@@joeswanson733 I must be confused, how does that make him a sucker? if anytbinf he just proved himself to thousands of people and now she’s publicly been embarrassed
@@joeswanson733he’s a true gentleman and clearly in control of his emotions. THIS is the kind of man real women literally want. He’s handsome, was respectful, calm… where is he
And she’ll be at home crying talking about not being able to find a good man or there are no good men out there. She truly missed out and he dodged a bullet.
This what happens when you get old and ONE dude pay you attention like you use to get back in the day.... Oh, by the way my dude. She definitely EFFN with u for you resources.. she doesn't find you attractive in a sexual way. She will let you eat the box and trick on her meanwhile, a dude like me could order door dash and she would've ate this third leg for desert... Just saying.
He did perfect. You can be kind and not weak. He also dropped her off without giving it a second thought after trying to understand. It took him a minute because he has a pure heart not cuz he’s a bitch. And that is beautiful he’s a righteous man who should be respected and honored by the most HIGH
There is a high probability that she reenacted the answering machine scene from Swingers when she got home. Dude very likely had 10 messages waiting for him when he got home.
My comments as a woman: 1. Girl, you, looking like that, deserve McDonald’s. Your boobs are almost out, big earrings, purple lipstick? There’s no sign of elegance here. An elegant woman is always on time, doesn’t embarrass people or record a man on a first date. 2. This gentleman is a diamond in a world full of rhinestones. He’s always calm, respectful, he knows what he wants, and what he deserves. 3. Gentleman, if you notice a behavior like this, RUN. Immediately. Like he did. Don’t waste your time and money on that kind of woman, or you’ll get hurt. 4. Ladies, if you know your worth, show it. Dressing nicely elegant, discreet makeup, even a nice perfume. Be on time, be nice, and grateful.
As a black woman……she’s not all that! I try not to put women down…..but what she did was wrong….i love the Cheesecake Factory… its a first date for God’s sake! I’m a southern black woman….and i agree….i deserve to be treated well…. And i do know my worth…..this woman got what she deserved!
Her energy changed the moment he said he'd drop her off at her place!! She went from the definition of entitled to "i'm willing to compromise", "are you sure you wanna go home?" And "i'm sorry" lol
"who takes someone who looks like this to a chain restaurant?" She's right, he should've taken her to a hotdog cart or a deli, she can get anything she wants as long as she doesn't go over $5
A true narcissist! She was testing him and pushing him to see how far she could walk all over him. Once he showed he had boundaries and acted on them she “apologized”. I hope he never went out with her again because she didn’t make a mistake she knew what she was doing. That guy is a true gentleman, he didn’t even insult her.
That’s exactly what I was thinking. I’ve dealt with narcissistic women myself and they never take accountability and if they do they’ll try to put it right back onto you. She “apologized” to see if it would change the outcome. Didn’t apologize or even give him a heads up work was running over. I hope he finds someone who matches his genuine traits.
That's my thoughts exactly,I don't think that was even late from work, because if she really meant to be with him,and she found herself running late,she should have called,have a man sitting down, waiting on you for an hour,and added insult to injuries,she came downstairs climb into his car still putting on makeup,
As a woman she embarrassed us! Women who act like this are embarrassing. Fellas, this is proof that just because a woman looks good on the outside doesn't mean she is a good Person on the Inside. I'm tired of people thinking just because they are attractive that they are owed the world period what you look like on the outside has nothing to do with your relationships because our looks will fade well into age. It is who you are as a person that matters! I'm also too old to condone recording people When they don't want to be recorded. I think it's immature And She definitely needs to grow up. I would have went into the cheesecake factory gladly! If she wasn't an hour late then They would have made the reservation for the original restaurant he reserved them for. She did it to herself! I don't blame him!
She missed out on a good one. Very respectable way to end it. Don’t let anyone drag you down into the mud. She tried to embarrass you but you didn’t return the favor like an immature child would do. I wish you the best on your journey and please remember that not all women are like that… MOST will meet you on the level you are at and help you grow and reach your highest potential.
