Shahrazad Ali - The Blackman's Guide to Understanding The Blackwoman 

HAM BONE...No preach...TEACH is the WORD.

When white People say stuff like this

Keep on wishing

llong3316 j. B.

llong3316 No. We were behind the time.

@@3089280288 still are...

Superfacts. Definitely ahead of her time

1st time hearing this November 26, 2019. Feel like she telling me just what I needed to hear. Thank you and as well: all praise and thanks to the most high.

Maurice Gatdula you can order it from her directly on eBay

@@MalikEmmanuel thank you! I sure will!

@@MalikEmmanuel thank you! I sure will!

​@@MalikEmmanuelWhat is the name of her book?

@@ellaluke4028 Black Man's Guide to Understanding the Black Woman she also has Black Woman's Guide to Understanding the Black Man

Facts

You should work your socks off to take care of yourself, so a real woman would work hard to be with a man like you.

We are out here that are still conscious of our people. ❤️🙏🏽

EXACTLY

@@AngiesDoingIt how u know he doesn’t? U clearly missed the whole point … he saying he would go even harder bc a woman like her ! Stop tryn to be so combative

Children they had to keep a man that didn’t want them to begin with.

Very much so. Plus some mother's will use their children as weapons against the fathers and that's just not fair.

Damon Swinton facts

That’s VERY TRUE!!!

I bear witness

Exactly she is one of the few who you can actually call "Queen" and mean it.

Poetic Paradox she was Muslim, which must have added to her clarity as it did Malcolm X and myself (Dominican raised in Harlem). Maybe it can help you too.

malik malik one thing about me is that I don't give up on women as a whole. You have a valid point because American women views are very tainted and distorted but at the same time there is a woman for me that is not poisoned by Western society.

Ossie Rankin I don’t see him like that.

Poetic Paradox your comment immediately brought tears of joy to my eyes. I too am on my journey to be the best man I can be. Great comment brother

Black men are always working to evolve, yet that black mammy refuses to change.

Girl I'm 28 and I wish I wouldve been seen it too smh

You was soft,thats why.

Kenneth Clemons Tommy J Curry. 2017 he rules . picked up and took this much further

That is something they should never do. You have proven you will never love being black.

Michael Smith Just like you. Otherwise you wouldn't go around spewing black women hate.

Yeah they are part of the problem

Thank you for your honesty about the BLACK FEMALE shortcomings... REAL BLACK MEN won't take advantage of the TRUTH of that because he is TRYING to get his own ACT together under the CONTROL of the WHITE RULING CLASS IN AMERIKKKA!!!

We both need healing sis

Not black females.

Because you have black dna and we were both oppressed in foreign countries and taught not to love our men and women

@@sexyndacityable you believe that? Someone actually taught you? Instructed you to do such thing? lol. Or is this just an imitation of conversation, that people believe? You dislike or hate roots from an experience, not just because it was atught

NaturalElicia you fool . just because she uses 50 minutes to espouse some doctrine you agree with you would dare use a notion as forceful as love . I hope that when she meets you she drop kicks you

Me too 😂

Lol boy get the fuck out of here U DNT understand WT the woman is saying For one u don't even know me n just cuz I like the truth I. Wat she saying doesn't make me non of that bullshit u talking bout Homie lol

ME too

one sided loyalty is for suckas ME TOO!!!

Yes, i remember that! I was too young to know what i was laughing at. Its sad how we make fun of ourselves!

Black people were going through this then. We just see it more now because of social media.

I used to love when she and Khalid Muhammad came on Donehue. I was mesmerized at the knowledge of self and love for our people. Changed my life.

Exactly! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

Sulayman Wadoodi Tommy J Curry. 2017 he rules . picked up and took this much further

She's a (lighthouse on the dark shores of relationships in our general community) that's deep!!!!!!! ❤❤💯

Frfrfrfrrrrr

this is about woman,stop deflecting,i can tell you cant complely digest this message,men has always been under scrutiny,this time its the woman turn

better late than never

Have you watched music videos the last 20 years? It’s all white and Spanish broads. Get another talking point that one is easily debunked. What about social media? Black woman tweeking and taking pictures ass first. It’s all ass and baby oil. That’s my fault too?

