This was great! The right technique at the wrong time is the wrong technique. Similarly, the right message at the wrong time is the wrong message. Thank you, Sensei Benny, for your wisdom!
I had to laugh, when he said "Then you start a war." 😄 I think, I started a war too often and probably it was more about me than about them... Helpfull thoughts.. Thinking about my brother and "when" I told him stuff, what I thought was the truth - baaaad bad timing. But it's difficult to hold it when the situation is heated up.