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I just stumbled upon your channel and the topic you’re discussing is very interesting because different people have different views about it. But for me I say the marriage that has worked is the right marriage. Age, someone social status, all those things cannot be a guarantee thing for functioning relationship to stand. if those in it are not ready to sacrifice themselves to make the relationship work
My long distance husband to be is 16yrs older than I. We are so in love. 39 yrs old and I'm 55 yrs old. He coming over to my country, we are to get married. I felt worried at first. My firdt husband died, he was 31 yrs older than me. So in our culture of the Caribbean, we look at the male should be older than the female to take care of her.
There’s nothing new under the sun, there are countless men whose wives are older than them and they are happily married. Keep praying about it and give it time and fight for the love you both share respectfully
Hi, Yes they are both aware. Thankfully, we have believing parents so it wasn't hard convincing them. but that was not the first issue we raise when they got to know us. They got to know our person first, fall in love with other areas, so it wasn't a big deal when the age issue popped up.
You can choose not to tell them now, but they will eventually still know. Ask God for wisdom on how to go about it. There's no one size fit all kind of answer.
I too have a boyfriend two years younger than me,,, and he looks very old than me,,coz his huge,,, but i don't know what i can do,,, i looks so young but age
Hello Esther, our parents took it well, though that was not the first thing we projected about ourselves. They got to meet us first and enjoy our personality.
For a man, we believe masculinity is not what is required, rather it’s God’s wisdom, that wisdom helps get the blueprint for how the marriage will run…. If you are spiritually mature and can execute God’s blueprint, you are qualified
It's not universal coz many countries don't find issue of a women older than the guy. But only in Africa. Mostly to those black people specially in Nigeria. Other countries are broad minded
@@This-is-Rose-E You are saying this because you want to be stereotypical. I do not have to waste my time convincing you when you can try it yourself or search Google or RU-vid.
@@jasmineb4787 what do u mean?? That being women who's older than guy is a universal problem?? Maybe in your country or in your husband's country which is in Nigeria. Because let's fact the fact that other countries do not care about age gap.. so many countries that those people there are broad minded. As long as we love the person the respect will always there and marriage will work. Age doesn't matter and it's not big deal. Only in African specially in Nigeria !
I dont understand why in africa especially in nigeria that when a women is older than a guy its already a big issue..coz so many countries don't find it as big deal. African people or nigerian are still not broad minded..
Is it scriptural to work for a boss younger than someone? A master literally should be older than a servant. Sometimes we tend to complicate matters for ourselves and leave the major while focusing on the minor when it comes to marriage but don’t see it as an issue in other areas of life. The qualifications for marriage according to Ephesians is Submission from the part of the woman and Love from the part of the man.