My Daddy told me one time "Don't settle for a girl that settles for you. Find the one that wants you so bad she'll treat you like the man you should be."
She acts like that when you are the reserve dude. You are either second or third string on her team. When Chad, or Leighton aren't available, it's your turn to waste your money on her. The thing to understand is that she is the second or third option for Chad and Leighton.
@Kuba P or maybe she just doesn’t want to hurt your feeling and you can’t identify social cues. I don’t know why men continue to pursue woman who made it clear they are not attracted to them. It’s not hard. Get a clue.
Im turning 38 soon. And hafeez is 100%. If she doesnt want you, move on. This is what you have to do: Heal and confront your issues, go as deep as possible, work on yourself, if you want a high quality women you gotta level up yourself, never forget your personal growth comes first, you cant help anyone else without being solid yourself, when you find the right person, you gotta put in effort , consistency, and maintenance. Listen to me, no good things come easy. And if for whatever reason things dont work out, its never wrong to love, its always good to give love, forgive yourself and others, you are loved, you are respected, you are worth it. I love you guys and wish only the best for remainder of 2020. -a healing heart
@Tanghho Perfectly said sir. Just turned 38 here, and your advice is spot on. Appreciate this more than you know. Let’s do the damn thing gentleman! All the best sirs.💪
Nobody likes low hanging fruit. Not men, not women. Most of us want people who don't want us and we have no time for the people who would do anything for us.
Being a man isn’t just about getting what you want and celebrating your successes, it’s also about knowing when to walk away, knowing how to learn from your L’s.
Yep. It really doesn't matter male or female. The shit is true regardless. If you are chasing someone who doesn't want you, it's because you don't love yourself.
@@heatherstacy2976 Damn. That hit so deep, but oh so true. That was me though. Chasing a woman who was playing games for a year and I tried SO fucking hard to make it work, I did everything. I completely put myself out there, I was vulnerable with her. But NOTHING worked. Eventually I just told myself, "what the hell are you doing man... you don't deserve this." I've had past relationships/situationships where I felt like I could have done more to make them work... but for this, I have 0 regrets because I put it all out there, and if it didn't work that's on her.
First of all, if she is "playing hard to get" or being rude with you is because she never been genuinely into you. I can garantee you 100% that's not how she would behave with a guy that she keeps on her mind. Don't waste your time guys, she is not the queen of Wakanda! I support this channel. From a Brazilian girl 😘
Not really money. It is more like if the guy provides and protects. A rich guy with no intentions to provide and protect is a turn off. At the same time, a guy of moderate means, who would practically provide and protect, is great !
If you have to convince someone to spend time with you, something is not right. Don't beg for anybody's attention, you deserve better! That goes for friends too, not just love interests.
But, you do have to be mature enough to ask. But if there is a clear lack of interest then burdening yourself further will only hurt you and possibly the other person. Move along, heal if you need too, and keep bettering yourself as a person.
No. A lot of women don’t want a good man they just want a man to finance their lifestyle so that they can sit at home and be stay-at-home mothers. That’s all. That’s 85-90% of women. Majority of women don’t wanna work.
As the great Patrice o neal said a lot of women self sabotage when it comes to the elevating. Be ready to move on at any giving moment with or with out them.
I am so happy that so many men have woken up. The other day a friend of mine was complaining saying men have changed. That fellas don't care. She said initially when she rejects a guy, the guy would always come back. she says now, when she rejects a guy, he disappears for good. ✌🏿
Well, she may be hitting that wall too and/or developing a body count. 20 year old virgin? I might beg her back - can't find those. 35 year indebted femi-nazi drowning in debt who has been ran through? Dime a dozen.
