Lil Donald Daughter Grows up and sees a very possible future if she doesn't follow the "Se7en Rules" he is trying to teach her. #LilDonald #Dobetter #Se7enrules Triggerwarning!!!
This song is amazing it brought tears to my eyes. I’m 24 and these are things that I wish my father was around to teach me, but I had to learn the hard way. Thank you for teaching your daughters early ❤
Me toooo I started crying tears for all the love I never got from my dad and how I repeated that pattern thru most of the men in my life. I'm happily married now but, it took a LOT of pain to get to the healing... Love that a brother put this message out here ❤
Listening to this as I’m going through court with my abuser who is also the father of my child. This is amazing to have a man make a song like this. We need more men to have the same outlook this man has. His daughters are so lucky to have him as a father to protect them!
Going thru the same thing divorced finally after 13+ years very violent n abusive he's a narcissistic demon seed that almost killed me multiple times very scary man. Still dealing wit the consequences of the after math of leaving him he was just released from jail again after violating the PFA (PROTECTION FROM ABUSE) ORDER its very very traumatic im scared n so is my kids everyday
U keep your head up, stay strong. Always keep God first. Keep praying for guidelines, God will help u thru this. I been there, & no it's not easy, I use to get beat on, so I kn the feeling. Just stay safe and b careful. Hold on to your faith. I will b 58 next month, 30 years ago, I felt that pain. God bless u & your family, good luck with everything ❤
I haven't listened yet... GOD put in on my feed FS. Living in a DV shelter with my four kids. My ex came to the shelter today. I have been retraining myself on how to live basically since I left my 18 year relationship. Along with life throwing everything at me at once. GOD is my shelter and my provider. Everything good is from my Father. ....now to enjoy the song 💜 PS praying GODs justice will rule in your case. 💜
Can we please make this go viral. This is the message our community needs to hear. Please share this to all your social media platforms and followers. Well done l’il Donald
It’s never too late for the daughters to learn, regardless to age. And the message doesn’t have to come from blood, just has to resonate. This is a gift.. that many of us may wonder why we didn’t receive. We must realize it’s always in perfect timing though.
National anthem to protect all women AND men too. It’s not just women that get abused. Men do too, especially those in the LGTQ community, and they stay way too silent! We need to rise above and treat each other with love, dignity and respect. This video and message is right on and powerful. Thank you 🙏🏾
Lost my father last month today’s my birthday and hearing this rn makes realize how lucky I was to have had him in my life POPS I WONT LET YOU DOWN I’ll forever be daddy’s girl rest up 🖤💔😭
I was with my abuser for 5yrs b4 I got away from him. This isn't just a song. It's deeper...way deeper than that. I sent this to my 2 oldest daughter's because I am a victim and these are 7rules to always always keep front in your mind. Always do a background check.
My sister taught me that bc tip. She said when you met a new guy you like, enter name and dob into your local municipalities court records. I did this with the last guy I dated. He had drunk driving, domestic violence (2x), stole the girls' car, child endangering, and kidnapping. I f'd up and brought it up to him. He was shocked and visibly irritated that I looked him up. Needless to say, we don't talk anymore.
I did the same. My oldest daughter will be 25 October. She is dating a guy who is actively serving overseas in the Navy and will be coming back to base in Florida. We live in Ohio and he wants her to move to Florida in October when he comes back. He has had a couple of leaves where she's been flown there to see him when he's not on the ship. He has already shown her extreme violence behind closed doors and he's an alcoholic. He has a roommate who had overheard 1 of the incidents and he got involved to help her. I can't stomach the thought of her living in Florida and I am in Ohio and I can't help her asap if she needed it. I couldn't even fly there to help her. This relationship is not a healthy one and of course, I hear the words from my daughter saying I am an adult and can make my own choices and if he hurts me then I will leave. He has already hurt her. He has also flown her there and when he left the airport while she was coming back home, he drove and picked up another girl he was talking to behind her back. The girl found my daughter online and reached out to her to let her know and show her screenshots of their messages together. That was a whole mess but she still is going to go. I don't feel comfortable raising my beautiful firstborn daughter and sitting back and not being able to stop her from making a bad decision and every day women die from domestic violence. 💔 that's why I sent this song to her. I played it in the car for my other 3 daughters but they are 15, 7, 6. The 15 yr old understands it but the other 2 just not yet. It is really hard watching your daughter make the same mistakes you did and not take the safe path. He tells her that a long-distance relationship won't work and that she needs to move there. It will be for almost two years while he finishes his contract with the military and then move back to Ohio. I am not happy or comfortable about it at all and don't support it and I have tried to tell her my feelings and thoughts but she has made up her mind and I can't stop her. I pray every day several times a day and I always ask God and my angels to help guide her and protect her. These 7rules are so important. I am watching people choose to stay in relationships for all the wrong reasons and it's unhealthy. I know why my daughter is choosing this guy and she is going to get hurt in the end. 😢😢
I haven’t cried listening to a song in a very long time. I wish anyone in an abusive relationship all the strength you need to leave, safely 💕 May 3rd this year will be 7yrs since I left with my son & never looked back. I promise you it’s so worth it on the other side. Nobody deserves to live like that.
