She Cheated. He Forgave. God Restored. | Dear Future Wifey S5, E516 

Well said

🤣😂 🧢'ing

True story..I experienced the same..experienced the mercy of God and his unfailing love through my husband. The love was tangible and undeniable..like she said the love you search for was there the whole time...it brings true repentance from your heart🙏❤

WHOA 🤯 I'm amazed!!

@@DearFutureWifey The reason why people walk away from marriage is that it wasn't built on God’s foundation. The Bible says what God put together, let no man break🙏 God chose them for each other❤️ and she said:” the marriage belongs to God.”

Stay in prayer 🙏 God will mend your marriage ❤

This was beautiful, love it!!

Forgive her look how big Christ love is for humanity. The soul is bigger/greater than flesh

Don’t do it, when a women cheats she had to mentally in her mind get there to allow another man to enter her😂😂😂

@@TroyP20 No. Sometimes a woman Just wants new Sexual experiences.

Sad but true.

@@JusDiff Of course

Amen

If I was him, I'd only see another man on top of her. Not even God could make me take her back.

Even men in their 60s, because they are not totally dependent and submitted to God!

Indeed 🙏🏽

Nope...I disagree...I come away with a lot of issues still unresolved in her life

Guess right there is her passion...calling..purpose.

@@dburnette6723 no one is perfect

@@yanilovee31 m

Yeah, love them BUT LEAVE.

Why do people try to compare the love God has for us to the love humans have for us. We can never and will never be as perfect as him. You're only going to hurt yourself trying. Weird.

@@queenmeiika1 God designed earthly relationships with the purpose to reflect God's love. A husband's love is supposed to look like Christ's love for His church. The love between brethren should imitate the love of God. The relationship between a parental father figure should look like the heavenly Father figure. These are the purposes of those relationships. We should be able to see the love of God reflected in the people of God. It is not an insult to God to compare a husband's love to God's love, it is an honor and shows the faithfulness of that person. It is not weird at all, it is Biblical. For because of the love shown between the brethren, will others be able to identify them as children of the most high God. We can recognize God's love in people without expecting perfection out of them.

14:33 It was him the whole time...Awwwww❤❤😢❤❤😢❤❤

@@censaim Matthew 19:9, from the New Testament, states: "I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery." This is biblical. A lot y’all be making up your own views. If he stays kudos to him, but loving unconditionally does not mean staying married. Even God won’t let you into heaven with his unconditional love unless you first accept him as your Lord and Savior

Men in general would have walked away after that level of disrespect. I was happy for once to see a man be as gracious to his woman as women have always been gracious to men. Homegirl got a good man. She knows men in general would have walked away so I bet everyday she's thanking God that he chose to stay

Men talk a good game but they take their women back too. I've never seen a man leave their lady for cheating even though they all say that they will!!

@@wildonez3076 you should get out the house more if you've never seen that

@@IRejectUrRealitylol like for real ain’t no way a man/woman schould accept or stay in this kind of situations.

Rarely see men take women back , I couldn’t

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Praise God!

You're not young.

Absolutely. Saw it too and he was right there. Also the hand on her thigh is the reassurance of support understanding and empathy and he had it on her through out. They are a very special couple. God's hands is all over them and their testimony

He's spreading the decision of a man she truly believes is a sucker for her.

@@rgw1380rw Exactly. And ain't no god in divorce court either. I could never take her back.

Wow!!!!!!!!!!!!!

You have a way of writing that's captivating and encouraging. Write the book!!!

@@l.dozier1984 I’m fighting tears and taking deep breaths… cause God just spoke though you to me! I declared I would write my first book this year and He gave me a subject/insight just this morning. I’m amazed at His faithfulness!! God bless you! 💜🙏

@Mary Mac yes mam he did! I was just being obedient with delivering the message. You got this!!

@@l.dozier1984 🥰🤗

I agree

That's the goal

@@DearFutureWifey 👌🏽

Yes! Same…,

That's what's really known as caring more for someone than you care about yourself. There's no amount of "rebuilding" that can erase a man's thoughts of his woman being with another dude that he found out about.

@@rgw1380rwIt’s very similar for women as well. But men treat women like just get over it but if he doesn’t make sure she’s okay after his infidelity that marriage isn’t going to last.

