I had a thought in church the idea. My seven year old was struggling to stay quiet and still and I thought, " The task of childhood is self control over your body. The task of adulthood is self control over the mind."
My husband and I trained our daughters to be still in church by practicing in 20 minute increments at home. We also appealed to their hearts by explaining people come to church to worship God and be fed by the word of God and we don’t want to disrupt or distract that ❤️
I’m struggling with everything that has to do with self mastery. Over eating, laziness with prayers, homemaking and responsibilities, sticking to a schedule, being distracted by my phone or spending time with friends. I needed to hear all of this and thank you for this video! You’re inspiring me to be better!
I would caution you not to say it's laziness but dig more deeply. It may be a lack of self-confidence, a lack of feeling worthy of achieving what you can, deep self-doubt from social or family conditioning or simply exhaustion or burnout. Ask the Lord to help you find the cause. I'm struggling with the same things and I KNOW for a fact I'm not lazy but disheartened. That is likely still a condition with spiritual roots but I don't want you to feel you're lazy when you're really suffering. Find the cause of the suffering and you can start healing.
Have you asked God if there’s something you need to obey in the Gospel? God showed me that I didn’t understand baptism and that it’s more than a symbol. When I saw it as a death and a new start, I got baptized (the other times were just a ritual). I went under one way, and came out another. A dead man, theoretically, can’t sin, meaning that the sin nature is no longer our first nature. We put on Christ. Then we walk by faith remembering that He’s washed away our sin through the waters of baptism and put away the sinful flesh. And then we need to be filled with His Holy Spirit with evidence (speaking in tongues, prophecy). Baptism of the Holy Spirit is a game changer, He helps to be holy and He changes is as we continue in the Word and prayer. Then He commissions us to tell others and disciple them - but it all starts with repentance (turning from sin and turning to God, crying out for Him to give us soft hearts again so we’re convicted by sin). Let us not treat these foundational things as casual, I often find that skipping these foundational things can cause a lot of lack of victory and faith in who the Lord is as well as striving and eventually falling away. A lot of these things are talked about in Romans, Galatians, and other verses in the New Testament. The book of acts helps us understand what our foremost role is as priests and messengers for Christ and gives us this amazing foundation. Hebrews 2:3 - how shall we escape if we ignore so great a salvation? This salvation, which was first announced by the Lord, was confirmed to us by those who heard him.
What I find helps a TON is doing something, anything, one little thing towards the right direction. Something is better than nothing. It's okay to wash one dish. It is okay to text one friend to let them you know care. It is okay to make one meal. Then do it again.
Dang these videos are tough. I’m binging these videos because I recognize the truth in them. I’m not married and I don’t have children, but the principles are spot on. I have had such a hard time mastering my belly. Food has been a source of entertainment and comfort for me. I gained 13lbs since the pandemic and I just recently started exercising. Pray for me to adapt self control.
I recommend reading the book "Atomic Habits" (shoot, I may do a video series on it). It can help unpack the basic principles that run most human beings with habit setting and ultimately self-control. I would also recommend you pray to God and ask Him to give control over yourself. Ask Him to gift you with resolve, know-how, and skill. Ask Him to help you to better understand how YOU tick. I'm an early bird and have discovered that if I really need something done, I need to make it happen before noon, because after 12p my energy starts slowing down. Others are the opposite in that they get major portions of their load done at night. It helps to know how He designed you so you can with your general tendencies as opposed to against them.
I hear ya sis. I am starting my weight loss journey over. I gained 14 pounds since June 5th. So now I am eating 1 meal a day of chicken, no added salt. We got this sis💕.
His timing is perfect. I just found it too. Been going through the old videos, and what a blessing. Been doing some serious prayer and reflecting in the last few days.
OMGoodness- I just turned 72 and found this channel and SUBSCRIBED! I was a stay at home mom when my 3 children were young then used my teaching degree when they were in school. I retired to care for my grandchild(ren) and since they have been in school I am "Grammy on call". We had some extensive interior renovations done and I can't seem to get a handle on returning the house to "normal" and my eating habits, well, I've already learned about that from Bindi, so I am encouraged! Bless you, Bindi, for being a blessing to other women who seek the Lord in our life!
