My boyfriend once said something that stuck with me forever… to all the girls who feel insecure naked. He told me that we think that we are sneaky with clothing, covering up our “defects”… but men them all :) so if they want to be intimate with you, it’s because they want to share that moment (and yes, probably they noticed even in clothes that you have cellulite or not very flat stomach). It gave me suuuper confidence, because it makes sense 😂 they see everything… i was also thinking that i never backed out because someone looked different naked than what I have imagined… so why would it be the way around? 😅😮
@@alexiawagner2514 You left several pointless, negative and insulting comments. You responded like a troll so I called you one. Reread your own comments and wonder if those seem kind and normal replies to you.
Omg you are looking beautiful! ❤ thank you for this fun topic video. I remember seeing a latex suit on the first season of American Horror Story and feeling some way 😂
I’m so here for the new Esteé phase!! 🔥 Really loved the chatting video! It’s so awesome that you’re opening up about sexytime more in your recent videos! Love you ❤❤
When to have sex with a new person is an individual decision. The first few dates are an absolute no-go for me. I think when you are ready to discuss taking it to the next level and getting tested for sexually transmitted diseases AND have gotten the results back would be a time to start getting into full on sexy time together. But until those results come back and you have seen them with your own eyes, get your LELO or whatever self-loving rituals going after your dates and let that anticipation build between you and your new friend. Or, there are plenty of flirty and sexy things you can do together without getting naked and chancing an unwanted disease! If they aren’t willing to wait, they aren’t worth your time and you most likely dodged a bullet! Safe and responsible sex is incredibly sexy in my opinion! We know often times sex with someone you are just getting to know isn’t always the most satisfying. Why would I risk my life or risk getting an STD for an unsatisfactory experience when I know I can get some serious pleasure on my own without any health risks? Personally, I wouldn’t. Take your time. There is no rush. You are definitely worth the wait! Stay safe! P.S. Thanks for the heads up in the title, Estée! Makes a huge difference in the timing of watching these adult content videos! Your consideration for your viewers is greatly appreciated! 💗
I think it’s an easy perspective when not actively navigating the current dating climate, but chemistry and trust (and quite a bit of virtual nakedness) tends to build up long before people ever meet. So when they finally are in person & secluded, things are almost…inevitable. Always good to work on discipline because safe sex is paramount. But many couples will exchange their test results and discuss expectations early on too. Morality is weaved heavily into your point, and seems to be the real issue with what was said. Early sex itself doesn’t have to be the risk-magnet you portray it to be here.
I actually really rate Ann Summers, when you go in and browse you realise there is actually tons of lovely stuff. I’ve got my nicest lingerie from there 😊
Crotchless lingerie is really great to avoid that pointless "on for two seconds then it's off" That way you can still look and feel sexy but it's still functional ahah
Great video Estee! I have been known to spend a pretty penny on lingerie...here is a list of brands to explore:) Honey Birdette Bluebella Third love Understance Cuup Negativeunderwear Adore Me Hips-and-curves Exotiquefemme Funkypair Lovehoney Thistle and spire mentionables Lushy Skarlett blue Ohlalacheriparis Dallianse Blue Bella Cherie amour Spicy lingerie
Ummm the next goop for the millenials. How does she do it. Also I'm in my thirties haven't really gone out there but like its like is it really divorcees.
Estee saying she's never brought a toy into the bath sounds like you've just heard someone drives with 2 feet. Guess that's one way to do it, but that's not how I thought a truck driver would get from point A to B LOL. Love youuu
Love that you‘re talking about this! The only thing is, maybe we could all change our wording from female/male pleasure to clitoris/penis/vulva pleasure because not everyone who identifies as female has a vulva and vice versa
Oh shut the f up. Just what women need. As if the orgasm gap wasn't bad enough, now we have to obscure the situation by negating the fact that women are female. What a stupid, regressive timeline.
Sleeping with someone on the first date or too soon is trashy. Yes people do it but it’s also ok to reserve sex for a committed relationship. Not everyone is hooking up even though it may seem that way.
Judging people’s sexual preferences and habits that have nothing to do with you is also quite trashy. Let people decide when they are comfortable enough to let another person in.
I don’t consider this tacky, personally. If you consider sex and sexual pleasure tacky, I encourage you, respectfully, to consider why you think that. Sex is a wonderful part of life that should be discussed openly to destigmatise it.
@@velvetvehemence She probably gets approached by tons of brands, and it's not like she makes a new video showcasing a new random product every week. This one must have really resonated and she wanted to share it. Honestly I see it as her opening up and sharing more of herself with her followers. Yeah, it sucks to see videos suddenly turn out to be ads, but it's just the norm these days. I wouldn't automatically jump to the worst conclusion about Estée unless it was just an obvious cash grab, which I doubt she needs given how successful her business is. Just my two cents ✌️
I agreeeee! I eye rolled so hard when the sponcon started. Someone else commented “love that you still do RU-vid videos!” I do not love that she posts YT videos because it’s not for genuine content, it’s to get that bag. TBH I would prob do the same though so honestly no hate… she’s gotta afford those vacations and engagement rings for herself somehow