@@irenecheatom2601 Tbh, men have learned that it's the man with options that are the trophy man to an overwhelming amount of women. By women's design, that smaller group of guys is getting all the action.

I would forgive to. shows remorse verses going on like nothing happened. continuing to kiss me and make love to me only for me to find out myself which is how it usually goes. which is deceitful and continually lying

@@rgw1380rw I don’t see the overwhelming difference in the number of men verses women that people talk about. I’ve been literally approached by more than 2K men and I’ve stopped counting. I’m not the most beautiful woman in the world externally but I think when men get to know me they think I’ve got the qualities to be their wife. I’ve actually been running from men since before my teens. I don’t understand why women are finding it so hard to get a man. I got married at 18 and 16 years later my oldest son, as we were walking from the parking lot to the store, turned to me and said, “mama do you realize that everywhere we go men are looking at you?”All kinds of bells and whistles went off inside of me, I began to feel as if I was walking in slow motion, I didn’t know that my son could see it. That’s when I realized that if he could see it so could my husband. My friends also could see it although I’ve always kept my circle small with no more that 3-4 ladies because things could get messy otherwise. I was always shifting from friends because of the jealousy and even their boyfriends would try to hit on me. Although they know my integrity as a Christian woman there’s always a question about me crossing the line even after I tell them that I would never do that. It’s not that serious.

Man this. Was awesome, it confirmed the truma most women that is absent of a healthy Father, manifest in unhealthy ways such as single parent households and the promiscuous Behavior

She said it was emotional neglect. That is how she felt and other dude slid in the cracks. It does happen - but look at this healing. 💕😊. These two are going to make it. This is what covering of the God on a marriage looks like. NOTHING can break that bond. They moving as one, as they should. 🙏🏽💕😊

Breeny !!!!!!! Love youuuuuuuuuuuu🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗

May I get to know u better?

She would have a reason for sure.

Another man blessed his woman. There's no hearsay character that would make me forgive that flesh and blood being for doing me dirty.

I am so disgusted by what's going on in the body of Christ.

Exactly. More young brothers need to learn to forgive their woman and take her back after she gets dicked down by another man

Very rare for men to forgive

@@rgw1380rw They love it bro. Go outside the home and spread her legs for another man then forgive her? Not me. Not even Jesus could make me take this woman back.

write that book sis!

@@phillygyrl34 I plan to be finished with in by the end of the year if not sooner🙏🏾

@@paulashipman8281 Yas sis!

Paula!! Yes, how much childhood rejection destroyed my life and interrupted my marriage. Never would has fathom that was the root.

Amen keep walking with God. You will make 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

Blessings to you and may God heal your body completely!

I pray God stretches his healing hands towards you and heal you inside and out in Jesus name Amen

I pray God Heals you soon, pls do well to connect to @Streams of Joy (NSPPD) online prayer platform.

Amazing story. Thank you for sharing such a life changing story with most of us. I'm a woman in my early sixties, divorced after many decades of marriage. Forgave, asked for forgiveness for my part in getting our marriage to what it turned into. It's difficult when you forgive someone who shows no remorse at all. He's moved on and I'm still holding on "to till death do us part" because then if get married , I'll be committing the same sin!! That's what the Word tells me...

Sending you lots of hugs and prayers of healing🫂🫂🫂🙌🙌🙌

So true!

Me too! I’m ready for my godly king! ❤️💍

When she said ...We rose in love....that hit me. It resonated so much in my spirit. God bless this beautiful young couple 💑 🙏

Praise God 🙏🏽

Blessings to you. All things are possible with God. The Lord specializes in making a way out of no way. It's never too late as long as you have breath in your body. Be encouraged.