Your videos are so motivating! Your content is far better than any average “clean with me” or “how to be an it girl” or “how to exude femininity”. Every video of yours is how to carry yourself in a way that is pleasing to God in accordance to His word. To me that is how to be an “it girl”. Love this! Thank you for serving God’s people🙏🏽
I appreciate you and your channel so much!! God bless you for everything you've helped me do!!I'm a right brain dominant woman, a former elementary teacher, a wife of 49 yrs., a mother. I have problems organizing but God will help me. My home is cluttered. I like what you said about cluttered mind,cluttered house. I pray I can improve and truly live the life God wants me to live.
As a man who was brought up in a traditional home but was exposed to a more liberal, Western style, and now a Christian, embracing and solidifying my traditional, conservative, Christian values, a love your videos and just subscribe. More women especially Christian ones should base their lives on the Word. Same for men.
Bindi, you have no ideal how much your channel means to me. Although I don't know you, I really look up to you. A lot of attributes that I decided I wanted to develop in myself and in my relationship with Christ (before I become a wife and a mother) I see in you. Even down to having microlocs. I'm thankful to God that you have created a RU-vid channel and are obedient to Him with what you post. Representation really does matter. May God continue to bless you and your beautiful family 🥹❤️
I tell you this in complete honesty and sincerity, this video is one of the most uncomfortable videos I have watched that has ever pointed the finger at my flaws and shortcomings. However, thankfully I love the nature given to me by Our Heavenly Father that once I see the truth I cannot ignore it. So thank you very much for sharing this video, I believe this was a major wake-up call for me, as well as others, and I thank you for being the vehicle for that.
This video was great! The 5:30 AM wakeup time is something I'm really trying to get under control so I can spend time hearing from the Lord in silence. And so I can worship and pray and do devotions without the noise of my kids in the background. I've really been loving this faith-based content! :)
Same here. Please share if you have helpful tips on how to accomplish those goals. I just want to dedicate quality time to our Father before the kids take up my time.
Don't feel too bad if you can't. I couldn't do this until I had a baby. I love waking up at 5:30AM now. If you can't wake up early, then go to bed late.
Have you ever tried praying WITH your kids? I started doing that and the kids learned a lot they stay quiet ? And get in agreement. We pray as I family and let me tell you I have felt the presence of the lord just as I do alone . And the best part my kids also. Don’t seek to separate prayer time. Include them. Later at night I have my alone time with God too
@@goviralgo6418 I love your reply. Can you give me an idea on how you make it work for your family? We’re praying for the Lord to help us get organized at home so that we can spend more time with Him but you’re right the kids need the exposure/experience as well. Thank you!
It's been a year and four months of celibacy since God removed my husband from out the household; due to domestic violence of narcissistic abuse. My daughter and I seek counseling now from the trauma of mental abuse. Now, I need to get things done. Thank God I ran into your video, maybe I can get some order back into my life again. I use to be so organized, but when your mind is cluttered it shows outwardly. My son pointed that out to me. Time to get on the grind and declutter. 🙏💯🤗🥰
God recently delivered me and my children from narcissistic and domestic violence father. I understand the pain, stress, and torture. God is so good though❤️
I want to thank you for correcting our fleshy habits without arrogance or being condescending at all. Your humility and obedience truly blesses me. God bless your beautiful family ❤️
That part about; you can leave a long lasting legacy when you’re successful in the realm of your home, really got me bc i get discouraged in the mundane everyday tasks. Thank you 🙏🏼
This content is so contrary to what our culture preachers right now. That just shows you how far gone our society is! More women need to hear these teachings and be empowered to embrace them. How life changing! How free are truly when we're ruled by our emotions, negative self talk, and things that offend us? We aren't! This is so so so good! Thank you so much for sharing this ❤️
I’m single and don’t have children; a late bloomer, but I have a strong desire to learn to be a godly, feminine woman. I came across your channel seeking knowledge on RU-vid to grow and develop into that woman. Thank you for sharing. I’m gaining wisdom, knowledge and understanding. I now need to implement what I’m learning. I’m still struggling with self control (eating & exercising), and consistency Blessings.
A great channel to learn about God's wisdom & truth.... Smyrna Christian Church, Kokomo Indiana. They got a bad rap when they stated about God's truth in the both 6th & 8th day creation. This is a place of God's truth and worship. I promise.
