1: A feminine woman needs a masculine man. 2: A feminine woman needs: Security, from her masculine man. Ephesians 5:3; Matt. 12:29 3: A feminine woman has to have a sense of purpose, in her masculine man's life. - Proverbs 31; Genesis 2:18; 1 Corinthians 11:9 4: A feminine woman needs affirmation, from her masculine man. Proverbs 31:8; Ephesians 5:25-28 5: A feminine woman has to be in an environment of accountability, to be able to rest in her femininity. 1 Timothy 4:5 6: A feminine woman needs a climate of progress; to stay in her femininity. Luke 13:7-9 7: A feminine woman needs consistency, in order to stay in her femininity. Luke 9:62 Thank you Bishop for this reminder. To the top we go!
Been dating a nice, kind, smart man for 6 months but somehow the relationship just isn’t feeling right to me. Something is missing and now I know what. I’m not able to relax into my femininity with him. I don’t feel protected or affirmed. Literally he’s told me one time in 6 months that I looked nice, despite all my efforts. He brings out the masculine in me. Thank you so much for the insight. Will be listening to this talk again.
I was in the same dating relationship some months ago and I felt and knew it was time to Walk Away and Shut This Relationship Down! THANK YOU BISHOP RC BLAKES. for the Widom Teachings AMEN!
I’m having the same problem. I feel like I’m driving myself crazy trying to guess if he’s actually really into me, and I would feel crazy if I ask him. I shouldn’t have to ask, I want someone who will naturally want to make me feel wanted. He’s a nice guy, a man of God, everything I’m looking for but I don’t feel affirmed at all & I question if he’s even attracted to me.
Feeling safe is so primary. Without safety, without truth, without trust....there is nothing. Don't even bother any longer, it's done. No matter how much you love him. It's over.
I remember when I was married I dyed my hair about 2 shades lighter. It wasn’t drastic but noticeable. How about my now ex husband took 2 weeks to notice as I was walking to the car on our driveway 🫤. The man at my job told me my hair looked nice the 2nd day I wore it to work? I said that too, “oh the man at work noticed it right away”, you will think I am making this up when I say this, he said “that’s because he sees you everyday “🤦🏻♀️..I was done ✔️😩
“You can not submit to a man that does not need a commitment to you. You can be agreeable, compromise certain things but, as a woman, you can’t be submitting to every little man who’s trying to date you…Before a woman can submit to a man, he needs to be a husband, and a husband is a man that has made a commitment to the woman to make her wife for life. It’s a commitment of fidelity, responsibility, commitment to protect and provide…” Wow, so on point! ❤️
True, a woman needs a man in her life that allows her to be in her feminity 100%, her feeling safe in her life with him to be 100% in her feminity, he has to be 100% in his masculine. there's has not been one relationship in my life where I could be 100% in my feminine. Amen! someone finally said it, you cannot submit to a man that has no intention of marrying you.
Absolutely a must-a man needs to think for himself and not sway on outsider opinions and suggestions-mom, sister, friends, etc. His woman should be his first in all.
I'm a single mother and you're absolutely correct I have no place to relax in my femininity so I'm forced to "doing" everything which produces masculine energy instead of just "being". From time to time I have to make myself take a break and do things for myself so I can still feel like I'm a woman. Thank you for sharing this information with us.
Good information - Listen when your partner affirms you man or woman .. " babe you look good" I'm proud of you" etc.. Do you know how much power that holds .. You'll walk out that door to work and feel invinsible .. nobody else matters .. 1 man over 10 is everything
I watched this over like 50 times. Im still watching. Thank you Mr Blakes. Im 32 yrs young . Lol . Thank you for this wisdom and knowledge. I wish i knew this when i was younger before i started dating . But im glad im here now . As a Man . I will be ready when i meet my kingdom spouse.
You confirmed my belief pastor. Without a role in a man's life and affirmations, I have no reason to stay in his life. I had to leave someone I loved because he was not able to articulate my role in his life.
I think you missed this. But your role should be based on his progress and consistency. Not by him defining it. You should compliment his progress and consistency.
Before my dad passed my parents were married 63 years and my dad took care of her to the end..it was 9 children that he provided for also all my mom had to do was take care of the home ...my dad taught us to have self respect for ourselves and what to expect from a man. I did fail in my marriage after being divorced for 20 years I notice the mistakes I as a woman made with my x ..