100% accurate! It literally took me years to understand you absolutely CAN'T "make" a woman want you. The sexiest woman is the one who sees your worth and thinks you're the man.
not true... You can with money.. I have made relationships work for awhile solely on the fact that i offered them a free place to stay. if I didn't the relationship would have went nowhere
@Jaylin Owens They were somewhat... All 3 of them have wanted to leave only because I wasn't comfortable with her bringing friends over/ me getting jealous of her cheating on me... if I would have been laid back, and accepted the chances of her fucking another man from time to time on the side..... I still would be fucking a woman I find quite attractive to this day just for providing her free rent.... If you throw out morals, you can live a happier live I am finding out...... I'm in that situation now....
When a woman desires you, you don't have to 'work hard' to get her or keep her. Nothing you do will keep a woman who doesn't want you. You may do all the right things, but the point is, she doesn't want those right things to come from you!
@The monster under your bed You DAMN right because MOST of you men are unattractive to women. Now, your gender gets to see what it's like when you are held to the same superficial standards of beauty.
“Once a woman turns against you, forget it. They can love you, then something turns in them. They can watch you dying in a gutter, run over by a car, and they'll spit on you.” - Bukowski
a female in her true feminine energy would save your life! she would come after you and aid you in a hospital. stop with this misogany. it's bad. it's so bad. if a woman hates you she can control her emotions and turn back to loving you to save you. don't underestimate the power of a female's love and emotions.
A lot of people needed to hear this. Don’t chase after people who don’t want you. Think about all that you are missing out on with focusing on things that’s not pertaining to you or have your best interest at heart. We are here for a short time,don’t waste it on people who don’t value you.
Yep that was me in teens and early 20s.. kept thinking about that 1 person.. for way too long.. then that one other person for way too long... wish I saw this at a younger age, so that I wouldn't have wasted so much time dreaming
Don't chase her, initiate and wait for her to reciprocate. Women like men who take initiative, trust me if she likes you she will show it. There's a difference between pursuing and chasing. Chasing implies the object of the chase doesn't want to be caught lol, pursuing should be on both sides. You both pursue each other
laja82 don’t expect a guy you do want to put effort into you then because he doesn’t want you. So many women say my man doesn’t put in effort blah blah blah
Guys: I'm almost 60 yo and married for 30 years and I can attest that what Hafiz said is spot on. I wish someone told me this stuff when I was 20. I had to figure it out on my own.
@@ARTDEVGRU247 I am married, for 25 years, and counting. My point was that despite the ups and downs we've had, we still choose to stay together. I look to the future. And as long as my woman treats me right, most of the time, I will stay. I understand that people have bad days, and I am willing to cut her some slack. But I have made my boundaries very clear. Recently, she crossed the line, and I very openly searched the 'net for alternate accommodations. When she reluctantly asked what I was doing, I told her. I also told her I would stop looking if she gave me an honest apology, whereby she acknowledged her misstep, and then said she would not do it again. So far, she has not done it again. But if she tests me again, she knows I won't stay*. I told her less than a year ago, statistics say I have 20-25 years left, and with more yesterdays and fewer tomorrows, I have precious little patience left for being jerked around. Age gives freedom. The life I have given her has been, and continues to be, better than anything she could have had without me. It has been said that a woman's loyalty is tested when her man has nothing. A man's loyalty is tested when he has everything. *Action speak louder than words. Talk is cheap. Actions take effort. Also actions, by definition, cannot be faked.
Although I didn't know how to articulate it back then, I married a woman at 22 primarily for one reason - that girl was on team ME. 27 years later, successful largely because of her support, and I could not be happier with how things turned out. So glad I didn't end up with one of those girls that wanted me to chase after her.
Right on and CONGRATULATIONS -- A marriage should be a Partnership because it take Teamwork to make the dream work. A woman is supposed to be a 'helpmate' according to the Bible -- If she is not willing to help you, she will likely end up hurting you.