I literally prayed the other day about Self-Control and how I need it especially when it comes to caffeine, sugar and a particular person in my life. I have also learnt to fast more and to not put something off that can be done today because who knows if I will see tomorrow, only God knows that 💯
you are the first Christian woman I have seen who talks about Christian femininity. I have had to resort to going to groups that enjoy 50's living so I can ask about modest dress but they clearly do it as a personal interest and not for modesty and christian morality (so things slip). But thank you so much for this I will be listen to all your videos
It is relaxing to see your videos. Just to see a woman with discipline and feminine ways is amazing. It is not something I see at all on a regular basis. I wish you the best. And thank you
This is a deep one. I loved it. It was extremely convicting. Ironically, I'm a designer and I work in a Project Management firm, so your example from your corporate days was targeted directly to me. I have made other people's houses dreamy and yet my house is a mess. You are right about it being a reflection of the internal climate of the soul. I will apply myself to addressing this area of my life. Blessings to you.
Thank you sister for being so obedient to our God. I was crying out to Him last night after I had sinned (self-pleasure). Something I have been tied to for a very long time. And I want to be done with this. And you have helped me by saying start with having control over my belly. Hallelujah. God is good. I will start there. "My life is not my own, to you father I belong, I give myself, I give myself to you." Hallelujah ❤️
People need to be born again and be made into a new creation. God will give them a new nature. This is why drug addicts can get clean and stay clean for years but still have to fight the desire to get high. It's because they did it all out of their self control but never had a new nature given to them from God by being born again. They need deliverance from the drug addiction as well. People try to look Holy all the time but they've never had a nature change and then they wonder why it's so difficult for them to be consistent or why it's such a struggle to try and stay "Holy" no one can me made Holy until they repent in sincerity and get born again. That's why Jesus said "you must be born again" "how can a man see the kingdom of heaven lest he be born again" People can look clean and pristine on the outside but have serious struggles because they are fake and play acting. Most of the average church goers are not born again. They have a form of godliness but deny the power thereof. In order to serve God and have peace and be delivered you must be born again. Its Gods righteousness that makes us righteous not our own sense of trying to look righteous. And yes once born again you will not live in sin. Anyone telling you that you can live in sin and be saved is a liar.
the content is par!! love this, and subscribed... my only critque ( not taking away from the wisdom you are pouring out to us) is the background noise, bird noise or chimes are distracting. nevertheless, well done! thank you
This was a really great video. I LOVED how you talked about doing something unpleasant and difficult. My pattern is to quit ot be lazy and at 35, I'm tired of living my life like this. Since rededicating my life to CHRIST he has been guiding me to videos and women like yourself to help me be ALL that he purposed me to be. Thank You For Sharing. 🙏🏾
Hi! I’m interested, what other channels have you been watching that are similar to Bindi’s? I am interested in discovering other women who echo these convictions.
this is *very, very good* content, bindi! i applaud your courage for speaking on and authentically living the biblical wisdom so unrecognized by many women today. however, the sound of the wind chimes was competing with your voice. i used to love the sound of wind chimes, but when i researched their origins and true function as conductors/attractors of spiritual entities, i ceased to be 'charmed' by them, however 'beautiful' their sound. i think, because you believe in God and honor His Word, that you can understand and appreciate 1 Cor. 3:19 that says, 'for the wisdom of God is foolishness to men...' on the surface, many things that seem harmless to us connect directly with the unseen spiritual world. God *can* see, and that's why He points us away from them. crystals, manifesting, tarot, yoga and other such things are part of a self-reliant philosophy that undermines faith and obedience. i do hope that you receive this in the spirit in which it is given, and i thank you for sharing.
I love this: order, structure and discipline guided through Holy Spirit. This welcomes the peace of God into our homes and it begins with us as we yield ourselves to the will of God. We must be able to manage ourselves first!🙏🏽
I am proof that you're never too old to learn. I can't wait to pass your channel on to my daughter and granddaughter. May God bless you and your ministry!!!
Not sure how I came across your channel but I’m so glad I did. I’ve been struggling with finding balance and disciplining myself in certain areas and aspects of my life. Thank you for sharing and being sensitive to the things of God. This definitely puts things into perspective for me and how I will grow as a whole
Sexual mastery hasn't been an issue for me. Food, however has been a substitute. Sometimes food acts as a comfort from anxiety and the effects of trauma.
