Great work Sadia enjoying your long format conversations, hope your well. London is good I opened a new spot called bait lounge with I'm just bait. Also Omar got married finally hamdullilah
Not sure why this vid popped up in my feed bc I don't know these ppl BUT she looks like Kim K. Ppl can say what they want about Kim but she has influenced sooo many women. I can't tell you how many women I've seen on YT who look like Kim.
But she also says: ""Think through the eyes of a child"" While contradicting with an affirming ""insha'Allah"" every ten minutes or so. FACT Children in the Middle East are some of the saddest most broken most used and abused and traumatized little souls in world existence. All thanks to Islamism. No thank you. I would rather live in a society that honours Jesus who talked about tying a certain millstone and a certain rowboat and certain people who harm innocent children. Apparently, so do the women and children of Islamists prefer our Christian society to their own. To them our Christian countries are paradise even if they are so brainwashed that they want to destroy it at the same time. People vote with their feet regardless of what they say with their mouth. Just look out your window and see for yourself.
Thank God a smart woman like Sadia is finally speaking up and giving a voice to the people who want to live a balanced life and actually build an emotionally healthy family! 💕
Love that she can callout herself for being a toxic jealous woman i laughed so hard It was a nice podcast again Mike is a good host it seems like he genuinely enjoy having those conversations and ask good questions. But Mike is a bit hypocrite or a walking paradox saying that fitness model are crazy, or women with their ass*s out on IG are not exactly what he will go for settling. Yet his Girlfriend is an IG model in a bikini with her body parts all over IG hahaha, well i guess that's part of the human paradox that's why i always say look at what people do and who they associate themselves with, rather than what they are saying. Wish Mike and Sadia the best and hope she will heal from her jealousy because you can be the best person in the world with amazing qualities if you are jealous it spoils everything.
@@badinstinctsRU-vid-xb3oj you mistaken the message she does not teach about how to be a good mother 🤣 unlike redpill talkers or like pearly thing she just share her expertise on psychology in regard to relationship between men and women and she has experience as she is freelance you should Google her if you are curious.
Sadia is NOT a Psychologist! To legally be able to call yourself a psychologist, you need to complete 5-6 years of postgraduate Master's and Doctorate work at an accredited Clinical psychologist university, preferably from these countries AU/SA/UK/USA or Western Europe. Sadia is a high school teacher with a high school teaching degree, which may have included some brief basic undergraduate study in psychology. Sadia claims on her LinkedIn to have been "Head of Psychology" at two London High Schools, but of course, there is no such position on earth. Some schools may have a "School Counsellor" who has a post-graduate degree in Psychology, but she doesn't even have that requirement. Sadia appears to be an attractive and well-spoken fraud, I am sorry to say. Just because she says some common sense ideas occasionally doesn't make her a psychologist. Many times, she says things that a psychologist would never say, such as a "low-worth man" etc. I request that you remove promoting her as a psychologist, as it is illegal to call a person a psychologist without at least a postgraduate Master's degree in clinical psychology plus training in clinics and later Psychology board certification, even in Dubai. Dubai also requires the Western standard of at least five years of postgraduate study after your bachelor's degree. If she just promoted herself as a relationship coach, she could still do well; however, it would make it more difficult to ask for the 400 quid per 50-minute online session she currently charges.
@@kanga-blue i think you are a bit crazy…well she have her master degree in psychology, usually psychologist need a doctorate, but it depends of the country or state or a few fields allow to work without any. Most therapists are working at master ‘s level and are ok 👌, and get called psychologist is ok and quite common after a master degree for ex in France… licensed psychologist do assessment, conduct research, testing, evaluations… (which she is not doing here right ? )but in this case the phd is obligatory but if you are experienced it doesn’t mean you are not skilled… she can still use the term, she never said she was a doctor in psychology…calling her a scammer is a crazy 😜.
We do need more female role models like Sadia. I've only recently discovered her and she is a breath of fresh air. Girls are being taught to disrespect themselves and being told its empowering. What. A. Woman.
This woman is so intelligent and logical! Highly impressed with her calm attitude and the ability to make her points so straightforward! Great podcast mike I loved it!
