This is brilliant. I have just been told by my therapist about this. I intend to go back to school and study psychology here in Ireland. I would like to work with parents of children with ASD and other needs. I have raised my son to 18 yesterday and there is no help here in Ireland for parents just a lot of talk that goes nowhere. Love what your doing.
my angry child started popping up after my 25th birthday, now at 31 I cannot hold my tongue when I see an injustice and have cussed absolute strangers out because they were being c*nts.
Great explanation. So much easier to understand than academic handouts. I particularly liked the mention of boundaries at 9:10, so often missing or met with psychological reactance
Cool vid, thanks for the insight. Hadn't been familiar with this 'mode' terminology or way of understanding anger in kids. I agree that 'anger facilitates change' and I appreciate how you explain things! Thanks again
You have great content on schema therapy and this video was also really useful. I'm just not sure that venting anger in the manner recommended here could necessarily help to manage aggression in a healthy way. Some studies talk about how the catharsis theory to manage aggression can be ineffective. (Does venting anger feed or extinguish the flame? Catharsis, rumination, distraction, anger, and aggressive responding. Brad J. Bushman. Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 28, 6, 2002). I really appreciate your work, thanks a lot!
@@thePSYCHcollective I see. Do you have any videos on how to deal with this when it arises, I know you touched on it briefly but I really feel like I need to know why I am this way.
I follow ur series of videos related to Schema therapy this is really helpful and informative, plz can u share a reference book or any other authentic source of information related to ST. Thank you.
I think you can start with Reinventing Your Life. Is for the general public. Then, Schema therapy a practitioner's guide. Both from Jeffrey Young and Janet Klosko.
Sometimes I get angry say with my partner because is not being fair or fulfilling my needs, but even if she apologizes and do stuff to make up, I can't calm down... Same happened as a child.. got stuck a bit and needed that people apologize several times... Maybe I just felt safe in that emotion so I wanted to linger 🤪 Now I'm thinking that I should do more of Self-love than Selfish-love