers. Its my prayer that God will give peace to all the survivors. 😥😥😥
I have never been so disturbed like how i was after watching Jacinta pour herself out. Takes a lot of courage to open up and share. I see so much growth and confidence. God bless and Lynn for letting us in on this
Hello am Michelle Bahati, thank you so much Lynn, Ngugi for this show, I I was also raped by my cousin in 2004 by then I was staying with them in Nairobi, because am an orphan, I can surely tell you, that I haven't forgotten, I told his mum who is now dead, but she did nothing instead she beat me up,,,,, I'll never forgive you JUNIOUR!!!!!!!
My heart goes out to you Michelle. I believe in you and i know you will overcome because you are more than a conquer through Him who strengthens you. Pls forgive him it is the first step to healing, release him and hand him over to God
Wow!!👌 Happy New Year 2022 Lynn Ngugi the OPRAY WINFREY of Kenya 🇰🇪. Congratulations for the this new chapter of making a show. Am proud of you 👏 my the good Lord continue to bless you. I wish am in Kenya I wouldn't miss any minute to come to the show. I love ❤ you Lynn.
God protect our kids mothers who have left their kids and left them with guardians we don't know what is going on,am one of them working outside the country 😢😢😢.am speachless 😭😭😭 listening the show of today
Lynn,this is a surprise event you have shared with us,this will support Jacinta absolutely faster and she will heal .To Jacinta,you are pretty gal darling, enroll to therapy and everything will fall in place and also keep in mind of what you have learn from this show...Lynn,please bring her back after sometime coz we need to see Jacinta smile,dating and getting married. and ofcourse the life she had wished to enjoy.
Shazmeen's voice is so therapeutic, cant wait to hear her more.Thanks Lynn for this life changing platform you are giving us to heal. Cant wait to see Benjamin Zulu on the show too .#Godspeed.
Soo many souls out there are abused, The only thing we can do now is to try and make the upcoming generation feel they are in a safe place by making the world today better than yesterday.
It's hard to understand if you have never being abusive. I had attempted abusive and that things disturb me alot Sometime you can't speak out because the society will judge you without understand what you went through 😭😭😭😭😭
I was crying along with her.... her story just reminded me of my young self when the same happened to me.i know what she's passing thru'.the memories were made fresh again to me..😭😭😭😭.
Looking at everyone's reaction to her sad story, I really wonder who has not been through some traumatic event in their childhood or even adulthood ? So many people are living with alot of pain. God please heal us.
Look at this beautiful beautiful lady ❤️ I love you. I am proud of you. Healing, love, light, hugs, prayers and plenty of hugs from a fellow survivor in Botswana 🇧🇼
When she spoke about memories being suppressed but the body never forgetting, I remembered something that always comes back to me. I have always wondered whether it actually happened or it's a dream. It's at night, pitch black. We are sleeping on a mat in a room just close to my mum's and step father. And I feel someone trying to force themselves on me. I was probably around 6 or 7. How do I explain this? I have never spoken about it because, how do I start? Now that she spoke about it, I am scared that I may have been sexually assaulted and I didn't even know it. And I have cried. Thank you Lynn
trauma remains in the body as a memory its gets triggered when we are adults especially when we venture into relationships especially romantic relationships. it has an effect on the brain which is so sad because of things that happen to as children. it is also said that any traumatic event as a child can hinder your development. so i wish her the best in her healing journey slowly but steadily she will reach there
Hi Lynn. You have done many shows earlier and they have been so good. But for the first time I feel like was the guest today. I feel represented. Anything she said that is me. Up to date I'm struggling to find a space in my heart for men. Having gone thru and seen too much around me. But I thank God for you Lynn, for this was my show. May God expand your territories more.
So sorry for them. I grew up in a poor family and my parents didn't have enough money to take me through life. I went to live with a family member at 13, I had almost no right and everyone was more important than me. I struggled to fit in and one thing that I found it very difficult was to interact with girls of my age because of strict rules, punishment and ended feeling as if I was valueless. I eventually developed phobia for girls. I lost the desire for romantic relationships. I am now completing PhD and still find myself awkwardly placed in the society, even though I just turned 30. People question, but no one can understand my condition, but everyday I fight to remain above the challenge and remain relevant. Child abuse is a wide area that must be handled wisely and with alot of caution. I hope that they will recover and meet people who will truly understand them.
I had the same life. Living with relatives and I was always the bad irrelevant child. I was the thief according to them.. Their children would do bad things even steal money from the purse because they knew it was always me to be blamed for it. I was always never eating on the table with them.. I would never sit down and watch Tv with them. I would peep from outside the window or a small opening through the door.. incase the door was left a little open. I would sleep late at night and be woken up very early at dawn to start house chores. Don't forget.. I was an 11 year old boy. I would get beat up.. sometimes just for something as small as bringing warm tea to the table instead of hot enough. In primary school my classmates had a nick name of Mr. 'Bee sting' because my eyes and face were always swollen from being beat. I had scratches around my neck and upper body. Sometimes even combing my hair was a traumatic because my scalp was always painful and swollen from being canned. I lost dignity and worth of myself. I always felt alone and no one would ever even come in to my concern or just ask me how am doing. I was always sad. My story can't stop. It's too much I can say. But.. I somehow did overcome shyness and lack of confidence. My life started changing when I had to run away while in form 1, (15 years old) to one of my uncles. My uncle loved me but his wife never wanted to see me. I lived there because I felt my uncle's love no matter what the wife said. At least I wasn't being beat up there. So my face started coming back to normal. I joined soccer in the neighborhood.. started having friends and my life started changing. Later on I started jogging every morning.. it made strong and gave me pride within myself. Upto date.. I am married and living with a very loving and respectful wife. We are blessed with 3 children. 2 boys and one girl. God will see you through. Just believe in Him.