Her philosophy on there being no reward or validation for being good women is flawed. Here is why: If many women are supposedly becoming promiscuous because men reward and give validation to promiscuous women that means the women are seeking validation and rewards at the cost of their morals and character (which good women wouldn't do)... Women choose bad boys a lot of the time, but l would never use that to justify becoming one because *"a boat doesn’t sink from the water around it, it sinks from the water it LET'S INSIDE IT."* Changing who you are for validation also means those women aren't in full control of themselves because who they are is controlled by male attention, validation, and reward, which contradicts Sadia's mantra of, *"SELF CONTROL IS TRUE FREEDOM."* (So Sadia needs to put accountability on the women for not having self control & for not having the true freedom to not need/let male validation define their goodness/promiscuity.) Being a good person(woman or man) is not done for rewards. It's a CHARACTER TRAIT. I am not a good person to people because they are good to me or deserve it. I do it because to behave otherwise would be out of my character. Once you find yourself looking for rewards for being a good woman/man, you are beginning to veer into the path of trying to cash in your "goodness" and manipulating it as a transactional tool to get what yiu want, WHICH A GOOD PERSON WOULDN'T DO... (Sidenote: her perspective on why men would even give attention to promiscuous women doesn't factor in biology & how men have a DUAL mating strategy: they either seek long-term committed relationships or short-term non-committal relationships (or combination of both). The male biology can compartmentalise sex and emotion so men are able to separate their sexual attention from their intimate relationship attention... Like most women, Sadia probably doesn't understand or accept this fact about male biology/nature, which unfortunately leads to women like Sadia mistakenly conflating a man's sexual attention with his intimate relationship attention... The promiscuous women only get men's sexual attention, which men are biologically wired to want to give anyway. The openly promiscuous women, en masse, aren't getting picked for serious long-term relationships unless the man is foolish. Rather, they are used for short-term non-committal fun.) *"Comparison is the thief of joy."* If the good women were wise, they would need to stop comparing the attention they get to the attention promiscuous women get. & Finally, if you are going to be a good woman, do it because it's WHO YOU ARE, not because you EXPECT to be rewarded for it. *"No-one ever breaks your heart, they break your EXPECTATIONS... & by breaking your expectations, they actually help you get closer to your heart." - Kyle Cease*
Sadia is NOT a Psychologist! To legally be able to call yourself a psychologist, you need to complete 5-6 years of postgraduate Master's and Doctorate work at an accredited Clinical psychologist university, preferably from these countries AU/SA/UK/USA or Western Europe. Sadia is a high school teacher with a high school teaching degree, which may have included some brief basic undergraduate study in psychology. Sadia claims on her LinkedIn to have been "Head of Psychology" at two London High Schools, but of course, there is no such position on earth. Some schools may have a "School Counsellor" who has a post-graduate degree in Psychology, but she doesn't even have that requirement. Sadia appears to be an attractive and well-spoken fraud, I am sorry to say. Just because she says some common sense ideas occasionally doesn't make her a psychologist. Many times, she says things that a psychologist would never say, such as a "low-worth man" etc. I request that you remove promoting her as a psychologist, as it is illegal to call a person a psychologist without at least a postgraduate Master's degree in clinical psychology plus training in clinics and later Psychology board certification, even in Dubai. Dubai also requires the Western standard of at least five years of postgraduate study after your bachelor's degree. If she just promoted herself as a relationship coach, she could still do well; however, it would make it more difficult to ask for the 400 quid per 50-minute online session she currently charges.
Bro, she is absolutely wrong. This needs critical thinking. HVM do not reward those women, getting flown to Dubai, being on a yacht, or a few expensive bags here and there is not the reward a woman can get from HVM but rather the title of a wife, the house the keys the legacy etc is the reward, so doing a bbl or being promiscuous will just get you in the door, get fucked and throw you back to the streets because the moment those hvm DMs them, he has already put them in the sex only category not relationship or wifey category, so modest women shouldn't think at all that the promiscuous women are getting the better end of the deal. This woman has a very skewed take on modern dating. She should go broaden her horizon and come back.
If we were becoming influencers and giving more attention to women that don’t show off their intimacy and promote a good behaviour we wouldn’t be like this, there’s those kinda woman because is what they see that works with us. Those kinda women they do things wrong but let’s not put all the fault on them as if we were not buying what they sell
This quickly evolved from an interview to a conversation, a beautiful conversation. Mike was literally scaling himself against her standards to see if he's got a chance with a high value beautiful woman.❤😅 Love it!
Yall aren't scoring this correctly. He maybe once came across as "If we were dating". She on the other hand I lost count of the micro body language and nuanced signals she was trying desperately to hide. She was feeling him much harder than he was feeling her. But she's really good at trying to hide it. She can't hide it from me though cause I'm scoring pauses, corners of mouths, question tonality, vocal pitch, laughs vs giggles at what time how long each outburst was. There were way more uncontrollable nuances that she was trying to hide rather than him.
She is SUCH a role model and breath of fresh air. The way she articulates herself so calmly and sees things from different balanced perspectives without screaming opinions into your ears! Loved her and this conversation!