Yo, she not only recorded herself acting this way, she’s so delusional that she thought she decided to post this on social media for the world to see thinking that she would get support.
Some women in groups did support her but I don’t agree with how she went about it. Decide where you’re going ahead of time, be on time, be kind, be cooperative, friendly, put the damn phone down.
@@Beatyofeet32😂😂😂😂 I have watched this video on several media( FB,RU-vid,Tik Tok,etc) sites just to read the comments,and your the FIRST and ONLY person that used the comment " In her defense". This heifer has no defense on no level ,with this behavior.
I feel bad for dude, seems like a good respectful person and ended up in this situation with this ungrateful person. She would be glad that someone even attempted to take her out on a date because she's far from the rating she gave herself.
He was kind and gentle towards her. Heck, they shouldn't have been on the date in the first place because she was over an hour late. He should've left her. He escaped an entitled person. Count your blessings, young man.
The fact he waited and acted calm the whole time and even drove her home instead of leaving her in the dust shows he's the better person and deserves much better
She says it’s too early to invite him in when he picked her up. Ok, good for her. On his behalf, it’s too early to be taking her to a high end restaurant dressed like she’s been swinging on a brass pole. And the fact she’s recording it all. Props to her for eventually getting it and props to him for sticking to his values.
Once i heard he had to wait a extra hour in the car for this woman, I would of left and never talked to her again. She already showed she didn't respect him or his time.
Right and didn’t have the common courtesy to say “hey work is going to run over. I’m not sure how long its going to take but can I text you when I’m heading home to allow ourselves enough time to get ready?” Smh
Anyone notice she starts apologizing the second the man starts driving back back to her place? The moment she knew the date wasn't going happen, she became humble real quick. You reap what you sow.
furreal. part of me wants to believe she genuinely realized she f'd up bad at that point and learned a lesson from this, but the fact that we're seeing it at all prolly means she just wanted the free meal lol
I think she was embarrassed. Bc she was recording it and she probably expected to get her way and maybe she thought with it being filmed he would listen to her. She didn't expect him to stand up for himself and drop her off at home. She thought he would change his mind and take her where she wanted to go and do whatever she wanted. But she needs to grow up bc not everyone is gonna let you run all over them and it's better to be humble and be a nice person than to be arrogant and make an ass out of yourself.
She was tryna play bro out a free meal and tryna get as best meals as she could cuz she thot he was a buster but then she was like ah fuck I’m boutta not get shit lemme shape up and apologize try to get anything
Nah fr tho, she then started to admit he was right about her acting up with being late and uncooperative, though earlier she was acting like it made no sense why he said she was uncooperative.
Eh. I can give a girl 20 mins. Especially, for the first date. I know how they be changing 50 times just to put on what they first decided cause they nervous. Past 20 mins is crazy tho.
She is not all that. Her attitude made her even less attractive. She was more focused at staring at herself instead of just talking it out with him. He deserves 10x better.
My brotha handled it with perfection. My guy was calm didnt yell he kept his emotions in check.. and when he felt disrespected he took her ass home!!! I want to see her response video 🤣🤣🤣
She uploaded her response video,it's on FB. Trust me,it's a waste of your time to watch it..she said a lotta of nothing in it. The comments ( especially the ladies)are dragged her thru to dirt,for her behavior.
I would have asked if her hair is real and pulled on it))) Thats like pulling out cryptonite on black women. I've done it once when I ha a similar situation with a Jamiacan girl.
She can't even look at him or talk to him, she's looking and talking to her audience. So pathetic. I hope no man puts himself through going on a first date with her ever again, for their sake!
I think that was my biggest thing with this video is that she was talking to the damn camera making comments instead of talking to him directly. That alone is disrespectful enough and shows you what kind of person she is.
