Safety Rules For An Empath 

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Have to set boundaries with family members too

I find being single and having a hand of friends the best way to live for me personally.. Less is more

When he said "you understand them more than yourself" I felt that

Wish I would have understood this years ago, good advice!

This guy is clearly extremely spiritual and intuitive. Don’t be afraid to express your heart I’m sure us empaths understand 100%

My Mom is the biggest energy vampire who regularly violated anyone’s personal space.

I am a person that dreams all the time, even with naps, I feel I have to protect myself a lot too at night, even If I sleep for 8 hours, some times I wake up exhausted¡¡¡¡

Some people use our kindness to hurt us but I found out that also they got punished by higher power .

I subconsciously picked up on this stuff when I was younger but in moments of loneliness I've let these rules fall by the wayside

"Energy Vampire" ,wow!!!

Thank you God. Ive been waiting for you for a while now. My therapist said before I made the first appt. he knew and helped Empaths. 6 months into it everytime i brought it up he changed the subject. I had to stop seeing him even though i have many issues that have to be delt with this has to come first. I moved into a low income apt and im overwhelmed so much i dont leave my room. We have a community kitchen , dinning room and livingroom. The pain in this place is like nothing ive ever felt. So many troubled people here its heart breaking. I have no boundries and i cant seem to draw a line between my good person self and the people pleaser. Thank You .

So true about personal space. I get such overwhelming feelings from people it exhausts me. I've asked people if they feel it and they say no, what are you talking about!! As you describe, we can feel if someone ia dangerous too.

Some psychopaths get off on targeting people they perceive as weak and attempt to dominate them. And as empaths our "softness" is perceived as weakness. Psychopaths are mal adjusted and dysfunctional people that seek power and control through illicit means.

Thank you, I needed this. I'm 31 years old and I am an empath. Being an empath isn't cool. Everything you said is true. I'm glad that finally one empath is here. Thanks for being here.

The super empath for empaths 😂👏🏿

Thank you so much. I will never again let anyone in who is resentful, blaming and rageful toward women. I am not a therapist. This person really needs help. I feel so much better now that he is gone.

I am an empath. I used to think that I feel too much, then I figured out on my own that I was just feeding off everyone's emotions around me. It gets so tiring whenever I am in a crowded place and nobody understands that, always brushing me off as antisocial. I talk a lot, but I am silent when in a group. When people get to know me one on one, they often get surprised by that haha. But what I hate about this is that I want to help everyone but not everyone appreciates. Or it backfires. (I was told once by a good friend (not anymore) that everything bad happened because I was "too nice". I was depressed for a while because I couldn't understand why being too nice was a bad thing) It also gets frustrating because I feel like while I care for everyone, nobody cares for me. It is hard. Sometimes, I just want to stop feeling all of this. Because people are made to be selfish beings, and I want to be selfish for once. I had a friend who took advantage of me, took all my friends away from me by spreading lies and just the basic method of exclusion. Even though I have gotten those friends back, they still fail to understand why I still care for her. I still tell them to hang out with her because I hated that she was alone (I knew how that felt when she did it to me and would never wish it on anyone else) and they would always say: She doesnt care about you so stop caring about her. I wish I could ... Thank you for this video, although I feel like I have already been doing this recently subconsciously. (I also think a lot, so along with my "empath" traits, this makes me very...tired haha) I have set my boundary as "someone who listens to me when I speak". It sounds very sad haha but I just want someone who listens, not talking over me or dismissing the things I have to say. I want to be acknowledged, but it's hard in med school since everyone just wants to overpower each other (I can't do that haha) I'm working on it :)

Rules and boundaries are all good and fine, but that would still leave the Empath/HSP vulnerable to all invading energy and emotions, no matter how enclosed the people are. Light Bubbles and boosted aura becomes stagnant fast, but a moving barrier is your own constant flow of energy, encompassing your personal space to protect and replenish yourself, it can even be placed around your own place of residence and is easy to make. An ability of the Empath/HSP is to be able to visualise. Visualise your own aura/energy flowing from you, then visualise that energy flowing around you in a clockwise direction like you are inside a cyclone/tornado (being the eye of the storm) and the storm is consisting of your own energy, keep moving your energy faster until it surrounds you and nothing can be let in without your consent. The more that people do this the easier it becomes to manifest.