Sadia : you should have female friends Mike : if we were in a relationship would you allow me to have female friends Sadia : No Logic goes out the window timestamp: 56:15
Best podcast ive listened to in a while. No pointing fingere, simply two people listening, asking questions and willing to learn!! Their interest is about fixing what is broken instead of bashing on about how trash each gender is. Loved this. I was hooked!! ❤
I came here to say that I was listening to this while in traffic for two hours thinking it would be just junk for 2 hours and I was blown away by how valuable this is. Sadia Khan has so much wisdom and made me think “wow I never thought about it that way.” Her angles and takes are so interesting and quite controversial but she disarms them with such a nice and kind and soft tone where it lands so well. Her voice is so soothing, intelligent and beautiful. I wish more women were like this, truly a rare gem these days. Need more people like her
Very classy hehehehe working her ‘craft’ in Dubai trying to pursue ‘high value’ men to trap them into marriage trying to advise them into leaving* the wives they are cheating on.
Hehehe this 35 year old paki actress trying to trap a 25 year old . When that was not possible she became an internet psycho as internet relation expert. She is unmarried and trying to trap a guy in Dubai.
Mike Thurston with another phenomenal podcast. Love how he comes at it with genuine curiosity and top notch production. An educated female guest was a great conversation.
Sadia “psychology” is not a real psychologist she has been deleting comments and has been name calling in response to constructive criticism 😂 please do not buy in to this hoax charlatan…she blocked my instagram account after I critically analysed her claims that children from single parent families cheat more and then proceeded to delete an entire comments thread to save her reputation. This person is not an accredited psychologist it is all for clout, judging from her responses she lacks the basic and fundamental quality of a psychologist which is empathy and compassion and above all professionalism which she evidently lacks. If you want actual mental health support please go to an accredited psychologist/ professional such as Dr Gabor Mate etc do not waste your money ohgn this individual she’s extremely deceptive
This is the first time I have ever heard anyone say that if men want traditional women why are they still supporting only fans girls and if that is what they like they will not be satisfied with a traditional woman. I guess men want the trad woman to be loyal so they can sleep around with ‘baddies’ outside of marriage without any consequences just as wealthy men have done throughout time.
As a woman I sympathize soo much with what Sadia was saying, taking the time to know a woman’s body will take you way further than getting a lot of experience 👏🏻
I wish you only have virgin men that want to learn your body :) while you will deal with your frustration of not getting off! Let me know how it goes :)
Emma, do you really think us men, those of who are aware of where our value comes from think that a woman’s body is special? Sex is sex, what you can do another woman can do or better, and that simply means you ain’t special. In fact, you’re easily replaceable. It is what It’s 🤷♂️
Whatever she said about how men want promiscuous women is absolutely true. I'm a non promiscuous girl and girls who are promiscuous get way more attention and better treatment by men than I do. Never listen to men to what they want in a partner. Their action speaks louder than their words
Not true, i had a huge body count ( over 100) and when I met my husband who is a successful cardiologist, he proposed and have been married almost 20 years….I just didn’t tell him exactly how many partners I had…it’s stupid people who tell the world their business…I wouldn’t tell anyone who I slept with…and I wasn’t making vidoes, taking photos ect back then….even during my marriage I had a couple of affairs and made sure I never spoke of it….
@thesmileyone they cant be trusted...it doesnt shock me she slept with other affairs WHILE married. ITs disgusting but 95% is this way. She doesnt even regocnize that she never married for love. She just married after she got wasted and banged around and got the shiut banged out of her and been low value. Those beta guys who take this women and are dumb and naive to think they actually love them are fkced up. Those women who slept around will always sleep around. You see by her as example. 20 years and cheated many many times. hahahah we all know that when we wrote her first sentence. Let me guess you divorced now or just stay for more cash... Guys i am 35 year virgin and I lost my life and health because of women. I am not even ugly but average is new ugly in this new world. I suffered. I even tried hard for 5 years and i approached hundreds each year. 10x party each month. None of them had slept with me or meet and date. They all look for the hot face and bad raping guy. Only when they get old and feel wasted and ugly they talk to beta husband dumb candidate men who they trick into faking love but only showing nice polite attitude. So dont accept them. If she has no 0Zerooooo bodycount dont take her. Die alone with dignity then to spend a fakre marriage life. Dont accept them. NOW REJECT THEM!!! And they lie so you have to watch her face. You always see the same face expression from sluts. And tattos and metal rings are also a red flag.
Have seen her psychology snippets for months and been fascinated by how she is able to make sense of things which I have also felt but could never express verbally as clearly and concisely as she is able to....but after watching this podcast she's probably the most grounded, intelligent and alluring woman I have ever come across on social media and in life.