I just heard this song today and my oh my!! My father passed away and the talks about does and don'ts I still hold to heart. This was another reminder!!
Have 4 daughters...they gonna hear all this. I dont want them to make the same mistakes/choices i did in the past. So many women going through this and people that havent been thru it think it's so easy to get out these situations but it isnt. This video bout had me in tears.
My mom went thru real bad postpartum when she had me. But that was back b4 postpartum depression was a thing. She used to leave me on my dad porch in a carseat or just wouldn't pick me up or feed me for hours. But my Daddy... we been tight since I was in pampers. Having a great relationship with my father is my saving grace. His advice and guidance and unconditional love are what made me the woman I am today. Daddy's girls stand tf up!!
This song has put me in tears every time I’ve played it since he dropped it. Thankful for him & his music. This song is helpin me through things the same way “Do better” has.
This is one of the BEST songs I’ve heard in a very long time‼️ ALL women & men need to hear this!! I sent it to my daughters… A SONG WITH PURPOSE!‼️REAL LYRICS…ThANK YOU SIR‼️👏🏽💪🏽❤
As a man I had to stop the video and breathe for a sec and hold my own tears back bc I don’t even have a daughter yet and that scene made me feel something I pray I’ll never feel. Bc just like him, off to jail I go if you ever touch mine like that.
I can't believe I'm just now hearing this phenomenal artist. I heard "Do Better" for the first time about 2 months ago, and every time I hear it I get a little bit stronger. This song will be added to my self love/glow up playlist. Sending you lots of Thanks all the way from Kentucky! " Look at me living" by these "7 rules"❤️❤️❤️ Real music makes a difference...Ty
These are all factors that you need to stand on because the minute you slip on any of these rules they'll creep in and do it over again. I'm loving , living, and laughing now. Experience is a good teacher. I went through so much shit but wish I had someone to tell me these things as a young girl
This song would make my father proud to play it loud as possible. He would tell me everything this song has said thank you for this will share on everything I possibly can ❤❤
Thank you for this song. My dad died when I was 10. He would have definitely made sure I didn’t mess with the busters I have, trying to get away from one now.
Heard this Song over the radio..never heard of this rapper...This MESSAGE IS 🔥FIRE!! 🔥 AND THE VIDEO 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 MESSAGE IS PLAIN AND SIMPLE☝🏾👍🏾✊🏾🤌
Lyrics: I was talking to my daughter and I was just telling her like As you get older like it's a few rules you gone have to follow when you dealing with men Rule 1 never let a homeless nigga stay with you 2 never let a broke nigga play with you 3 never let a lying nigga fuck 4 make a man earn all your trust 5 never let a nigga put his hands on ya 6 whatever he say make em stand on it 7 always love yourself way more Do he love you cause you gotta be sure It's okay to love a man just choose the right one If you feel pain the whole time he ain't the right one Look at his characteristics Do he love his mama Do he take care of his children How do he talk to you about his partners When you was pregnant ummm did he go with you to the doctor When you was sad did he care about your problems Do he care enough to try to help you stop Do he say things to lower your self-esteem When you don't let em have his way he say you being mean Don't let em change yo life get rid of all your friends But let's go over these rules again Rule 1 never let a homeless nigga stay with you 2 never let a broke nigga play with you 3 never let a lying nigga fuck 4 make a man earn all your trust 5 never let a nigga put his hands on ya 6 whatever he say make em stand on it 7 always love yourself way more Do he love you cause you gotta be sure How frustrated he get when you make em angry Every time it's a problem you the one he blaming Do he call you out your name do he hit you Do he get frustrated with every issue When you crying do he even bring you tissue The man that break you ain't gone be the one that fix you If he hit you once he gone hit you again And if you stay long enough he gone end up killing you in the end The truth is he abusive The truth is he a narcissist But you ain't gone understand if I don't go back to the rules in the beginning where I started Rule 1 never let a homeless nigga stay with you 2 never let a broke nigga play with you 3 never let a lying nigga fuck 4 make a man earn all your trust 5 never let a nigga put his hands on ya 6 whatever he say make em stand on it 7 always love yourself way more Do he love you cause you gotta be sure If you follow these rules you'll be a lot more safer I love you P.S. Lil Donald
This song caught my ear soon as I herd it all lil girls growing up and grown ups need to hear and live these words of wisdom. Thank U for sharing 💯❤️✌🏾🙏🏾
🤯 this is amazing! I’m so appreciative that artist like lil Donald are here. Every record he does hits home. Always a message or story or both in his records. Other artists take notes this is how real art is made.
