@@sydneychukwukelu do your research yourself! Random survey and even videos here on justice court. Many of the cases are women dragging their baby daddies for upkeep!
Blessed are those who are lead into marriage by God. If you think marriage is bad because you see this type of couple, then you are the most unfortunate.
@@salforch God said it is not good for THE man to be alone, I will make him a help meet for him. Notice that I wrote THE in capital letters. That means he was specific about the person he was talking about. Wait until the Lord will be specific about you too. I am talking from a practical example of my walk with God. There was a time it was better for me to be alone, I kept liking girls, taking them to God to seek his approval, and he said No and many times, QUIET. And when he decided to be specific about me, I was not even asking him about any lady when he said it's time, and THIS will be the lady. Remember I said "Blessed are those who are lead into marriage by God". Paul said it is better to be a celibate than to be married. He didn't even mean single as in single, rather married to the work of God. And he kept repeating it there, that "This is how I feel o, it's not an instruction from God".
When a man starts to tell a lot of stories in an attempt to paint the woman badly, know something is off. Just see the twist when the lady started talking.
The man never said any lie and the woman never said any lie. The lady is the one feeding the jobless guy with her olosho money. That is the summary of the whole story.
@thebest-zq1vg and his eating it omg he's very useless a woman is feeding u and u are eating it please where do u think she's getting the money from u can't provide and u expect what 😂😂😂 bro u don't have right to call her olosho if the man provide she won't sleep with other men to get money and werey still dey chop the food 😂😂😂 omg
You are married. You and your spouse are living happily in this generation regardless of all challenges, misunderstanding, argument. You aren't being influence by your friend's, family and pressure from society as it relate to your spouse , same with your partner, you are blessed beyond blessed.
Tell us the truth .. angel of darkness please do. You all want ruin this world with your filthiness ... Fear God and stop acting you care less about God even if you are Atheist this gutter behavior isn't for human,both you and the person you are defending belongs to animal kingdom. Even some animal are loyal to only one partner like lions and the rest so you find yourself animals that suit you and her
@@olaniyitobi3812 if na your type, make I remain single for life... don't go and hustle wait for a woman to pay your bills including rent...mumu, oloriboruku.ode.
I advise the court to please be allowing one case to go down completely instead of referring us to the next episode because we may not be able to find it, Now in this first episode it seems the guy was innocent but I can not lunch my own opinion because I never know how the second episode is gonna end.
The "husband's" brother in the audience nodded his head in agreement with the former "wife". That means there is element of truth in the woman's narration. Part 2 will be quite revealing.
Both the husband and the ex wife are saying the truth but they are stingy with the truth. They are both freely exposing the faults and negative sides of the other party while hiding their own bad character. They're stingy with the truth and I think that is normal in a situation like this where both parties want to be seen as the faultless angel while throwing the other under the bus.
@@Topleagues yes yes this is what I think too . U just explained perfectly what I was trying to say. Let’s see if we will find out a little more truth in the next part . I think they both have their fault for sure
They both said the truth. A lazy man met a promiscuous woman, what's the assurance that she wouldn't have still been a cheat even if the guy was rich? They both deserve each other.
While I agree that those details may appear not to be necessary, they're not only useful for the man's mental health but may contain useful references in determination of the case. Lawyers do that a lot by asking yes/no questions during cross examination just to hide some fact and propagate their own agenda.
@@vicgabanna1816 Has he stolen anything from you, if so, what about the woman that slept with multiple men around, how many years should she be in jail?
@@normal_side she did not sleep with multiple men why in marriage this man is using that to run yes the country hard na everywhere when you dey knack you no say na pickin e go result too y not born just one is that not enough, and if she is cheating now anyway they both agreed not to do again they are separated he should carry his cross Abeg
It is high time we all understand that house chores is not gender based, imagine saying you are helping her out in chores oga you are keeping your house clean. You are so shameless leaving all the expenses for her to carry do you want to drve her crazy? Women always go into marriage with your eyes wide open what am i hearing that he linked his email to your salary account odiegwu ooooo.