Getting x10 better at the podcast game the more you do it Mike, the first podcast you were more laid back compared to now you’re just on the ball with intellectual questions and a more confident approach. Amazing to see you grow in this new space, keep it up G. Also Jwaller would be a great guest to get on 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
It was very refreshing to see two adults having an honest conversation about relationships and offering some guidance. Thank you Mike and Sadia. 👏 As someone who was raised with traditional values yet having to navigate my way and succeed in our modern world without giving up those values I struggled enormously. I was lost, broken, spent, and hopeless. Looking back, I do not know how I survived. And to my own surprise, found love. It was messy and hard. Yet despite of ourselves, our contrasting backgrounds, and cultural differences transformation took place. I chose to sacrifice the ‘known’ me to the unknown potential in me, and built a new woman ground up. Due to lack of role models I had to gradually forge one through confronting fears, having hard conversations, truthfulness, self-awareness, discipline, and selflessness. When I met my husband 13 years ago, I thought it was a one-night stand, except the next morning he made me pancakes. Nobody made me pancakes before. It was very confusing to say the least. We will hopefully🤞be celebrating our 10th anniversary this autumn.👹
Saw Sadia interviewed by Chris Williamson which led me to this interview tas I wanted to hear more from her. I was so impressed by her assessment, knowledge and clarity on this subject. Having lived in Dubai for 10 years, I know she has her finger on the pulse on how shallow relationships'are and in turn how devalued and vunerable traditional relationships become in that enviorment. The guy I worked with would plan his 'dates by nationality for the week ahead, Monday English, Tuesday French, Wednesdy American, etc ....like choosing from a Menu.. Sadia is doing a service by using her skills and profile to change the narrative. Thanks
she has had very valid points on simping onlyfans, rewarding woman on their bad behaviour, but she also describes a man she would like who is superior to her and settles more than she does for him.
Since when are men settling? If a woman is birthing your kids, raising them, taking care of your home, then who gives a damn if she’s a bit older or not super attractive?
What a brilliant podcast! As a women myself who is in-between its great to hear someone who has the middle ground! There are not many of us and we need more!
"Who would actually require you not to be controlling. Who would naturally be inline with your values." I have never heard it said better than this! Thank you Sadia!
Mike did well in attempting to level up in this conversation with a highly intellectual individual, who articulates her points with consumate ease and generally hits the nail on the head. Refreshing perspectives and good to see a wholesome female talking about the importance of boundaries and values for nurturing psychologically safe, supportive, loving and long lasting relationships. Hits every note of what important, in a world that leans the opposite way all too often
What a fantastic podcast Mike. My wife of 20 years and I watched it together and both enjoyed and more importantly learned from it. Someone commented her logic went out of the door re no female friends but she was brutally honest with her own trait of jealousy just adding to her credibility.
Sadia “psychology” is not a real psychologist she has been deleting comments and has been name calling in response to constructive criticism 😂 please do not buy in to this hoax charlatan…she blocked my instagram account after I critically analysed her claims that children from single parent families cheat more and then proceeded to delete an entire comments thread to save her reputation. This person is not an accredited psychologist it is all for clout, judging from her responses she lacks the basic and fundamental quality of a psychologist which is empathy and compassion and above all professionalism which she evidently lacks. If you want actual mental health support please go to an accredited psychologist/ professional such as Dr Gabor Mate etc do not waste your money ohgn this individual she’s extremely deceptive
It ruins her credibility. She is fine with it when it benefits her but she opposes it when it doesn’t? This is hypocritical, toxic. You can see the conflict between her natural female nature and her western upbringing.
Such an intelligent podcast, always very informative and respectful. Two way conversation between adults that are willing to hear each other opinions on respectful way and learn from each other! With each episode of this podcast I revaluate others and want to clean up the information I absorb! Great job, thank you and I am looking forward to new episodes!
Divorce is never the way out, My wife and I have been having issues before I sort out help from a spiritual adviser,i wasnt going to let my marriage of 18years crash
Sadia's knowledge, logic, wit and charm cannot be beat. Despite countless videos where the interviewer or other guests try to poke holes in her arguments they always fail dismally.
I really enjoy watching this conversation. Sadia is breaking this down nicely and then Mike seems to have very good understanding and empathy! It’s so calm😍😁
Really good video.... I like her sincerity and honesty. The way she tries not to be on one side or put one side in a bad light by refering to persons and not a specific gender, it is so correct and objective... This is the kind of people this world really needs in order to make it a better place to live as individuals....Congrats to her!!!
What is the reason behind this? I don’t understand why a man is doing this.. is this only about lust in the first place and later. On they think hmm this girl can’t start my family..? Or how should a woman view this.
Men want a traditional woman with low body count for a relationship,/as a wife, but they will chase the hot one for sex. Why is it that hard to comprehend such basic facts? Biology plays a role in male being visual and being turned on by visual factors and that is what happens. Then, after the act with that woman is consumed, they will not marry her.
