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Three main points I grab from this video: 1. A wife has to greet her husband with smile when he gets home from work or outside. Dont make him feel neglected and get annoyed. 2. A husband should choose silence 🤐 over argument with his wife because women are complex creatures and having the ability to lecture way better than men. 3. Both husband and wife should work hard to take care of each other. Not only expect from each other.
my daughter 22 years also a single mom is struggling with abusive relation ship from her husband and in laws.soon she will ask for khula that makes me really depressed.please pray for my daughter
May Allah grant her ease...and guide her on the right path...may she be able to find the love of her life...may her children be raised in the best environment...This Ramadan Allah will surely make things easier for you and her and everyone in your family...Ameen
I LOVE your humour. MashaAllah, may Allah bless you with the best jokes. I remember I was mad yesterday. My husband said "you've lost your mind!" and I kept agreeing with him, saying worse things about myself (I never had a mind to begin with, etc) 😂😂 I had lost my prayer because my daughter was irritable and I was playing with her in the bathroom while my husband was watching cartoons. When I finally handed her over, he kept calling me. So yes, I had lost my mind over this.
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As a man, I disagree on many points of this video. First women are not complex but sensitive, saying complex is just not appropriate term to define a person, just to avoid a full explanation of their feelings, ok they are complex, that's it.. Secondly, this speech is only from men perspective and not explaining that men shall not only take care of their wives but keep with time passion, this passion shall come from both parts.. Finally this speech is very simple and focused on men eyes... I would like to hear from sisters about this video.
As a girl I do agree with you at some points and agree to the video with also some other points We are truly complicated We could get sad or upset about the smallest things but at the end of the day we don't want to start an argument or feel like we should be win just want some love and care with my husband Relationships need both parts to do their parts or else if one does it and the other don't, there is a high possibility it will end This is my point as a girl and I respect yours too Sorry my English is not that good
I think we are complex, it's hard to understand us . We often cry for something small but it's not to start a fight lol we just want affection from our spouses and REASSURANCE that they loves us (key word)
I like this and I wanna to talk that things to my people. But most of people don't know english so that i wish to translate this kind of this in my mother language. Shall i do it?
And What about those husbands ignores their wife? When the wife smiles and gives salam to him, they ignore to reply the salam or look at their face. The wife will beautify for him putting on make ups, put on perfume, wear nice clothes and still the husbands can ignore them. The wife discovers the husbands chatting to numerous women on his phone and told him its haram and he won't listen. Even will all these most wife puts up with such will change one day. Sometimes we don't fell like praying with him cause he prays so fast and don't make dua. We will say I love you to him every day and they don't tell to us. We can divorce such men but still we get the bad names that we failed to take care to the husbands. With all these we speak nicely to him and he yells at us. So pls advice women like us, do we still need to put up with their nonsenses or apply for khula and remain single get closer to Allah? Marriage is to complete each others deen, but most houses deen are incomplete. Sometimes, we feel disguised to be private with them because of the way they treated us.
Where I come from wives spend the entire day preparing for their husband's return from work. He walks in she smiles, yet he picks up his phone and totally ignores her!
This is sound knowledge, however, most of the time, I am the one having reasonable thoughts and my husband fights unreasonably just to win the argument. Moreover, this is true in many other marriages that I have witnessed. As such, I wouldn't be so keen and rush to say that men have reasoning when they argue.
@@maqboolusman2914 I'm not saying that we have a bad marriage. In these 11years, I have been blessed to be with him. Those arguments are the usual ones that only makes the heart warmer after we make up. It's just that he lacks reasoning when he argues 😄
@@sabrinaaziz9613 Ahh i see!! Well it seems you have normal healthy relationship!!! ☺️ thanks for telling me, thats a relief!!! 😄 yeh we all need to have a little patients with one another to get along 😊 Btw me & my wife argue a lot!!!😆
@@moriarty16 you learnt this from your mom complaining a lot eh? I wonder how she had the time to raise you with all those complaints flying from her mouth 🤔
Yes, I share your opinion. I think not to talk is respectless and disgusting. You play a game because you are not able to talk with love to your wife? This is really a poor reaction....
But why do men mostly dont respect a woman who is respectfull, accept even abuses and than eventually he even cheat on her? What about this kind of man? How to deal with it?
I am sure.... If a woman gets friendly faces from the men outside.... This would be no problem for her husband.. At home, he would smile at her and everything will be fine..... Why the women should always ignore their feelings? Why is it much more important that the man feels well? Why are the feelings of men more worthful?
Ftwain 78 Theres so much good in this speech and people like you try to point out the bad even though there's nothing wrong with it, terrible really...
@@diviuz4174 it prevents me to be concentrated with the wonderful speech. You know like when you want to be focused on something and there is lot of noises around you. My message is kind. 😊Have a pleasant day.
If husband get attracted by other women wife should show a smily face ...what happen if wife's do such things....May Allah swt proctect all relationships....But one thing d man who's iman is strong he will lower his gaze automatically while seeing other women...that's our Prophets ummathi.
yes so sad that all responsibility to maintain marriages is on women. Unfortunately this leads to more violence against women as they are seen fully responsible for any dispute or violence against them in the home. Even when their husband does something wrong or the children the woman is to blame, hate how society works like that. No wonder why most wives are depressed
@@moriarty16 that's the problem with mist of the men, they want women to be thier puppet ... Most of the men are egoist ,they never see their side of fault
@@sabs4491 internet is full of women's right and almost every muslim scholar is talking about it. Feminist types of muslim women when asked about mens right they call it outdated and things of the past..btw most of them don't know about male spouse rights. Girls go bonkers even on halal.
I think its ignorant to suggest that women who work is offices are not respected for anything other than their "shame". Some good principles here. Of course you should he nice to your spouse.
Islamically, you aren't bound to work outside. If you make demand from your husband to fullfill needs while you stop doing job, it will be totally legitimate! Allah ﷻ knows the best!
Im sorry i dont comment usually but this is put only as mans point of view im very sad to listen to this only to encourage men to continue bieng the way they are and all its explaining mens reasonings sorry wont be listening to ur lectures again. 😞
My beloved sister this is not his official channel and this is only a specifically extracted piece. He has other lectures addressing the men I'm sure. So be patient dear sister and he is a good man with lots of value to offer, so don't let Shaitan deter you.
The video was good, but I noticed that at 5:00, you drew images of a man swearing and hitting a child just because he was angry. Ustadh Nouman Ali Khan never mentioned anything that severe in terms of the anger. You shouldn’t draw that kind of thing, it’s too much. It’s an inaccurate representation, as it can put the wrong image of angry men in people’s minds(remember, children might be watching this too, and their minds are like sponges. And we are representing Islam. If people watch this, they’ll think of that misconception that abuse is okay in Islam when it isn’t). Please be more considerate when drawing representations of a teacher’s speech, thank you.
At the time in which Quran was released there was no animation technology and all that so how can u say it’s haram ?in which Hadeeth u saw “animation and graphics “ as haram ?
@@aswitnessedbythelenses963 Have you ever seen a living being with dot/ball like eyes and line like lips with no noses as shown in the animation ? When someone is trying to educate us don’t point out each and everything they do as “mistakes “ or “ Haram “ while what they are doing is a good thing Mashallah
