She Got STOOD UP. See Why 

pin worthy.

You're a real one.

@@AbaNPreach Is that a POS??? Pin of Success..... BTW.... good woman right there!

nice

Definitely a real one here

yess!!!

@@Johnyjohn-mc-jonjon Brah even saying 7-8 can land you in hot water lmao

The scale for women isn't 0-10, its 6-10.

not more....everyone

Everyone needs to accept this.

Used to use that line on people I just wasn’t that interested in. Thankfully I am not an asshole anymore.

Wish my last gf gave me that same courtesy lol. Unfortunately she didn't come to that realization until a good 9 or 10 months into a serious relationship with me. I mean we're close friends now (some weird stuff happening between us right now actually if I'm being honest), but 4 or so years ago when we broke up it left me pretty headfucked. I mean I was WAY into this girl and it seemed as if she felt the same way, however apparently she was only with me in an attempt to get over her ex who she literally broke up with to be with me. Naturally I wasn't aware of this at the time, but apparently it really messed her up and she was more or less just dating me for a variety of entirely selfish reasons, so when we finally did break it off she was allegedly doing so entirely for my benefit because she felt she wasn't being honest with me and she was also still reeling at the loss of her ex. Granted she did leave him, but it was more so the fact that she was so upset that it couldn't have worked out with him otherwise coupled with losing him. He offered her certain things like stability, comfort, and he was a total pushover for her in almost every situation. However there were a few particularly important areas that he fell entirely short with that acted as proverbial deal breakers, so even if he did have some benefits to offer she was pretty unhappy. I guess I filled in most of the areas he wasn't able to for her, so she thought a change was in order. It became pretty apparent shortly into the span of our coupling that she hadn't at all considered the deeper implications and long-term repercussions of her decision and/or perhaps thought that the new relationship with me would be enough to mask any potential emotional toll that would arise. In either case she was drastically mistaken and sorely miscalculated because I swear it was like a friggin' switch was flipped, and suddenly she was practically insufferable to be around and developed quite the proverbial "Jeckyl and Hyde" complex, unpredictably jumping from caring, endearing, and endlessly affectionate to being temperamental, cold, mean-spirited, even downright deliberately and aggressively adversarial and cruel. It would even happen mid-conversation when we would be spending time together and I could literally watch her entire demeanor shift inside of a second or two. Her facial expression, vocal tambor/cadence, posture, even the ambiance within the local environment would just suddenly change and in some ways begin to dull, even "sag" if you will. It was fucking freaky man seriously, and as an empathic/INFJ personality type myself I was always especially sensitive to such things and it would always begin to make me literally physically ill if I had to sit and friggin' marinate in that toxic-ass shit for any extended amount of time. In some cases she would then start drinking of course thinking it would help her feel better, but all it did was make her more malicious, vindictive, and petty in her attempts to get a rise outta me or try to make me jealous or whatever only to have me end up holding her hair back and comforting her at the end of the night while she ralphed her guts out. It seemed like a phase and I knew something was going to and just HAD to give if we were ever going to work out, so fortunately we split when we did. Clearly she had quite a bit of self-work and introspection to do before she could ever be in a healthy relationship of any kind, not to mention some untreated mental health struggles to address (she'll admit this herself, although she's yet to actually seek out treatment for what is clearly major depressive disorder; I would know I've been doing the same dance and seeing all manner of shrinks and therapists since the 5th grade on and off lol). I love her to pieces and we talk almost every day, but since we've been reconnecting more and more over the last year or so it's become clear that she's still really struggling and frankly I'm quite worried about her. I wish I would have kept in better touch with her over the last few years and been there for a few particularly bad periods. She just seemed so upset with me when we split that any communication since then had been rather sparse and misleading. She seemed so happy otherwise. Now I come to understand that she's literally barely holding it together and regularly talks about hurting herself and shit. Like the other day she's throwing herself at me and talking really sexual and everything (which is weird for her in any context really, so immediately red flags are going up for me), then a day later she's talking about deleting herself and how her family doesn't care about her and such. We spent like almost four days together - 3 or 4 days ago at this point, and no NOTHING happened beyond some cuddling that was entirely initiated by HER - so now we're talking about all this emotional stuff remaining from the past, though that's mostly on me; it's a long story. Idk wtf to do honestly, I'm just worried about her. Definitely not trying to be with her again or anything, at least not right now. I just want her to AT LEAST seek out some professional help and maybe begin to deal with her depression, but she just won't. I can't say anything about it anymore because she just gets upset and shuts me out right away, but idk what other help I can offer beyond the rest of the advice and reinforcement I've already offered, which she just tends to brush off as empty platitudes and rhetorical bullshit. Kinda feeling pretty helpless in this situation and at a loss honestly because all things aside I DO care for her and want to see her happy, healthy, content, and fulfilled. I hate these situations man, truly I do. Jeezus tapdancing friggin' christ; that escalated quickly... Sorry, it's been a long few weeks dude. I just read your comment and with everything going on with my ex right now I was like "Man, I *feel* you right now bro!" lol. Just immediately felt some radical empathy with you there, an entirely ambiguous and faceless stranger. Again, my personality type is prone to such phenomenon on occasion haha. Pretty crazy bizzare how that can happen though right? Cool, but bizarre nonetheless...