This is a disrespectful woman. She took his kindness for Weakness. In conversations they had before this date. She thought he was a pushover. Hence the reason she was very late to this date. She also thought she was this exotic gift to him.
To the Gentleman who took her out: You're a gem. I hope you find someone who is worthy of you. You should've left her behind when she made you wait for an hour. That is height of rudeness and bad manners, and she just got worse from there. You are far more forgiving than most people, and I applaud you for finally having had enough, but keeping your cool. Good on you, Sir. I hope you find a lovely woman who treats you like gold.
Did they say she lives in an apartment? She’s acting like she has her own home, her own boss, founder of non-profit organizations, 850 credit score, and making six digits. Girl bye! Good for him for taking her back to her apartment!
Yea seemed hungry at the end and like damn I just missed out on an entire meal!! Like he’s not even willing to compromise lol first Cheese Cake Factory wasn’t good enough now she wants to compromise 😂
As soon as she started on her "lets talk" nonsense, I would have said "I ain't doing this. You need to go ahead and call you and Uber." I wouldn't waste another word.
Then she wanna be sorry after acting a fool. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. How you act like that but then don't want to go home or end the date?! Girl bye!
She wasn’t sorry. The way her lips primp told me she wasn’t actually sorry. That’s that I’m gonna say sorry but not actually be sorry, I’m mad. Bet she sorry now she being dragged
So wait a minute, she don’t know him enough to hold his arm as he walk her to car to probably open the door for her and she don’t know him enough to invite him in the house but he should go all out for her on the first date even though he don’t know her like that to be doing all that on the first date. She’s delusional and I’m glad he got rid of her
I hope she learned her lesson from this. I have never been to the cheese cake factory. I looked up the menu and Show all that delicious food on that menu and was like man this woman is very ungrateful.
The food slaps, I mean yeah it's not THE MOST expensive restaurant out there, but it's definitely more expensive than your average sit down and still gives the impression you're doing some finer dining. As a college student, that was pretty much the apex of what I could do with my gf for our first anniversary last year.
I love how he handled himself he said we aren't right for each other, I'm going to take you home. Very respectful even though he was being disrespected.
Let’s not go there please. She is pretty but her attitude makes her look incredibly ugly. Looks aren’t everything and she’s wasting it by being extremely in love with herself .
He still a little weak but yeah as long as he sticks with his rules and expectations... needs to work on not letting someone make him wait... an hour? No that's unacceptable
That woman played herself in the worst way. She is "average.. at best" and with that funky attitude of hers she’s way less than that. The audacity to be on LIVE while you’re on a date only to try and put down your guy. How is this even remotely considered to be ok? Worse yet, she’s showing out for a group of women who don’t give 2 damns about her and more than likely want to see her as single as they are. Kudos to the gentleman for handling it with class. The funniest part of the whole interaction was at the end where her whole demeanor switched up. Too late.
Your daughter, if she looked like you then, would be below average. Please don't procreate. Your look would make her average or below and you would be responsible for that!
The Audacity of this average looking woman being ungrateful about cheesecake factory and feeling entitled that he should go all out for her, she wasn't really interested in this guy she was interested in showing off for the gram and a foodie call
@@isyssthegoddess5093 what if he was above average in looks she wouldn't have had that attitude or better yet what if he was a pookie or ray ray dude she wouldn't of acted that way.
@@isyssthegoddess5093 hell naw I don't care how fine a woman is or how fine she thinks she is she can be replaced, looks is enough to hook a man but not keep a man, I hope she learned her lesson.
