This is more than valid ..having no one sucks but having people around who makes you feeling like no one!? Why wait for 30 years? They couldn't love me. They didn't want me. I can't fee l that forever.
What exact actions they commit and words do your parents say say? What country and city are you from? But if they physically abuse you, Do not give up. You deserve better life. You are educated enough to use Internet and have acess to it. So use the best of this circumstances. Mayby you should find Domestic Violence Victims Helpline or shelters for women in diffficult position or orphanages for children.
Having a toxic family just makes you numb inside...when I sit in a quite place I hear my parents fighting each other bickering about how useless I am....it makes you lonely....I could never say that out loud but since none of u know me...here's the truth behind my smile....
Hey, sorry if I'm late. You are not useless! I know it is hard to believe when is your family the one that tells you, I've been there myself. You are not useless, you are a beautiful person who deserves love and happiness
I honestly relate. Except I’m adopted. I never knew my biological father. As far as I know he never knew that my twin and I existed. My biological mother was a druggie. She gave us up for adoption. My adoptive parents say that they me and my brother but I don’t feel that love. They are constantly getting mad or yelling at me for small little things. Sometime things I didn’t do. Anytime I try to tell them my problems they push me away or they say there to busy. I don’t feel the love that they say they give me
I have a compete family but it’s toxic.I see comments about having a compete family is so lucky,but my example is horrible my family is toxic. Constant fights,always drinking,doing drugs,etc.Sometimes when things seem perfect it’s broken.
What exact actions they commit and words do your parents say say? What country and city are you from? But if they physically abuse you, Do not give up. You deserve better life. You are educated enough to use Internet and have acess to it. So use the best of this circumstances. Mayby you should find Domestic Violence Victims Helpline or shelters for women in diffficult position or orphanages for children.
Ok ik I’m really late at replying but oh well. So that’s one thing I hate about people like “oh you have a complete family your so lucky” like no, not all the time. Your family could be liars that are emotionally abusing you, and doing horrible things. Just because someone has a regular family doesn’t mean things Are all fine and dandy.
Damn someone that actually has the same family who is toxic, understands how hard it is. My family is complete but its too complicated, like you said fighting, drugs,alcohol and others its hard to have a toxic family
My mother is a liar, she smokes when I tell her not to, she still does but she doesnt know that I know, its sad, my father does it to, my sister hates me.
@@folklorexwalls1265 How come we have the same exact problem. I just wish he would laeve again, he was gone for too long and now he's destroying everything
i’m so sorry you had to go through that, i hope you’re better now and you and your family has healed. i hope you dad knows what he’s done to your mental health. i’m so sorry and stay strong bby love you
Maya Ishaque I have a step father now but it’s not the same I didn’t have a father when I was growing up he never called never cared and now I’m older and have a stepfather but it’s not the same...I didn’t have a father when I really needed him when I was growing up. I don’t really have a good relationship with my step father because I don’t know how to interact or what to say to him. I never had a male figure in my life to help me out with situations like that.
@@princess_emii I feel exactly the same I have a stepfather too now just recently it's so weird never spoken to him I just dont know what to do I hate my real father now but I was a daddy's princess child he left when I was younger but I dont want to replace him still it's so damaging
Maya Ishaque ya it was very hurtful even though he left us when I was at a really young age so I don’t have memories of him. A part of me still doesn’t want to let go even though he did a while ago. My mom wants me to just move on but it’s so hard. And I did wish I had father or at least a male figure in my life when I was younger because it would make it a lot easier for me when having to speak to others.
@@princess_emii ya people dont understand how hard and painful it is when people ask about my dad I dont know know which one to talk about about cause I cant let the past go
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"I had 14 great birthdays without him he never send me the damn card..."that's my sentence..#daddyissues Edit 10 months later:Wow thank you for this many likes
You know what really sucks? When your dad leaves and starts a new family with a woman and has 8 other daughters and stays, so his oldest grows up and has the constant question of why wasn’t she enough. That sucks.
I relate a lot. My dad left me when i was 9. He never texts me and when I text him saying, "hi" he texts me 2 months later saying hi back, pretending he actually cares. And the worst part is that left because he chose his new gf over me💔
to all of you out there dealing with hard times, i cant promise it will get better, or even that it wont get worse. But one thing i do know is that if you reach out, get the help you need youll realize someone out there loves you, there life would be ripped away from them if you left this world. I promise life is tough and it always will be but if you go you never know who else youre taking with you. People are there for you, but you need to tell them whats going on. Stay strong and keep fighting,, youre worth it.
Just me Idk I can't...theyll probably say "not only you got problems, everyone does" it makes me horrible to hear that.. cause I don't even say something I just deal with it by being silent for 3 to 9 days or something and they just tell me this... or they'll just laugh at the situation and make jokes about it so ya ... I don't want to anyway I can Deal with it
@Arleny Mendez-Marquez if you go to college, don't let your performance be affected by it....keep your mind occupied time to time. Nothing was your fault, it was just like that from the beginning and now it comes to its end. Know that whatever your way is to overcome this ... you'll get Through it and you are Loved.