Just finished the whole interview. Incredible content, probably one of the most insightful and intellectual conversations on relationships that I have seen in a long time. Sadia 100% needs her own youtube channel.
'Sadia 100% needs her own youtube channel.' yeah... but only for women because what she says most of the time does not make any sense to a rationally thinking man
@@maxim2091 for instance right at the beginning of the video... what is the connection between a man wanting a traditional woman and who he follows on instagram? I am a guy wanting a traditional woman but I would watch a beautiful female at any time and so do 99% of men... god created men this way. she does not know the way men think because she is a woman and she wants to make the female way of thinking the only correct way... later she says female can sell feet pics for 10 grands because of men willing to pay for it... and men should change the way they act and problem solved... she does not have the faintest clue about the male reality and how men think and there is no female accountability in her view, females should not change someone who does not know anything about the other gender think should not give any advice to the other gender and finally let me quote a commenter from below: Sadia : you should have female friends Mike : if we were in a relationship would you allow me to have female friends Sadia : No ??? I think it is more than enough for me not to listen to her podcast.
@@istvangranicz5082 On first point, who told you that a “traditional” woman won’t get upset at you following the bikini model on instagram? Wondering eyes drive jealousy. How would you feel if your woman was following a bunch of bodybuilders? God also created women to feel attracted to fit muscular men. That’s why we all workout. So if you want to follow models on instagram then you will have to be fine with your girl following male models on instagram. On point 2, if it sounded like she was putting all the blame on men alone for the whole OF trend then she just didn’t articulate it fully in this interview. In her interview on TK Talks with Tate, she was very clear that both men and women are responsible for this degradation. Women should have more self respect and men should stop enabling these acts. I think everyone will agree on this point. Lastly, the female friends thing is a classic example of female logic. First answer was her answering logically (the way men think), second answer was her answering with her emotion aka if she was dating Mike and he had female friends she would not like it. It doesn’t mean that she would think it’s wrong for him to have female friends, she is saying that she wouldn’t “feel” good about it. Men think with their brain, women think with their heart. If you want women to think like men aka logically then it probably won’t be a very feminine woman. I understand why you’d feel confused about it, I would’ve thought the same in my early 20s. By my 30s as I got to spend time with many different women, I understand their emotional logic much better. There is an actual logic to it, it just slightly different to how men think.
facts. most of her takes are flawed about HVM, someone has to challenge her viewpoints to see how flawed it is but when MIke rarely pushes back on her points someone might think she has it all covered. The only time she was on a pod with someone who can push back on her points (tate), she couldn't defend those points which makes one think...😂😂😂but she has a few good points though but I would love a pod between her and myron.
Thank God I found this woman!! I just love her.. very inspiring and have the same values as me. It's really hard to find a role model woman who still cares about motherhood and the future of our children. Smart, high value woman, beautiful, modest, charming, all in one package.. ❤❤❤
Sadia “psychology” is not a real psychologist she has been deleting comments and has been name calling in response to constructive criticism 😂 please do not buy in to this hoax charlatan…she blocked my instagram account after I critically analysed her claims that children from single parent families cheat more and then proceeded to delete an entire comments thread to save her reputation. This person is not an accredited psychologist it is all for clout, judging from her responses she lacks the basic and fundamental quality of a psychologist which is empathy and compassion and above all professionalism which she evidently lacks. If you want actual mental health support please go to an accredited psychologist/ professional such as Dr Gabor Mate etc do not waste your money on this individual she’s extremely deceptive
A lot of this conversation seemed to be about Mike talking about past partners who were jealous, starting fights about unimportant things, issues around social media, etc. If you find someone who is mature, a good communicator and truly secure with who they are, all of these issues about being jealous because you liked a person's post, passive aggressive behavior, etc will be a non-issue. I've been with my husband since we were 18 and I couldn't disagree more about equating more partners to being a better partner because you have more "experience". I appreciate Mike being so vulnerable and openly sharing about his personal life. I think he could have benefited from a positive female role model after his mom died. Find a partner who has the same values, who is a person of good character and who inspires you to be a better person. Don't settle for the person who gets jealous about who you follow on Instagram.
This woman is so intelligent and logical! Thank God, a smart woman like Sadia sis is finally speaking up and giving a voice to the people who want to live a balanced life and actually build an emotionally healthy family! 💕 Great podcast mike, I loved it!
@@tea.dubs8532 she was pretty balanced in her answers. I believe we men shouldn't have accepted the situation to deteriorate as much. If we believe that we are leaders we should take the blame and fix the problem.
