SELF CARE after a sad breakup 💗 

did you find your superpower yet? always remember.... YOU ARE A BOSS ASS BITCH 💗 #TJTV

There's nothing like waking up in your own shit. Break ups are bad but bouncing back 💪 is Amazing! Love you girl.

Sometimes a break up isn't a bad thing. A break up can be a relief, some of us hold on to thing we knew we should have been let go so when circumstances force us to let go its more of a relief. I see the peace in her eyes, it doesn't necessarily mean she not hurting because memories hurt sometimes but I can feel the healing vibe. I hope the absolute best for you , you're going to see the blessings start rolling in. 🙏

I’ve watched this woman put together a bunk bed, hang up a mirror on her wall and put up a headboard!! Tierra you are every woman boo, I’m here for your strength and empowerment!!!

Been watching you for a minute, when Teress graduated from Basic Training and Al was a baby. I am really sad for you and Teress because I saw the love you both had for each other, but I support your strength and growth. I wish you both peace and happiness during your separation. I will continue to pray for you both to heal and forgive and co parent. You are a hell of a women T.

Thank you. I despise my child’s father for treating my son different bc he’s a boy. “You’re a boy, you’re not supposed to cry” wtf else is he supposed to do, he just turned 4 he’s a CHILD with feelings. And I’d be dammed if he grow up hurting ppl around him bc he’s hurt from not being able to hurt out loud.

Having a piece of mind is priceless.

I know there are a lot of women afraid to start over even when it's just them. You are starting over with 3 babies and showing people it can be done. Your journey is so inspiring and I hope you continue to get stronger everyday.❤❤❤❤

My divorce just finalized in november. It took time but I've never felt better. Between therapy and rona keeping me in the house, God has allowed me to do real work. Your home and children are beautiful. It takes time, but God heals all wounds and always stays true to his word. Stay encouraged. ❤

When my aunt broke up with her husband she said a woman asked her “Congratulations or I’m sorry?” and I can honestly tell you T, Congratulations! I’m so excited to see you grow in this new phase of life!!❤️❤️

My boys and I are going to start up a channel encouraging teens with life issues and giving them advice. I have 4 black sons and we talk about stuff daily.

A lot of emotions come with a breakup. Depending on the circumstance, some women feel a primary sense of freedom, happiness and relief. That’s where I was after my breakup. Hadn’t been by myself in 28 years. Finally discovering myself and I like her! Seems like you’re there too. Self-care is really important. Keep doing it!

I’m sorry about the breakup. I’m glad you are taking of yourself still. I love the new intro. I look forward the consistent and great content you still provide. Hang in there, things will get better. Trouble don’t last always.

Life is too short to be unhappy, congrats!!!

I smiled so hard throughout this whole video and now my face hurts. I can feel the happiness through the phone. ❤️❤️❤️ you’re doing a wonderful job. Keep it up Momma!

Always admired you the way you help yourself. girl I love being alone its the best thing ever.you work very hard caring for your kids cleaning. girl you are bless

I love her show too. It definitely is therapy even when the problems don’t directly relate to your current situation. She’s amazing!! A God sent!

Girl we feel you and when got lit and talk about marrying young and the things that followed we can basically follow abd figure it out

Iyanla been doing something to my spirit as well sis. I don't know who she think she is but...it's what I need.

Girl yes, I love me some Iyanla! I respect her and the work that she is doing so much. So much healing for our community 🙏🏾

Reading this title .. nearly brought tears to me eyes !. Ughh ! All I can do is pray and send my best wishes through watching your videos ! I’ve been watching since forever.. and I’ve watched every single video on both your channels ! Some of em twice ! But I know a phenomenal woman when I see one .. and you have been a phenomenal women ! Hell I’ve come to watch your mom vlogs when I felt like I was lost with no one to turn to for support or guidance.. but I appreciate you for being you and continuing to do this youtube thing even through changes.. and the life and strength you have given to me alone over the years .. I just know you have touched so many more lives and you are so blessed ! And anyone who actually has the privilege to know you in real life is just as blessed 😌 that’s all I have !

this world man, smh..... it’s like we’re all going through something. speaking love, light and continuous blessings over you and your little ones.❤️

I’m praying for your healing and I’m so happy you have a supportive family! ✨you are strong

Love you so much T and you know it takes a lot of courage to even share this part of you. Much love from Texas💛❤️💛❤️

This reminds me of Ari Lenox's song new apartment... that true feeling of freedom

Life is beautiful on the other side of heartbreak. Once you tap into your own energy God will show you miracles. I'm so happy for you. The worst is over. You can't buy peace and happiness. You are an example to your beautiful, smart and loving children. Peace! ♡ HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!