I can relate to this so much cause my dad left when I was born this made me cry my eyes out some people are lucky they have a dad. Others aren't like me😕
My dad left but I had to deal with seeing him every year and forced to say ily and to hug him when all I wanted to do was run because I always felt anxious the last time I saw him it was 2.5 years ago and I couldn’t be happier because I don’t have to see a person that doesn’t love me and I’m happier I don’t live near him because he would probably actually try to talk, now when people say oh where’s ur dad, how’s ur dad, whose your PARENTS and finally says ur moms bf is ur step dad or even worst dad I want to dry because I never felt I had one. I just want a normal family.
My father left me when I was 10 and my brother was 7. But he acts like he did nothing wrong and I have to act like he did nothing wrong. And whenever I confronted him, he had an excuse
But it isn't Great having a father that abuses you, Tells you all Kind of insults, abuses your mother too so that she is fucked up enough to abuse you and want to kill herself.... sometimes having a father and a mother isn't better if they aren't acting like how they should...
I'm feeling a bit isolated because most of people can relates to their fathers leaving,divorcing etc. I never get a chance to experience how great a mother could be.
I know you how you feel some people’s mothers are still around mine died when I was a newborn and I never got a chance to experience that mother-daughter bond :(
I think that, yes both are awful and no one should have to go through it, but they are basically the same...and yall might say they are different bc its a mother/father daughter/son bond but that is lost with whichever leaves not just the mom..my Dad left me after abusing my mom and she had so much to do..not only being a dad and mom she had to work, feed us and she sacrificed so much just to keep us alive...but all of that becomes usless when no matter where you go you are hated for not having a parent or for the few years you did..that parent abused the other and didnt love you like he loved your sister and brother...😂😂😂😅😅😓😓😟😟🙁🙁😔😔😢😢😭😭😭
I’ll be leaving all my family behind when I’m of age, even though it means I’ll be lonely, but hey what’s the difference anyways. And I do want to take my little brother with me so he won’t go through the same things I did. But I can’t, and I hope he’d understand that I love him so much, and that I would come back for him.
When you get abandoned by both parents just to move to a good home where the dad dies and the mother turns bitter and keeps reminding you you're adopted . The worst part is that my birth mom is alive and well and rising my younger siblings and she's actually a good mom to them . Not a single call , no check ins , didn't show up to my high school graduation , for any of my surgeries . What did I do to her ?
I'm not tryin to be one of those visco depressed teenage girls who watch sad Simpson edits.... But my dad does crack. (Ever since I was a infant) he would take off for a couple of days to do crack. I never rly noticed this until around 7 where I actually thought he was dead for being gone so long. He mostly missed out my mom's birthdays. He missed step son's wedding (my brother). He would always says he's sorry but always end up doing the same stuff again. I get it crack of very addicting, you can't control you're self. But the one time I won't forget is that he promised me he won't do a binder for a week then my mom will get me my dog I've been *begging* for all of my life. He didn't keep his promise. He left 6 days before Christmas of 2017. Ever since then his life has basically fell apart. He now is getting dentures and lives with his mom. Lost all of his jobs he had. He had a rly good job as a construction worker every since he was 17 now 48, lost that. He would spoil me and told me he loved me. Not anymore. He still loves me but its more a awkward love (if that makes sense). My mom mostly paid the bills with his money n and stuff but now she has to work 3 jobs to stay atleast average. There is soooooo much I want to say but that will take too long. Ik nobody will read this but if there is actually someone who took the time out of their day to read this. Thank you😩
Ashleane11 MSP i have both parents in my life but that doesn’t mean i’m happy with it. i get into fights with my dad everyday and i got to bed crying because of him. i’m probably overreacting but it still hits hard you know?
3:48 This scene hits home because you close all the gaps so that you can't get hurt anymore. But, when someone actually cares about what you're doing or what's going on, all the emotions either: rage, sadness, happiness, etc just come flowing out because you know someone actually cared.
My best friends have perfect families, both parents love them, they get good grades, their siblings give them shit but that’s just siblings. But they’re so ungrateful, non stop telling me how bad their life is. They should try being me for a day, the voices, the cuts, the extreme anxiety about literally everything, but nobody knows who I really am. Everybody sees the happy girl who’s always laughing, never what lies beneath the show.
My dad was never there for all of my teen years, he was working overseas so I only saw him in the summer for 3 months and 2 months in winter... That happened from when I was to elementary school until 3 years ago... The problem is that even when he was here he wouldn't spend time with me and would always fight with my mother because he would never bring back money to us so my mother took all the economical burden working herself to the bone,while he was spending his money on himself or gambling(he sometimes would bring me expensive gifts, but honestly I would appreciate more his love and care) and honestly this was not the only problem he would even yell at her or throw items at her, when I was young my mom would say to stay in my room but as I grew up I would get into their fights as well and try to stop them... Most of the time it would work (he never raised a hand on me). Also he never attended any of the plays or contensts I took part in as a kid even if he was here, he would just drive us to the location it was held and leave... Now after his stroke (almost 2 years ago) he is back home for good and honestly I don't feel much for him even after his stroke I just don't ... Like I still want to care because he is my father but I also don't feel that attached to him and honestly it pains me! I only think that my mother now has more things to deal with and I don't know what to do to help her... For anyone who took out of their time to read this thanks! ❤️
My mom asked me once, "we can leave, you dont have to cry anymore." I said, "I rather cry than knowing my father is all alone even though he doesnt even know me."