@@Conqueror92_ right! but we weren't around or in power of the media to create this change in women's independence. Also, if women want to be independent then they have to be accountable for their actions and receive the appropriate consequences. If women want to be codependent alongside men, then sure, us men need to be better leaders in terms of leading women. Unfortunately that's not how the "western" world is anymore. Men are seen as expendable pawns in a woman's world. She indirectly communicated this when talking about how it's men's fault for getting played by women. Chivalry is dead.
So emotionally aware and mature. When a women speaks like this everyone is so quick to call her an annoying feminist when that has nothing to do with it. Everything she said is gold.
Sadia spoke so well! Especially when she explained why a high body count is worse for men. This is the best explanation ever. Also, let's talk about the risk of diseases. Our generation today talks as if infectious diseases don't exist!
She didn't explain the inverse of how women's high body counts affect them in comparison so we can't conclude the male repercussions are "worse" without examining the females' ramifications...
I noticed that conversations around infidelity and promiscuity only became a problem when social media and the internet began to make it possible for women to capitalize on it. Ever since I was a young girl, I’ve watched and heard older women around me talk about how their husband stepped out of their relationship & brought shame to the family - especially when women judge other women. Traditional married women have always carried the shame of their husband’s infidelity & in traditional homes it’s rarely ever the woman who steps out. Now that the tables are turned and men assume there are less and less “high value women” they want to cry a war about it. I don’t condone what some women are choosing to do to gain some validation, but she is not wrong when she says men are hypocritical and have rewarded promiscuity. People really don’t understand how karma work do they? These are the sins and karma of mankind at play. The simple solution is, what you act upon and covet is what you will always nurture and harvest. So do not act dumb as if you are shock to find women no longer can be valuable to you. High value women exist and they’re not where you play and pretend you can’t find them.
“In traditional homes it’s rarely ever the woman who steps out.” Talking out of your ass does nothing to help anybody. -Nearly 70 percent of divorces are initiated by Women -Among only college-educated women, that figure jumps up to 90% -Married adults ages 18 to 29 say that women are slightly more guilty of infidelity - 90% of women and 77% of men admit to committing emotional infidelity. -40% of women and 30% of men admit to having cheated through cyber sex. (From actual studies) And lol, the rise of promiscuous women hurts women more than it hurts men. The average girl thinks she has to compete with that kind of Woman and goes out of her way to be, look and act like one. Do you really think more Women openly devaluing themselves, engaging in casual sex more easily, and showing that they will do anything for money is negatively impacting Men more? Because it’s not. Boys certainly are rewarding promiscuity. But you’re a fool if you think that’s hurting the “crying” men more than it is women. Guess which gender values novelty more in sexual partners? 40% of Women cheat for emotional attention. Guess what kind of woman a HVM will never love and fully commit to (i.e give emotional attention)? A promiscuous one. You can laugh and think the tables have turned when in reality Women are devaluing themselves and calling it empowerment. And in case you didn’t know more promiscuous women only makes it THAT much easier for a married man to be unfaithful. So unless you are happily committed to being single for the rest of your life you’re only really laughing at yourself.
Men don't reward promiscuity. Men hate it. What Sadia failed to mention is men don't go for promiscuous women, they go for women who are "potentially" promiscuous. What this means is that men look for women who are more attractive than the average. And there's nothing wrong with that since women also go for men who have 6ft height, money and looks. What a man wants from his girl is loyalty. So no, it's not karma. What you said about traditional women bearing the shame of their husband's adultery is the problem of your own society. I live in a Muslim country and although a person who commits adultery is not stoned to death in my own country, they are bringing shame to themselves. Bringing shame to the family means their actions have damaged the reputable name of the family. But the wife here, does not bear the shame of her husbands acts. Everyone shames the cheater, whoever they might be and everyone stands with the wife. She's the one with dignity if she's not the one who cheated. You know why traditional women in your country take the blame and not in my country? Because in your country it means the wife is not beautiful or attractive enough and in my country it means that he has weak faith and loose character and he has committed a cardinal sin.
Potentially promiscous and promiscous are very close. Who chooses like that, deserves what gets. There are beautiful and sexual women (normal) who are not promiscuos. It is a matter of intelligence and character.
Top shelve divine feminine energy.This lady is amazing. It is beautiful to hear people talking about importance of tradition, family unit and self worth. Great episode
It's so important to analyse your own reaction when you hear out others perspective. I appreciate how she mentioned that if you leave feeling more angry and confused at the opposition then it's not serving you a purpose. I highly advise to tune into conversations like this that address the true issues and focus on the solution rather than creating hate toward each other.
A high value woman is someone who yes is attractive but most importantly 1) knows herself well and has self awareness, 2) does not need validation from others ,3) her values and integrity sit firmly with herself and others , 4) she has softness of the heart .
