See How This Girl Takes A Stand Against Dowry | Nijo Jonson | Motivational Video 

Very good my friend

I respect you sir

Ignore your parents mY friend they don't know the happiness and reality of life

Money is need for living,not much. Dowry concept is actually from british. In India we have concept like when a girl is giving birth That time they need money for girl and child, for their well being by family. Until the children grown their level.

@@CSisekaiLife No, no . Dowry , caste , racism and apartheid are Indian (hindu) concepts. In my village , caste, dowry, racism and apartheid are still practiced. There are no British here just Indians. The British had nothing to do with dowry , caste, racism or apartheid. In UK one can live anywhere , no caste and racism is a criminal offence unlike in our India. I treat every Indian as an equal and always will.

Same here, in my community there’s no system of dowry.

Absolutely

Which is your community🤩?

What will you do if she gives divorce in future and take compensation, kids and ask for alimony including fact she is unemployed. Another case she is studying. You paid all of her educational expenses now after getting everything you found that she was cheating with you. Her family also used you as source of money. You can't do anything. You lost everything. I will take dowry from a women if she is unemployed or studying. I don't care what law says or what people says. I have to adopt according to my current environment. Law is not changing with time we have to change. I am not fool who will be emotional enough to be fooled by so called feminist. No body will help you if you will stuck . If you think I am stupid or no girl will marry me than it's your point of view. I saw people suffering. It is not about something like only money money targetting mindset. Or it is buisness but I would be able to compensate financial problems atleast. But can't time and emotions. Emotions are temporary, they are changing then and now. Ask people who suffered. Always remember law is no equal be careful if you are man

Don't forget 90% of dowry case are false in India

You're Lucky 🙂

Alhamdulillah sis......but am unlucky...prayer for me inshallah 👍

Gahna bhi chahiye Mc sex worker ko bhi fokat ka paisa lene me sharam aati h tum jaise chhinro ko nahi aati , mard apni property share kare thik, lekin papa apne pari ko 10% bhi de de to bawal, 1 lakh dene ki jinki aukat nahi vo 10 lakh alimony mangate upar se maintenance alag se, 1 hazar jinki maintenance nahi vo 1 lakh maintenance ka mangate hai aukat 1 hazar kamane ki bhi nahi jin aurto ki unko nahi pata mard 50 hazar kaise kamata h badi besharmi se fokat me bed garam karke paisa lene ko haw bolte sharam nahi aati mc chhinre dkbossdk chadrmod, ladki ko uske biological properties me hissa milna chahiye jaa ki artificial riste me People like you i promote and will take dowry a lot a lot , mardo ki sunvai kaha h, papa apne pari ko uski biological genetical property me hissa nahi denge, ladka ka jindagi buar padhe aur jab kamane lage to zindagi bhar mauj karne vale aurte aakr aadha loot leti h, mard chahkr bhi kuchh nahu kar sakta, so dowry haq hai mardo ka har tarah se, dowry is k ke insurance policy,

Good for you. We need more men like him. May God bless you both. Wish you all the best.

+1 My father

I was starting to like your comment but the more I read it the more it hurt me tbh and it hurt me even more because it's coming from a woman who I think among all the people understands the situation better. Why do you think the problem lies with the girl and her family? It's so simple and I am always surprised people don't get it. Groom and their families need to learn to stay happy with what they earn and what they have, if they want more, they need to work hard not 'beg' hard.

You are right and parents should teach their son to be independent rather than begging for mon ey

@@solihacs3786 ironic.

Girls can be bought up to be soft, loving caring and obedient. They can also taught to stand up for themselves as needed.

True

Very good. Don't marry hime

@@shubhamgarg5519 wow the stereotypical thoughts... I'm a well settled software engineer who earns more than him and have more knowledge than him in terms of social awareness. They're poor than we're. I'm saying all this just because you've a very vayyadh soch.

@@shubhamgarg5519 oh and not to forget he asked if i can come to US. I said I want to be in India only near our families. I feel sorry for you as you met the wrong girls or your thought itself is wrong 😊

@@shubhamgarg5519 😂😂😂😂

Superb, don't marry beggars. Once a beggar always a beggar.

Well said.. 👍

No because dowry ke liye kal Ko usko maar bhi sakte hai,so it's better ki unmarried and financially independent raha jaaye.

True

Sab se badi bigger women hote jo alimony leti hai half property chahiye half salary chahiye bikhari kahein ke

I agree totally

@Diganta 🤔 what a logic 👏🏻

@Diganta what why not?