Having your own place hit differenttttt, bomb asf😭🙌🏾 Loving seeing you truly HAPPY🤍

I’ve def been there and came through it stronger and even more fierce... you got this mama! Much love and blessings sent your way 💞

Destiny's Child Free got me through some break ups too ❤👌🏾

I’m so happy for you Tierra, that’s so true ant no feeling like being free!! I love your home!!

Yass honey....aint nothing like finding yourself and peace of mind by yourself. I vow to not ever go back to a place where i lost myself being in a relationship. Im proud of you girl💜💜💜💜

Everyone’s breaking up these days, on to new beginnings. Wishing you peace and prosperity this coming year 💕

I'm so proud of you Tierra!! Superwoman, boss, mama extraordinaire!

I’ve really been needing these videos from you. They are motivational for me. Currently going through a breakup with my kids dad and a tad bit lost on my next moves. Your courage to move out and start fresh is encouraging! You’re doing great ❤️

you help alot of individuals too Tierra just like the show you mentioned and you still remain positive and keep it pushing

You going through this has helped alot of women!! Especially myself, stay safe and keep smiling & twerking sis!👍🏾love ya💜

You are doing well! Break ups aren’t easy at all. However, you get to do you now! Freedom! Love the bedroom. Self care is so important. May God continue to: bless, uplift, strengthen, comfort, and most of all love you. Much love.💜

you’re glowing and radiating happiness! wishing you nothing but blessings and positivity during your new journey!

Girl close your blinds people crazy on the internet 😩... just looking out I’m so proud of you

You deserve EVERYTHING that’s coming your way! I’m loving the glow sis!! 🥰

Okay I see you getting your apartment looking like you...I love the way you have your bedroom set up 💜💜

The bounce back for you will be everything!! Stay true to yourself and take care of yourself as well. It gets better!

It's going to be okay Tierra, you can't let anything stress you out

I'm so proud of you for choosing and being in control of your happiness even if it hurts. I left my first husband after 20 years (married for 10) but I remember that euphoric feeling i had when I got that apartment and decorated. I went through so many different emotions as well. You got this, as you already know. I love your Spirit. Keep pushing and praying 🙏

Yesssss I love the lights behind the bed. I’m bout to make my space better in 2021. When your space is happy you feel better. I’m bout to do some self care. Thank you sis 💜💜

Get it girl!! Women have a inner strength. Can’t be explained. ❤️

Your old house was nice, but your new apartment looks so full of love.

I can definitely relate to this vlog, peace of mind is everything. The sadness and heart break will eventually go away and you will be living your best life with your children.

Love you so much Tierra, your videos always make me smile! I’m so excited to see your new apartment projects! I hope someday I’m able to move out and get my first place too 😊 have a happy new year ✨

It's the beautiful Black queen moving with style and grace for me! You make motherhood look so effortless, I aspire to be able to handle it like that once I have children. I'm rooting for you! You got this!♥♥♥

Beautiful❤ I'm starting over after ending a 7 year relationship. It's hard I was used to being with him all the time but GOD pulled me away for something better. Keep pushing forward you got this you are a strong woman 💪🏽

Keep that crown on Queen! You are literally glowing!

Glad to see you're doing well 🥂🥂. Sometimes we do need our OWN SPACE. I'm going through that transition right now.

