Saucy Santana, Devale Ellis & Mack Wilds Discuss Homophobia, Black Women & More | For The Fellas

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Just in time for the holidays, the Fellas explore topics ranging from mental health to sexuality. We're honored to provide a safe space for men to have honest discussions and share their experiences with y'all #ForTheFellas #vh1
0:00 Intro
1:32 Describe this chapter in your life
5:54 Life lessons
09:33 My Life. My Family.
11:53 Everyone is welcome at For The Fellas
17:00 Just because you are gay, does not mean you are soft!
19:22 Protect Black Women
26:26 How straight Black men can be LGBTQ allies
32:34 Gay influence on the culture
35:00 AYO PAUSE
38:00 Let’s raise our kids in LOVE and not SURVIVAL
44:30 Everything AIN’T for social media
45:46 Saucy Santana doesn’t want his son to be gay
52:00 The Fellas share their one wish for the holidays
54:55 The Fellas discuss how much is too much to spend on a partner for Christmas
01:01:49 The Fellas give advice to their younger selves
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@krazykingyahschannel 5 месяцев назад

This made me cry, shout-out to these AMAZING BLACK MEN, who has a listening ear to the LBGTQIA+ community. Don't ever think we don't see you, hear you and respect you because we do🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

@charleslowery4416 5 месяцев назад

❤❤❤

@kennyhumble3699 5 месяцев назад

Exactly, they don't know how much that means to us

@krazykingyahschannel 5 месяцев назад

@@kennyhumble3699 💯💯💯💯💯

@deneciajp 5 месяцев назад

Wow I thought I was just emotional but made me shed a tear too , 🤎☺️

@krazykingyahschannel 5 месяцев назад

@@deneciajp lol this is what needs to be shown on TV, not the divide and conquer.

@drippinchocolateboutique6732 5 месяцев назад

Santana was needed here I love this so much and how he’s treated and respected

@honeycomb485 5 месяцев назад

Agreed

@tyrellanderson4722 5 месяцев назад

NO...

@IAMAGOD1982 5 месяцев назад

They are all men at the end of the day and they will make a way!

@RainAprilDiamond 5 месяцев назад

He is so sweet I loved him he kind and I love the way he will protect a women.

@LisaJoB2024 4 месяца назад

I’m with you!

@DoctaGrimes 5 месяцев назад

Had me tearing up when Devale shared the story about how he flipped his son’s aversion of the “gay couple next door” by humanizing them with ppl his son didn’t even know were gay, but already accepted and loved. That really showed Devale’s and his son’s depth of character. Mutual respect and understanding is so much more valuable than rejection bc everyone can walk away better ppl and having grown. Much respect to all the upstanding BM here! You were all amazing and inspiring!

@clariseharrington8252 5 месяцев назад

Amen

@Worldshottestpariah 2 месяца назад

Why is u worried about the gay couple next door people need to mind they business

@miraclesblessings5044 5 месяцев назад

Saucy is speaking like a father already. A father does not want their children to be in danger. I love the way they are sitting around chopping it up like real bruhs. No pretentions... just black men talking. I'm loving it.❣️❣️❣️

@kiaburnett3720 5 месяцев назад

This podcast spoke volumes!!! I love the embrace all 3 men had for Santana. This was beyond what we need for our black community. THANK YOU

@clariseharrington8252 5 месяцев назад

Facts

@SadgeDupre 5 месяцев назад

I hope this conversation reaches a million views; it's truly needed, shedding light on black men in a positive way against the negativity often portrayed on the internet. Like yes good black men exist

@clariseharrington8252 5 месяцев назад

Facts😊

@Songtresskelli3287 5 месяцев назад

I live for how they made Santana feel included in the conversation!!!!

@lolakapreeh 5 месяцев назад

Yalll…. I’m in tears when he said “you’re one of the fellas” we need more of this 🙏🏽😊

@lovemehateme54 5 месяцев назад

in a world filled with so much toxic masculinity this was a breath of fresh air. love to see it! more of this PLEASE!!

@katrinataylor7785 5 месяцев назад

And to see 4 men that respect women👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

@jastoAHAVA 5 месяцев назад

What does toxic masculinity mean?