@adegbolakehinde2318is it a crime to lose a job? Why are we partners if u can’t help me when I’m down? Ahhh! Let’s just assume the man get accident and start being on wheelchair so are you saying automatically the woman is allowed to cheat and keep having xxx with 15men regularly?!
it never ends well with women who are just bad.... so helping with the home stuffs and all that is part of making yourself useful in the marriage... and that's something worth commending as well.... paying bills as a woman is no excuse for sleeping around and bin toxic
It doesn’t end well because it’s against the scriptures. A woman is an helper and not a provider, there are responsibilities in a home. So a man should play his part and the woman should play her part
If that child is giving to that man, that girl is going to suffer cos the man knows nothing about kids. maybe las las she go end up for him mama house... just because they hate the girl's mother they will be transferring aggression on that poor girl..
Brotherhood is ashamed of him Nahimn Una dey talk wey make paternity fraud dey full everywhere, Una go come dey anonymous dey find one yeye advice. He no hard SIMPS like Una to dey worship woman even though she date Una 16 together, I just pray say make God dey carry Una fellow cheat dey come Una way
@@BeatzByArpeggioHe is the wife and the woman is the husband 😂. He stylishly say he is the one doing chores in the house while the wife go out to work 😂😂😂😂. He even forgot the cloth on him was bought by the woman 😂😂. Definition of laziness!
I agree that the woman might have cheated severally, but it is glaring that this man is an opportunist and very crafty. Your wife works full-time, returns home very late, and takes 80% of family responsibilities, and you call that" laziness"? the smallest thing you could help her do is the house chores since you are not currently working. Let's see how this ends
Children clears out teenage affection, they bring us to the reality of a partnership. What I see here is a lazy man, a hardworking stressed woman who cheats.
The way it took another turn as the wife started speaking 😂 Men ennn see how his mouth was very sharp trying to discredit her. Please i can't wait for the remaining part
I new e was lying from the beginning every man will want to lace a woman with a name of prostitued in every fight I am a lawyer I know when someone is lying cause that is it, the lady might have her own fault but I can tell u for free that the guys is worst , even if it a man I dey support my own is just be real
It took a different turn as soon as she opened her mouth. I for say, how can a woman be thay lose if her man is doing the neddful. If she did all those things, desperation must have caused it.
If truly you're a lawyer, you should have noted the following the woman haven't denied 1. hitting the man 2. Cheating on the man but denied not giving him access moreover, the man didn't deny that 1. The lady is the provider 2. That he do beat the lady too Let's wait for the concluding part though Moreover, they broke up by Dec and she's already heavily pregnant by July, that shows the allegation of a cheat is fact @@Amandaroyal55
As soon as i saw a full grown man doing cho cho cho ...i knew e no dey work... people who hold nothing dear to their heart will always carry out smear campaign of the person who has had their backs.
And so eager to give up every little detail even as he claims he's forgiven her. Yet he's a jobless bum and never made it known all along that he's got no job. He even made it look like he's been the carer/provider. I don't believe a thing he said here anymore. E do soil the girl name with this 15 men shii
when cry comes in,is hard for me to take sides coz women use tears to cover up many things and gain sympathy.let follow the last episode b4 concluding.why she didn't say anything about the cheating allegations?
@@tegaboyowamacaulay5476 Remember we are sharing our point of views.the worst thing for a man is to learn of the wife infidelity.she refuted the allegations but didn't say anything on the cheating which sounds like that was the only thing the man was right on.