Out of all the RU-vid vids I’ve seen (and I do watch a ton of them) this is by far the worst entitled, self absorbed, delusional, mean, narcissistic, gross thing I have ever seen!!! I almost think it’s staged but looking at the guy’s expressions I don’t think it is. I hope she gets a wake up call. She missed a chance to be treated like a queen. What a gem he is. I wish the best for him and hope he finds that special girl he deserves…oh and likes cheesecake 😊
It is staged. Fat chance in reality she would let a dude who looks like him take her out and get all up in her personal business like her apartment just for a $200 meal
@@michaelangst6078 you see they are doing interviews now? Lolol ...she said she have him a chance because he seemed sweet. But she's 6 ft 1 and he's short so it wouldn't work lololll...I can't tell what's real on the internet anymore
My wife and I love Cheesecake Factory. Definitely one of the better chain restaurants. Now she dolled herself up for no reason the lady is out of her mind and she’s not that good looking
She wasn’t interested in getting to know him and that’s why she disrespected his time by having him wait an hr even after being told twice that he’s going to arrive at 4pm. That right there is enough for her to get dumped right there and she lucky to have a man wait on her for an whole hour. He’s better than me
He was respectful but his only issue was he said too much. The fact that he had to wait an hour without her telling him she was gonna be late should’ve been the deal breaker. Other than that, he did the right thing. Take her ungrateful ass home and lose her number!!! Beautiful women come a dime a dozen. She did you a favor bruh. He’s better than me though. I’m not waiting an hour. My time is too valuable to waste on some ungrateful and self-centered woman!!
She’s made herself look every flavor of awful there is; that guy is WONDERFUL for putting his foot down, setting boundaries, and even being sweet to her-What a catch!
I have to congratulate her on all that unwarranted self confidence. Always been a struggle for me since I live in reality. This guy handled himself so well. Must have been a very uncomfortable drive home for her.
He should have taken her to the restaurant of her choice, been seated before ordering and, said he needed to retrieve his wallet from the car and left her there.
I bet if she takes those braids out her head she would look like my little brother. This just makes my blood boil and she'll need that toy she keeps in the drawer by her side forever
She is a pretty woman, She has a terrible attitude but she is definitely up there in looks. social media is straying some of us further and further from reality because i don’t think you would be saying that if you saw her irl
@@AaliyahEmore888 this is exactly the reasoning she did it in the first place. Just be honest she’s average at best (no hate I’m not cute either) but I can be honest with myself and still move confidently. The looks isn’t the issue it’s the fact that she thinks her looks can trump anything and get her whatever she craves. Absolutely demonic
@@purpbelly117 Oh FS, I agree that she did this because she believes she’s attractive, and she is, But the original commenter saying she’s a 4 just strikes me as a damn lie. I mean, 4 is below average. I get that beauty is subjective but in no world is this woman below average. Saying that is subconsciously being biased to the fact that she’s disrespectful
@@AaliyahEmore888 average is a 5…10 is human perfection the highest you can get so the average person would be a 5 maybe 6 on a good day. Imo tho w her attitude all lat goes straight out the window for me 🤷🏽
Never mind this woman's behavior, which is just AWFUL, turning down the Cheesecake Factory is like turning down a million dollars handed to you from your family. Who would do that? Someone who's spoiled.
There were two parts that were the best. 1st when she found out where she could have eaten at had she been on time. 2nd when she realized she was going home hungry and thirsty cuz she got put in her place 😂😂😂😂.
Wow! I couldn’t have done it any better than this gentleman. There was nothing wrong with going to the Cheesecake Factory she still could went with him and maybe learned a lesson or two on how it all works and maybe even had a piece of cheesecake. Instead of complaining about it she could have been grateful and thankful for him taking you anywhere just to spend quality time with her. Some women is just dumb and stupid and disrespectful and she doesn’t deserve a gentleman like this man. She’s not the right one for you! ✌️
I do wonder why this guy would take out this badly dressed, over exposed, unfit woman. Surely, he would not take her home to meet his family. So what was he thinking?
This chick is crazy!! I can't believe she treated this man like this. She does not represent all black women. Cheesecake factory is a perfectly fine restaurant especially for first date. I can't believe how mean she was to that man. I'm sure she is getting dragged for this!