@jackdoubleu3251 5 месяцев назад

@jas9507 As a black man its a mask you realize you have to wear around the age of 8 , and if you dont wear it, your consider a punk or soft, its a box you have to put yoursel finto in orderto survive. That alpha male bullshit

@mysticIvy324 5 месяцев назад

Devale is a real dude, you can tell he's got a lot of heart. ❤

@marlopayne1324 5 месяцев назад

I love the way these men interacted and showed ALL LOVE for each other!

@akii824 5 месяцев назад

This show was a BEAUTIFUL demonstration of black men organically conversing on a deeper level about life issues, and sports wasn't the center of the conversation. We need more of this.❤❤❤

@mikemusically5067 5 месяцев назад

Who ever put this cast together is wise, you might not like gay lifestyle but I am glad that brothers of all lifestyle can talk.. WE all black men and we are really all we got is each other. As long as boundaries can be respected and honor. we can sit, eat and discuss topics that concern black, black men and pop culture.

@dpeon242 5 месяцев назад

It doesn’t even matter someone’s thoughts on the ‘gay lifestyle’ because at the end of the day that’s just someone’s opinion/prejudice. Treating people with respect and acknowledging the humanity of others is the character trait of a solid ‘man’.

@martineterrell1798 5 месяцев назад

So happy to see our brothers talking, discussing, and checking in with one another. Tristan Mack Wilds favors Michael Ealy.

@treesasabato7547 5 месяцев назад

He kinda reminds me of young DL Hughley too, but I definitely see Michael Ealy

@deljean 4 месяца назад

Thought tht too

@honeybee591 5 месяцев назад

almost shed a tear when you said “you one a the fellas” to Saucy big ups there needs to be more ppl like this 🥹♥️

@lanea1645 5 месяцев назад

Me too

@curjescott9205 5 месяцев назад

You can tell all these black men were raised great 💯 so well mannered and respectful I love it 🖤

@armanigreen9317 5 месяцев назад

Saucy is really out here breaking down barriers for us 👏🫶

@kennyhumble3699 5 месяцев назад

Right I love him so much

@lovejoyful606 4 месяца назад

Yes I'm happy about this. Mothers love to see there sons happy strong and accepted.

@kashmeremajesty2163 5 месяцев назад

Wow wow wow, this was very much needed in America. 3 heterosexual men and one gay male.......... all having a positive and respectful conversation. I love it. I live for it. I stand with it.

@BossLady-iw5hp 5 месяцев назад

This panel was absolutely GOLD!

@deejay9379 5 месяцев назад

Wow! Just feeling a happiness inside from watching this conversation. I'm 52 yo Gay Black man and I wished conversation/ camaraderie could be had in Black barber shops.

@diontawilliams7059 3 месяца назад

Deejay, i wholeheartedly agree because I'm 28, live in Atlanta and I'm a black gay man and when i had to get haircuts in the hood, i always dreaded it. Maybe things are improving as the world continues to grow, but barbershops, back in the 2000s, for a confused, timid little boy like myself, was scary.

@deejay9379 3 месяца назад

Thank YOU! Dionta, for sharing. People don't know that "The barbershop" is an uncomfortable place just to receive a professional style haircut. I would bet, still the same today. @@diontawilliams7059

@VENIKA 5 месяцев назад

I LOVE the inclusion of Santana in this discussion, as Black people we must constantly speak out about phobias and stigmas to ensure we’re not normalising them. The Protect Black Women segment was important but it’s also that we name names and speak to SPECIFIC situations.

@voncollins5814 5 месяцев назад

This conversation is so healthy amongst our Black Men 💪🏾✊🏾

@MarcusMartn 5 месяцев назад

✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾

@MarcusMartn 5 месяцев назад

We need more of this stop pushing gay black men aside like we don’t exist I’m glad they gave this platform for all these men to sit with each other and talk and bond

@evdeshawn 5 месяцев назад

Thank yall for this and having Santana. I’m a black gay creator from the hood and this reminded me so much of how me and my cousins speak! Understanding comes from both sides. Completely understand how he felt not having ppl wanting to work with me because of me being gay. But I refuse to give up!

@Lipsticknlyricsz 5 месяцев назад

Don’t give up!

@ashleycooper6967 5 месяцев назад

We need more of this !!! I love men supporting each other 🥲👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@cdubb_ 5 месяцев назад

I love when I see blk-het-men treat gay blk with the same dignity, respect, etc, understanding that letting ppl be their authentic selves does not diminish their sexuality IN ANY WAY. Bless yall.