Sending you a hug 🤗

Arouca Girl Christ Jesus loves you so much that all of your sins, sicknesses, griefs, sorrows, & disappointments HE took them in HIS back for you!!!!!!! His bones in His back were exposed and by those stripes He endured He healed you!!!!!!!!!!!! There’s NOthing that Jesus has not already forgiven! You just need to receive His forgiveness by saying Lord, I receive your forgiveness for me! Our Father has already said that He will not withhold good from them that walk up rightly (Psalm 84:16) Our Father’s heart is LOVE!!!!!! He loves you with His everlasting love and His tenderness of mercy and compassion!!!!!!!!! May Holy Spirit who is our Comforter give you the living revelation and living knowledge of His love and forgiveness and newness of Life for you!!!!! Our Father turns a desert into an oasis and an oasis into a desert!!!!!!! “Nahum 1:9 What do you imagine (conspire) against the Lord HE will make an utter end of it! Affliction (trouble) shall not rise up the second time.” Nahum 1:9 is what our Heavenly Father said to His enemies and we can declare that against everything that will mount itself up against our minds!!!!!!!! Remember how Jesus utterly defeated satan all throughout His 33 1/2 years while in the fleshly body and then utterly destroyed satan and all his evil works on the cross while Jesus hung by LOVE on the cross!!!!!! Then Jesus shouted with a LOUD voice, “IT IS FINISHED!!!!” Then Jesus said, Father, Into You hands I commend My Spirit!” What a MIGHTY GOD AND FATHER who loves us and we get by His grace and faith to be in relationship and fellowship with Him everyday!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Your body is the Living temple where your Father lives inside EVERY SINGLE DAY!!!! Hallelujah to Our FATHER AND LORD JESUS AND HOLY SPIRIT!!!!!!!

I can relate to you ma’am although I am just 24 I too pray in Jesus name to experience the same despite what I grew up seeing. So I’m looking forward to healing. But I pray in Jesus name, God’s willing YOU ❤ will be blessed with a wonderful marriage with a husband who will love you as Jesus Christ loves the Church 🙏🏾

She is a cheater and he is a fool

@@esromteklemariyam9427 Exactly. No way in hell I'd take her back.

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Anytime a woman take a man back for cheating yah demonize her, so why would you applaud a man for doing the same?

​@@ron.247 Im sure this is being said by a hypocrite so calm down

Wow!! I’m going through this exact same thing..

Man don’t do it . Tell her if she wants it to work , u want a no contest divorce and equal time with the kids . U might see how she really thinks . If she says yes , draw up the paper work . See if she signs . Then start again or rip it up and forgive her .

Prayers for yall. Get counseling and therapy if that helps . ❤️❤️

Get Prof. couples counselling, it works. Invest in fixing things. 🙏🏼

Awww😢😢😢

Whatchu said!

Minded their own business.

So true 🙏🙏🙏 Amen. Can't God fix it. Hallelujah to the lamb .

sorry....as a man, there's no way it will be that marriage will be the same Christ, Himself said that divorce was wrong....EXCEPT for the case of adultery.... If and when this man's (and others in a similar situation ) mental health starts being attacked... it'll be best to move on

@@dburnette6723 I agree with you. Most but not all men cannot extend the same grace that women give and deal with on a daily basis... in the perfect world neither would cheat and we wouldn't have to deal with any of this, but the unfortunate reality is it happens more than not...

Thank you so much means a lot

RU-vid does have an award for content creators, where ppl vote for their fave to win

@@ToniaAlex13 do you know where that is? Or how you nominate someone? Thanks for any insight you may have.

@@ChastityStemmons no, you can look it up

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That's amazing

Don’t coddle him either

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That’s good! I was a holler when my kids were growing up due to unresolved trauma, bitterness and anger and it caused them to not know how to communicate. They are all grown now but they tell me how my hollering affected them. I also was a teenage mom and did not know anything about parenting.

❤️❤️👏🏾👏🏾

Whew Chile, I hollered😭😭

@@Tammy1579 Me too!! 😩

BABYYYYYYYY… Now THATS LOVE ❤️❤️❤️❤️

@@AllThingsTiffanyTV Period ‼️💯💖

😂 What a joke!

So true!

Yessssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss!!! Lord!!!!!

I sure did

I feel ya. I totally agree

Amen

Amen sista

SAMEEEEEE

This a beautiful channel- just subscribe. Love seeing people succeed. 😊

She cheated 💀💀 how is she pure🤣

@@daphcajean2171 The great thing about God is that when he forgives us, he treats/views us as if we had never sinned. Though our sins may be as scarlet, He makes us white as snow.

​@@daphcajean2171 Right?! 🤣🤣

@@anng7514this is not true at all

Man! People just say any damn thing! 😂😂

Say again. Amen

His decision to remain in a relationship with her is that of a weak fool. Her character is sneaky.

She told because the sex from the nigga she cheated with was wack and she felt guilty

@@rgw1380rw So you're saying he's weak for staying? So if a man cheats on his wife should the wife walk away? Women are told to not leave their husband and when they do they are blamed for the high divorce rate. I think he is strong for staying after infidelity because it brings up trust which is something that they may constantly have to work on.