@Diganta was there any person killed for not having a govt job? But there are tons os dowry deaths first understand difference between requirement and exploitation...men like you are shame to this country better you guys are vanished for this country to develop

Why is it necessary for people to get married? Late Lata Mangeshkar, Mayawati, Mamta Banerjee, Late Jayalalithaa, Ratan Tata, Late Abdul Kalam etc, all of them are single and childfree.

Say no to gold digging women also

In Andhrapradesh huge dowry demand is still in practice.

@@PriyankaPandey-hv4jv The girls should say no to the marriage, How can anyone fall in love with the person who asks money from her own family to marry her? Feels kind of selfish to me.

I think evry girl will do the same thing shown in the video becuz noone wants to spoil there life in this date....nd if the mother' in laws behaviour is like this wht would happen after marriage 😂🖕 f*ck of to this kind of family i would give a slap if i was in place of her nd thn dhka jata

True.

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very gud

Exactly

THEN STOP CHOOSING MAN DEPEND ON THIER INCOME , HOUSE,

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Superr bro ... best words u covered from both sides.

But any bride whos an opportuniies wants best for her n her kids He already has it

Gold digger word isn't real Women will marry whoever they can Men also same

@ashish kumar Let me make this really short. I'm against the concept of the bride's father paying dowry, in spite of the fact that I have already been made to pay alimony.

But what if the girl stays at home I dont know what to do if my daughter does not get married.

@@ltp3664 Fix the alliance with the family who doesn't ask for the dowry !!!

Fir to kabhi nhi hogi shaadi 😅🤐😠

@@ltp3664 marriage is not necessary

THEN STOP ASKING MAN FOR MONEY AND HOUSE

In our North India especially in Punjab region unfortunately Dowry is necessary otherwise Groom's family call them Bhookha nanga weather they themself are begging for dowry and that is reality

That's great agar har ladki apne aap me saksham hogi to kisi baap ko nhi jhukna padega dahej lobhiyo ke aage.

@@pragyapandey6843 ma'am or sister dowry kiu de .....jab ekk ladki apne family ko chhor ke pure zindagi ke liye dusre jage life jine ayihe....or app ko Kya bhado sa hai dowry dene ke bat ladki khus rahi gi ush ghar main ....kuch na kuch kami nikalke tanne marenge.......in our North East India Jo hum pyar se dete uttana leta hai unlogo ka hak nahi mange ka...are hamari Didi or Jo bahan hai woh mang Shakti not uska sashural wale

@@paragchandra8219 Sach main yeh kab khatam hoga pata nahi

Oh man in AP or Telangana, dowry is like a burden to bride's father, demand is in tens of lakhs or even crores if the groom is working in abroad

Nonsense. I see only north indians practice dowry more. Am south indian. Independent woman. I purchased my jewels for myself. Neither I forced my parents nor my husband family demanded .

Dowry is not a curse it is free choice of males .Hypocrisy of feminist is curse on socity which says that girl choosing rich boy is right.boy choosing girl giving dowry is wrong.

@Dibya Mahapatra so isme kya ladka ladki ko kharid raha hai?itnee foolishness wali and hypocrite bat na karo.jab ladki ko rich husband chahiye tab? Aur agar koi khrid bhi raha hai to tab bhi free choice hai. If girl not agree to dowry refuse .but why you call boys freedom wrong. Just stop hypocrisy.

@Dibya Mahapatra ladke ko bechna nahi hai isme pahlee bat . Aur ladki kharidte hai aur ladka bechte hai ye dono contradictory statement hai.. Ab ladki ko rich husband chahiye to kya wo ladki bechna hai? Accha batao will girls marry a unemployed male with zero assets?

@Dibya Mahapatra stop hypocrisy .If you think that girls can choose rich husbands with good income and/or property but boys can not say that girl should also bring in dowry .than cleary it is anti justice and honesty. No body is compelling.

@Dibya Mahapatra but is there law which bars girls from choosing rich husbands? No but dowry prohibition act is there. And there is freedom of choice of girl .so similar for boys what one want

So you just kick you kids away once they are married... what happens to inherited wealth, you give no share of it to your daughter? "matrilineal society" That's why they are Tribal!

​@@riscnxlols you know with dowry only the mother in law and her son will enjoy it 😂

@Diganta True. This is what needs to change. Even in this video see how the bride's father is trying to secure a sarkari groom. The mindset that the guy needs to be the main breadwinner cannot go hand in hand with call for gender equality.

It's their choice what they want sarkari Naukri or nri dulha

I understand but in Bihar even a sadakchaap ladka demands minimum 3 Lakhs !!!

@Diganta No it's not their choice to demand dowry it's a crime as per law.