@@kiwik2951 colossal W, cheers on the character development

@@kiwik2951 lmao well damn 💀

@@jaketheripper7385 Hella late but glad the comment could relate to you fam. I read the entire thing and honestly it’s a lot but I understand sometimes you got to just get those things off your chest. I understand from observation and personal experience how painful those situations can be. I’m sure you care about this person a lot and obviously we l hope she would not hurt themselves . I understand being there. But on the other side I think you have to weigh what’s best for you solely along with the fact of what she’s done to you vs what could have been / what could be and which paths you can take in life that will lead to a spectrum of results on both sides. Take your choice and accept the consequences good or bad , it is at the end of the day your life and your choice to have someone in your life in any form but after a certain pattern of behavior I beleive you become somewhat responsible for the results they bring as well upon your life. Whatever you choose to I really wish you the best friend in this part of you life and other endeavors , Godspeed 🤘🏽👊🏽

True... I done this too... Like some days I'm feeling it... I'm good... other days like...fuck... my bed is home and I really don't wanna be anywhere else

I disagree imo, its common courtesy to let the other person know why. Otherwise thats rude imo, like respect the other person and let em know whats up

@@nero.unleashed An explanation of what you're going through absolutely stops the other person thinking it's them that they're not good enough or did something wrong.

I felt this on a deep level.

Wrong dude, it is your right to cancel a date but you DO owe her an explanation as a decent human being. No need to go whole arse into the entire grandmother story, but a brief explanation will do a lot and more importantly, makes you a decent human instead of a douchebag

Ah yes I remember when my father warned me about dating as a man, about my predisposition to always cancel just for no reason

Attention seeking at its finest.

need that validation hit.

You are using logic and common sense.... I feel triggered

She’s definitely pressed 🤦🏽‍♀️

And your lame behind probably went for it too.

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 and the second, 3rd, 4th, 5th and so on didn't work out as well.

3 months? I hope you left her @$$ on read

@@Draven7970 he’d better

@@MusMasi Lmaoo good point!

And your message most likely validated her fears, for men in general.

Oh no, you can and absolutely should make a judgement. That doesn't mean judgemental but you can make a logical inference from the situation. If the person didn't have the decency to let you know it tells you they are not respectful. You may not know the reason why but it still says they need work on their character. It doesn't mean they are a bad or good person but you can make the judgement that they are not good for you. My Dad had a heart attack and while I was driving to the hospital I still called my date to cancel and tell them why. I was in an abusive relationship and had a similar situation which is why I didn't date anyone for a while after and went to therapy.

Oh wow. Thankyou for sharing that with us…I really do mean that. I’ll take what you said with me. ❤

Wow... that just hit me hard because I have been there when I was younger. I got stood up in that same way where shes saying shes on her way - then ghost... and I too sent an angry message because I thought it was a cruel prank and shes probably even watching from somewhere thinking this is funny. I never thought about it this way and I feel guilty right now that I never considered maybe she wanted to but was just scared or whatever. I was too wrapped up in my own insecurity and anger that I'd been stood up.

If I was waiting for someone and they'd be sending that they'll be there soon just minutes before the scheduled time, and then didn't come, my first reaction would've been that something happened to them, and I would be worried if they're ok. It wouldn't even cross my mind that they would stood me up. I'd rather give people credit before I assume the worst of them. But thanks for sharing the story, it looks like a valuable lesson👍.