If it's established by the court that what the lady has said so far is true and nothing but the truth, then this dude is a coward and has failed in his responsibilities as a father and husband.
a woman that will cheat, will cheat....i have seen women with bride prices cheated too...on this same show....so na woman weh go cheat....go cheat...lets not indirectly justify her stupid act here
I listened to the lady's side of the story and I was confused. The man claims he always do house chores. That is because he is not working. The woman does all the working. She feed and clothe him while he sits at home washing plates and fetching water. What does he expect? The woman can easily go out of the way to meet with another man so that she can get money to feed her husband. When I listened to all the blabbings from the young man, something tells me he is a woman wrapper. He talks TOO MUCH. The court must not grant him custody of the child. He is not working. He can't take care of the child.
I suspected the man been a liar, the wife just started explaining her own part, less wait and hear before judge. A responsible man will not be woman beater .
I was surprised when I saw him being given water😂. He is a talkative that chose to be wife and allowed the woman to be husband. He even wore cloth bought by wife to court.
He talks too much? Typical woman logic you guys are never beating the allegations. If it’s a man who did this you wouldn’t be saying The woman is talking too much. What is bad is bad
The man threw me off at “I have a call from God” but nothing of God came out from his mouth. Dear believers, harken to God and be wary of men disguised as priests. I will wait to hear the other side of this story.
what do you mean nothing of God came from his mouth? is he suppose to come preach the gospel or answer to a case? quick quick you don carry Bible verse saying person disguise as priest with you having no evidence....na wa oooo....na una type exactly no know what Christianity is like.... already judging the guy with no evidence
@@damybalogun7709 if you know, you will know to read between the lines. “By their fruits, you shall know them” First amongst all, how did he call her his wife when he didn’t do the proper marital rights? It’s not just a customary obligation but scriptural also. Furthermore, I didn’t make a conclusion only an observation.
@@stanobende3613guy tf …. You deh gba oo… wtf guy … which kind igbe comment be this 😅😅😅… do you know how many parents did not marry officially.. it wasn’t easy for all now … fingers are not equal … your thinking is below understanding humanity..
This guy is better than your married pastors 💯 Your married pastors do worst, Again all you could suggest from this episode is the part of cohabitation, you saw nothing wrong in all he said about the Serial fornicator? God forbid!
lessons being learnt on this program is underrated. i have learnt from real life situations that i can never imagined can happen. gives so much enlightenment that is helping one manage his/her marital issues better. This program God bless Justice Funmi for her wisdom
Omo nawa, for a moment, I thought this guy had sense. Even the irrelevant things baba just spilled everything. Is it to make her look bad or to gain sympathy?
Strange o my brother. What in the world will make a born again brother co-habit with a sister he's not legally married to? False brethren everywhere. SO SAD.
The man talks too much I find it hard to believe him Then the lady never denied infidelity allegations which could establish the man saying the truth about infidelity.... Both are immature tho Cohabitation for 6 years Abuja standard 😂😂😂😂
That couple staying together was over after the confession...whether is wìth 1man or 100 men ... Pastor pastor pastor Why ? Why? Living in fornication calling it marriage , beating your wife and want to understand the bible Why?
@@SarahAdamu-k7z sleeping around because she is the breadwinner is disgusting. The man staying unemployed and getting agressive when the wife abuse her or misbehave or goes out to fuck other men is nonsese. He being a church pastor is not enough reason. But, most pastors also experience this. If hs church actually pays him for the services he render as a pastor, all these problem will not be . We do also do not know what the agreement between this guy and the family of the wife on marriage, but some families accept only an informal marriage by an arrangement and agreement between them as a form of agreement for the couples to settle down, and even the bible is not against that. The problem comes when the lady start making troubles later in life, so it is better to always go to court for a formal agreement , and this is even far cheaper than any form of marriage
A relationship can give a person joy or can be a thief of joy….it’s good to choose wisely and look beyond the physical… Also the child should be with the father if the mother is not available.