Thanks for this song. This song needs to be played for ALL young girls. We send these kids to school to learn math and science , but not life skills and warnings like this. Needs to be played on repeat for young ladies…and older ladies each day
@lildonald you got the voice to make a change don’t change it. look around every day in a world that’s falling apart and doesn’t respect women. Herd this on radio in VA best song I’ve heard in 30 years!
Not sure how long this song been out, but I’m just hearing about a week ago and I absolutely love this song. I have 4 daughters who are grown and I turn this song up every time it comes on.💪🏽
This is amazing. Most rap music does not talk about this. How amazing to see a black handsome man rap about things with meaning and self worth! Also knowledge about narcissists and abuse. He deserves to be number 1 for this. ❤❤❤ This is what the community needs to here!! more respect and more love.
I just saw this video minutes ago, I’ve herd this amazing beat since it came out but never had a chance to watch the video, 😢😢😢it is so damn realistic and close to the truth that I literally hit my knees and cried. I wish I would of had my daddy in my life, who could have helped my one and only world’s greatest big brother guided and protected me from all of these horrible men who hurt me and broke me in every single way. Your words are so precious and important to every single one of our children daughters and sons, don’t ever forget your self worth and that you are of more value than you’ll ever fully understand. If it isn’t too much to ask to whom wrote and sang this beautiful truth, may I please dedicate it to my three beautiful children; LillyAnna my daughter, Martin, and Solomon my sons. If you allow me to dedicate this beautiful story and truth to my three angels, I would be forever forever and eternally grateful.. if I am permitted to do so, I would like for my beautiful children to please listen to the story and truth alone in a quiet place where you feel safe and you can listen with your hearts, not your ears and not your minds listen with your heart, because what this man is saying is so true and it doesn’t just go with men beating and hurting women but women can will have, and do the very same to men too. I love you for this it’s truth no matter how bad it hurts. I pray that my children never have to endure anything this song, or that I have gone through myself unfortunately, my beautiful daughter …well you’ve never broke her no matter who you are, because she’s still standing and she’s still wears a beautifully, gorgeous, enchanting and capturing smile on her gracious humble and loving face You would never be able to tell nor can you tell my children have unfortunately endured and suffered so much in their young beautiful wives because of how vibrant, beautiful, sincere, happy and loving they are to this day and that is no thanks to me. ❤😊Thank you so much I love you all.
I randomly came across this song on tiktok and I'm so glad I did. I was in a very abusive relationship with a narcissist for 8 years and it was the hardest relationship for me to get out of. this song hits home on so many levels. I wish I has learned these things from my own father but my parents divorced when I was 8 and I never saw him again. great message. thank you for putting it out.
This song has been my favorite since I stumbled across it, watching the abuser get his ass beat was just a pure thing. Idk how many times I wished for someone to step in like that, it’s so hard to get up out of those situations.. If you’re in one, there’s hope I promise. It may seem hard but it’s so much better on the other side. I spent 6 years there, another 3 in a different toxicity. I did it twice. It’s possible even though ngl it’s so hard. But just know, God is on your side 💜Take that leap my friend, start small and go big. You can do it. I believe in you! 💜
This song just made me cry. I wish I was told this before. You live and you learn. I will not go back. I deserve so much more. I’m going to get it. I survived a narcissist.
My big sister sent this song to me and my lil sisters and told us to listen to it and I've been addicted to it ever since its forever gone be my favorite song 😊😊