Woah, that was a plot twist

Love that being a veggie is a detail in this story. "Like damn dude, If I at least liked my steak rare I could have turned a bline eye"

@@everythinggoodsfeckingtaken 😂😂😂

Nah, bro. You dodged a whole mf train wreck.

Bro you were gonna get eaten. You dodged a whole ass land shark attack in my mind

why do RU-vid commenters act like any of this shit is real life ? jk it's harder to genuinely analyze than generalize

Let's not act like there aren't general behaviors that men and women fall into.

@@ddanbeatz186 I agree that it's harder to analyze than generalize but I do think that social media has a pretty palpable effect on "real life". Maybe not in all arenas but it is definitely effecting some pretty drastic changes in how we interact with each other.

@@andrewsilva9721 You're right, and I didn't mean to suggest otherwise - only to highlight the hypocrisy of exclaiming the virtues of avoiding generalizations when they affect you while simultaneously generalizing everybody else when it suits your needs.

@@jimmyjams962 If you let social media effect you, you deserve it. We deserve the ruin we will bring about on our own species. Not through terminators or a planet of the apes, but AI and social media glorifying and normalizing stupidity.

The grandfather thing reminds me of my friend, his granddad died, they where close and on the way back from the funeral he was t-boned, broke ribs, collarbone, needed shoulder surgery, while all this was happening his girlfriend complained that she was not getting enough attention from him, She cheated, she even tried to cheat with me, when she was caught out, she tried to blame him, and expected him to take her back, She was very pretty physically but not really a nice person once you got to know her.

She showed her true colors, and they weren't pretty. The ego and blatant lack of basic empathy some people have, I swear. Been there with my grandpa as well, those last visits to the hospital were the worst so I understand how you felt.

Damn that's what I call having top tier good luck, if she's going crazy in the "honeymoon" phase imagine how she is after that phase has ended...

That's messed up. She probably blocked you because she was embarrassed and she better be, but that's weak man.. guess you dodged a bullet, as they say.

You and your hair deserve so much better

I'm a woman and I've been ghosted sooo many times... I don't trust anyone to show up tbh.

​@@silververnallbells191how does that work for you guys?

Some people become entirely different people when their ego gets damaged. Can be hard to tell which ones the real them but I sure as shit ain't sticking around to find out.

This is why its sometimes best to not get involved with people from work, I would hate to go into the office the next day with her there. Hopefully you are in different departments lol.

Some women hold that in all the way until after marriage. Then you’re really fucked

This is why it's best to not shit where you eat, can't image how awkward going to work after that must have been. Also, she really went there calling you an homosexual with an f. I find that a lot of women who resort to insulting men by calling them gay are the type to then turn around and be all about pro gay rights and anti-homophobia and all that. I always found that so hypocritical that they use gay as an insult... It's not homophobic when they do it apparently.

You got PTSD from this. The woman is a psycho.

look at you two handling things like a mature adults... congrats on your upcoming wedding anniversary

Comments like yours restore faith in humanity

Congrats

For some reason... I feel this is suss... 🤔 🤷

@@notacompleteidiot...1285 I mean, fair. But it’s the truth 😊😊😊

Shouldve at least have let you known, cuz she just wasted ur time, spending 30 seconds to text shouldnt have been hard

Wow, that's sad and pathetic of the girl. I'm sure you'll find your lady if you haven't already!

Pathetic. Better to pass on religious people.

Jup. I never take people seriously. Especially women. I have learnt that there are so many manipulative reasons for women to lie and manipulate the truth. Any time a woman says something that evokes emotional reactiin i assume there are alterior motives

Damn, that's a bar.

@@enmanuel1950 so true.

If Asmon says it, it's true.

@@enmanuel1950 more of a haiku

Adding this to my notes 📝 😂

Starving for sympathy attention is why!!

Validation from simps or ‘YAS QUEEN’ mob.

So the sisterhood can rally to her to buoy up her Ego while trashing *men* while the white knights and simps can join in.