@Diganta Dowry imposes injustice on women. Men have a choice to walk out if the bride side demands govt job. But dowry is a well established system practiced throughout India with exceptions in few places. Even a well qualified women is asked to pay dowry for marriage regardless of her capabilities. There is a difference between "choice" and "demand giving rise to injustice". You cannot compare bride side demand of govt employee with dowry demanded by groom side. It is just like a man demanding Homemaker or a working women as his spouse. At times man expect a women to leave her job and do household chores. Then this is not a crime, it is his choice to go for a homemaker or a working Profesional wife. Though whether the demand is dowry from groom's side or govt job from bride's side both pollutes the essence of marriage and makes it a mere business deal. That's disappointing !

Please don't blame your father 😂, he did whatever he could or would for you. It's high time you do something for yourself. No offense please...

Love At all time say a heart prayer and you got to stand up for yourself with strength don't be sacred speak up you will feel good to and I know it not always ease to stand up and speaks against this crap but we live in 2022 don't let Noone offense you stand up love women in India need to be tough rough around society you live your life happy ok ❤ respect to all women in India

Go and take divorce

GANJA PEEKE COMMENT MAST KRTE HO BHAYY

@sathyavathi sahi kaha aapne 👍👏👏

@@dds6234dowry is not selling the groom . It is compensation for groom for taking up her father’s burden. It is like paying someone to take out garbage from house because girls are not valued by parents. I don’t believe in dowry , nor do I believe in bahu fighting with husbands parents to grab their property.

It's in whole India.

Baapre such high demands Car own house already ?? 😠😠😠😠😠 I thought normal men were taking dowry

Usme bhi logon ne loophole nikal liya hai abhi Gift ka trend chalake indirectly Dowry ko promote kar rahe hai

@@sagar_nayak han bhai sahi baat hai

Let's see...brother 😄

Proud of u for deciding to do so😇

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Let's fight against Indian dowry system

My friend it's a fantastic idea I am a boy only myself as a person who loves a whole bunch of Rapunzel girls with very long hair from my soul and heart I'm saying "NO TO INDIAN DOWRY SYSTEM"

ALSO SON TO A WOMEN WHO DEMAND MONEY HOUSE CAR

Wow that's a good choices marriage should be based on love happiness understanding not based on money and all this bullshit matrimonial site are fraud I am a failure in cbse school never topped college I'm just an average guy who did class 7 twice myself as a person who loves a whole lot of Rapunzel girls with very long hair I'm saying always say no to dowry

Baapre in laws toxic hey Go to any western country No dowry is taken

Aisa har koi kyu nhi h .isse jada kuch nhi bol sakti.

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There is problem!!! This gift system only makes others also to expect!!

@@Philosopherbilla exactly

@@Philosopherbilla exactly.. Much true

Gifts is nothing but Dowry !!!!!

@@shriramupasna and it's one's own wish whether to give gifts or not.

@ARUL TA yep it's better to stay alone than bhikaris

What will you do if she gives divorce in future and take compensation, kids and ask for alimony including fact she is unemployed. Another case she is studying. You paid all of her educational expenses now after getting everything you found that she was cheating with you. Her family also used you as source of money. You can't do anything. You lost everything. I will take dowry from a women if she is unemployed or studying. I don't care what law says or what people says. I have to adopt according to my current environment. Law is not changing with time we have to change. I am not fool who will be emotional enough to be fooled by so called feminist. No body will help you if you will stuck . If you think I am stupid or no girl will marry me than it's your point of view. I saw people suffering. It is not about something like only money money targetting mindset. Or it is buisness but I would be able to compensate financial problems atleast. But can't time and emotions. Emotions are temporary, they are changing then and now. Ask people who suffered. Always remember law is no equal be careful if you are man

and refusing alimony also

​​​​@@dhananjayjadhav7208 India has the least divorce rates in the world. Alimony is not one sided dude. A husband can also claim it . But dowry deaths are reality in India. It is the cause of female infanticide and foeticide in India. Women life has no value in family and considered as liability of the family. Alimony is still not a major issue in India but dowry is. Many women in my state Kerala now don't prefer to get married because of the constant dowry death cases. They prefer to build a career first .

@@geethasanthosh6084 Konse jamane mai jii rahi ho 'Liability of the family'

Never get your sister married in that family. They will make your sister's and your family's life hell. Keep that money in FD, it will help her more

@@dr.sandhyagupta8317 Yeah we ain't in contact with them anymore. I'm already in search of some other "normal" family.