@@hangukhiphop I had to unlearn & rewire my self this year. Alot of us guys think it's our job to safe her and we end up sacrificing ourselves in the process. If she need help she should seek therapy. Alot of women out there are aware of this masculine energy we bring in and they capitalise it once you're not useful they move on to a better partner leaving you instead of you to channel that energy into building yourself as a Man
Or the "winning the trophy" mentality, where she does absolutely nothing and you jump through hoops and compete with other guys to prove yourself to her.
@@hangukhiphop and here we see antoher comment making it about how women feel. idc how women feel. This is about men. Stop trying to co-opt mens issues. and also if an attractive man was doing it it probably wouldn't be very distressing. Also, women are distressed by lots of things. Its cause theyre neurotic have a lot of irrational fears. not something men can help.
Live in abundance gentlemen, have options and be on your grind. There are billions of women on this earth, do not concentrate and focus on that one woman who is not investing in you. Keep your heads up and stay strong my fellow men.
Guys, its a last call from God, believe in Jesus and repent for your sins( change mind about sin),Jesus loves you and is going to give you peace and joy, hard times are coming to the Earth, you will remember my words, repent today and put your trust in Jesus, read the Bible to get to know him, tomorrow is not promised❤️
@BubonicTonic false most fat women especially bw want what they can't have and they will try to get with the best looking and most in shape guys, they don't go for the fat or balding guys unless they have no choice or are benefitting, most fat women can sleep with the attractive guy but he'll usually never be in a relationship with them
@@blackkyurem720 well, tbf, a lot of these stories that I’ve heard are from guys who don’t want to ruin a friendship, or they can’t tell if a girl is flirting or just being really friendly (naturally more extroverted).
@MeTHoD Yes, the first lesson is always: are you a mature and good enough person to be dating right now? Low self-esteem? Get it in check FIRST. If you are not good enough without an SO then you will not be good enough with an SO.
IvanXredpill women know who they’ll give it to on sight or during a first link up. If you out here wining and dining multiple times then you’re not Chad,Tyrone
My homie always says, "If I was Chris Brown, you would return my call immediately." That is the standard to live by; she needs to act urgently towards me or I'm out!
KingJugganaut19 Really? So you are willing to date any woman? It doesn’t matter her size, how she looks or her personality???? Bro, the only difference is the type of “what you can do” For some people (men and women) it’s looks, for others it’s money, e.t.c
@@brandyandcream2 looks aimt what we mean by bringing to the table. This is 21 st century. We look for more in women. Every time I ask what women bring to the table ,all they say is sex and looks. We men have moved on from such things and are looking for more then that.
In my last relationship, I started to have feelings for my friend, I told her I liked her and I wanted her as my girlfriend, but she rejected me at the beginning. Then I kept seeing her and hanging out with her, and of course she liked my attention and my begging. She continued rejecting me for a while and I continued insisting. At the end she accepted to be my girlfriend and we dated for around 7 months... but guess what?... all that rejection from her and all that begging from me before, created resentful feelings towards her and that didn't help in the relationship once we were couple. Lesson learned! NEVER insist a woman to be your girlfriend, you ask her just once, if she says no, NEVER ask her again and move on!
I had a similar thing happen. I liked my brother's friend and would text him sometimes and he didn't really seem interested and wouldn't text back as much but we started dating a year later and the resentment got the best of me as well so I had to end things.
I've been stuck on a girl I work with for a year now. Falling in love really, been on dates and chased her the whole time. She cancelled on me on the day many times, slow replies always, of little interest but would never admit to me she wasn't interested, she told me she liked me but her actions said otherwise. Thanks for this video, I needed to watch something like this. It's time to move on, I deserve better!