From France: i just saw your video and thought it would be great to read the Book : womanhood from Helen Andelin. But instead i was shocked because the whole point of the book it is to become the God of your husband by using spiritual manipulation on him. Whe are not supposed to become the godesss of our husband, and we are not supposed to serve him like a God. Jesus is God, we must ask Jesus how to please him, and how to please Jesus in our relashionships. We are not supposed to seek how to totaly please our husbands in purpose to be adored : 1 corinthians 7.34. By the way, i’m happily maried. I do respect the word about the behavior i must have with my husband and he do the same, but not because of me , because of Jesus… I liked your vidéo but the book was not alright for me on several points. I hope you understand my viewpoint. Be blessed 🕊
That’s just not true I know a lot of people who over eat and never have sex because of the fact they can’t control their belly so that’s just simply not true
Lets please stop coming at fat ppl and comparing sex to eating , i controlled my loins and stopped sexual immorality before i controlled my eating... it seems like your amazing sister but this was not it ....
Thank you for this video. I gained 50 lbs after my oldest son died. I’m currently trying to lose it but I struggle w exercise.I’m praying for energy and motivation to start. I have lupus and feel quite sick and fatigued most days. So it is a struggle although I have lost 15lbs by watching my diet.
Hello ! I am a young single lady, still living at my parent house. And I m so glad I found out your videos, cause I really need to be teach on how to become a successful godly woman. For my marriage tomorrow, but in general periodt. I feel like I have so much lack on self disciplined, organization, bulding a healthy routine and get stick to It.. could you make a video on what would be your advises to your single self now that you re married (If it s not done yet) ? That would be great. 🤗 thank you, love your content. God bless you 💋
I have had a constant battle to lose my weight and I felt overwhelmed coz nothing was working until I tried cutting out most of the carbs and sugar I was putting in.i must say it's working out well.slow but sure
I am Muslim but I love how spiritual some Christians are, it really strengthens my faith and helps me! I would love to see your prayer book! Maybe your could do a video about your prayer routine or what you ask God (Allah)?☺️❤️ Edit: I’m an ex-Christian! I‘m happy with my decision thank you.
Just wait until you hear more about Jesus! Look up the Hidden Code in Genesis 1:1. Also the Berisheet Pass Over Prophecy. NDEs. And I like this guy: "Give Light", on this platform.
@@nb1393 I'm X Muslim and I used to believe that but once I became a Christian I realised it's not the same JESUS CHRIST of the bible whom Muslim bielive in.
@@shadiaesen9218 Christians believe the MessiYAH is God but He is the son of the MessiYAH/Messenger of God/YAHUAH. “He that believeth on the Son of God hath the witness in himself: he that believeth not God hath made him a liar; because he believeth not the record that God gave of his Son.” 1 John 5:10 KJV “Who is he that overcometh the world, but he that believeth that Jesus is the Son of God?” 1 John 5:5 KJV “the eyes of your understanding being enlightened; that ye may know what is the hope of his calling, and what the riches of the glory of his inheritance in the saints, and what is the exceeding greatness of his power to us-ward who believe, according to the working of his mighty power, which he wrought in Christ, when he raised him from the dead, and set him at his own right hand in the heavenly places,” Ephesians 1:18-20 KJV
I love this thank you sis! I’ve recently over a month now have picked a day in the week to fast and pray. I’ve also picked a day when I do self care and spend time journaling and spending extra time with God. I wakes up in the morning at 3am to study for my career which is hard for me as a single mom, Plus im not a morning person lol. I struggle with cooking home cooked meals though I love to cook, I’m currently de cluttering my home and praying God helps me to keep up with it🙏🏼💖
Oh, I am 54 years of age, grown children with grandchildren, retired and on a new Journey and this is helping me with the new responsibilities of self employment/Author and etc. I am still learning and Thank you again.
As the mom of 2 boys who are now men, I cannot urge you enough to prioritize your children. Turn the phone off and spend time listening to them and looking into their eyes. This a huge blessing to both you and the children. They grow up having security that they are loved, not just a bother that interrupts your life. Your focused attention backs up the words "I love you". 💕
Guys know what is underneath the clothes, we want a modest woman who isn't showing it for the entire world, we want you to be only ours if we are pursuing you: we're not trying to share you with every eyeball.
Bindi, you are so wholesome in sharing the truth with us. I crave this knowledge. You remind me of my baby sister so much. She’s a mother of nine, home-schooler, household manager. Purely Biblical wife and mother, and I admire her so very much. As I do you. I, myself, am 54yo and divorced. Can you tell me, please, how can I best apply your teachings to my own life, being that I don’t have a husband and my kiddos are grown. I just work full-time as a nurse now, and have cats. 😹 Thanks. Love your ministry, sister. 💗😻
I am morbidly obese as well and have found that water fasting is amazing! I feel so good when I don't eat for periods of time and it is really shocking.