@@Izlandprincess1 Women don't always leave their husband because he's cheating, nor are all women told to stay with a man who's cheating. In fact, it's usually the player/man with options that an overwhelming amount of women prefer over the man that little to no women are interested in.

He's weak. He should have let her go Asap

The fact she cheated, she’s already gone! 😂 that was a solid decision not the devil lol

Well put amen 🙏

For real!!!😂 ​@@lilrabbitcuz

@@lilrabbitcuzRejection trauma is absolutely the devil. Emotional intelligence and spiritual discernment is required to understand and make those connections. But those of us who have processed our childhood traumas and are self aware KNOW our weaknesses and vulnerabilities . But that takes wisdom and MATURITY to get there and a lot of time trail and ERROR.

I agree! The book was a great depiction of God’s redeeming love for us.

AMEN!!! Your testimony is what people need to hear. God can do anything especially when two people are walking together in agreement.

@@JusDiff , indeed. Nothing is impossible! 🙌🏾❤

@@charisgrace2614 Amen! Congratulations on your 32 years of marriage!!! 🙌🏽🙏🏽❤️

@@JusDiff thank you. Glory be to God! #Jesusglue

Powerful! Thank you for sharing! This is true love! True humility. True faithfulness in Christ!

Yes absolutely. ❤🙏

Yo. I literally thought that. Hosea and his wife.

What's your IG? I'm his younger brother.jk.

You found your match🤣🤣🤣

@@Rashaadthegr8 lol

What you said lol.

I was thinking the same thing

He's as solid as a toothpick. A testimony to having a strong father in his life wouldn't be forgiveness for someone who truly thinks he's a fool for her.

@@rgw1380rw Everyone is entitled to their opinion and we differ on that

​@@rgw1380rwHave you ever cheated?

@@rgw1380rw Women stay on code. They co-sign each other's BS. He's "solid" because he took a cheating woman back😂

lots of guys stay with women that cheat, most guys just wont disclose that information of of embarrassment!!!

Many do. They just don’t want others knowing they do. God bless them for this transparency.

Not even God can make me take a woman back who's spread her legs for another man. Typical to throw it back on the man instead of just holding her accountable.

@@seedofabraham0149 They don't understand that women and men are different.

@@ron.247 Facts! When women cheat it’s emotional and shows her bitter contempt for her relationship which is far worst than when a men cheats because it’s merely physical.

@@blackfire5179 Exactly.

@@blackfire5179 that's the thing about you men yall swear you know everything about women. A woman cheating isn't always emotional and whether it's emotional or not it is WRONG and a violation of your relationship. If anything cheating, potentially throwing away your entire marriage/relationship JUST because you're horny is way more irresponsible than cheating because of emotional neglect.

Rejection and Abandonment trauma is like a self destroying cancer that sabotages everything around you to fulfill its purpose. It takes your identity and becomes it at the same time. Dealing with this in marriage is just terrible, but God is faithful 🙏🏽

I love this..thank you!!

Glad you enjoyed it!

Yesssss

Wow! Thank you for sharing. Proud of you king. Continue to walk in forgiveness. God can heal your broken heart

It takes time to trust again, y’all will get there

@@kj7682 I was watching Hasani Pettiford who helped me heal him and his wife on RU-vid but he said trust is lost in buckets and trust is gained in drips and I felt that so much I know it’s a process and I’m willing to stand in my truth and be with the one I love

Wow, thanks for taking the time to share this. May God cover you with a tranquility that surpasses all understanding and bless your marriage.

It takes time! Pray, fast, get help. It wasn’t your fault. Keep everyone out of your business. I went through the same thing & just one day I snapped out of it.

LOL...Nope. Don't try it: keep that 'gina away from other men if U married because this don't happen everyday.

90%%men I believe will leave you if you cheat....Women mostly forgive because we love deeply and want to make it right but a man will cheat and don't even care......my ex cheated I forgave him lots a time till I got tired and left.......Now he regrets it because he never thought I would leave as am the good Christian woman but he messed up being the Christian man. Everyday he thinks about what he lost when he lost me. Thing is forgiveness is good but when a person take ur forgiveness for granted then somethings got to give 💯

He a damn fool