Everyone experiences rejection. I’m not embarrassed for them working it out even if it takes a few steps. It sucks and people can overthink. I imagine many people probably reminded her that it’s not always personal. I’m personally grateful for people who are authentic. She didn’t state his name or anything aggressive like that. Misguided in her assumptions but still. It’s a very universal experience.

thats what wmen with entitlement do

I invite women to do errands with me. Target bed bath and body works the bank oil change you name it

@@kingofgrooveness This is really clever because you're going anyway

well social skills can be learned if you put in the effort and so can your body to a point. Style, body language is all something you can work on to be more attractive too the opposite sex. Also your own selfasteam through that can take longer then the other stuff i mentioned.

Let me introduce you to the wall, you're old now bitch

Nahh my gradma " died" a lot while on the date or before date just to cancel when the girl have attitude like this one she definitely got ghosted before but I see your point.

“The audacity for someone to be upset that they were treated poorly. Women, am I right”

Nahhh dudes definitely show up late or ghost her. Anyone she says yes to, she's not that important to. She's hot to you maybe, to me sure, but to dudes she wants? My friends ghost/pump,dump girls like her on the regular. She's definitely been rejected.

This just happened to me recently 😂 (my first time being flaked on last minute) and I basically had the same reaction as this girl and used Aba’s and Preaches reasoning to calm down my ego. In a few days she’ll probably be able to a lot more honest and calm about it.

@@EvolianTiger who was treated poorly here?

Her ego took a hit, so she needs easy validation.

And it probably ruined her chances with him entirely assuming he sees this.

@@jake51515 he dodged a bullet like its the matrix.

In that same vain it's also "presumptive" of us to assume that "it's not about her", right? As Aba said, it very well could be that she's just "not that girl". I get what you're saying, and I know I'm being pedantic, but I don't think we should be doing the very thing we're calling her out for.

Actually it is completely about her. She is not attractive enough to make him want to make that date by any means necessary.

yeah I don't get these, often quite attractive, women complaining about getting stood up on tiktok - average dude by 20 has probably been stood up 10x more than the average woman by 30+

@@igobyplane She didn't even get stood up - He told her in advance! Getting stood up is such an insult because it's obvious they didn't even value your time enough to let them know. (Girl, he let you know an hour in advance, probably much later than you had to leave.) It shows he was responsible enough to be honest, and punctual enough to know that whatever came up would affect his date and let her know accordingly. It's massive stupidity I'd say.

I got a girl comin at me in another comment telling me it's my fault for going after "those kind of women" and to find better ones😅😪

She probably was still doing her makeup and still sat at home 🤦‍♂️

@@2masterofpuppets2 How TF are you supposed to even know what kind of women any of them are before you even meet them???

Amen to that, a hour notice would be nice, I have had it several times now that we would go on a date, and then days before the day they just stop any form of contact or suddenly unmatch me without anything being said or done that would explain why o.O

How are you commenting 11 days ago? Lol

@@mint_soup9743 patreon lol

How are you pinning from 11 days ago, swear to God man these time travelers always playing games

@@mint_soup9743 he broke the matrix

Id be willing to stake money that you are a dude though. We get ghosted and screwed around because we are many and women on these apps are few and so get to have their pick. I saw an article how some people tested it and in a large metropolitan city, created female profiles with plain jane profile pictures - 1000s of likes in a day. say she matches with just 1% thats 10+ a day every day. They cant even talk to all these guys (ever notice some matches take forever to reply? You are one of many and not high on her list). The occasions where I get quickfire back and forth is a rush though because shes clearly in to me, but even then she could be chatting to several other guys. Doesn't mean im her first choice.. and thats happened too, I'll see real rapport build, shes replying almost instantaneously with long verbose messages and think this is going somewhere only to be ghosted in the middle of some seemingly real connection and deep chat. Reason? I wasnt her first choice. Sucks a bit

Idk, it could also mean the man has manners and might not want to see her another time? Or is that rare in this day and age?

Facts now if the guy see the video, he should text her and say I wanted to reschedule a date, But since you automatically think I’m A A**Hole, Screw You

But they need social media to “keep in touch with friends”

Facts

That's true though, every girl I've ever been with that has some form of "local social media famous", some form of large following on atleast one social media platform.

Typically whenever a woman asks that question is because she can't control him with her feelings.

The whole “stop liking other girls’ pictures” thing is dumb. More likely I’ve known the girl longer than my gf A lot of the people we follow on social media are friends from school

Best way to tell them to shut up is “you can leave or live with it” if you’re gonna live with it stop bitching, you’ve accepted things as they are

@@frieza2235 😂😂😂

@Fenrir I doubt he wants her either, he would be dumb to, considering what he is just witnessing, but I guess its best to not to just assume.