This is something that the LORD has been opening my eye up to, in this season of my life I’m definitely being refined. He has brought me to Galatians and the fruit of the spirit. I will say the area I struggle the most with is motivation and doing the uncomfortable things . I’ve never really had a successful fast. Thank you for posting this . It was conformation for me.
I'm a single mother with two jobs. I struggle very much with keeping up with the housekeeping and staying in my word 😭 I often have the audio Bible while I'm driving or on my break at work and sometimes when I'm winding down for bed but sometimes that's not enough. The way my life is right now, it's very easy to just plop down on the couch after getting off of work, getting my child from daycare and maybe making dinner and deciding that I'm done for the day. Praying that the Lord helps me to not be lazy when it's very easy because I do want to be a homemaker/housewife and want my child(ren) and husband comfortable and happy. Thank you for your content. Give me a lot to think and pray about.
I struggle a lot with clocking out at the end of the day too. I had to get over the mindset that more work or service is depleting. I changed my mindset to I am training and when I have more to accomplish i am getting stronger. Like when I push myself during a workout. Another thing I think about often is that my actions have infinite meaning and everything matters. I get to serve 100% of my kids needs and I get 100% of the hugs, and love too. It’s important to set those intentions and create a space in your home that reminds you of that. Maybe Holy art or an altar that is set up with those intentions in mind.
@@sabinasoto5151 that's a really good idea! Thank you for that. I've been thinking that when I move out (hopefully within the year) that maybe I can look for a place with an extra bedroom and make that room or making a small closet and turn into a prayer closet. And yes Changing our mindset is so important because our babies are sponges and see everything. Especially our responses to our issues/circumstances. It's important to point our kids to Christ intentionally through not only our words but our actions too.
I am so convicted by what you shared in the video sister! I also have a genetic tendency towards obesity and I am currently obese. I feel so confused in my mind and heart as to how to get healthy and I realize after listening to what you shared that I have not relied on the Lord to strengthen me in this area. It has very much impacted my marriage and confidence. Thank you so much for taking the time and effort to share your heart. The Lord is speaking through you. 💜
Drink more water, avoid all soda pops and fizzy drinks. No good. Move more. Sit less. Lift weights while sitting. Do gardening if you have space on windows or patio ✅
Great words! My thoughts on this video: *Indeed - we can put as much dedication into becoming a better housemaker and mother as we did (or do) in our careers. *Having a well thought out plan is really helpful. I personally discovered Fly lady system - the woman behind it is christian - it is a daily and weekly routine of upkeeping your home and there is an app that lists tasks grouped for areas of your house. It is so much easier having this list in front of me since some of these tasks I almost never did before on a regular basis (more detailed cleaning). *building character and will power is directly linked to self confidence. The more you accomplish, the stronger you feel. This is what I I working on. Thank you for the video
Wow, I needed this! Thanks for sharing! Definitely need to work on being determined in my homemaking and also I've been working on moderation in eating. Gluttony is a sin that we often forget.
Smart, and blessed. I listened to this whole thing and I'm an older woman. This is something that my daughter does, manage her house, and head project manager, and always looking out for husband and children.
I struggle with self worth. I want to be better for other more than myself. I care too much about others. I’m upset with my mistakes and past and I believe I don’t deserve things I currently have. I also beat myself down & it causes me to not take care of responsibility. I’m glad I’m aware of it I just need to work on it. Thank you for this message 😢❤. On a journey to self love & worth!✨
I love your videos Bindi! I was scared at first to be obedient to God and quit my job to stay home but God promised he would provide. Just a little testimony through our trust in Him he recently blessed my husband with a nice raise and we are putting more money into savings now than when I was working! Gods ways are always the best ways God bless you! ❤
I am so glad the Lord led me to you, this is such an encouragement for things i have been working on. Self discipline and sticking with it. Also self love and self image. Thank you for doing what you do. I already am looking forward to other videos. God bless you sister in Christ.