Help her get a job so that she can stand on her feet

@@hredyakj3191 Hmm

@@legion206 good luck. I never married for the same reason as you can't trust such people. Further I wanted to study and go abroad which I did. Based on your family take a decision. Just spport your sister to be independent and find her liking. Please do not pressurise. I wish you all the best.

I told my boyfriend of 4 years to go hang himself as he asked for dowry with his parents,.. i live and breathe for my mom n dad... Marriage is not necessary.. career and education is important... If not today guys will show their evil colours and never ever will in laws accept u as their daughter.. so don't yearn for marriage... It's a glorified trap for women..

Giving dowry is as wrong as taking it

Husband's house is not a free hotel. Women must pay the rent and food cost

@@ultimate6243 Husband's house is also wife's house after marriage.Both have same rights over the house.And your thinking is very old fashioned and disgusting.And because of people like you girls face a lot of problem in marriage.I wish to God that no girl marries you,her life will be destroyed. Money is not everything in life,instead of asking money do something in life.And only beggars ask for dowry.

@@ultimate6243 Hiring a caretaker and whole timer is not free .....since a wife does all the work of a whole timer men need to pay them for their work

First of all it is not dowry it is a fees paid to groom by bride for fulfilling her needs. He deserves that fees because after all he had put a lot of efforts in getting the govt job. And that girl in free without doing any effort would get access to all the assets which primarily belongs to groom and even the salary of husband who does govt job. Think of the effort he had put for getting govt job. He deserves that fees which you called dowry. If she dont want to give money she can marry a person whose income is 20k or 25k. Why was she approaching the guy who is beyond her and her's family level. Because marriage should be done between the same level. And after all it is a one time fees to keep their daughter happy.

@@hhhhh12552 just bcoz he doing government job ...he will take money so called fee for his efforts i.e govt job... After reaching at such level of govt . employe...still he has to take dowry or wt u call to hide it as fee ...than wt d use of reaching at that level ... A girl also spend alot to b educated n than after she support boys family n children ... without making any excuses n without getting tired... The only point I want to make clear is ...being human if u can reach at such gud position than wt d need of taking anything els from bride side...n bride her self is precious n valuable...that why girls are called Lakshmi... So instead of thinking to take dowry just focus on how to respect her n her fmly by supporting by not taking dowry ... N last but not d least ...one day u might also have a girl child than will u agree to give dowry...n will u b cnfrm that after giving dowry ...she n her life is in gud hand??? It's easy to give lecture but when it comes to self u are speechless...so pls ...it's only request to not to take or give dowry...

@@sunitajaiswal8814 You mistook my point. I believe in giving dowry not taking. We ourself had given 30lakh dowry in my sister's wedding. But we are not willing to take anything in my marriage. Because we don't believe in taking money from woman because in my opinion it is shameful for man to take woman's money. I have belief in myself I dont need girl's money. But willing to give dowry in our case. Because we dont want to let ourself down in any case. I myself a govt job guy joined 6 months before. I need no money from girls side but I will give more money when a girl will go from my house. In both matters I would like to be on the top. My parents are also on govt service my mother too. I and my father had never asked for a single penny from my mother because it is shameful for a guy to ask for money from a girl. I had never taken any money from my mom. So actually my concept is I will not allow my wife to work then only she would be under my control. In my opinion taking dowry is nonsense but giving is superiority.

@@hhhhh12552 both giving and taking dowry is same thing ...by giving dowry we jst increasing the mentality of taking dowry...n how by giving one can become superior...??? One can become superior by standing in equall level and supporting each other feeling emotions family... And by not letting a woman work...is it right to control her life n indipendency??? Did u even control ur sister life d same??? If not than how could u think to control other girl life...n if yes u controlled ur sister life also than its really ashamed to say being a man of today's generation still ur thot r of old generation... Not only u but I think all have to change their mind setup that by not letting wrk u could control her...but u shud b proud that girl today standing in support of fmly n husband. In today all field girls r going grt n indipendentlly... I think by giving dowry n by not letting girl to wrk u can't b superior...but for being superior first change ur thot ...as all whether boy or girl both have ryt of indipendency... N Mr...i commented on general but u r taking it personally...n by the way I m not interested in ur personal views...n comment as i don't bother the way u ruin ur or others life...so pls dnt comments on my comment. I m jst against dowry as if u look history n even present many women r still suffering coz of this... So guys... overall...both giving n taking dowry is punishable n yes it's ashamed too... So all in ur hand in which category u fall...

@@hhhhh12552 Dutchess Katherine got married to prince william without any dowry That's it If u justify dowry u justify harassment

When all stand against dowry only the problem will be solved. Everyone who asking dowry should think if their own girl child is getting married by giving dowry above their capacity then only they know about problems faced by the girl family.