@ericdwhitmorec 5 месяцев назад

I'm so glad that Devale shared that story. That's how bigotry and discrimination works, in all levels. it gets you to dehumanize a person, and not see them as a person...before you even get to know them. Once that is out of the equation it's almost impossible for bigotry and discrimination to happen, because if you see someone as a person first, you then have to judge them on their actions. Devale's removed that shroud for his son, his son then judged the man by his actions, as a person. In turn the man cried, because as Saucy says he probably has been through so many situations of being dehumanized and lost people he thought were friends and made to feel small.

@zenafaye7183 5 месяцев назад

I taught my children the same way. We as a people should never be supporting the disrespect or dehumanization of anyone, given our history and what we still deal with and that's exactly why I teach my children the same thing. They are all very respectful of our great diversity!

@babymonster206 5 месяцев назад

Great discussion, I absolutely love this. We need more 👍🏿, as a gay black man I would love to have these type of open conversations with other straight black men on life

@thehealtrix 5 месяцев назад

This conversation is filled with wisdom, understanding & perspective shifts! I really wish more men with podcasts talked about more topics of substance such as this! I loved every second of this✨👏🏽

@_rylboygorg 5 месяцев назад

Why can’t I have a circle of men around me like this? Black men actually accepting and embracing another black man that’s different from them ❤❤❤❤

@zenafaye7183 5 месяцев назад

I loved this show! For the first time in my life, I felt like I was watching a true brotherhood, where each one was listening to and respecting each other's story. This is what the enemy fears! They want us distrusting and fighting one another over the small things we may not have in common, over the greatest things that we do have in common! You have a new subbie here. I would love to see more brotherhood and sisterhood videos like this!

@KiayaCash 5 месяцев назад

This was the healthiest conversation and interaction I’ve ever seen amongst men ! Amazing ! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

@MsDaniB314 5 месяцев назад

This was so needed! I really enjoyed this dialogue. It’s so beautiful to see a room of Black men all different from each other having real conversations and open to hear viewpoints different from each other. Black Brotherhood exists in all forms. ✊🏾💜💜💜

@hdakickking6953 5 месяцев назад

This was so powerful, I've been watching Tristen since the Wire and also had the pleasure of meeting him yrs ago. Devale , the best dad ever and been following u since Full Circle and Saucy my LBGTQUIA brother been following since day 1 , I'm loving your come up , much love to u and all these positive brothers, God Bless...we need more discussions like this

@tamikiajones2815 5 месяцев назад

We need to see this show every week different group of men from different walks of life

@clarissaadams1676 5 месяцев назад

I actually love the mixture of this panel. This is beautiful. ❤ Very Progressive ❤

@77RedBone 5 месяцев назад

I love the dynamic of this group and how they made each of them feel welcomed!

@lakeishajones4787 Месяц назад

My heart is so warmed. Watching black men heal one another through conversation. Beautiful! Salute to these Kings.

@shylamac7664 5 месяцев назад

I loved this ! So many important topics were touched, and valid points were made. LGBTQ ppl are still ppl who deserve respect. Sexuality shouldn't separate us!

@tydasiawilliams6632 5 месяцев назад

this is one of the greatest convos ive seen!! it was real authentic energy and I love that for them and I hope people have more of these convos

@ScrappysMama 5 месяцев назад

I love this for all parties involved. Safe spaces and maturity are critical for conversations like this. I applaud all of these men for standing in their own truth and showing up as their authentic selves. A beautiful display of black men.

@msblackloveful 4 месяца назад

Absolutely hands down the best men conversations i have witnessed in a long time. All different walks of life but share common experiences.

@spadis19 4 месяца назад

This is what bridging the gap looks like. This is awesome. The black community needs more dialogue like this. The ignorance is no different than Black vs. White. The treatment is the same. The strength is in numbers.