Thank you for this video. Maybe in another video, can you share part or all of what your task list looks like and how you scheduled everything while accounting for one-time events or the unexpected? Hope the question makes sense. How funny…this next part is fluffy, don’t mind me. I’m currently in school for chemical engineering, but I’ve been looking at opportunities in less technical role based on my internship history and the roles I assumed in school projects. Letting GOD possibly blow up my plans to start off in a technical role. Project management is the main profession I’ve looked at. I like how the skill is useful outside of corporate. You’ve now given me a tangible example how from a Christian perspective. GOD, you tryna say something?
If enough people find that helpful I may do a video walking through my master cleaning list and how I schedule the work. Chemical engineering sounds very promising and, due to my personality, I really liked the structure (and even the rigidity) of project management. Let's pray that He directs your steps to where He wants you to be!
I’ve noticed there are women from other faiths on here. Christian believers , let us not forget what sets us apart in our walk with the Lord God, even that which allows us to have that relationship in the first place- Grace. We are saved by grace, through faith.
I find this so interesting! I’m a Muslim and there is a narration that mentions fasting being “castration”… Abdallah b. Mas'ud reported God’s Messenger as saying, “Young man, those of you who can support a wife should marry, for it keeps you from looking at strange women and preserves you from immorality; but those who cannot should devote themselves to fasting, for it is a means of suppressing sexual desire.”* (Bukhari and Muslim.) * Waja' has been translated freely above. It means castration.
I have an issue where I put so much on myself to do but if one or two things don't get done I am upset. Another issue is body image. I honestly don't think I've ever liked the way I looked.
As for the first point, I think that would indicate you may need to adjust the list of your daily tasks to something you can reasonably accomplish so as to avoid unnecessary discouragement. As for the second, if what you dislike is something you can safely (and in a healthy way) change... then determine within yourself to change and actually do it. If it is smthg beyond your control, that would be a matter to take to the Lord and ask for His help to accept what He has made and what cannot (and maybe should not) change.
Just landed on your video, felt at peace and dozed off for a few minutes while listening. The back ground sounds of nature are what I have yearned to hear for years. The your voice is caressing and firm- nurturing, felt convicted 😊 without being screamed at.
Being a man, I can just say that I am amazed at what the Holy Spirit has revealed to you. Sometimes, I get the impression that women cannot understand these things, but evidently they can, by the help of the Holy Spirit. Probably every woman is born with a natural ability to understand, but in this age this part of their brain has to be touched by heaven. I hope many, many of your sisters will take your words and your experience seriously.
@@elizabethzacharias1757 well sis it's mirrored with men of Christ too, they also aren't doing their part which is very evident. so it's both ways. & As women we can agree with bert for sure.
Why don't you focus on being a God fearing stand up man...because I assure you there are more examples of her walking around then there are of good black men that can actually take care of a wife and kids
Bindi, thank you so much for your faithfulness and encouragement. I am a new SAHM with 3 children (16/10/3) formerly a corporate paralegal. I have struggled in the weeks that I’ve been at home to get my household back in order as well as my eating and homeschooling my 3 year old. Thank you for sharing and any advice for getting on track. God bless you and your challenge
I'm so glad it helped. Something I like to do is when I find gaps in what I feel like I need to do is first and foremost, I take it to God to in prayer (literally). I ask for wisdom, discernment, and skill. He does actually answer. Also, RU-vid channels and articles written across the internet can help provide practical guidance on how to manage a diet, or a homeschooling regimen. For me it comes down to planning, actually scheduling things in my calendar, and then determining to get what I have assigned to myself for the day done. No matter what. May the Lord strengthen you.
Your 3 year old May even find it fun to help and seer your timer ⏲ for cleaning 🧹 my daughter loves to help clean with. If I start cleaning or cooking she comes to help like my little mini. This page is great inspiration so for real! Enjoy your new life and Happy Mother’s Day!
@@phoeniciacloud1515 thank you so much! I will definitely start including my little in my daily activities! He is an activity all in himself ❤️ Pray my strength in the Lord Ladies🙏🏾❤️
@@Kaymaxwelldevelops oh yeah little boys tend to enjoy air sweeping 🧹 because it gets out a lot of energy. At Walmart and target they have a cute little kit so they have the things that you have.