I just learned about this platform recently from South Africa 🇿🇦and am really learning a lot.@Lynn your a truly inspiration to the world Kenyans are so lucky to have you 😘
I can't help but be in nonstop tears right now. This is literally what I have gone through from a very young age. And I can recall some memories, but I know there's something major that had happened to me that my family is refusing to open up to me about. Till this day, I suffer from that trauma. I don't know when it will end. I don't know. But I believe in God. I only started remembering more things from last year 2021 and it hit me so hard that I was so heartbroken. But when I tell you that it's only because God sent me my husband, who absolutely loves me so dearly. It is seriously a miracle. He's like an angel 🙇🏾♀️🫂😭♥️♥️🤍... Thank you Jesus.
This has touched me…I almost went through it through a relative but my cousin saved me.. by telling me what the man intended to do. It was in the evening and I run through a thicket to my place. That was back in 2003.Fact is I was able to say hi to that relative last year since 2003.May God heal this beauty.
Though I hate watching these painful conversations, it's good that they happen. May God send angels to rescue every child going through pain and trauma.
Wow! What a global standard show! Lynn, your shows are life changing. The lady went home feeling safe and relieved, and many lives are touched. Continue the good work, congrats and happy new year.
There's a book known as The Body Keeps Score. The trauma never leaves your body unless it is dealt with, and you'll find yourself automatically acting out in various ways, coz the trauma is embedded in the body and the body is crying out.
@@wambuijacinta9723 Search The Body Keeps Score Audiobook, and you'll find a copy here on youtube free of charge. Trigger Warning - the stuff is raw and can take to spaces that are hard, esp. if you have buried stuff that need to come up to the surface. But, it will help you understand yourself, and the how trauma affects all the aspects of your life, how it comes out through weird uncontrollable behaviors and what to do with that trauma.
@@wambuijacinta9723 you are very welcome sweetheart. Thank you very much for sharing your story. You spoke on behalf of may of us who have not yet found the strength ad clarity of mind to speak out. Thank you very much.
Am glad to have been part of this live show and sharing my experience too " to parents/guardians : know who you are bringing closer to your children", make your children feel safe with you Lynne you are a blessing💕 God bless you
I will never get tired of watching this show I always watch it from the toilet 🤣 those are leaving in gulf know it well but when I realise Is out I can't imagine how people they can take opportunity to misuse a small girl and are the one who are supposed to show good example but anyway I'm sorry gal toto you are so brave and strong you will get your man when God bless you with one so God's timing is the best even me I remember I passed there but when I remember it always broke my heart 💓 Lynn continue impacting people life and even enlightening
Weeee I went to live with my aunt, my cousin was married... My cousin would always tell me Zalia him a baby girl... Ningesema Kwa aunt... Ningechapwa... Na Ata mum hakubelieve
It is so emotional bcs I was also raped and got pregnant but by God s grace Im overcome it she must jst receive Jesus Christ and all will be fine in her life she is beautiful and courage she is loved she will go far in Jesus Christ name amen thank you from Namibia
I declare infront of Lynn audience and fans,whenever my "tree" try to direct me to take advantage of under age girls,let it sleep and not to stand.......young girls are being raped everyday bt they keep it to themselves especially those who live in ghetto. No child choses the environment to be brought up. Thumb 🖒up @Lynn
So painful, the interview was so emotional to me ,I can't stop my tears ,jacintaaa I love u my sister, u re such a beautiful , brave and soft lady ,am sure God will recover u and bless u with a good husband and a lovely kids . Thanks a lot for a wonderful interviewer also and the therapist Love from South sudan
God bless you Lynn and every participant who availed him or her self to the show.We need this kind of live audience shows if possible once a month.They will bring a lot of awareness and enlightenment in our society. Much love from Doha Qatar.
Havent been here for a while. Lynn ume upgrade. Proud of you. I met you at some restaurant in town. I was so excited to see you. I waved... and you waved back with so much love and enthusiasm... it's like you knew me and you hadn't seen me for a long time. You are a genuine soul. One thing i didnt do... take a pic.. for myself and my sis. She loves you.❤😊.. she keeps asking me , how i met Lynn Ngugi and never took a pic 😁
This has really resurrected alot from my side..even at my 30s I can never forget that single day from my 9th year...have tried to battle that fear and I believe one day I will conquer..its never easy...but no child chooses the kind of environment to be raised in..many people suffer internally as wipe their tears off just to look normal 😢