@larhondaburchett3271 5 месяцев назад

I loved EVERY 👏🏾SINGLE 👏🏾THING ABOUT THIS!!!! We need more conversations like this. Especially with our Black Men. I smiled, I laughed, and I cried. It was cleansing for the soul! Peace and blessings to each and every one of you who sees this! ❤🖤💚💪🏾✊🏾

@diontawilliams7059 3 месяца назад

Loving this deep conversation between them especially with Santana. I'm a black gay man and I appreciate you guys for sharing this safe space with us. As black men within the LGBTQ+ scene, particularly feminine and flamboyant, we oftentimes don't feel safe around straight black men on being ourselves and express vulnerability. Sometimes whenever we are around a straight guy and the vibes he giving ain't friendly, we code-switch (a masculine facade or at least tone it down behavior) to make the individual feel safe instead of us. Over the years, I'm a bit open to expanding my friendships and rapports with straight guys but i still have to keep my guard up like most black men in general.

@archiate 5 месяцев назад

With so many debates for the sake of opposition out there this is so refreshing!

@Reeses710 5 месяцев назад

Absolutely amazing group of black men!! These topics, open dialogue & transparency was greatly needed and appreciated --cont'd blessings to you all!

@ljayoliver274 3 месяца назад

This was so refreshing to see. I wish there were more spaces like this in our communities, and I hope and pray that this catches on like wildfire. The older I get as a black gay man I feel like the further I get from my actual Black culture. I crave in need my Black masculine and Black feminine culture. I love my people, but sometimes I just don’t feel like they love me back. Love this ❤❤❤❤

@wandafaison6515 4 месяца назад

This is a wonderful conversation it is very well needed on a larger platform love it GO Deval and friends

@theclassicmannpat.9713 5 месяцев назад

I salute you gentlemen ! This was such a success is because each of you are courageous, brave and solid & secure with who you are as a man which allowed you all to sit together as black men and have these tough conversations about the uncomfortable and uneasy topics . I have had the chance to sit on a few panels myself as a Black Gay Male and it’s not easy . Gentlemen you have created , modeled & set the table for so many of these conversations like this to be had . S/O to whomever was in charge of choosing these gentlemen ! Well done fellas !

@elijahmims1928 5 месяцев назад

I wish stuff like this happened more often! This was so beautiful and had me smiling ear to ear. Santana is hilarious lmfaoooo. Both gay and straight black men need to come together like this more often. We shouldn't be at each others throats because at the end of the day we are BLACK MEN. We both know what it feels like to be oppressed by the majority, so why do it to each other? ❤💯

@kennyhumble3699 5 месяцев назад

Bish shut up, it's that outfit, I love what you're wearing, that's so cute, can I plz borrow that?! Lol

@drzanthonyb.preston9274 5 месяцев назад

Exactly!!! It’s a powerful moment

@ensabahnur3104 5 месяцев назад

It's just the way he said "cause I grew up... Hood." You could see the whole journey playing out... I felt that

@macphallic 5 месяцев назад

This was wonderful! We truly are out here healing out loud and proudly TOGETHER!

@tkm1875 5 месяцев назад

Loved EVERYTHING about this. This needs 100 million views. Such a healthy and fun conversation and vibe. I could watch the 4 of them do a talk show forreal!❤ So tired of male podcasts that do nothing but project hate and aggression, and perpetuate opposition. We need TOGETHERNESS! PERIOD!

@marstallings 5 месяцев назад

This conversation was fantastic. It truly shed light on somethings for me. Thank you for transparency Kings!

@DesiderataVio 5 месяцев назад

This is beautiful! 🙏🏾 Wonderful to see people spreading LOVE!! 🙏🏾 I'm here for all the realistic positivity. Life isn't perfect, we all have problems, but we can all try to learn and grow. 🙏🏾

@peaceanhairgrease 5 месяцев назад

This was AMAZING!!!!!!!!!! I love the representation of black men 😍😍😍!

@kieshame888 5 месяцев назад

This was super dope! Very insightful discussion. Much respect and blessings to you all.

@tamikiajones2815 5 месяцев назад

We definitely need to see the show every week with a different group of men from different backgrounds

@danitaelder901 5 месяцев назад

I enjoyed this real men conversation I can tell by Saucy Santana's body language he felt comfortable which is a beautiful thing it's about inclusion am I my brothers keeper...

@ethershakur4768 5 месяцев назад

We need more of this for the real black community

5 месяцев назад

I loved this so much four men from four different walks of life coming together to support one another and be there for one another to allow each other to have a safe space while also having those uncomfortable conversation was very much so needed. Keep it up.