Ya imagine being the guy, and having something actually come up and he was going to rewrite her out the next day and make it up to her. And he gets shown this....

@@DyedInTheWool lol if he sees this he dodged like neo

ngl what's 5 and 6 dawg

@@halojeff15 read

@@halojeff15 he said canceled 6 times not that he had 6 different reasons for each time.

Lies, you have cancelled more than six times

Only simps need a reason. You can cancel if you want, just because you don't want to do it anymore. Period.

🎯🤘🤘🤘🤘🤘. Lats talk

More like she feels lonely and is butthurt about it, which is fair tbh. Aba n Preach are right tho in what they said

Bit harsh. Getting cancelled on last minute does suck. Like they said in the vid it is a flaky thing to do. And even if it's just with your friends, to get cancelled on 1 hour away is always annoying

She did her make-up in that hour before he cancelled. That's why she's mad. As a woman too, I'm pretty sure she's just mad she got dressed to look pretty and "no one got to see her." It's not wrong to feel that way. But push that thought aside and go about your day. Don't make it someone else's problem.

THIS SHOULD BE SECOND PINNED!

@@MENACE-km6bd this

It's the mere fact that a man could even cancel on her that is baffling. I realise women only understand certain things when they are in the situation. If a woman said we had plans and I didn't show up because he creeped me out. This wouldn't even be a topic. Seen multiple videos online of dudes with flowers at a table by himself.

hes like Neo from the matrix lol.

True

Most of them don't know what being grateful is or means.

There can only be 1 green V...lets highlander this shit.

She is grateful that she now has an excuse to go to sonic. I see a future fat chick in the making

That's not being nice, that's basic human courtesy. By your logic, I didn't run into your car thus you should be grateful. 🙃

yeah the inhumanity of it all!!

What's next?

Damn u took an L multiple times?

@@gummybearvitamins1211 there’s no Ws without the Ls

@@Anubis_-_ cap

Or you just have really bad luck.

Well yes women live in disney world. Her female ego was so hurt

It's like when a certain tribe gets exiled from 109 countries over 3000 years, and then claim that they are persecuted - the *most* persecuted mind you - and *boy* do they remind you. All I know, if my boy comes to me and says: man I just got kicked out the 27th bar, these bars are oppressing me!! Ye, no

@@JukemDrawles87 Some, don't generalise

@@nebojsavelickovic5388 A large percentage live in a fantasy world. There are good women out there

Lol

There are 4 billion women on this planet. If you've never experienced a woman who was courteous in her cancellation then you need to pick better women. This is your fault.

@@TomikaKelly That is magnificent!!!! Ya know, you may be on to something but do you see how easy it is for you to read a general statement about how women, not woman, women usually treat guys, see how many guys agree with me and then COMPLETELY dismiss that and conclude that myself and all these guys just need to pick better women. Do you know any single girls possibly for myself and some of my dawgs up in this comment section that wouldnt just take the simple exit strategy we usually see when the bigger/better deal swoops her away... (Understand also that being an avg looking woman on a dating app like tinder vs an avg guy is Night and day for the rate of matches) ....for one of these divine exceptions to the rule who say, "hey buddy, i know we had dinner plans but not anyore"🙏🙏🙏

come on...we all know what you mean but to be fair a good portion of women lets you know. Also, male or female, always check up on the other a day or at least some hours before. If they dont write back guess what. I had many times where this would happen but never was I actually at the date and her not showing up.

@@TomikaKelly Not everyone has the time, or energy, to dig through a *mountain* of trash to find a penny. An ever growing number of "modern" women are strait up unbearable.

@@dakota9821 So stop dating women.

you don't even know them 🤣

@@martywaters7404 thats natural law… the proof is in the pudding. Don’t need to be a rocket scientist to see social queues

It wouldn't have mattered. I knew it as a young man and STILL fell into that trap lol

🙄

@@Kate-is5mz you dont understand

@@Dogapillar4Lyfe So why don't you explain?

@@Kate-is5mz can't, you actually have to be able to experience it.

Are you a girl or guy?

@@Alpha_apex girl

@@Leigh-lq2uf you a real one for having this level of self reflection. That's rare for women today.

