Rollo Tomassi on Unplugging and Red Pill RAGE 

Yes I’ve noticed this as well. It returns for different reasons though I’ve noticed. I first got red pill rage over all the time I had wasted chasing women and not understanding why they were not interested in me or why their interest suddenly disappeared for seemingly no reason. Now I get red pill rage from seeing other people not being able to see what women are doing, watching men and women give excuses for other women to be manipulative or unfaithful, or trying to explain to other guys red phill ideas and them scoffing it off

No You're not the only one.

As with grief, it never goes away entirely even after you've reached the "acceptance" stage. It's now a part of you and it's not a flaw or a weakness. It will become a problem only if you let it define you.

You're not jaded enough.

Snap ! 40 now and started my awakening two years ago. The best thing a man can learn to do is develop the ability to tell people to fuck off who are not aligned with your goals. Crabs in a bucket ! I let myself get pulled down for quarter of a centuary. *NO MORE* www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Crabs%20in%20a%20Bucket

Pretty much same story here Matt. I allowed it. Period!!! So 1 1/2 years later I’m still not where I wanna be, but well on the way. Even my ex wife has noticed a considerable difference in me. And she had no ideal what I’ve gotten myself involved with.

my sign says ''fuck you all''

12 years later, hope all is well

About your natural.

AlphaMaleStrategies and stephiscold really helped fam.

Exactly

@Luigi Torti Speak for yourself bud

@Luigi Torti It help but it's not over by any stretch of the imagination.

@Thanos gonna be myrons age in a few weeks. 30

@Thanos also just realized this was over a year ago. I’m in a much better place now. Made it to acceptance!

@Thanos hey bro sorry for the delay. Lot going on with a tax deadline coming up. I’m gonna keep it 💯 with you. When it comes to ladies specifically I’m not the most experienced cat in the pack, but I’ve learned a lot the past few years despite that. Rule #1? Never make the ladies the focus of your success. She is a byproduct of your success not the cause. Remember that and never use your ability to get with girls as the metric for success. Bad idea. Keeping in the spirit of 💯 with that out of the way, I won’t lie to you. The 20s were HARD for me. I didn’t start getting my life together until about 27. In my early 20s I was working at a dead end pharmacy job going to school for business management and finance. A worthless degree. By 24 I had the business management and finance bachelors degree AND the masters degree for global business and finance. All these fancy papers that no employer gave a crap about. Interviewers 20 years my senior barely had a bachelors and they had high paying jobs. Labor force got saturated and now even a masters wasn’t cutting it. They wanted me to be a pro with all these software packages a pharmacy could never teach you. 3.7 GPA nobody wanted me. Was horrible. My greatest asset. My brain. Worthless to them. I also didn’t have my dad around cause he died when I was 19. To top it all off I was hung up on some pretty girl I worked with for the first half of my 20s and because I was too blind to acknowledge my weak beta game, I went through emotional hell on that front too which culminated in her marrying some guy who made more money than me.(making her the center instead of making myself the point of origin. Rule 1 don’t do that!) Sprinkle a nice drinking problem on top of that putting down 60+ beers a week and you’ve got a recipe for a miserable unfulfilling existence. I wanted out. But then something happened. I sat down and reflected and really asked myself “what do I WANT to do with my life?” Not “what did my parents and peers EXPECT me to do?” What did I want? And I realized I wanted to be a CPA. Whatever it took, that’s what I wanted. So I went back for an accounting degree. So here’s my drunk ass applying for jobs on indeed monster and even Craig’s list (I shit you not...Craig’s list) and this Russian CPA raised in Brooklyn hits me up like “come in for an interview.” We hit it off and he hires me within a week. I start out in the firm doing sales and learning tax law. I graduate with my 3rd college degree in accounting by end of 2017. Then I start doing bookkeeping and payroll and sales tax. Then finally I’m preparing tax returns of every stripe. I start studying for the CPA exam and quit drinking by 28. I pass the last part of 4 by 29 and get my license. I start realizing my priorities were all wrong and I started focusing on ME. And that allowed me to come to terms with the unfairness and double standards of dating on both sides. It’s not supposed to be fair. It just IS what it IS and that’s how I got through to acceptance by age 30. (Pretty much recently) I deleted all my social media except RU-vid. Started making videos because why not? Cut out girls that made me feel like crap. Made the tough choices that I thought were gonna hurt but they actually helped. I am a better man now than I’ve ever been. And I got plans for more. Was at men’s warehouse last week. Inspired me to update my wardrobe when this pandemic is over. Start DRESSING high value in how I present. Get cleaned up. Start wearing colognes. Find my own scent that makes me me. Stupid little stuff like that. I always now see opportunities to improve and get better from being a CPA all the way down to little details like this. So after reading my roller coaster of a story if there’s one thing you can learn from me, really ask yourself what you want. Not what your parents expected you to do. If you get rejected from these colleges ask yourself is that really where you wanted to go? If not perhaps that rejection is a blessing and not a curse. Keep your head up and FIGHT. Don’t get discouraged. As a man you take on the burden of performance. You never asked for it but it is what it is. Embrace it. Thrive on it. Overcome and conquer. That is what you are meant to do. So even if you don’t get accepted to those colleges don’t worry. You can try again. Start with small goals and you’ll be harpooning big fish and accomplishing big things in no time. If I can do it so can you. Head up king or your crown will fall off 👑