I think I love you even more! When I first started watching you, it was all about hair but I've grown to love your personality and seeing you being so transparent is such a fucking vibe!! This single parent shit is for the birds but I truly am blessed to be able to provide for myself and my kids!! I wish you all the happiness, love, prosperity, peace and blessings this life has in store for you!! 😍😍😍😍😍

Im happy you back uploading☺

Yes T self care is very important. Stay positive and keep peace in your life. Love how you set up the bedroom! Sending love and prayers to y'all. ❤😘

Tierra I am so happy for you. I can’t wait til I’m on my journey. I’ve been saving my money so I can make my move. Been in a 16yr complicated ass relationship. It’s time for some peace. Love you. So good to see you and the kids.

I just love the look on Zara’s face every time she looks at you and her brothers it’s just a beautiful smile. She melts my heart in so many ways. You are an amazing woman. Those smiles on those babies faces tell a whole lot that despite the circumstance they know that they are loved. I am so proud of you keep pushing forward towards your goals and keeping your mind body and spirit at peace! Love you girl🙏🏽❤️❤️ You know the gang is always here to cheer you on.

✨I am so so sorry about ur breakup T, Damn I so sorry, but girl when I tell u I am LUVVVVIIINNN the PowerUp, BAYBE U are doing the damn thang! Handle u, we’re here✊🏾❤️❤️❤️

You are so strong T. I love the vibes of the apartment and the fact your settling in nicely!!! Your energy and vibes is EVERYTHING..... This is your time darling. Xoxox

Hey Love! I'm sorry to hear about the breakup but I'm glad to see your feeling good and feeling great 🙏🏾❤

Girl you inspire me so much!! Like I’ve always lived alone and never decorated! Your smile and glow makes me so happy for you!!! Good luck you deserve it all

Good to see that your happy and getting yourself back together god bless you girl keep pushing forward with god in the midst.

You are such an inspiration to me. You are such an amazing mother, boss/entrepreneur & human being. Wishing you all the best.♥️

So happy for you and proud of you!!! You got this!! We’ve definitely seen your strength over the years. Blessings and prosperity for 2021 🎆🙏🏽🤗

You did what so many women are afraid to do! And I commend you for that! Wishing you all the best on your new journey and I wish you nothing but the best for you and your babies!

YASS my Girl back i am loving this. Back to back vlogs 💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

Keep doing what you're doing. You are inspiring women all over the world! Women that are old enuff to be your mom and even your grandmother! Woman have been in relationships for 34 years and married for 24 years. Been in it since they were 19 years old. Moved out an began to build a life. Now the youngest is 18. 34 years later. He leaves. He waited till the youngest was 18. And ( 54. Never having your own place is crazy, scary. You r an inspiration. I know it's not all happy. You're doing it with 3 kids! Under 6! 3!!! Omg! Do it girl!! Keep being strong! People r watching! You will continue to be blessed because u don't know it but you r giving women hope of ALL ages!! Luv u for that!

So so so sad to see your family going through this but I applaud your strength. So many women stay for the sake of having a man. Find your strength. Girl I played the hell out Destiny Child Free when I got divorced. (Though I do not wish the D word on you) I do pray you and Teress will find healing.

Sis you are absolutely right! We do have super powers!!! Especially for you to pull your whole apartment together that fast!!! You will heal! To new be beginnings 🍾🍻!!!

Zaza is so cute doing that to her little hand! STAY STORNG TT!

This was me five years ago and I’m still standing it gets better! Look forward to seeing your journey!! You got this 🙌🏿

I can’t watch an episode of Iyanla without crying. I swear every episode I be just relating to so damn much. Also T go to target or Walmart and get a candle warmer. You can plug it up and just place the broken candle on top!

I’m so proud of your strength! Your so admiring 🥰🥰

Am so happy for you and your children it’s nothing like your own space and you seem more happy their then in the big home you were in. I wish you the best may god bless you and your children merry Christmas and happy new year.