If a woman does not want you, move on, and move on quickly! In my opinion, his analogy of a job interview is right on point. If you were an employer, it would be highly foolish to hire or to even keep an employee who does not want to be there. Having such an employee would simply just bring more problems. So having a woman who does not really want to be a part of your life will bring you a great deal of drama, chaos, and disappointment. Staying away from such a woman is akin to dodging a bullet, so moving forward is a tremendous blessing. Better to find out now than later. 👍🏋😊
I am forty-eight years old, and here is what I have learned: There is a small minority of women that I didn't get with because they didn't want me, like Hafeez says, or I had no game. But for the vast majority of women who didn't get with me, it was a huge blessing. I look at these women now, and I am like, "And to think that I could have ended up with her! Thank God she turned me down!" I want to clarify my statement because I can now see the ambiguity in what I said, based on some of the comments that have been made. First, I want to apologize if my use of “God” offended anyone. I am sorry. Staying in the context of the video, I am saying that men need not wallow in self pity for not being wanted by a woman. Rejection can lead you to a better place. I am not referring to misfortunes that have befallen anyone. It rains on all of us. Let’s just say that I am happy with my journey, thus far, and I doubt it would have been possible with these women.
I'm 26 and I feel like even sooner than your age I will feel that way about my ex. We are the same age, were together 8 years and have a child together. Shes definitely starting to go downhill....😂
@Rasul Daniels no is not, it is dumb luck, she had another sucker with better prespectives lined up, do not use God name in a situation like this, when you feel God protection you dont need years down the road and the misfortune of others to feel blessed, can you understand?
@Rasul Daniels obvious you do not, you are a modern person, the type that dosent respect the life experience of their ancestors and even worse dosent respect others beliefs.
Never become an option. The second you realize that you are her option and not first choice... MOVE ON and don't look back. I have this happen and the girl messaged me a few months later and said she wanted to go out but was shocked when I passed. When she asked why, I told her it was because I was just an option to her and not a primary first choice.
I have also been That Guy who was up late crying because my “friend” who I loved so married another man. My moment of clarity was figuring out “while I’m lying here crying, she’s laid up under her husband not giving me a second thought...” So I decided right then to not let people stay on my mind whom I know don’t have me on theirs.
Your last thought has also been mine for the last 20 yrs. I would sometimes stop communicating with people just to see if they'd ever try to initiate contact. Let's just say, I have lost several 'friends' cause they never really were.
Needed this reality check!! I’ve been the guy who did all type of stuff to get a girl to like me, want me, and thought if I just kept trying it’ll workout. But like you said, we not doing that anymore!
Doing nice things for women (and others) is great! Just make sure you are doing it out of a selfless pure space instead of hoping to receive something in return. If you do nice things to try and win someone over, that's a form of manipulation that isn't so subtle.
AJ L it’s also manipulative for a woman to take things from a guy who she knows is into her but she’s not into him. Woman keep these men around for validation and non sexual attention all the time.
The funny thing is, many girls will try to get into contact some time after they flaked or ghosted. Sometimes, you can get some action out of it, but I can guarantee you that sooner or later, they will flake or ghost again. Once a girl flakes or ghosts, never plan anything long term with her.
I would take a girl out im my car which okay but not really expensive. Then on the second date I would drive my dad's work truck and give no explanation as to why. If they avoided me after that then I knew what they were about. My wife rode with me no matter what I drove and we have been together for 32 years. We built together and she has my back.
Get you some and move on. She doesn't actually want you, she's playing you. Make it difficult for her and act aloof. Be distant, distracted and unfazed by her effort.
I truly don't understand this theory of human beings being out of another human beings league. Y'all funny as hell. If u want to say that type of women isn't for everyone say that. Insta picture takers have plenty to bring up in terms of negative attributes but to say somehow there above someone else is ridiculous.
I’m an older man and I hope the young men listen to this message. It is 100% accurate. Unfortunately “most” young men don’t follow the instruction of their seniors...it will be to their detriment.
I'm extremely attractive n even I'm not good enough its usually ooohh ur a fuckboy or he's too pretty i rather go for a guy thats lesser than me so I can get validation from him while ironically I'd be the better match for her n can please her more than that simpleton ever could.