@@Alpha_apex Thank you mate. I'm glad I learnt it now, not just for a healthier relationship, but also for gaining a better mindset which leads to a healthy life.

@@Alpha_apex let’s keep it a buck a whole lot of men aren’t self reflective either. Whether it’s red pill or feminism, most people stick to their guns without questioning them.

That's not a luxury that's basic human decency. If you're supposed to meet someone, romantic, platonic, business, or otherwise, you're SUPPOSED to call in advance. This is the baseline bar.

@@TomikaKelly you would think soo sadly seams like it's a lugshery nowadays

@@TomikaKelly w the way dating is today, looking more like a luxury...

"Well that's not the same, that's not the same" - Women

@@everyone1liesd459 lol

Entitlement OverSize ego The lost of respect Everything have to be about him or her

But he did in this story. A whole hour before. An hour is huge amount of time.

Watch the video

Young pretty girls have the ego the equivalent of a celebrity. So many attention & compliments on social media & dating apps, that when she selects a common peasant of a man than how dare he cancel on her...Even if its a family emergency( Likely just a hotter chick) then how dare him.

Say hello to social media in the modern era . I had some chick i met at the bar literally flake on a date today and asked her to confirm the night before and she doesn’t respond for 16 hours only to reply with a nothing burger response couple hours in advance and then leaves me on read when i essentially tell her to cut the bullshit in the nicest way possible and let me know if we are going out later or not. Safe to say i unfollowed her and removed her when i see that she was out with her friends later that night

That’s pretty sad, a lot of men would kill for a woman with that trait

You sound bitter and miserable. That girl will be able to bounce back from this. You? You sound like a lost cause.

When women like this get rejected, it's like most significant event in her life, but for guys, it's just Thursday.

she was upset to have a date canceled. where are you seeing this huge ego jfc ? but pls don't miss an opportunity to shit on another women.

@@njmfff true shit right there

You seem sweet w common sense, two things that seem to have vanished amongst the 'fairer' sex. These young women have become so unbearably abnoxious, they can be an 11 outta 10 and I still wouldn't suffer through a meal w them.

I like to keep a plan B in the glove compartment too, just in case.

@@aceboogie7832 my mind went there first too haha

@@aceboogie7832 you don't have to do allat fam, just never trust them. A thot gon be ah thot regardless.

Oh I got plan b c and d and even for hookups. Like this A gonna flake well backup A in the area and so is this one. Hell I been greedy and ran to A then B. 🤣 like some behaviors refuse to totally die I guess even when pushing mid age af 40 (im 35 but gd same difference to me even tho mirror doesn't even say skin of a 35yo tho I dye these damn greys even if salt and pepper daddies in)

that woman was wilding lol, and the judge was too lenient on her, zoom call regardless.

Lmfao foreal. How ridiculous was that. Smh

@@Alpha_apex Litigatisha sure was wilding with her spongebob no lenses glasses, "DONT INSULT MAH INTELLIGANCE!!! "

Wow! You literally just described my personality. Strange.....

@@minianoiz6492 get a room geeze... (jokes)

I think if ur arranging a first date and give vague responses or none about if/why you can’t go on a date despite what you described and they don’t go out of their way to make it seem like they care that much about your vague excuse or reasons or don’t care for your flakeyness and than unmatch or unfollow you I don’t think that’s unreasonable. I think especially when it comes to women having poor/vague/no excuses a lot of dudes are quick to grovel and be too permissive and give too much credence to women who by allowing such behavior will realize the guy giving her all this leeway to flake doesn’t value himself or time. The only thing someone ought to care about when it comes to you on a first date is you showing up for that date and/or respecting that persons time by cancelling accordingly if you can’t make it. If you give me any of the above I’m not going to pretend i care or be bothered to read someone’s mind and be permissively allowing them to waste my time and energy by not being forward with me. If you can’t even dignify a response I’m not going to bother with a second date. Too many s!mps out here pretending to care about some chicks vague excuse when the chick doesn’t even value their time nor respects enough to be forward about going out.

You don't have to cancel if you simply don't book the date. There's nothing wrong with not wanting to entertain people. There is something wrong with knowing that you can fall into a mood of not wanting to entertain people but you still book meetings, dates, ect with then.

Damn I feel like an entertainer alot 😂.

