I believe that it approaches love is fragile and precarious. Those who do not love seem to need rules and regulations as to how to conduct themselves. So as not too terribly wound someone else. When someone is your baby, they should always be your baby. And if that is a struggle for someone, I would suggest that they not have children and join a monastery. This is setting up for disaster because it no time when he was reading the rules and regulations of conduct between people. Not once has he said the word love. We don’t need all these rules in my house. Because. If it’s not loving, we don’t do it.