The thought of a good old fashioned masculine God fearing man loving and taking care of me in life and death would definitely no doubt be God's best and I too would like to have a lifelong effect on him as well in his life. Praise God Bishop🎉
The man I'm interested in is a minister and I don't think he is interested, I'm giving up on him. Honey I've done the work, I don't want a feminine man . I need an Alfa man in character and integrity. Holy , loving and dedicated to me.😊
Man I wish I had this yrs ago. You hit the nail on the head. It was a constant struggle in my relationship. Even when I tried to be submissive & feminine - unconsciously I reverted back to doing my own thing. 1. He has placed me dangerous situations multiple times ( despite me voicing my discomfort). 2. He was extremely inconsistent 3. There was no progress, just more problems after problems yr after yr. S/N the video 'read between the lies' had me in tears b/c everything Pastor R.C. spoke on I had experienced. However it did confirm I wasn't being 'dramatic' like I was told so very often.
Pastor this was the best Teaching I’ve heard ever on the whole “Women Living in their Femininity”. Scriptural and soundly practical. What a Blessing you are❤!
Hi everyone, Bishop Blakes you have inspired and motivated me to do and want better when it comes to men! I thank God daily for allowing me to stumble across your RU-vid channel! God bless you and your beautiful wife🙏❤️!!
Thank you Pastor after being in relationships for over 30 years long term and never married, I look back and see none of them were a masculine man as you stated. I lived with them and had to be financial provider, parent and homemaker which didn't allowed me to soak in any form of femininity. I always thought maybe get my hair done more and do my nails would show me as feminine but I now understand its because of the type of men I had around me that made me 'look and feel' masculine having to do it all in the home. This topic is golden Pastor thank you for your time in helping us to be better and choose better 🙏🏽
I was just literally talking with my friend girl about this subject this past weekend…about how I hate when men call me aggressive…I told one I’m a product of my environment… I was telling my friend that a real man knows how to deal with me and naturally bring that feminine out of me
My God, what a testimony concerning your Father, as it relates to Mother. Integrity @ it’s BEST! The fruit of your parents Labor is definitely displayed by you , Bishop RC & your brother, Bishop Samuel!
Very true about having a “ SENSE OF PURPOSE in her man’s life. When a women has no purpose she disconnects “ I give my significant other helpful advice. He doesn’t take my advice and he does what he wants. Then, he complains later when things go awry. Quite frankly, I’m fed up and frustrated. I can’t envision marrying this man. He makes unwise decisions and I causes me stress. I feel a disconnect right now. He is upset and stops talking to me. This man is no spring chicken. He can go on and stay silent because I’m doing fine and I feel stress free. Instead of him being grateful I’m looking out for him with my insight ( most times I’m correct) he opposes me. Good riddance.
I thank God for my masculine husband. I didn't know I was being masculine until he called me out on it. It stung...oh boy it stung, BUT I had to accept the truth and look inwardly. I researched what he meant because I had never heard it before. Now, I'm learning and working on staying feminine. I love my husband and I know he loves me. I've got to get this femininity down with God.
@@yes_i_said_it_ Yes. For females like myself, it's not intentional. I never woke up saying let me be a man today. I'm not a feminist and I speak up for men more than I do women. I love men. I've always been the kind of gal to hang with the boys, that's probably where I picked some of it up from. I think if it's explained to women that we need to soften our responses and approach because the softness is needed, being feminine might be more accepted. It's usually when people say, " you're too masculine" that offense is taken, especially when you genuinely never heard of any energy.🤷♀️ You're left hurt, confused and feeling bad about yourself. I had to shake off depression as well after being called masculine.
@@languageliterature9413 I understand. He said it because he loves you. I firmly believe it's their job to correct us in love BUT sometimes even then it hurts before it heals! God bless you and your husband and your marriage, sis. You're a smart woman! Proverbs 12:1 Whoever loves discipline loves knowledge, but whoever hates correction is stupid.
@@yes_i_said_it_ Yeah, but dang he could have said, "babe I love it when you're soft." I'm like but you like when I hang with your friends🤷♀️🤣. But I get it, I'm too aggressive and defensive. Sigh...
A lot of your teaching has a lot to do with how people are raised. I believe our brothers aren’t taught properly and they don’t understand who they’re. Not making excuses for them its how I see things. I had my share of problems and issues. Listening to this platform has allowed me to open my mind and my thoughts and emotions. I’m learning to love myself more than anything. Self care is truly the best care. I’m an independent woman and it’s hard for me to open up 🆙 to anyone. My healing ❤️🩹 and safety means so much
I agree with you that femininity really grows in the presence of the masculine polarity. It can also grow by the woman’s own efforts for self improvement.