I am so grateful what you're sharing, it's really rocking my world with the way I've been so "comfortable" in how I act, talk, etc. Ok Miss Bindi I'm so sorry, i want to hear you easily but I admit your chimes are so loud, or maybe I'm just distracted by them but it's hard to hear you well. Sorry I don't mean to be rude. 😊... I want to pour over these things you're sharing, and pray bcs I'm sure there's so many of these issues I'm struggling with. God bless you!✝️❤
Self control comes from the Holy Spirit. It does not come from our own strength. Lean on Jesus. The Bible lists it as a fruit of the Holy Spirit. Not self-mastery (which is not biblical)....it is letting God be our master...NOT ourselves
You have inspired me! I am not Christian, but I am a young wife soon to be a first time mother. My biggest struggle so far is with homemaking especially experiencing a difficult pregnancy. According to my spirituality prayer is also quite important and just last night my husband and I started praying together - I have to admit that the work of asking for help and being honest with myself has done a difference in how I feel and how I view my responsibility as a woman and a wife.
I am so glad I found your channel a couple of days ago! I’m really enjoying your videos. I appreciate the graceful way in which you articulate your wisdom and the fact that you are Christ-centered. I really wanted to watch all of this video but unfortunately, I had to stop at about 7 minutes in because the loud wind chime sound in the background was too distracting for my ADHD brain as I tried to focus on your words. I’m hoping there aren’t any of your other videos that have it in the background. lol. Just wanted to give some honest feedback on that. 🙂
When I am tired from all the mom things I ask myself How do athletes do it? How do they work so hard and end up stronger after? Yet as I mom I tell myself that I am wearing myself out. That is what I found it’s what I was telling myself about my work. I started setting goals around housework, measuring my progress, and believing that I am getting stronger from this job.
Sweeping crumbs unto a chair only giving yourself double work. Get a tray, collect all the crumbs on there and trash it outside where the birds can have it. Continue cleaning.
I really like this video, just thought I'd mention it was super heard to hear you and for me personally to concentrate with the bells in the background. Love the content though!
I'm not finished with the video yet but I wanted to add that the background noises like the wind chime and bird chirps are really distracting. I'm trying to hear what you have to say but it is very difficult for me. I usually love your stuff
Hi! This is my first video of yours that I’ve watched. I’m looking forward to others within your channel. This is so inspiring and extremely helpful. I feel strapped with tools to overcome and control my belly. All Praises to the Most High that I was led to you by the Holy Spirit. Thank you sister for being a remarkable example of how we should be!! HalleluYah!! 🙌🏾❤️🙏🏾🔥🔥
This video is reminding me of God's overwhelming and magnificent love for me and for His children and I just want to say thank you. Thank you for your ministry and reminding me of His love and inspiring me to want to minister to others ;)
I am almost a senior in college and truly desire to be a Proverbs 31 wife and mother someday. I currently struggle with my self worth/identity, controlling my eating and sticking to a set schedule. My heart desires to do these things, but it fails in these areas at the moment.
God bless you Elaina and may He lead you with His Holy Spirit down the right path. You are fearfully and wonderfully made according to His word. Do your best to walk by faith and watch God work. All the best to you.
I just ran across your channel, and I must say that this feels like therapy for me. I sure needed this word. The background nature sounds is easing my mind. I'm going through a lot right now. Today feels stressful for me, but I'm starting to feel better.....thank you!
Tip: it’s easier to clean crumbs off the table by wiping them into your hand or onto a portable surface instead of onto your chairs that you will then have to wipe off again ❤️
I'm on a journey of healing and all I had been asking God was to lead me to people and content that will help me on my journey. When I tell you that God is doing THE MOST!!!! The words "healing" and "boundaries" have been reoccurring this year. They just stand out for me. And being a Christian, I recognized eventually that it was God speaking. It was the Holy Spirit telling me what I needed in order to transform my life. This entire video speaks mostly towards having boundaries for me. And boundaries begin with myself. If I can't respect my own boundaries (self-control) then I won't be strict with the boundaries I set for people. I love how you've articulated the concept of self-discipline and control. These are the two specific things I need to master in my life. May God continue to help me🥺❤️🙏🏾
Let me just say here that hormones play a huge part in women's health, and influence ones ability to practice self control. I do not believe for one minute, that self control is merely based on the will to choose, but rather the body's ability to maintain a balance of hormones that drive certain functions of the body that can, when out of balance, override the decision of most fastidious Christian woman to the point of self condemnation. Im by no means largely overweight, but I've learned that self control in this area, requires scientific knowledge and a high level of self awareness to implement the level of self control needed to maintain weight. An overweight person, needn't 'just apply self control' as the only means to weight management, but to consider what is driving their eating habits.