I’m pretty sure a lot of anime still tells it like it is, it is one of those mediums that is not completely yet polluted by any type of extreme feminist agenda or “bluepilled” (if you believe in the pills bs) so I’m pretty sure it wasn’t a good example. Not to mention most good anime does not focus on romantic relationships.
@@samuelvelazquez8834 Shalom Greetings I don't think I paid attention to the romantic relations in my favorite anime unless I had a crush- I couldn't watch it as much either so I didn't pay attention because I had to go to no fun school. Thank you for your perspective.
Absolutely agree! I had a guy walk away from me just to see him chase after a woman who didn’t want him and seemed to be very toxic. Even had a baby on him with her ex. When you see your interest chase after people like that, it’s not you. They are trying to fill a void they haven’t healed from yet. Everyone deserves to be desired in their relationship. Know your worth Kings and Queens!
Yes happened to me as well. Reminded me of women that come from abusive relationship and jumps right back into another abusive relationship. No time in between to reflect or heal. Unfortunately they generally are late to the game and continue this pattern thru out their life.
@@cashflowhustles thats true but i guess this guy is another all women are the same so he thinks is her fault. Same shit that girls do when they say that all men are bad
He’s right fellas. I ended up in a 2 1/2 year relationship (got engaged too) when something awakened in me that the relationship was never set on a strong foundation to begin with. It was my lust that allowed me to “pursue” her then it wasn’t till we were separated (she lives in Germany and I live here in the states) for a year AND during this COVID mess that forced me to sit down and ask myself, “Does this relationship actually make sense?” From there, I became enlightened on everything and realized I not only had a lot of personal issues to work through but I needed to end the relationship altogether before it would go too far (marriage).
Deep down you know straight away when a woman really likes you.. But when you’re younger you think you can run these tricks and games to create genuine interest.. We’ve all had the feeling of pulling teeth and getting know where, and yet other times women have made it really easy.. That’s the difference between genuine interest and not.
Absolutely! TV and movies got us guys all messed up in the head. Begging like Steve Urkel is not reality. Brothers DO NOT SETTLE. DON'T ALLOW YOURSELF TO BE MARGINALIZED.
I learned this years ago. TV screws up real life relationships with Hollywood script written fantasies. I swallowed their tripe myself until I hit my 30s. This information has been around for centuries just not shared or known to everyone especially men or your AVERAGE man. There were dudes in high school who knew about this but I was clueless back then.
Girls don't want Steve Urkel but they get sopping wet over his alter ego Stephon. TV also taught us that. When you have confidence, be about your goals, be the smooth alpha and women fall over themselves to get to you. Trust.
@@EzeICE they crazy thing about Steve Urkel. He wanted Laura so bad. She did not really give him the time of day unless he was more like his Alter ego Stephan. He literally had to change who he was for her to give him a chance. Whole time his equal Myra was in love with him. She was smart and beautiful. They had more in common but he could not see that. I think she mirrored who he was and Laura mirrored who he wanted to be when it comes to social status. He could not see what he had in front of him.
I tried this very often, when I was trying. I was told there is someone for everyone; and everyone has a soulmate. These are all lies. I dont believe any of this crap, not after 30+ years of trying. Only to get the old "can we just be friends." 7 years ago I came to the conclusion that I am going to die alone, not have a family. Now the end result of trying for so long 9and other reasons) I'm clinically depressed.
@@angelphoenix7784 Sorry to hear this man. I can relate. You need to find a purpose outside of marriage and a girlfriend. Self improvement, gym, make new friends, look for a new job. That's what I did. Still single, but I recently got a new job with one of the biggest tech companies on the planet. Working out, changing my diet. Honestly haven't been this happy in years despite being single.
Couldn't agree more. Chasing is tiring when the energy is not reciprocated. And having the right mindset will lead you both to pursuit each other. I know this sounds cliche but always choose YOU first and put yourself first. Once you establish you, trust the process. Someone amazing will come along and sweep you off unexpectedly. It did for me. Thanks Hafeez for another good video!