@@yogeshwaritikku2375 👍🏼 No dowry.

I totally agree with your point. Actually the problem lies in the society in general. The norms set by the society are so hollow, the consequences of which are manifold. The institution of marriage especially arrange marriage is totally flawed. It is in this set up the waves of demand, expectations etc etc arises. Both the families think this set up as market where only buy sell of groom and brides happen according to the family standards.

To be honest today's girl & boy both are mature and sensible enough to find good partners. But both girl's & boy's side means their family spoil the essence of marriage by their demands.

Now a day's the groom family required a girl with higher education, good family ground, Job holder with high salary, Maid who can do cooking, house chores and take care of in-laws and dowry with all the packages then why can't bride family except the good salary from the groom. Change should come from both sides not only from side, If a boy expecting his wife have to takecare of his parents and siblings then he have to takecare of her parents, they have share there works, chores and responsibilities, and have to understand each other should respect each opinions and interests.

To be honest ...if girl's parent looking for stable partner for her then I don't think it's wrong....they are going to give their dauthef to someone else(totally stranger) n on what basis they'll do so?? In arrange marriage...if father of girl looking or asking for stable person...with high salary...then at the same time form boy side ...they ask for beauty...they ask qualities....they ask or judge on basis of the natural things which can't be chnge or not even in control of human....and one more thing now a days..they also want gurl with all those qualities and higher education...am I right or not??? Toh I must say ki ye toh equal hogya na...then dowry is toh still extra burden ???

@@Unknown_creator10 If you don't want to pay dowry then don't marry the person who demands dowry and marry someone who doesn't demand dowry.

Gahna bhi chahiye Mc sex worker ko bhi fokat ka paisa lene me sharam aati h tum jaise chhinro ko nahi aati , mard apni property share kare thik, lekin papa apne pari ko 10% bhi de de to bawal, 1 lakh dene ki jinki aukat nahi vo 10 lakh alimony mangate upar se maintenance alag se, 1 hazar jinki maintenance nahi vo 1 lakh maintenance ka mangate hai aukat 1 hazar kamane ki bhi nahi jin aurto ki unko nahi pata mard 50 hazar kaise kamata h badi besharmi se fokat me bed garam karke paisa lene ko haw bolte sharam nahi aati mc chhinre dkbossdk chadrmod, ladki ko uske biological properties me hissa milna chahiye jaa ki artificial riste me People like you i promote and will take dowry a lot a lot , mardo ki sunvai kaha h, papa apne pari ko uski biological genetical property me hissa nahi denge, ladka ka jindagi buar padhe aur jab kamane lage to zindagi bhar mauj karne vale aurte aakr aadha loot leti h, mard chahkr bhi kuchh nahu kar sakta, so dowry haq hai mardo ka har tarah se, dowry is k ke insurance policy,

But one of my cousins was unemployed so her father zabardasti gave her home appliances n car Coz her husband family not so rich But he wanted her to marry him

Yes this happens very common these days . I too have seen many cases as such . Divorce for small reasons n huge alimony demands from the girls . Even her parents don't agree with it but girls are stubborn enough so parents can't say anything but just keep quiet .

Yes Coz he probably abused or cheated In india divorce rate is less than 1% But dowry is always demanded Almost all marriages i know dowry was taken

@@jyotikulkarni2669only 5 percent of marriages end in divorce. So alimony affects 5 percent of married men. Dowry is affecting 95 percent of women.

3.5cr? means he should atleast earn 7 crore. is he earning so much?

@@indipacifician3693one NRI boy ( not boy but 30 year old man) was complaining about not getting girl for marriage. I suggested my cousin sister who works in the same country and earns more than him . Then his father asked for 50 lakhs dowry and the ‘ boy ‘ agreed with it . Then I understood why he was having difficulty in getting married and told them to get lost .

A girl directly asked me about my money salary and property. I rejected her immediately. Such a shameless woman. She cannot survive by herself 😂

@@Rhopalostylis7482 if she asked your salary it is ok . You can also ask her salary. But if you ask dowry, then she has the right to ask about your property. Most men who don’t own any piece of property are asking working women for dowry .

@@wowser2153 .. why should working women give any dowry,, when there are many poor unemployed men who are ready to marry her without any dowry??

😂😂 Get out of your bubble. Even doctors are demanded to give dowry upto 1cr by doctor groom and their parents.

@@KosmoNavisagreed . Men ask for dowry from equally educated and equally earning woman . Even unemployed men ask for dowry from working women, amount maybe lesser.

You should have recorded and put on social media. Such beggers