great msg mitch! worst experience of my life was watching all of these things you described happen to my wife at the height of covid when America shut down the fact there was nothing i could do about it killed a part of me so i know where your coming from brother... just take the time to be there and do whatever you can will have an amazing effect and to do that you have to be in a positive state of mind even if you know you're about to face a hell of a day