I have (for no specific reason) the deep feeling in my guts that something like that could happen to me 😔 I am a young women who haven’t experienced much so far 🤷🏼♀️ but somehow I can’t get that feeling away . It’s like an dripping tap who is constantly reminding me that i haven’t much life time left to live. It’s not suicidal more like an presentiment , something I can’t escape from , my destiny. It sounds weird but it’s true .
Andrea grey please go and talk to someone you trust, open your heart and take a deep breath. Hope it will be better. I understand your feelings. Sometimes I have similar ones. You’re not alone❤️❤️❤️
Andrea Kadelka oh thank you 🙏 it means a lot to me . I don’t think that it would help to speak to someone about this 😔 my fears shouldn’t affect my loved ones they shouldn’t waist thoughts about my worries it would hurt them, some would believe that I am insane 😕 but I have it under control it’s not overpowering my day to day life . I am stronger than my fears 🙅🏼♀️
You're right on point. There are also good people , who would stop this evil dead in its tracks if they could. And as for someone who equates people eating meat with serial killers? There are some truly F'ed up people in this world that don't understand the true meaning of evil. To try and equate the two? That in and of itself is evil ( and for the record, I'm a vegetarian ).
A lot of celts, Anglo’s and Germanics are blonde, red head with bright green or blue eyes. That’s why people who look like her should never ever race mix and destroy her future kids genetics. Never race mix. Ever!
Scottslaw Well, eventually someone would probably noticed someone's car was out there way too long and they would find his dead body, but that's not really important at all.
he was doing it due to some trauma. When he was young his mother forced him to steal and his father was abusive from what i remember. Either way, this doesn't excuse the monster he became and his actions.
My sister took her life Oct. 09 2017, I watch this movie whenever I need to cry. I feel that soairse was art "disturb the comfortable and comfort the disturbed " it literally is my favorite movie.
Im so sorry..may the Lord comfort you...I dont know why things happen but its to make us stronger.. I pray you stay strong. Ive had two friends commit suicide..they were so young back when it happened..16. Stay strong
the book is great, but the movie is stupid. If you watch this review then you might understand ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-dH_ptwK3bg8.html
You're right it was way worse in the books. But that wouldve been such a dark movie to put all of that in the movie. Expecially when she sees her mom and dad and sister try to cope with it all. Its such a sad book, it wouldve been so dark if they put that all in the movie.
i think it’s better to read that part then to see it with your own eyes, plus i think it would be to hard to film that, but reading that part was really eerie and i can’t believe that it’s the last thing some children go through before they die, why must there be evil in this world
in the movie The rape scene is not seen the director decided not to show it but in the book I read how he raped Susie inside that hole he took her life there's a pedophile at Mr Harvey in this world there everywhere
It's the bodies that will never be found that breaks my heart. Loved ones need closure and for their bodies to never be seen again just breaks my heart.
My name is salmon, like the fish, first name suzie” my bad i just had to correct it bc every since i seen the movie that sentence really is deep i remember it heavy😭
The day I watched this movie, was the first time I seen my man cry. We’ve been together 9 years. And it was in 2010 that we watched it. After the movie, we lay in bed just staring at each other. And then he said ‘you’re gorgeous’ and a couple tears ran down his face. It was one of those moments I’ll cherish forever. I think the film really moved him and opened him up. I love this film now for more than just the the beautiful story, but it contributed to ours.
Same. I was watching it one day and my bf came in and said what are you watching?? I explained so he sat with me through the whole movie and definitely teared up. I haven't watched it in a few years. It broke my heart 💔
I know this is a comment from a year ago but I just finished reading the book and the movie feels like a bootleg of the book. The movie is nothing like the book and it’s kind of disappointing, though the characters in the movie fit the book for me, they left out so many other characters.
@@psychonauticz But you realize that movie is only 2 hours, it can't have all the details and characters, it's just impossible due to time (and financial) constraints. The main criteria is to capture the spirit/message and the characters. That's all we can hope for in books -movies' adaptations.
Eugeniya Leshenko Yeah, I’m aware of that, it just seemed like a whole different movie to me. I still enjoyed it, it’s just a little disappointing. I do know that it’s tough to fit detail in the movie from the book, it’s just that they left out a lot. They could’ve added a couple more scenes from the book, but it’s a great movie nonetheless!