I learned starving the narcissist by closing off communication is not enough; you have to build up and fortify your heart.

There are people who are not mean or toxic but are anxious and needy. How does an empath deal with that energy drain?

How does an empath deal with a friend or person who moreso talks about themselves with little regard for how you feel, when you talk about yourself they manage to shift the conversation back to themselves and youve already communicated how it makes you feel. They are not doing it to hurt you but it does. What would the verbiage be to say to them... I feel so overwhelmed and resentful of these exchanges. This is why I tend to LOVE BEING ALONE.

Just recently started understanding boundaries are important, this video really helped explain them :)

🤯 I thought I was going crazy but you understand me so well

I barely had one ring 🙄....but I understand now that it's imperative to have more rings, great video!

Thanks so much for this. I left a church I enjoyed going to to get away from someone who was an energy vampire. Wish I'd known about all this ten years ago. I always felt drained every time I left her. Now that I know myself in a healthy way it all makes sense. Even with all the hidden struggles from the past that make sense with this.

I could feel nothing but calm and positivity coming out from him, I’m more comfortable watching him than my own entourage

I'm a iNFJ Empath a real pokie one!...this guy is legit! ...please be careful with info from RU-vid! 🔥❤

This is perfect! How to guard your energy if you’re picking up bad energy from texting someone? && what to do if you’re raised && surrounded by energy vampires?

Thank you for sharing. This is helpful. Wish I knew this a long long time ago. Much love and light 💛✨💛

This is BRILLIANT! I needed this 53 years ago.

Great sharing. Many thx. A few close friends of mine ask me to set boundary to protect myself but I have no idea how to set it up. It is really true that being an empath who has an open heart and an open mind to let all people in. An empath is always easily get hurt and manipulated. I am one of those being energetically absorbed, hurt and manipulated when come across the toxic people. How can an empath set a concrete boundary to protect himself/herself ?

I have had that happen to me with someone I met long time ago, I felt weak and drained after I spent a short amount of time with them! IT GOT REALLY SCARY!

I've felt the need to talk to certain people through barely open doors or not make eye contact when they are angry or too emotional. I wonder what I'm feeling if I detect some one is a bad person. Energy vampires can attack from a great distance. Severing a connection with people next to you helps that you dont want to absorb or connect to. I often cannot go out in public or shopping unless my guard is up or I have had a drink first. I like learning about the senses so that I can not reach out or connect. I like this video thank you. Facebook can be a dangerous place too. So I'm trying to learn not to care if people get offended when I feel confident or closed orf. It bothers some people like I'm hiding something when I'm not.

I have ASD and just got diagnosed as an adult. I am also an empath and completely turn into other people it's so hard on me and I just like to be alone with my cats. Thank you for teaching this. I can't share with everyone. My own self doesn't always even understand what is going on but people think I do because I mirror them and am so open minded. Sigh love this video and your kind tone of voice.

My could not be believe how much all the animals around me when I was I was at the zoo and a farm first on vacation in California. My cousin lives in Berkeley. She Called me "Sister of Gia." She, "Seemed like they had to been waiting for you all their lives."

Thank You very-very much for Your special blessed soul, - I wish You guided me at the beginning of my child age, to be saved from all kinds of adventures, who broked me dawn deeply all kinds of ways. The Catholic Cristionality brocked my origin high spirit-value for peases. I must build it back as was it at the beginning. You help me a lot for it, thank You forever with all my soul.

Yes beware of the Jezebel spirit's, narcissist,we attract them like a magnet 🧲 listen to your intuition don't ignore it.

Yes! Well placed boundaries are ESSENTIAL to empaths.

External supportive. Thank you.

Thank you so much!!

You are so spot on it's Crazy

Fantastic! Thank you!

Thank you so much!!!!!!

Thanks for this help.