@Thanos no problem man. Never give up and keep working hard. Those late 20s are going to be better if you don’t quit and keep hustling. The next few years are gonna be blood sweat and more blood 🩸 But you gotta grin and bear it man. Hang in there. You got this

i cant get rid of it lost all the women bc of it

Educate the younger generation

You're allowed

He’s incredible

Ostracism from an entire gender helps too

You're allowed

i dont say all of them are bad, most of it is correct, this society is censuring men on how to talk, act or express ourselfs towards other women who alot of them have double standards

" I just never consciously tried to remember it. But goddamn that bargaining phase is real bitch" How did you handle the phase?

Rugby if you're talking about the bargaining phase , the only thing I can give you is , don't try to integrate new beliefs and goals into your old ones, destroy and replace the old ones. Why is my advice so shit? Even though I'm aware of it, I'm still in the phase. Maybe I'll come back to you one day when I'm out lol. As for the anger phase, again I have no good advice, it just passed like a gust of wind.

agreed!

Seduction is really simple, but you cant keep selling the same simple thing for years. It also seems the black pill snuck in, and edginess is always a slippery slope, but edginess gets the clicks.

Excellently put. I think largely, the original PUA community had very *good* intention with a lot (I mean alot) of emphasis on personal development and yes, inner confidence; these things resonate with me alot, and they **encouraged** participation with women, not AGAINST women. My favourite of all time, to me with very healthy and empowering beliefs, definitly has to be Sasha Daygame who is now happily married I believe. No, Im sorry, I do not buy into the river stream that all women have a "real nature" and this is "just reality." There are millions of women who are respectful, beautiful, have accountability and have values.....You just need to tune into them and loosen your stickiness of conviction that all women are inherently evil. Each to their own. I went MGTOW for two years and it was one of the loneliest experiences of my life, and the beliefs did not resonate with me at all. Having said that, Paul Elam, especially in his very early youtube years, has helped me alot, as has RSD, as has Jordan Peterson and even some books on high status. I was counselled by Paul Elam and can say he was one of the best counsellors I ever had in my existence. Very respectful, understanding, powerful and *humane* human being who beyond all the click bait titles of his current youtube, I feel is preaching a good message to have personal confidence.

+brothajack1993 It became a business, if a young guy finds a cool imperfect but self-aware girl who falls in love with him they lose him as a customer. Girls are evolved to be very perceptive, subconcious negativity and borderline misogyny is massive self-sabotage and really bad game unless you are a psychopath, she will pick up on it(conciously or subconciously) and change her behavior, its a self-fulfilling prophecy of failure, what happined to mindset control and getting into game state? Remember when many PUA "gurus" discouraged guys from hitting the gym, saying it was "just a crutch", I saw that for what it was then aswell, they did not want to lose customers. Most young guys are ALOT better off reading a decade(and a half) old forum posts from seduction forums than googling seduction, no positive evolution in pickup has really happined since then, and obviously inexperienced guys cant differentiate between the useful and the stupid if its presented by someone with alot of confidence, alot of the material I have seen over the last few years is much more likely to lead to self-sabotage than to sex, fun and real confidence.

+Alex Garcia Having a little blue in your red pill is almost always better than having a little black. The goal is happiness, not edginess. Mindset is much more important than technique when doing pickup.

Don't waste another second on it, I am only 30 years old so half your age, but you can always start living. I wish you the best!

Live longer and youll fully understand or talk to enough women and also watch fresh and fit podcast they ALWAYS explain with proof they have about 5 woman of different races at a table and they ask them questions about what they want in men and then they break down how the redpill works

sad

Condolences (How are you handling it?

Yeah I lost a bro like that about 3 years ago... His childs mother played games with him so much it drove him to suicide. She would leave him months at a time and come back into his life just fuck with him and then leave him all heart broken. It is her fucking fault and acts like ain't hers for mistreating him he was a good father to his young children.

Blue pill is much deeper than that it comes from indoctrination of males since they are a child by religion,parents,tv shows/movies,disney,school,friends etc that says women will want you for who you are if you are a good man and are good to her ...but women see this behaviour as weak and they dont respect those men so women basically manipulates them and dont respect them which leads to a lot of sadness suffering and lots of other bad things...

inker1972 blue pill-believing what the world/media tell you about women/relationships Red pill-waking up to the real nature of women,the fact that they are marrying up,can leave you for a better partner etc Read rollo tomassi-the rational male for starters

Basically everything guys want/need to know about women, that no one in their life taught them while growing up, often times because they themselves don't know it and even more often because most teachers or influencers in boy's lives are women

To peer into female nature (solipsism,manipulation, hedonism,lack of foresight,illusion of love that is only affection for as long as you have her respect,hatred for responsibility,inability to think devoid of emotion/some women can do this tho) -gynocentrism and male disposability I think there's more but thats all i can remember right now

@unknown unknown have you talk to her? maybe the other treatedher better but thats no excuse for cheating on someone

Ur the incel lol who u kidding 😂