@@nemesis4035 I’m a religious Muslim-i hold myself to the same standard. The Quran literally says pious men and women are meant for one another and vile men/women are meant for one another. It even says people who commit adultery are meant for one another. Which is why this interview, being that she’s Muslim, is a awkward conversation.
i have to say women face rejection too. Sadia said that only men know how that feels but i grew up getting rejected by the guys i wanted or they only wanted me for sex in secret and not a relationship, which still felt like rejection to me. It was definitely soul crushing and i started to play a game with myself to see who i could get to actually date me. as i got prettier and more confident i started to realize i could get any guy i want, but once i’d get them i’d be in a position where i’m constantly disrespected and i realize it’s not even them that i wanted, it was wanting to know that i could have them. Then i’m over it. I’m growing from that and now i see that the more you understand your value, the less you need to prove you can get anyone you want. I’m patient now just being selective waiting for the person who chooses me. It will be worth it
Of course, women can face rejection in some capacity but literally everybody knows that it’s a guy who initiates well over 9 times out of 10. Having someone approach you and then deciding they don’t like you or approaching someone once in a blue moon doesn’t come close to the rejection you face from initiating every interaction. It pales in comparison and that is why there’s no need for her to elaborate on it. Someone simply not liking you is different from you actually (and directly) pursuing someone you like and them rejecting you. Along with that, if guys had half as many options walking up to them (literally and figuratively) as girls do getting rejected would be like someone telling you you can’t have their lollipop. You wouldn’t lose sleep over it. Simply having countless options and knowing that they will come to you would drastically change how someone who is also capable of going after what they want views rejection. Getting rejected would be as harmless as missing out on a lollipop. Women are mistakenly taught to wait for a man to pick them so very early on they start to derive their value from how men view and treat them. That’s an absolutely awful way to raise girls in my eyes but that’s the norm people subscribe to. Instead of teaching girls, they are competent, capable, and working to build up their self-confidence. Society (but really it’s the parent’s fault) only instills those traits in guys.
@@Vladyyy Everyone gets rejected. It's men that turn it into a competition. Men invest 5 minutes mustering the confidence to walk up to someone who turns them down politely and compare it to the rejection women feel when after investing time, emotions, and their bodies only to find out that she was just being used for sex or just a placeholder until the girl they really wanted comes along, then spend months, years even, getting over that.
😄 so it takes 5 minutes to muster up confidence yet 90% of women are unable to even do that and wait around their whole lives for a man to approach them. What does that say about all the women who can’t even build up that confidence to begin with? You can try to downplay it all you want but everybody knows it’s not women who regularly ask guys out. Being used ≠ rejection Think. You don’t “reject” a bottle of water after you’re done drinking it. You USED it for it’s purpose. You literally said it yourself ”used for sex” that’s not rejection just because you were hoping for a long term relationship and it didn’t happen. How are YOU going to accept a guys offer to date you and then claim he rejected you when the relationship doesn’t work out how you wanted? That’s such a pathetic way to avoid any and all accountability for your actions.
You are correct. I think she speaks purely of her experience and looks like she hasn't been rejected. A lot of beautiful women don't have that experience.
It's hard to take serious someone who says they will debunk something while refusing to examine it first. Edit : this is about her refusing to read Myron book while saying the book is rubbish.
Yup, essentially she's putting all the responsibility on men and not examining how women have played a major roll in the societal shift, when majority of women said they didn't want to be identified with wife and motherhood.
@@gideonaning2399 You don't need to read the book to know what he thinks of women, you can listen to his fragile masculinity podcast to know what he thinks. Any women who disagrees with him is kicked off his podcast also.
Great podcast! Loved the conversation and insights that Sadia shared. Very entertaining content. Thank you Mike for helping us make our lives better with this advice!
This poor woman doesn’t have real equal when friends …my heart goes out to her.. she has totally helped me but I can see no one is helping her but she’s doing great regardless so good for her
I wish more and more people all over the world continue following Sadia! She's spreading valuable ideas, that can change our global society to the better! God bless her!
Indeed, but I must say I have little hope that any substantial amount of humans will change their ways because of it. Social media is an unstoppable force. So it will just be about finding the few gems in a mountain of dogshit.
Sadia: A high value man is a man with Self-control and discipline that doesn't sleep around. Mike: A high value woman is a woman with Self respect, class and doesn't sleep around. High Value persona doesn't have a gender.
