@@zumon_jon thank you! :) no need to envy me lol joy is assessable to all of us!! Trust me I get sad and angry and feel all the difficult emotions too :)
Crazy how i found this video completely random, but exactly what i needed. i have entrance exams in the next week for uni and i feel super anxious and burnt out...always wanna get better for the wrong reason, my brain just says ''study more, study more..'' and i really needed that. thx man, stay healthy and all the best for u.
Now i'm the best version of myself and I'm feeling the worse i have ever been. Progress with detachment and kindness is key. Self esteem = self perception / ideal self. The gap is what make us feeling bad
Totally agree, our self-esteem is exactly the gap between where we are now and where our ideal self is. And if we close that gap, by loving and accepting ourselves the way we are now, then our self-esteem becomes high!
Yeah man I’ve been noticing this more recently. The internet “self-improvement” shit is toxic because it’s become somewhat dogmatic with zero self-love. Contentment only comes with being present and acknowledging that there’s no expectations of you, not chasing an endless unreachable goal. We don’t need to change to have more inherent value, but we can always evolve to improve our lives and others. But yeah great video, and to be honest I’m glad I found your channel because you’re one of few people on this platform giving genuinely useful advice.
@@XalpeN16 thank for saying this, the encouragement is rlly appreciated! And ya I totally agree with you, tons of self-improvement videos out there basically preach to have zero self-love.
Thanks. This was a relatable message that resonated with me. Diging deeper into self-improvement and seeking for answers is good and yet at some point it makes you feel worse about yourself without good proof of whether you need to change certain aspects. For me, the hot themes as if recently were self-esteem, relationship etc. The more content I consumed, the more complicated it got and the less good I felt about myself. At some point, I saw myself in a distorted way because nobody could confirm I really looked insecure or shy or was bad at communication. It got me confused and I decided to take a break from this. Your message sounded familiar for me. Thanks.
Thanks for sharing this! I’m really glad the video resonated. I can relate with everything you’re saying here about self improvement. That’s why I searched for answers for the past years trying to figure out how I can grow in life while still loving myself and feeling good enough. The stuff I shared in the vid really worked well for me!
@@travisegger1316 Thank you. Your video found me in right time. I also believe that growth is more stable when it's rooted in self-acceptance and love. It's a more natural approach than trying to find flaws and fixing them, which will only exhaust and cause more pain later on. Even if the one doesn't accept oneself fully yet, it is still possible to gradually let the guard down and be absorbed by love.
@@winnied87 this was very well said! I totally agree - self love makes growth wayyy more stable, whereas trying to find flaws/improving causes lots of suffering. At least that’s been my experience of life
@@travisegger1316 I try to go the sane path and struggle a bit with self-acceptance and love. Trying to figure out flawas has definitely made me even more upset with myself. I hope to find more inspiration in your videos. Subscribed.
@@winnied87 I really appreciate that! :) I’m going to make more videos on self love and acceptance - this was hugeeee part of my journey in life. I used to people please a lot, and it was caused by me not loving and accepting myself. Have a video called “I stopped people pleasing- here’s how and why.” The whole video is about how to love yourself and feel good enough 💚✌️
