Happy Sunday Dolce 👼🏽! You are speaking the truth!!! Many may feel that time is slipping by then decide not to wait for GOD to deliver his promise. Due to societal pressures , family, etc; insecurities mount up and before they realize it would get caught up, and just as you stated go down the path of "not being in love with them it's more of a thing of convenience". Depending on the circumstances a person may become inpatient to the point of getting involved into a relationship just for the sake of being in one. Without a solid foundation that "quick hook up " may possibly be doomed from the start. The old saying:" if you can't be with the one you love, love the one your with" easily fits into the needs of many.
Happy Sunday, Sandra! 🌞 So many valid points- YES! While falling into a relationship out of convenience may make for a cute song, it’s not solid advice one should follow. It’s best to wait (and be prepared) for the RIGHT person to come into your life. Yes, ma’am! 👍🏾
I notice that a lot of Christians these days settle, just in order to be with somebody. What strikes me as very odd in the house of God is that lots of Christians who are divorced 1 or more times, have an easy way to find someone new, whereas Christians who have *never* been married, have a very hard time of finding someone. Did you notice that too? 🤔🤔 If a guy just wants to marry you, because he doesn't want sex outside a marriage, I'd kick him to the curb, because he is definitely not going to put his love for you on a pedestal, only _his needs._ *THAT IS NOT FROM THE LORD.* *_Love is always selfless_* 😌
Hey, MissNolver2! Hmm… I never really thought about that (whether it’s easier for divorced Christians to remarry than ones who’ve never married). Maybe that’s true overall since those who have been married already know what’s involved and can now make a better choice in what they want? Or they’re driven more by the “failure” of divorce and want to get it right? Interesting observation, though… 🤔 And I agree with you: I would never date someone whose primary purpose in getting married is to avoid sin. As I sit and think about it, I really don’t see how such a union - at least for me - would work. 😕