She is some piece of work. I've seen all the other videos and interviews of her changing her tune and that she was wrong ect.... I guarantee that if no one called her out on her stuck up attitude she would have never ever have felt any different and that she is still above cheesecake factory. 😂😂😂😂
The fact that she had her phone out on A DATE is one of the many reasons why he should’ve instantly drove her triflin’ ass back home! AND she made him wait for an hour OUTSIDE because she didn’t feel comfortable with him coming into her house & that messed up the original reservations?! But she felt comfortable enough to put him on blast for the whole internet & the whole internet backed him as we all should! Y’all, I cannot with this girl & girls like her. I’m built different. I appreciate everything a Man does for me, especially when gas is $6 per gallon. I am straight-up proud of this Man for having enough integrity & self respect to not deal with that nonsense. Honestly, she was only using him for a meal & played herself out of even that! Probably got her broke-ass man laying up in her bed & that’s why she was actually late. She gives off unfaithful “entanglement” vibes. This girl ain’t the one for no one. Bye-bye, Hot Mess Shein Dress 👋🏾👗
Yes girl. I’m surprised the other day I posted a comment lime yours and ppl were so negative but it feels so nice to see ladies who think the same as me too. How could someone love someone and not care for their money. If their company is good and we feel that there’s a future with someone ladies don’t even care if the you take us to McDonald’s
@@Ms420g, that’s what I’m saying! If a Man took me to Micky Dees & was like, “Get what you want, baby”, I would be so happy because I’d like like, “Let me get the 20 piece Chicken Nuggets with BBQ Sauce, Large Fries, a McChicken Sandwich & a Caramel Frappe” 🤣 We get the option of eating there or leaving (I would prefer to leave after getting the food so we could go wherever we want), find some place lovely & quiet & then we can eat & enjoy each other’s company. Some people put too much on where they eat & not who they’re eating with. Like it’s a status chasing thing. Not me. I like to eat, I like to talk & I like to learn about people. I love dates. Also, Hot Mess Shein Dress locking the door of his car infuriated me. He waited an hour for her, drove her to a nice place & then got out of the car to come open her door for her & she has the audacity to lock HIS door & film him like he’s garbage?! I’m sorry, she just makes me mad every time I see her face! And then this one guy did an interview with both of them to sort of clear the air & HMSD was still just as entitled in the interview as she was in this video BUT because of how much blowback she got from it, you could see she was just trying to mind her words & say whatever would put her in a better light. She learned nothing from this experience 🙄
This should be lauded as both a how to and what not to do vid. What women should NOT do on a date. How NOT to treat a man who is clearly handling his business. And for men, this is a how to vid on how to deal with an entitled chick who knows nothing about respect. Yes woman, I can believe how he’s acting. He was more of a gentleman than you deserved.
He was truly a gentleman. But I think he should not have waited an entire hour. After the fifteen or twenty minutes mark he should have left. She could have set him up to be attacked, robbed or anything. As a mother I am glad this young man drew the line before wasting anymore of his time.
If you don’t know or trust him like that to allow him up to your apartment then why are you in his car??? You could’ve met in a mutual place and if it didn’t meet your expectations then no harm, no foul; you could’ve left. She’s an complete embarrassment to herself and makes other black women get treated badly or otherwise just based on stuff like this.
He did a good job, many men would have left her standing in the parking lot calling her own ride home. As for her, I hope her next 30 first dates are at the cheesecake factory. That should teach her not to have such huge expectations for a first date.
Man, I wish I could react like he did. I’m not that well at communicating yet, maybe in due time. His response and calmness to the situation was On a different level!
Keep taking your red pill vitamins you'll get there my guy, how I became well communicative is talking to these ungrateful entitled modern women like I have nothing to loose, you can't be timid in your approach to this kind of behavior, just know her rejection is your protection, they want you more when you act like you don't need the or that you don't care about losing them.
To the guy ... don't bother having a 2nd date .. find a better woman that is consederate and know how to appreciate ur effort. If u end up being that woman's bf or husband, she can only give u stress and u will end up penniless 😅
