Please reconsider your language in relation to like a 'stillborn child' - for many parents who have experienced the loss of an infant, a stillborn child has not disappeared as soon as they have arrived, they continue to be part of their family, their life, their whole selves. This is not a comparison that should be made lightly; I would have hoped that family therapists would have more awareness of the potential impact of their language and the meanings this may create.