There is a difference between "chasing a girl" and "a girl who wants a little chase". The first is *your* decision and you look immature and desperate. The second is her decision and is only one among many hints she has made obvious that she is into you.
Sometimes you can't always have what you want in life and its okay, you're still alive, just take a breather and you'll come to understand you can live without it.
When I was 21 I think...I wasted 2 years of my life chasing this girl. I mean from treating her to bowling and dinner, to hanging out with her. Trying my best to get her to change her mind..even after she friend zoned me. Years later..I was buying my current gf a gift from a store, and there she was. I just looked at her and laughed so hard 🙉😁. The cashier wanted to know what was so funny. I told him life lol👌🏾🙏🏾
Haha guys remember that women has an expiration, when they age 30+, they are now consider left over, you can see first with looks, flabby arms, wrinkles, bloated abdomen, and like a drum body. You guys cn lways get 20+yrs old, just improve yourself confidence. Those 30+, women only want your resources. Dont marry, because the court is always on their side. Dont give them chance to bite you. Just pump and dump hahaha
Yeah it’s true. The exact thing happen to me in my early 20’s with I a girl I was working with in Walmart. Spent 2 years pursing her all while telling myself “just be myself, prove my worth and putting in the effort and time.” Did everything she said she wanted from a man. Guess what I was putting in all the hard work and effort for other man that weren’t even doing half the things I was doing for her. It was a wasted 2 years but a valuable lesson. Know when to walk away from a women.
I always tell my guy friends, look you know that most of these ladies dah keep high standards, you know there are one or two guys, that easily mess around with her and you could even be better looking. So why waste your time investing.
right. people need to realize that as time goes by there will be flaws and down times. if you and your partner are able to persevere through those tough times then that’s how you know your relationship is worth it and meant to be.
My man, Hafeez, is exactly on point. I'm 59 and have chased too many women top many times and the urge to chase still remains. We must always remember that if we as men are constantly chasing it simply means that the woman doesn't want to be caught. Pursue? Absolutely. Chase? NEVER!!!
I stopped chasing women in 2005. I only have access to one stand nights. I am well positioned and I saved lots of money so people are a bit jealous of my lifestyle. With covid everything is different, I can't do that much but I keep studying and I work twice so: more money.
3 years in my college days I liked a girl, went college jst so I could see her , been 2 years since I completed my college N guess what I'm happily single Learned it the hard way but I guess we all learn.
Yo, I'm a woman watching this, THIS MAN IS PREACHING. There have been guys I didn't want and then I hated them MORE because of them trying too hard, it was suffocating.
Female prospective: I can recall two separate instances when I politely rejected a man, not because of any fault of his or appearance reasons...I was just genuinely not interested. I politely rejected them & they both took it in stride. They didn’t try to convince me, question me, or suddenly become outraged like many have in the past. They pretty much just smiled, said they enjoyed hanging out with me, and said their goodbyes. I can honestly tell you I felt a tremendous amount of respect for them as people & how they conducted themselves. I actually thanked both of them for being really cool about it and told them I really appreciated it.
I was in this situation in my early 20s and it was really painful to the extent that i started doubting myself.It can destroy a young mans confidence as he grows up to become a better man.
Guys, its a last call from God, believe in Jesus and repent for your sins( change mind about sin),Jesus loves you and is going to give you peace and joy, hard times are coming to the Earth, you will remember my words, repent today and put your trust in Jesus, read the Bible to get to know him, tomorrow is not promised❤️
Robert G you do know this is a Christian based channel right? Like he talks about God and praying and faith all the time... just saying.... i feel like your just coming at dude just to have something to be combative over. Thats not how a man acts bubba....
El Luech smart people don’t have to call themselves smart and announce it to everyone using it as an excuse to chastise someone else for their beliefs. For the record, I don’t subscribe to religion, as I believe anything based in dogma and ideology is not only nonsense but dangerous. You don’t have to be a dick though. Y’all look just as fanatical as he does at this point....