The first time I saw this movie it made me really mad. How this insignificant person ended her life and for the pain her family was left with. But it made me realize that life isn't always filled with happy endings. Bad things do happen and it's always best to go with your gut feeling when something doesn't feel right. It could save your life.
That is very true because serial killers do exist. This is why you need to be careful who you trust because the world isn't all cupcakes and rainbows. Yes not everything about our world is bad, but not everything about our world is good either.
@@jademckenzie2074The neighbor is in the bathtub relaxing after he just raped and killed Susie and her ghost is seeing the aftermath of her death. Like the blood and mud coating the bathroom and the look of satisfaction on the killer's face. Its just a scary and heartbreaking moment because she realizes physically, she is gone.
She speaks so maturely shes my favourite actress she can really make a movie without her in a movie it wouldnt work she is just amazing at what she does
This movie was directed brilliantly!!! I literally cried through the whole movie because it basically make you think about the little girl that was raped and killed and how she felt and maybe wear she went after death!!! I wanted more revenge far as her father beating his face completely off!! It showed how leave venges to God and he will take care of things!!
It took me years to be able to look at Tucci again. Now that’s the mark of a great actor. I’ve seen many interwiews with him, and i’m relieved that he is such a sweet gentle man.
It's giving me a little bit of satisfaction knowing that people who went in for pedophilia and sexual assault/rape of a minor get beat up by other prisoners in jail. According to my uncle who's a retired police officer, the prison guards just let them get beat up because they hate them as well.
honestly this movie was so depressing, the man literally shoved her in a safe like she was nothing. Her innocence and her life was taken away, and she suffered more while watching her parents mourn. As her mother wanted to forget it all, yet couldn’t. You also saw how the murdered, he watched her live sister, and you could see he was building something, most likely a design to attract the sister. Then the girls came, and asked salmon if she was ready to be put to rest, and have peace in that beautiful place, and the fact the girls didn’t get discovered, only salmons murder did, but the girls also got put to rest. Beautiful movie and a terribly frightful, but true plot. god that scene almost made me sob, it did actually. The little girl was only about 4 or 6, and said he “ONLY” wanted to touch her, which, I’m sure he had intentions to rid of the beautiful child as well, but she screamed. To top it off, the safe that held salmon was pushed into that hole and sunk to the ground, down, down, down, in the mud. The sister, oh I couldn’t imagine living across the road with your sisters supposed killer. In the end, she could have peace, her sister helped SO MUCH, with that. I’ll never forget the tragedies she faced and to think this happens to girls/boys around the world! people are the problem.
I liked the movie is that weird it was soooo sad .its real life he died at the end and that made me happy. Often murderers are never caught or seem to pay for terrible crimes that they have committed. The families have no closure it sucks.
This movie got to me because a girls her age and a friend of my brothers was killed in 1973 she was 14 and was killed by a man who was let out of prison early it was terrible. This movie brought back the memories of her but back then girls hitchhiked and that is what she was doing. I loved the music in this movie too Brian Eno one of my favorite musicians.
The fact the family never got _closure_ with finding her and burying her was done to reflect the reality of life. Life is not fair. We do not choose when or how we die, we do not choose our family, we can never have this idea of true _closure_ because no one knows for certain where the _close_ of this life leads to next. The author has mentioned this in interviews. The reason we only see Susie in the "in-between" place and we never see what heaven looks like is because we are not meant to know if there even is one. It's the human spirit and the hope we have that creates one for her in our own minds. The idea behind depicting the realistic tragedy of a young life lost in such a horrific way juxtaposed with happy flashbacks is to remind us of the sheer pleasure we can and should take in our everyday lives while we have the chance. We may not be here tomorrow, so let us take advantage of every moment we have left today.
@@catlover1039 everyone dies, that's not what I wanted I wanted him to sit awaiting the jury's decision while the faces of his victims families sat haunting him
Watch out for next door neighbor, I have a dirty old man named Jim who lives next door to me and all he does is watch all the young girls in the neighborhood sneakily . watch your children because this stuff happens much to often.
I was swimming in my apartment pool with some friends and noticed this man staring from his balcony. I was the only one that noticed at first, then I told my friends to discreetly look and they saw him touching himself and we ran out as fast as we could and called the cops. My dad confronted him too and he ended up moving at the end. But I have never felt comfortable swimming in that pool again. It sucks feeling like you’re being watched in a malicious way. Be careful everyone and be vigilant at all times!!