I feel like im in high school. My family are the bullies. Im finding it each day harder and harder to live. Every insult is another dig in the grave for me. it hurts.
Before my parents broke up. I always just assumed they would be together forever. PLEASE PLEASE BE GRATEFUL FLR YOHR PARENTS WHEN YOU STILL LIVE WITH THEM BOTH
There's people that have dads who are cheating, drinking, killing. There's so many bad and horrible dads that are still with their family, it doesn't make the family "complete" or make the members "lucky"
I have a friend that complains about how many people are living in her house. The only family I have is my mum and brother. She complains that her house is too small, but the fact that it can actually fit 7 people in it means it's 10x the size of mine. She complains that her mum and dad shows too much love in public and that it's so embarrassing. I dont even have anything to say about that... She has no idea how jealous I am
My dad left me a year ago but like disconected contact and stole my money and broke my heart. I miss the feeling of a dad so much im litterly crying right now ...
I cry every year on father's Day in school so I hide in the bathrooms until our drawings and cards are finished so I come out with red eyes and a stiffly node and say I'm fjne
Sitting in a room alone and listening to your parents quarrel and blaming each other for the person you are today..they constantly blame each other because i’m a disappointment to them and they wish i was different..
I sometimes ask myself if I'm even alowed to be sad...because whenever my family mentaly hurts me so damn much that I can't keep it inside me any longer I'd tell my friends....they'd always tell me that it Was my fault,that im the one who's wrong...I don't even know if I'm alowed to feel miserable..
I always look at these comments because I wanna know there are people like me and I have no one to talk to with this pain it makes it hard so to all the girls and boys who suffer with this pain props to us all try to keep living please :)
My dad truly stopped being there at age 7. Before then, he wasn't really there either. A few years back, we had visitation, I was stupid and let my hopes get up, only to be hurt again. Now he's requesting visitation again but the damage is already done. For a long time, I had a wonderful stepdad, but just last year that was ripped away too. I still see him, but it's just not the same. My biological father was neglectful, somewhat abusive, especially to my mom, and scary. I sometimes wonder, if he was mentally healthy, and present in my life, would he be proud that his daughter has achieved so much? Why didn't he get treatment? Was I not worth it? Were his kids not enough motivation to get help? Honestly I just feel empty. My mom has worked her ass off to support her three kids, she went to nursing school, with three kids, and my dad did what? Nothing. Nothing at all.
I have a complete family. They give me all what I need, they do all what they would do. But sometimes I feel like they would be better without me. I screw up everything. Every time my parents fight, it’s my fault. And I just want to leave and let them be a happy family.
It really sucks to not have a complete family. To not have a mom or dad. But, to the people who do have complete families but their parents are toxic.. I am so sorry. Knowing that you’re not loved and cared about and they remind you about that everyday is just as worse as wondering why you weren’t good enough for your parents that left you.
y'all should be greatful of your parents. My dad left and doesnt care. My mom broke me and she left too and im only a teenager and i don't know what to. So if you have a home where you at least get to share a single moment of happiness enjoy it.
It’s crazy how you can have a complete family but you don’t feel apart of it cuz your the middle child and you look exactly like your parent that died, and now your getting compared and getting bruises from them all, cuz I can relate 🙂
Im now at a point where i constantly have to choose between parents. Sometimes my mom calls me and says that she misses me, and she wants to see me. Or that she gets sad when I go to my dads. It’s heartbreaking
Mom is the best person in the world but my father left but he was abusive anyway but I miss him and idk why he left three weeks ago but I know he’s never coming back🥺💔
Having No father or Mother figure growing , and not feeling apart or your entire family is different, then feeling like u did something wrong to have someone that’s supposed to be there for u your entire life leave ...with out an explanation.
I feel so mad when I see people with full families that aren’t manipulative or toxic, like bruh, you have everything I’ve ever wanted, and that may be wrong or petty of me but it’s true.
It sucks more when you have both ur mom and dad under one roof but they're not together, and ur dad keeps picking fights with ur mom for the tiniest of things.
i’m mad at myself for getting mad at my mom for asking me questions because it’s the anger that built up in me for the past 3 years. she drinks, tells me she is going to stop, then starts to drink again. the longest she’s ever went without drinking was a week and a half. it breaks me :(
I am so thankful for my family but they make me feel like the worst disappointment they could’ve ever had. They tell me that my character is wrong, ask me how i could even have friends, being the way I am and then tell me to stay with them forever. It hurts so bad and they say I’m the problem and obvsly I start believing that.
I mean yeah I may have both my parents but they shouldn’t even be together and I prayed to God that they would split but they won’t and it’s doing more and more harm by the second. And thanks to them I’m doing worse and worse by the day and closer to my grave. Idk I might just finish high school just to say that I accomplished something in my life.