If I could “like” this video a trillion times I would. This is a great and timely message. Thank you Pastor for taking the time to break down masculine and feminine roles
RC Blake’s I’m so completely blessed to have you in my life. Your wisdom and knowledge has reassured me that my needs are not anything of unreasonable high maintenance or expectations rather the desire to Glorify God💕✝️🙏 thank you
This episode was so powerful not only did it hit my soul it hit my childhood and I had to reflect back to see if my Dad was not a good example of a husband and words of affrimation was objectivefying everyone including my mother and pointing out everyone's weaknesses and put on display 😢 now what I do know on my research and doing the internal work is that he is an covert narcissist. Thank you for this it will help me on this healing process.
Agree what all that has been said in video. From my personal experience - With a much pain my heart, I needed to finish my relationship with my partner. After a few months and few situations down the road, I understod he can not help my femininity grow, but rather makes me be more masculine. I did care extremely much about the person and I was madly inlove, but in the end of the day, we NEED to make choices that are healthy for us. Btw, if someone is interested about my painful breakup, I am sharing this on my channel.
Pastor U teaching!!! My God! The main reason I left my last relationship was because there was NO progress. We were literally doing the same thing day after day, which was sitting at either his house 🏡 or mine. He never wanted to go anywhere or do anything (with me) and traveling was definitely out of the question. All he wanted to do was hang out at the park with the fellas and they were out there from Sunday to Sunday at the same time every day. It was the craziest thing especially considering how old he is. Never seen nothing like it in my life.
Thank you bishop my father leaving whilst a toddler... Has meant i didnt recieve and know of this great blessing a father can provide for his daughter and allso i didnt witness my mother being honoured in this way, and as a consequence i have for many decades trying to give to the man or fixing him even though he wasnt invested in my feminity or in me as a women.. I have allways felt tgat something was missing and the final piece of the puzzle falls into place love and appreciation with you bishop what steps are important now... Bless you
TO ALL THE SERIOUS MEN OUT THERE: This is a great video to really take at hart!! Apply this wisdom, with CONSISTANCY, and you will be set for life with your women! A healthy loving relationship is a present that only men who deserve it get their hands on!
Bishop Blakes, I love your messages. You speak in a soothing way and reassure us. The music is a beautiful lullaby. When I have trouble sleeping, I put on one of your messages and it relaxes me and I sleep well.
I’m loving this word and wish a lot of younger women will listen to it and stop being thirsty and acting like wild men! ❤🙏 be blessed pastor & First Lady!
Praise God for restoring all the devil stole, praise God for wanting nothing but the best for his children, praise God for after suffering for a while we can expect to be glorified with Christ, how beautiful is that! In accordance with this word and deuteronomy 24:5, 1 peter 3:7, colossians 3:18-19, ephesians 5:23, matthew 12:29, proverbs 31, genesis 2:18, 1 corinthians 11:7-9, proverbs 31:28, ephesians 5:25-28, 1 timothy 3:4-5, luke 13:7-9, luke 9:62, 2 corinthians 6:14-18 I bind myself to be solely yoked with a godly-ordained spouse and man that makes me thrive in my femininity by being a masculine man with sense of godly purpose that knows how to affirm me while offering an excellent example of accountability and means to progress in consistent way snd binding to hell every lack of thriving in my femininity, binding to hell being unequally yoked and having any common share with any man not bringing out the best in me and not making me thrive in my femininity, in the name and blood of Jesus Christ, amen and hallelujah. Thank you Lord for making this possible ❤!
I have also emplaned this in comments, and they gang up and jeer at me. When a man is strong and takes care of things, the woman has the luxury of letting her guard down and being feminine.
I love this video! My late husband did all those things which allowed me to be feminine. It allowed us to be one. I miss him every day but I know with listening to these teachings, it is making me better for my future husband. I'm patiently waiting on God to bring that love back in my life. No rush.
Thank you thank you thank you Bishop Blakes for this much needed teaching 👏🏽👏🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 I RECEIVED IT!!! You nailed it!!! GOD BLESS YPU AND YOUR FAMILY 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I can't say enough about the things you said it helped me understand myself better, knowing all this time I was not wrong, Thank You So Much Paster Blake's.
Thank you Pastor for your message. This is the most straightforward easy to understand message on a very tough topic for married men. I now know what’s needed without all of the finding clues from my wife. Thanks again
Thank you Pastor for this Word from God. I wish I would have known this information sooner in life. I was married, had children, now I’m divorced. Sometimes I feel like I’ve lived my life backwards. Nonetheless, I’m moving onwards!
I hear what you saying. Growing up I have to be both masculine and feminine especially now. However God is still the head of my house hold so He has been helping and being a mom and doing it on my own I have to tap into that masculine side. Maybe later I will think about resting in my femininity when a man comes around that’s worthy of that. When your use to doing things a certain way it’s somewhat hard to let that part of you go. Thanks for the message ❤