You bring me peace and I don’t even know you personally... I wish I had somebody like you in my life because my mental is just 👎🏾 im rooting for you 100% & wish you nothing but greatness! Love you Tierra 💗

I'm SO PROUD OF YOU Tierra! Your strength, truth, and peace! I love what you've done to the place!😚 Now as far as Iyanla I agree it's not drama but a healing session everytime. 🧘🏾🌻☮

MY GIRL IS FREEEEEEEEEE!!!! I’m so proud of you booooooo! It’s YOURS & YOURS only! There will be the bad days but you got this you know I’m always a phone call away! Happy to be there for you on this journey. You are a super WOMAN PERIODT!!!!!! Go friend, love youuuuuuuu🖤

Good for you for having the courage to step out on faith, and knowing when to leave. You got this and you will be just fine. Continue to walk in faith and not by sight. You are a good, loving and nourishing mother, the kids are going to be fine as well. Continue to co-parent in a positive manner. And always keep Jehovah God first and everything will fall into place. God bless you.

I'm so proud of you! Still in the works yet beautiful in the moment. I'm holding back tears. So happy for you

Is it me or are you giving 90’s beauty vibes.😍

Yesss much needed... I’m getting back to me 🙌🏾‼️and coming out of my slump . 💜 💪🏾 Girl Power

Your hair look so nice and girl don't worry you got this .

LMAOOOO @ red light special clip, a WHOLE MOOD baby! I'm so excited for this journey you are embarking on T. It's going to be a prosperous one. I can feel it!

Omg I feel blessed I’m loving these videos 😍😍😍

Listen I have been following you and those babies since Day 1, and believe me I know how it feels to put your life on hold for your spouse trying to make sure you do the right thing by your family and you do so much until it weighs on you and your spirit i am so proud of you because it's so easy to get lost but hard to be found unless you take back control of you! Good luck to you and keep up the good work Tierra J. Kiss those Beautiful babies for me.❤🙏❤🙏❤🌹🌹

Why are people sad at people’s new beginnings? A relationship ending is not end all be all - even for a mom of three. So interesting how ppl can witness someone leveling up (all while acknowledging and living in their grief/trauma/etc - but pushing through with their eyes set on healing), INSTANTLY at PEACE, moving forward in their greatness, and still wish they were back in the shit that would take the peace and healing away lmao. Wtf. Edit - in case you need to hear it, generational curses can be broken with you, and longevity in your grands/elders/parents relationships might have been attributed to financial codependency but still toxic af - your life doesn’t have to look like that and you can acknowledge the shit in relationships you have to reference without disrespecting them. Take the good but leave the toxic shit and start something new with your generation.

girl!!! when I watched that Iyanla episode it hit my spirit!!! That was definitely a therapy session.

If u mount a tv on the wall go on amazon and get the no stud wall mount it’s an easy install and dnt harm the walls. 😘😘😘 sending peace and love

Girl it’s ok you’re a busy momma that just moved and is fixing up her space! Love the apartment home🥰

Ok.....we roasted you last night for cussin those blinds but today is different. I was a fan already but this remastered you.... I’m here for it!! 17 years ago I divorced my husband. My son was 7. Separation/divorce is not easy especially when you have more than one child because you have to be there for them in different ways and at different times. One thing I can share with you is please don’t push your emotions to the side-sit in them, go through them until you reach the other side. It’s ok to not be ok. I’m 48 years of age and some things are still a struggle for me. Once again I wish you the best of everything!!!! ❤️

Your house looks awesome so far, we as women definitely has super power.. we are mother, friends, designers, lovers, nurse, doctors, drivers and providers!! We runs the world!!

I just love your strength, your strong mindset. You get it done💯 You're going to be A ok forreal💯💯💕😘 Continous Blessings T #TJTV

Women are truly UNBREAKABLE. We may bend but with the MERCY, GRACE AND COMFORT of GOD....We do not BREAK! Stay strong T! BLESSINGS and love. 💕

I need those lights tho! The pink light was giving me everythangg

So happy to see you back on here and living your best life.

Yassss I'm am living for all these videos, I been there and girl I know you are feeling free, and spiritual and doing you, im a bout to make a trip to ATL from FL to come live it up and celebrate with you with my little ones. I'm sooo happy for you, you just seem so happy and full of life I love it

So proud of you. Live your life. God will always make a way. Sometimes you have to leave and order for someone to appreciate you, or what you have.

Can you say PEACE tho!!!! So proud & inspired. I WANT MY SUPERPOWER!

You are a strong women. I had to start over as well and let me say it was the best feeling. I've been much happier with just me and my son. God has your back.