Self Transition Ft. Dr. Iyanla Vanzant 

We need Iyanla to have her own show again. The end.

I love the way that Nick is very receptive to new information when he knows a person true intention ❤ this is a mark of high intelligence

Greetings. My son was vegan, a personal trainer, mentor, and a massage therapist. No children and have never been in trouble with the law. He took his life in August of 2023. He was only 27 and was born on Mother's Day. There's not a day that passes when I don't think of him or cry.

"Do you want to die or do you want to stop hurting?" Damn...

PLEASE HAVE the beautiful, talented, innovative Dr. Iyanla Vanzant back...FREQUENTLY. Sincerely, A truly inspired psychology student.

Iyanlas wisdom is so divine!

Nick is soooo comfortable,,authentic and free when he's in Rev Iyanla"s presence...beautiful.

"I don't know which emotion to take seriously" 🤯🤯

I know that this conversation was for men, but I NEEDED to hear this today! Keep’’em coming!!!❤❤❤

Iyanla is a blessing to the Culture

Man this was like a live counseling session they way she got him saying "I" and owning it

this is such a good convo! no one talks about how men, especially black men don't feel like they have an outlet to talk about the things that they go through!

I am a mother of boys and these conversations are so important! After watching this I'm goning to respond to my sons differently when they cry now...

Wishing Nick the best in his endeavor to find self again and rise out of depression 💗

9:30 - "You have to be inauthentic" hit home. The code switch is so real. And I've seen people code switch long enough that it becomes them. I stay rooted in my culture and just pray that's enough for it never to become me. This show, these talks, are essential

20:51 The doctor's name is Jill Bolte Taylor and her book is My Stroke of Insight:A Brain Scientist's Personal Journey.

She made Yeshua a mere thought and not a person who took our guilt and shame in exchange for His healing and peace. It is NOT found within us, in us without Christ is dark and confused.

I love that Nick did more listening and not talking. The information she gave deserved to be heard!

I'm So proud of Nick for him making this platform I wish my husband was watching fr I love my black King n they deserve to have a safe space good on you.❤❤❤❤

As a mental health provider, I will say it's all spiritual at the end of the day. This world is full of trauma experiences and evil that you have to have a spiritual compass to survive/thrive. A mental health provider simply helps you process and talk (challenge your cognitive distortions) about it with an objective, empathetic, and skilled person who provides a confidential safe space.

I truly love Iyanla, she's the only sane elder we have of doing proper healing and creating understanding. So many gems dropped and balance shown here.

😢😢😢😢 This episode makes me want to go hug man 😢😢😢

There's men out here doing great work for other men. That timeline is truly based on what is put in that search bar. Dr. Jay Barnett is pouring into the young men. It's so beautiful. You should look him up! Keep doing your work, Nick *hugs*

Knowing there's a higher frequency doesn't mean you're operating in it... speaking from me and to me...

I love these spaces for men.

Come on with that stand in that you got power. I FOREVER WILL LOVE IYANLA❤

I loved this. Nick is amazing. I love that he said yes to this assignment. I love mama Iyanla too!

This was amazing, men need to hear this.

Hey 👋 Nick cannon I love you ❤️

When looking for a therapist, always consult with/interview more than two bc you are literally hiring an employee. Who hires the first person they meet?

Wowwww Nick he gets by disassociating when he talks about pain or truama he keeps saying we or they but Iyanla is catching him Everytime and making sure he claims it I pray that he will start claiming his feelings after this so he can really heal and get even more understanding ❤

This is such a great platform! Nick this is when they say you are being your own case study. Thank you for your transparency!

She's beautiful

this one was in the top 5% of the show. she dropped straight fire. how many things do you have to balance in your life - career, marriage, bills etc. take time for you and be grateful to be alive! If you need help, seek it especially if you are a veteran.

Amazing , amazing video bring her back please!

This hit home for me!!! Nick keep it coming my guy

Iyanla 🙌

Peace family ... #Needed Iyanla is always refreshing through trial and tribulation with the truth and practical application to understand... - Thanks for the book recommendation too...

Mam... the God of your understanding hit my confused spirit too hard ❤❤❤❤😭

Blessings

It’s so sad. I pray Nick comes to see through Jesus we have a Heavenly Father who loves us and is our safe place.

Nick your always working ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

Yes!!!!!!!! More of this conversation ❤❤❤❤❤ thank you Nick!!

Great healing information

This is great and I do this kind of work all the time with people. I especially do this work with men. I’m here and ready to work.

It's amazing how quickly she zeroed in on the reality of (AA) male suicide, "men are demeaned, diminished, devalued..." As she says, everybody knows how many children Nick has but almost no one knows that three times as many (AA) men die from suicide every year than (AA) women, that Black men are suffering. It truly is depravity.

Love you both! ❤

This was such a beautiful and necessary conversation. ❤

I love y’all 😊

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Jesus is the answer 🙌

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Great episode!!!

Gods of your understanding what?Our merciful GOD the ONE & ONLY not female nor male black nor white or any other race!!

Love Iyanlas! However, it was a very hard watch on Nick’s part. I felt like she was having a convo with her teenage nephew.

I would love for you to address what the onslaught of babies was about because that wasn't an accident. What was the psychology behind this. No judgement!

The God of my own understanding. Why I never heard it like that before? That’s a bad woman

Think of Ian on the surface the son with everything.

Is he a host or a client? The real work has to be done outside of the public's eyes and not on this platform. Nick is a brave soldier in trying to balance the two. Well done. But he needs his own private space to be helped to heal, off camera. It takes a minimum of 3 Months therapy/ counselling to recover from 1 year of trauma and even then, all isn't resolved. In this instance there is need for ongoing work, support and strategies to help this brave black man to navigate through the generational trauma he is victim of. Money doesn't solve everything. Remember that.

Sincerely ask God to guide you.... And he will. Say "god guide me" and see what happens

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Just drop it in order or the whole clip like why you keep posting clips weeks at a time tryna be mysterious . Knock it off

His heart wanted to cry but held it together to keep the conversation moving forward. I love that people who don’t have access to therapy, counseling, or feel heard by someone close are able to digest for themselves a little bit of healing ❤️‍🩹