That is where I believe the guy may be lieing. A woman inside your house says she has 15 body counts and u said okay and continued. The story be one kind o
@@akpoghenoborefetobore6039God bless u the guy dey try to look like angel and paint the woman bad even come dey form holy holy saying e dey read Bible 😂a trained judge can’t be moved my mere words 😂even the devil knows Bible than Jesus himself, I hope the judge knows and understand her job
You forgot the part where he said that the lady sat on his back and he turned his head to look at her and said babe.. He lies a lot. No woman will confess to sleeping with up to 15 men
As a man or woman, there's nothing like love anymore. Keep record or whatever you do with your partner for a day like this. The people whom you have sacrificed much for night one day stand to say or deny you and make the law available for your persecution. All transactions, debits, conversations and pictures, if possible videos record to backup yourself when the time comes. Human can stand one day and hate you and forget all your sacrifices. . Also as a man, reme9yo keep record. Don't delete chats, or pictures. In the court they will give women 200mins to talk but during men time, they will ask you to hit the point and summarize. . Learn from this video not by judging but make sure you don't fool yourself along. Know this. Watch how you say thing either when you are happy or at time yoh are sad, you might say a hurting promise or ultraance that will affect in future life. God bless you.
Which one is “help you with house chores?” My dear he’s running errands in a house both of you live in, as he’s supposed to, he’s not helping you in any way. To think you’re even the one feeding him and he can’t be humble?
@@Dejosh-sy1kj leave emotions aside and understand that men and women are not built the same. If you fail in your duty as a provider, she will gradually lose respect for you. And the only thing that prevents a woman from cheating is respect for her man, not because there are no men chasing her. In whatever you do, try not to be in a position where a woman has to pay the bills for long.
This case is intriguing. The man sounded so convincing. On the other hand, the woman appears to know what she was saying. Her response is also persuasive. I can't wait to listen to all the responses. I think the main issue is the custody and the child which I predict will favor the lady. I don't think the man will be able to prove his accusations.
I agree and I find this case intriguing too but she has not countered anything the guy has said so far . They both mentioned two diff informations. Each one of them seem to mention what the other one didn’t want to mention so will wait on the next part so see hw they both counter it
@@lifethroughoureyes1086nope!! The man seem to be the one hoarding info. He tagged her 'lazy' without letting us know how hard she works to provide for the home and still come home to attend to some other house chores. However, within this short time, She has refuted one claim bro. The guy tagged her 'lazy' because he usually assist her with the house chores. She defended herself by stating the obvious thing that takes her away from home, which makes it impossible for her to do all the house chores alone and that is "work". Hopefully, she'll be able to address/refute the other claims in the next episode
@@maryrosenkemnele2294 the guy def sound like a good story teller 😂 but she hasn’t touch on the body count aspect and a dna is needed for both children regardless and that’s why I will wait for the next part . Both of them hands are not clean regardless
Somebody that receives alert for a young girl's salary, wears the clothes she buys, sleeps in the house she pays rent, knows she's been cheating but too lazy to change the situation, im surprised she hasn't cheated with more people, thst was a cry for help, he was beating her on top all her sacrifices, of course she would be looking for affection and appreciation in all the wrong places, if she was so promiscuous he wouldn't have met her a virgin, abeg this lazy good for nothing should shift let a real man come into her life. He took advantage of her innocence and has been emotionally blackmailing her into being with him, that's why she was cheating, too young to be in a serious relationship.
I believe the woman... He claimed she cheated several but he didn't have to balls to quit the relationship. In my opinion it's because it's the lady thats talking care of all the bills. NA this type of men that will cover thier bad character under the claim that God is calling them
Am surprised this kind of comment is coming from a man? do you know how depressing and body shaming it is when the general public finds out that your so called wife or babymama is cheating....i have seen some men who would rather cover it up just for peace for reign just cox they don't want broken home,,,,,
@@AntomichKornevhe is a man with sense and you are shocked men no longer converge to side evil? So what if he's a man, he should not have his own opinions?, this man never even made a 'good woman' out of this woman neither did he provide, so what entitlement does he have?
