Magnus gives so much of himself. It isn't till the tail end of series 3 that Alec reciprocates to the same extent. Also people make alot of Matts looks and rightly so but Harry without his shirt on is a damn fine sight. His arms are ❤.
Magnus is grown grown and I think that’s why I prefer that he is the more giving and decided one, Alec was still growing and he has been repressed and over stressed for so long.
Hear me out I like that Alec is mostly the bratty one, after all Magnus is an adult adult, if you get my gist, it wouldn’t make sense if he was still undecided and a bratty baby. While for Alec, he is young, repressed and under so much pressure.