She offers a measured female perspective, arguing in good faith. Her point about not reading Myron’s book is about staying grounded (ironically) in reality, avoiding weaponized facts and encouraging empathic communication among individuals. If your head explodes at such a concept, then you know you’ve been consumed by ideology.
it is just her being solipsistic like most women.. being a feminist and a terrible shrink for that matter. What myron, rollo, donovan sharpe.. john modern life dating talk about is the reality.. women that are average DEMAND a super man.. and when asked what they bring to the table, they think by just existing it is enough.. besides pearly thing and melinda king.. you dont see many women talking about that.. oh even courtney ryan who has always been on the fence started overtly saying women are delusional
Sadia is so well-spoken and her points were honestly so insightful on so many different topics. I'm really glad I saw this podcast episode. Edit: Just got to 1:28:07 where she talks about "if you get to 28 and you're just an old teenager, it's not attractive", which is scarily accurate to my life situation as someone turning 28 in 2 months.
... trust me, snap out of it.. if you continue this way, people are going to question how you can have such an immature sound/view/opinions etc if you're in your 30s, it will turn you into being defensive and trying to prove them wrong but it will always come off as aggressive and foolish... I'm witnessing it with my sister 10 years younger than me, and all my family can do is just wait and see what she does now... except we can't just leave her to the streets... she's like a big baby who thinks she's more of an adult than everyone else... it's crazy... if you want a career, be the best at it, and become professional so you don't seem like an old teen or (if you're a woman) stay young at heart and become feminine, serene and amazing housewife worthy and marry someone (where your job would be optional)... if you are a guy, there is no option to stay young at heart, you have to grow up
@@Keralite29 ... and don't forget the gym... so hard to make time for me being in my 40s with three kids... I can feel myself getting weaker than what I used to be... if you have kids/grandkids... you want to be able to spend time with them rather than be a burden on them
@@hassanahmad2290 Are you able to set up some kind of home gym so that you can workout without leaving your home? That would be helpful for you. Otherwise I'd recommend basic calisthenics exercises, such as pushups and situps.
@@Keralite29 ... easier said than done, we live in a small condo, which does have a small gym and pool, but by the time we get the kids down... i'm done... yes lack of discipline, but it only gets harder as you age, hence passing onto anyone younger who reads this... get good habits as soon as possible, it's very hard to develop them later
This was time well spent, I'm looking for more of her interviews. Really liked how she refuted the 'men need to have a high body count so we can be better in the bedroom'. Its such an old excuse for bad behavior. And who do you do it with? Women you don't want a relationship with + then others don't want a relationship with her b/c she is being used. A man with a high body count contributes to the thing / environment he says he doesn't value + one day his daughters will walk into that environment he helped create.
The Dr is speaking about unaddressed trauma, low self-esteem (not to be confused w confidence) lack of relationship self-maturation, sexual self-discipline, fragile egos, and lack of wisdom.... Sis ate and left NO crumbs💯💕🔥
Thank you so much Mike for this, really appreciated Sadia's perspective. On a side note, you both are so attractive, not just physically, but also your values. Good for Sadia for being so honest about her weaknesses in a relationship. "Know thy self".....You two would look great as a couple too 😍!
Rejection is everyones fear. So even if your not interested in anyone be polite about it. One bad experience stops people from approaching anyone again and it becomes an insurcurity. Treat people with love and respect its something women and men need to learn even if they are not intrested.
1:09:50 I'm truly sorry for this loss, Mikey T. I've been following you since July 2015 and have seen so much of you (on the Tubes) that I learned certain things about your life and your family. Your reaction to your mom's passing is very understandable. I hope and pray the Lord will fully heal you from that pain and traumatic times in your life. 🙏🏾 God bless you. 🤍
Sadia, you're a woman that speaks my mind. I'm so glad that you have these brilliant platforms to share your message of what healthy masculinity and healthy femininity is. Having said that, I can't lie... as a HR professional, I was a little bit offended when you referenced "Janet from HR" in your example of low quality women. Light-heartedly offended of course. Keep doing this great work. Our British Pakistani culture in particular needs to hear this.
Sadia knows her stuff, good counter balance to Myron. The truth lies somewhere in the middle. Don't listen to bitter people about dating, listen to the one's that have solutions
As I'm reading these comments, I see a lot of emotional men that believe they're "alphas." Your comments showcase your true character. You leave negative comments about an intelligent woman, rather than listening and learning from other perspectives. It's interesting to observe human behavior, even online.
Sadia “psychology” is not a real psychologist she has been deleting comments and has been name calling in response to constructive criticism 😂 please do not buy in to this hoax charlatan…she blocked my instagram account after I critically analysed her claims that children from single parent families cheat more and then proceeded to delete an entire comments thread to save her reputation. This person is not an accredited psychologist it is all for clout, judging from her responses she lacks the basic and fundamental quality of a psychologist which is empathy and compassion and above all professionalism which she evidently lacks. If you want actual mental health support please go to an accredited psychologist/ professional such as Dr Gabor Mate etc do not waste your money ohgn this individual she’s extremely deceptive