Are you a merchandiser?

Here’s the thing though. Why would you want another shot at her? Sure I agree be angry in private but still why are you worried about how you could have got another shot after more time? Personally the fact she wasn’t honest with you about why she canceled and you had to find out from a mutual friend would tell me that I wouldn’t want to date that girl if I was you. A date is the first impression. It’s like a job interview. That’s the absolute BEST they will ever act around you, and the fact she couldn’t be honest from the start means it wouldn’t have been a good way to start a relationship. I’m not saying hold a grudge, or that she didn’t have a valid reason. But if someone isn’t willing to be honest, you still dodged a future breakup. This is the only time I disagree with Aba and preach. Getting flaked on is rude behavior full stop. Not being honest or forthcoming of why you’re flaking is also incredibly rude. Don’t tolerate rudeness.

Bro if someone pisses in my face and calls it rain (lying to me) I get mad you got every right to be mad. Fuck another chance she obviously didn't even respect you enough with the truth. For me it isn't the lie it's you think I'm so dumb I'd believe your bs

If you were attractive enough for her, the excuse that "she wasn't over it" wouldn't even exist. Usually these excuses are bullshit if the other person doesn't reschedule, just move on.

Damn talk about reflection and accountability sheesh you got it!

"cabron" is a male term, something like "fucker". don't use words you don't understand

@@pitbul2877 it's probably a typo. Everytime I text my mom in spanish, my phone auto corrects and then my messages don't make sense. It's annoying. OP probably did type "cabrona".

Honestly, men in general are not the problem. Its the men that women want that are the problem.

@@veronicaana don't hate the player, hate the game. these women go for the top shelf dudes every other woman is going for, and the woman has this expectation she is the only one he is talking to.

@@pitbul2877 Actually it means dumbass and you trying to scold me makes you one too. Cabròn.

She’s pretty, but very basic looking IMO… Like there’s a billion other upper-middle class Caucasian blondes who look just like her🤷🏼‍♀️

@@M.j.7 prob 25 million at best.

@@M.j.7 literally even by those standards she’s not that impressive. I like my blonde women, they’re my favorite kind but geez there is tons of generic looking blondes out there with awful personalities. She’s not among the most impressive of any of them. Her face looks incredibly stupid and annoying

Everyone should think they are the prize. Do YOU believe you are the consolation trophy? 👀

@@M.j.7 She's a pretty girl. Is that you in your avi/profile picture ? 🙃👀🤡

Very underrated comment. Real life is an amazing place to meet people. Join a club. Take some classes. Make friends.

Have to disagree from personal experience.

Maybe for you , personally would tell people to leave the dating sphere entirely especially men

Dating apps that you pay for and aren't flooded with teens are actually pretty good. The issue isn't whether she's serious about finding a relationship or not, since she's clearly still rather young. The issue is that canceling an hour before on someone who doesnt know you is a bad look.

Facts

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No lies detected here

He wasn't punctual because he didn't show up at all.

This is it has been my exact strategy for these situation, and it never did me wrong

bingo. guaranteed she's ghosted a few dudes before, too. ghosting is worse, obviously

She likely swiped on the best looking profile out of thousands - and probably hundreds of other girls did too. Those few guys can basically do anything they want, because women let them. If a girl ever says "no" he can just pick another of the hundreds he has in waiting. Supply and demand.

Not every pretty woman is out there ghosting people, quite an assumption on your part. You sound bitter.

@@mint_soup9743 Nobody said every pretty woman, but it's a lot of them. Most males have been ghosted at least once. It's almost a right of passage. That's why men are taught to lower their expectations when asking for a date because of the fact that being ghosted is very possible.

@@mint_soup9743 It might aswell be all cause lets be honest they have THOUSANDS of other options😂

As a Pacific Islander I want to say sorry… :(

@@p0ush I appreciate the thought bro but like I say it's got NOTHING to do with you, like there's no reason to be sorry, just like I got no reason to be sorry if a man attacks somebody or like I'm white but Brenton Tarrent had nothing to do with me

@@Ihatemyusernamemore try to be kind with strangers maybe they won’t beat your ass…

@@p0ush Oh in this case I didn't even talk to them, it was a surprise attack.

@@Ihatemyusernamemore I don’t give a sht, like you said, it has nothing to do with me.