@@kimberly.abundance3084 Omg I can’t imagine how scared and disgusted I would have felt in this situation- to know that someone sees you as an object for pleasure. That’s sickening I hope you’re ok right now.
I love the sound of Saoirse's voice when she says as Susie, "I wasn't lost or frozen or gone, I was alive. I was alive in my own perfect world." Or when she says, "no one notices when we live, I mean the moment when we really choose to go. At best you feel a wwhihssssperrrr or the wave of a whisper" Just listen to the voice and the tone when she says that. It's so poetically beautiful. It's slightly high-pitched, but it's whispery and breathy just like a dream. It has that crystal glassy quality. I think the director deliberately chose that kind of tone for Susie's narration in the movie. Because even the novel emphasizes the nature of dreams vs reality on a thematic level. The whole movie has that relaxed dreamy quality. Even Susie's dreams in the in-between.
I have seen and read multiple perspectives on this movie, and most people came away with despondency, or a feeling of dread, or just a lack of closure. I didn't feel this way at all. I remember watching this movie soon after a friend of mine had passed away. I felt that this movie described a sensation I was experiencing, that feeling that someone is still here, that there is an in between where someone isn't quite ready to leave. I could feel my friend with me, I felt his presence, he was restless, he felt truly lost just like Susie. This movie helped me with my grief, allowed me to feel it, to treat it as it's own character in my life. Loss is a reality. Death and grief are real. I think its important for us to make space for these things in our lives, and not to let them suffocate us.
This movie made me cry several times. I'm a man and it made me cry like a baby. Especially at the end when she meets with the other girls who met similar fates, and you see the little 6 year old girl.
That was kind of the point of the introduction of the movie. Susie lets us know that this kind of stuff was rare at that time and so there was little information or knowledge about these kinds of things.
In the book actually a neighbor's dog finds her elbow so they know she died, he dismembered her body and put it in the safe that's why there was a significant amount of blood
I stumbled upon the movie late one night and thought it was just beautiful. Then, I found the book in storage and it ABSOLUTELY blew me away. It was beautifully written and it truly touched me. I could feel what she was feeling , that’s how good it was.
Saoirse Ronan, if you ever see this, I want you to know that you are my inspiration for wanting to become an actress just like you. I hope that I get to meet you someday, you are amazing, beautiful, and talented.
This is one of those movies I don't want to watch again because it hurts me so much. It's not even about crying, it's about the pain I feel during and after the movie. I can't just move on like other people, I'll be in pain for a while whenever I watch these type of movies. The worst part is that this is so real, and it happens everyday, somewhere in the world. Beautiful masterpiece what they made, it makes you feel so much.
SR was such a beautiful child/teenager in this. Her face is stunning and so bright with life, just perfect for the character. So glad she's gone on to more acting rolls, quite a talented young lady
I cried on this movie I remembered my friends who were killed without justice. And everyone is moving on. And they were both young. And we are growing old and living our lives and they are not here anymore. They just live like that.
Its was really hard for me to understand the movie because it came out when i was really young i didnt get the story, when i watched it now i fully understand the story and it amazes me bravo 👏 also i cried.
This is the most beautiful, sad, scary story i’ve ever seen in my life, I cried thinking about how they never found her body and how the police never got to arrest him.
I was around 8-9 when I watched this the first time. This felt like my first heartbreak ever, I felt terrible for days. Then I watched it again when I was around 12 and I had the same emotions and I have bawled my eyes for years because of this movieZ
Ryan gosling was originally cast for the role of the father. He thought the character should be a little more portly so he gained 60 pounds when he replaced drinking water with melted ice cream. He was fired on the spot when he showed up a month later.
everyone in the comments talking about they hated how the body was never found or they felt like they never really moved on or healed after watching this movie and i’m thinking,,that’s the whole point , isn’t it? the sad thing is susie’s story happens to many young people every single day, and most the times their bodies never get found, most the time the perpetrator never gets caught, and most the time the people who knew the victim never truly move on from them. it’s a realistic story, and it does an amazing job showing the grief and realness that comes with these situations, all the while making it whimsical from susies POV in the in between - it gives the loved ones of these real life cases some form of comfort thinking about their deceased’s soul being completely at peace. i love this movie