Thank You so much for putting this video out! I have repeatedly experienced situations that started out great and then Bam! It changes to very bad deal. I just experience another on but this time I was stronger dealing with it. Your video put the missing link together! Finally!

Wow. Thank you so much.

Eye opening...thanks

I love this! Love and light!

Thank you so so much for this valuable informations! I can’t thank enough!

Makes so much sense. Thank you

Thank you so much for this information!!

Thank you . This video is very helpful!

YOU ARE EXACTLY RIGHT 👍

This is really helpful. Thanks Kirk

Thanks so much for posting this. It has been very comforting to me at this time. You are a great teacher.

Can't describe how beneficial this is!!

Connected deeply with you.

Never knew about this. Thank you.

Thanks for your wise and proactive guidance .. great guy .

Great video! I am an Empath and raising an Empath! Thanks for the info!!!

Thank you.

Great presentation thank you

Thank you

This is just what I need.

Thank you for Making these videos and sharing such impactful information.

Very useful information! Appreciate your efforts..

Thank you so much I really appreciate it this is going to help me and others 🙏

Thank you Kirk for what you do I wish I could understand this mindset years ago but as the older I get I realize that experience is the best teacher to realize contrast and we're understanding needs to be applied thank you for what you do you are truly you are a great service to humanity

OMG! You are a blessing Mr. Duncan. I have experienced this full stop and your advice is the most meaningful and practical that I've ever come across. Thank you, Thank you, Thank you!

Lights we are! Thank you

Thank you that helps me a lot

Thank you for the valuable information. 💫👋

This is brilliant!!

Thank you, very helpful and well explained. 🙏

It's really helpful. Thank you!

Thank you! It’s blessing to be empath

Why are the most kind people the most bullied...this is a great video i wish i was taught when i was young.

Seems so sensible the way he explains it. Very helpful.

Thank you for this information

Thank you so much for sharing this information with us. Very helpful. Gratitude in spades to you. 🌞❣🙏😃

Everything happens for a reason and I'm really grateful to have clicked on your video today thank you you are loved you are a beacon you are appreciated I'm subscribing

You are such a blessing . I have learned so much from you. Thank you Sir .

Thank you!

This is amazing

Wow, energy vampire is the right term. Happens to me all the time.

Wow this has really helped me see things more clearly

I feel like all of your videos were made for me. I’ve just started cutting everyone off because the wrong people keep “forcing” themselves in my life and then I get hurt. I sense their energy is not right from the beginning but they always seem to “force” themselves into my life. Now I know I need to create strong boundaries and rules so I can now engage with the right type of people, instead of doing what I’m doing now and just not letting anyone get close to me. I’ve definitely been missing out on some pretty amazing humans beings, maybe now I can finally live this thing called life. Thank you! 🥰

You nailed it dude you really know the stuff.. me and you are the same age so I should know this stuff already but I do know intuitively and I do know when people intentionally go beyond my comfort zone into my personal space what happens is all my guards go up and the Red Alert goes off. Then I tend to keep my distance from those people no matter who they are or send a signal and they pretty much no what I'm saying without me having to say word.. I have been able to read energies thoughts and feelings from animals humans and plants my entire life this is led me to a very isolated life but peaceful and calm and wholesome

Thank you🌹

Thank you very much. 🙂. That is very helpful, I did not know that. But I can now imagine as you said one day being able to sense from a distance who's dangerous and who isn't...

Omg thanks sir. Thank you 🙏🙏🙏

This is the most practical and helpful video I've come across for empath living. We need more vids like this. Although I don't know where they come up with their information, I'm subscribing to this channel. Ty!

Wow, this topic explained like this was new for me. I hade no clue that this way of thinking about other people exist and it makes a lot of sense. Yes, we empaths have to learn to navigate in this world because it is sooooooo difficult 😢 New to the channel, have subscribed and THANK YOU 🙏

❤🎉thank you so much dear angel for understanding me and help me out for this video

This video was very helpful. Thank you!!

This was the most practical and realistic advice ever. All everyone talks about doing some aura work and sage stuff. Thank you very helpful 🙏

thank you so much🙏🏻❤️

Thank you so damn much

Oh yes we need boundaries!