Look up Serapis Christos to find where Jesus Christ originated. Also Reincarnation was removed from the Bible in the 1500's by Justinian's wife as well as the book of Enoch, & more
Be wary of the three different types of "yes". A yes without a when and how doesn't matter. So even if she says yes, hammer out a plan coming from her.
@TomaszSosnowski I hope I'm misinterpreting your meaning. You don't wait for a plan from HER You don't even hammer out a plan from HER. YOU come up with the plan. The last thing she wants (ANY "she") is an indecisive guy who won't lead. This is why I'm hoping I'm missing your meaning because if I'm spot on, then that's a beta move duke.
@@tharukkus I appreciate your comment and understand your point of view. I had something more subtle on my mind, and probably didn't elaborate on it clearly. Her yes without a detailed how, where and when means as much as a maybe or a no. She can say yes and mean no, if she doesn't want to cause any headaches. It is beyond the matter of leadership, being beta etc. Lastly I had a woman texting me, wanting to spend time with me, yet the details were vague and blurry. When pressed for a specific date, her yes turned to no.
Just found this channel and I'm thoroughly Impressed. I'm 36 and have been thinking like this for years so it gives me hope for the future. Good job fellas, great content 👍😎
"ANIME IS A LIE" Whoa man. I was with you until you said that. My childhood friend who beat me up when we were kids will definitely fall in love with me by next year.
You are such an amazing, godly, handsome man!!! The loss was hers. She really did not see your value. She definitely was broken. Thank you for all you do in these podcasts. Love listening to your advice. Wish I had this information along time ago.❤️🙏
The problem with this is, for the overwhelming majority of men, that woman he's with, he still wasn't her first choice. And she mostly still doesn't want him.
The greatest problem in the world is distribution. There are millions of young boys and men in early 20s who need this video so bad but they will never watch this cos they don't know this exists and sadly most of them learn after going through a very demoralizing experience lol
it'll be okay - you ever notice how there's a hundred different versions of the "Hang in there" motivational poster? same concept here. there's a book that became popular a few years ago (cant remembers its name atm) but it had the same message in one chapter, "Don't be with someone who isn't excited to be with you" the message is getting out there, even if they don't see this video, i have faith they'll see a version of it and take action
This issue is really about stages and being real men. Being available to my sons is the most important thing I can do for them to teach them how to be a man , a real man. We have many men who are not available to their sons by choice or force ie: the woman. We also have fathers who are available but don't sit their sons down and teach them these lessons.I teach my sons they're the prize. Women can't have babies without us , which is the most important thing to most , not all, women. I also teach them they must know a woman respects them . Love is still not going to keep a woman feminine, not fool around behind your back , lie to you , and third 1 red flag that's it . Generally real men will make the validation mistakes when we 're young . By the time we been through the fire of life ,to around mid 40's into 50 that's when most of us do the things we should have done when we were young. I'm teaching my sons this early , that my father never taught me .
I agree with some of the points, however I’m glad there’s a big brother out there for men to look up to and learn how to be high quality! Definitely going to do a reaction and talk on your video on my RU-vid. As I teach ladies how to be a high quality lady.
As a 46 year old man let me say this ...I’m NO WOMANS consolation ( since it was such an important issue for the 2 idiots in the comment section)prize....... LOVE ME or LEAVE ME ALONE.
Making mistakes is super important thou. It's also important to have someone to teach you about those mistakes.. Made a shitload of mistakes still do and no one there to teach me what I'm doing wrong or have to do right. Thou...The roommates is changing that! Awesome stuff!
Hafeez...I truly think there needs to be a topic on ARTICULATION. Some men truly dont know how to articulate what they want specifically. And then they wander why they have the outcomes they do....”Say what you mean and mean what you say...”