I fail to understand how Black men continuously overlook the Black women who are the antithesis of what she is talking about, and thirst after the very stereotypes she describes. And I really fail to understsnd the fact that there are hundreds, thousands of Black women quietly going abour our business and having a decent man in our lives, too. I said decent. Honor & respect. Did I say anything about a check, a whip, a baller? No. I said honor and respect. My own father who I found l in jail when I was 20 carrying my own child whose father was already locked up told me this: "Don't come in here calling me Daddy. I don't deserve the title. Your mother was a wonderful lady. The best thing she did was to choose me to marry even though we were living like slaves.The next best thing was to leave the South so you and your brother could have a decent life." Real talk. And we did! Yes, we missed him in our life but had mother abandoned us, too, where would we have ended up? She didnt marry again till I was 16. No men shoes in her closet either. He died a few years after he was released. Broken/unbroken. Everybody doesn't have a supportive extended family. More than half 80 of Black children are born out of wedlock today. So. All these girls are lesbians having immaculate conceptions? I think not. Oh What? They're tripping and falling on the penis? Stop this. Not helping. Stop pointing fingers at each other. Just stop. Get to work. "It takes two to make a thing go right." Boots on the ground: what's really going on in your life Black man, Black woman?

i already dream that ur to late bruh

✊

Get in line buddy! Lol

Was just thinking that.

Oprah is a puppet for white supremacy.

Oprah never tried to be our leader. She never even put that fourth and any Black person who thinks that are totally ignorant. She wanted to be a talk show host after being a newscaster. What weak woman agreeing with this idiot statement above, don't understand that Oprah made money off the white man and woman, not us, and made more than any other Black woman to show you your power. Let me write that again. " Oprah only showed you your power we all have." Mind you Stedman has never left her side and the media will make you think different, but he is there. So Oprah doesn't have to move over, we can stand by her side.

Ignorant thinking.

@@AngiesDoingIt u mad lol

SeptiaWoman.No Preach this ain't church. She's teaching so soak it up.

Anthony Lew, Im ahead of the pack, so to speak, and hopefully MORE will lend an ear!

Sean Pierre Men also have some growing to do. My father was and exceptional black MAN. As a child he shared information I still live by - Live as if the ppl you love and respect can see how you act with others. Always carry yourself with respect. Haven't met one like him that wasn't violent

That what you attract you need to look at the woman in the mirror

Syleis Wiley though digitally, you have. Hi 😊

Shalawam

Love is something that we get when we give it away. We can make as much as we want, absolutely free and it lasts forever.

Power

this isnt for you. this is for black people.

No.her own show.she could reach what, 5 families as two the MILLIONS that need it.she needs to reach them before they have a disfunctional relationship or family so they can build with a healthy one from the start.

I know you are speaking positively about her comments sistah. I respectfully wish MORE BLACK PEOPLE would not refer to other BLACK PEOPLE as MINORITIES in AMERIKKKA!!! IT gives the WHITE RULING CLASS IN AMERIKKKA a FALSE SENSE OF SUPERIORITY AND BLACKS INFERIORITY!!!

Yes don’t give up

SCmade 1 Proverbs says it is better to dwell in the corner of a rooftop than to be in a house with a contentious woman.

SCmade 1 happy for you my king. Protect that family.

Ivor Cash - it is best to be gay and not have to deal with women at all. 😉

Ginn J Sodomy is not an option for any sane person. The key is knowing God and only marrying the person He’s said to.

Larry Mulalley Dr Claude anderson the

She was on the Tommy Sotomayor youtube channel and brought up some more IMPORTANT points

xxMORTIKAIxx boring ....men want whores and shy from responsibility

omalone11 it went over your head. Do you see what we are exposed to in the black community. As a whole we are fatherless growing up in broken homes and then we look to celebrities and entertainers to be our role models.. theyare dead sleep to these things because they only have a focus on a career so kids growing up with no vision whatsoever on how to be a man/woman

That's beautiful Yolanda Mathis. I wish you the best in your future endeavors

It’s not to late.

Better late than never

That's beautiful sista

Godiva Candy that's a good question. That's where I'm stuck at!..... celibacy?... We in trouble...

I know the answer to those questions but they won't be tooken literally, because our people have adapted the Slave Master's ways of thinkin so anything that's of any Divine knowledge is scrutinized by Us. Just like the Enemy of our people do because their unbelief in the Commandments or Instructions of a Higher Power for Us (Black People) to follow... The answer to your questions are in the Holy Bible... I can tell u though if u want to know? My Sista

it is probably too late. the only possible solutions are big collective institutions: either a strong religious revival or political separatism. There is no way to win against a system while living within it. But the temptations of the system are too great for any individual to give it up alone.

Of course there not gonna agree. They are the very black Women she's is talking about. I bet there relationships with men have been horrible and they still don't get it. If you want a successful relationship stay away from them. I call them throwaways. To far gone mentally to return

Look at the facts. We are past to far gone. We are at the point of return

Yes sis

SilverDUBZ right

I love her

Educated BlackWoman there's only a few sisters who catch it but as they say everybody not meant to get it

That's what The Messenger and the Minister do....they raise the dead.

She's Beyond this Woke Crap!....lol

This woman is the eptome

Epitome

41:50! :)

Brandon Holmes yea that's the beat part for me as well .

26:00

Smarchitect Mann 19:50 is where it's at . too many men think they are one dimensional

Now chicks got onlyfans n def don’t need a man in the house 🤦🏾‍♂️