@@ihemehelen1454 Sir again i am surprised this is coming from a man? the only thing i will have to say here is this....let's wait until the full case is finished. but for record purposes, am sure you will also not take it as a man when you find out that maybe your wife or baby mama is cheating under your roof, it is easy to take side when e no be you the matter happen to....nor be only men no longer converge to evil...i laugh....well i rest my case....
@@AntomichKornev Babymama will never be a good title. He stayed because he was feeding off her. She was his only means of survival, his jackpot. How do you beat someone who's feeding you? He benefitted, not her. Talking about his surname, someone he didn't bother to marry. Talking about helping her with chores. Do you help with chores in your own house? If the lady cheated, he pushed her into it by his laziness and the heavy burden he placed on her head. Anyway, I hope the lady is really free from him and that pregnancy is not for him. He doesn't deserve her.
Let's wait for part two please I know this two in person and I can tell you this man did his best for that relationship to work but the woman was too busy aside that everyone has their flaws but that guy was saying the truth this things are not secrets in our area but the lady's mom is not in support of the union making it more difficult
It's not the end yet.. But what I can already see, although not a justification for any licentiousness.. the Lady na 'Woman' she be!! Unfortunately for her, she didn't know where to draw the line; she allowed herself to be carried away by her actions. However, fingers crossed..
She doesn’t have to address the lies being told against her. She’s always said he’s a wife beating liar and he’s called her a cheating woman. I think it’s all balanced
She obviously has no defense cos the guy has made her mum a potential witness. She's playing to her advantage using domestic violence that has no evidence as a bargain. By and large, they both chose wrongly but that woman is for the streets .
Why are we quick to judge, Yes, he's a pastor but maybe they have been cohabiting before he received his calling or gave his life to christ and also a child is involve..though, he supposed to have done the proper thing by paying the bride price..because that's the right thing to do... I just hope both of them can resolve their issue
pride price is what will keep her legs closed to ither men?you are worst than anything i can imagine.if i haven't paid her pride price why can't her leave.when you do rubbish and try to blame it on some rubbish.
Waiting to for the part 2 but in the meantime, I totally condemn a woman or man cheating. About the house chores, nobody is helping anybody, you both lived together so you do things together as well. So the guy is not helping the girl, he’s only taking responsibility when the lady is busy doing something else. I come in peace ✌️
You mean a man who left home since morning sourcing for means of survival for the family also has a responsibility of coming home to wash the dishes? Madam if God gives you a man that helps with the house chores appreciate him and never see that as an entitlement.
@@josephadetunji4480 What do you mean by helping? Do you mean house chores is strictly for women and when a man does it, “he’s helping the woman”? Please I would like you to expatiate.
The man is a user,period! U liked her to use her…. Which kind pastor are you by allowing ur woman to pay nearly all bills ???? This is purely an abuse , “financial abuse “. Man ,could you buckle up to save ur home by taking over ur family bills and let ur wife be a helper! U have pushed ur wife to be having body contact as claimed by you. It is well .
She should sue him again for defamation of character. Use facts to build your case! No matter what type of woman she is, you had a child and even called her your wife. Broke men always have big ego.😒
@adegbolakehinde2318 God bless you for your observation's....if the guy had lied about the infidelity, na there she for pass start her own defense, which means what the man said is the truth....
When a man leaves his responsibility to the wife, the resultant consequences is sourcing the money from men... Mr pastor get yourself a job before going into another relationship please...
@user-ni5uj5me6w None of my sisters presently even have the guts to disrespect a man and come to me for protection. 4 girls and 2 boys. Anything you do, nobody will cover your shame for you. My mum didn't cheat on my dad. If you cheat on your husband, I'll tell him to throw you away... Man desires unfailing love. I don't mix emotions so I don't pass judgements. Facts only 💯
even if you pay all the bills as a woman, it's not enough for you to commit adultery, please. that is if his allegations are true. what is wrong is wrong. you should have left him, full stop.