@drzanthonyb.preston9274 5 месяцев назад

Now this how black brothers supposed to love each other and they’re comfortable with who they are

@tiffersiz2012 5 месяцев назад

This is an AMAZING Conversation👏. Stuff like this NEEDS to go viral smh!!

@relationshipcoachingwithni4517 5 месяцев назад

THIS IS BEAUTIFUL!!!! l am iin my 50's and they ALL spoke to my heart for real. l identified with everyone of these men in different ways. Thank you all so much for your representation for our community.

@Ad_314 5 месяцев назад

This was lit. Now people can really see how that minority of people try to make their voice the loudest and put people against eachother. This was beautiful 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾 Reall black Kings

@OfficialJalenHemphill 5 месяцев назад

Great Episode & Much Needed Conversation. I'm Super Glad Things Are Opening Up & Being Brought to Light Now. We're All Living This Human Experience & Have Our Own Lives & Experiences That Shine a Light On Us Black Men The Way It Should. I Definitely Feel Heard & Seen Because of This Episode Too. 💯💯💯

@gennijackson3317 5 месяцев назад

This was a great conversation amongst black men with different lives. This was a great safe space and to see 3 black straight men being so welxoming to Santana was refreshing.

@NasiaLaFee 5 месяцев назад

This was so good! I’m so proud and feel so happy to witness this. Y’all are all amazing

@fallonc5037 5 месяцев назад

Love this video! I love how honest they all are and all the topics they spoke on. Definitely need more content like this!

@boppinwitboochie2415 5 месяцев назад

❤❤❤ My good sis and inspiration Saucy sitting with the menz...showing yall we can conduct ourselves ND sit with str8 men ND be chill ND talk just like them.

@jennifercollins4802 5 месяцев назад

Fantastic!!!!.4 of yall needs podcasts TOGETHER ❤️..This what we all Needs...I REALLY believe that ..the 4 of yall shall go all way up with this...Much Much Love ❤️ ❤❤❤

@khaiclardy3966 5 месяцев назад

This was everything. Thank you thank you thank you. Devale, Saucy, Mack I love you each individually and infinitely. Thanks for sharing ❤

@LowkeyMikeyyy 5 месяцев назад

Amazing interview kings! Shoutout to the production team too! Top tier! 🔥🔥🔥👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👑👑👑

@DenaSimone 5 месяцев назад

I have f chills and I’m about to cry! Thank you so much for doing this, black men come in many shapes, sizes and personalities. Now let me watch.

@nattydredka 5 месяцев назад

This was sooooo good. We need more of this. Love each one of them. Thank you for sharing!!! I see you Black Men. We love and need you. What up @mackwilds!!!

@helloNeptune70 5 месяцев назад

This was so impactful, funny, informative...I'd watch this if it was a weekly show😊

@hottietottie9 5 месяцев назад

Love this! Need more content like this! This was beautiful to see and refreshing ☺️☺️☺️

@faithbylatrice 5 месяцев назад

Man! I knew this was going to be great!! There very authentic, vulnerable and transparent men. ❤️❤️❤️✨✨✨we need so many more conversations like these!

@KraziVokalz 5 месяцев назад

Great conversation and its refreshing to hear such intelligent conversations and relevant current dialogue. Devale amd Mack are so mature and conscious of their responses and it seems to be so authentic and im here for it.

@BreatheEasyBabeYT 5 месяцев назад

❤❤❤ I appreciate these gentlemen for respecting each other

@mimib731 5 месяцев назад

This is beautiful. LOVED the conversation. More of this please ❤

@ninarenay9204 4 месяца назад

I absolutely loved this!!! Saucy is a whole character & I’m living for it!!! Devale & Mack are Kings, & the wisdom & understanding that was shared was truly beautiful & lovely to see it! Stay blessed Kings🙏🏾🫶🏾👑 continue wearing your crowns proudly✊🏾👑

@thatsonperiod 5 месяцев назад

this was a beautiful video, huge shoutout to Devale and Mack for being so open and willing to learn, it’s very respectable, santana explained everything wonderfully.

@yari2999 4 месяца назад

I love this interview so much in so many ways 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

@jovsade 5 месяцев назад

I love this! We need more of these conversations.

@nicolecampbell624 4 месяца назад

I LOVED EVERYTHING about this show. I learned a LOT; not just about these amazing men, but it allowed me to look into myself and know what I need to do better for myself, family and loved ones. THANK YOU guys for being GREAT!