No Kevin. I know you’re trying to see both sides in the situation but she instigated the whole dynamic with him responding to her when she thought based off her looks that The Cheesecake Factory was beneath her and she locked him out of his own car he was nicer than I would be to her in the situation.
Exactly with that too little tank top on and a dab of lipstick so why did it take so long for her to get dressed? Cause she was playing games probably was bragging on her friends about how long she had him waiting and he was still there
Looking in from the uk. He was totally correct, this woman initial behaviour already showed, not only did she keep him waiting without having the courtesy inform him prior to her delay, She also questioned his choice of restaurant, locked his car door when he offered to do the gentlemanly gesture, she is not at all receptive and then started filming him, so sorry but as a direct male I understand his reaction, her behaviour was unacceptable and unreasonable before discussing how she felt prior in an adult manner, instead she chose to behave entitled without mature communication. She chose to behave immature and fake, she provided him with enough information to respectfully be taken home and dropped off immediately.
She got the right and the wrong one with me at the same damn time. I'll ask her where would she like to go, I'll take you anywhere she would have told me where she wanted to go. We would have got there. I'll open her car door, let her out, lock the passenger car door. Shut the door, got back in on the driver's side , pulled off on her.
I agree she could have been gracious, and completed the date. He was gracious enough to wait a hour for her and dud not complain until she did. After that, if she did not want to go out again then just don't except another date. But, if she did not feel comfortable letting him in that's her prerogative. If she wants a man to go all out on a first date that's also her prerogative. Expect respect, and give respect.
Fact is someone has blew her head up bigger than reality and why did it take so long for her to get dressed when she only has on a little lipstick or gloss, a cheap looking tank top, and probably a pair of jeans or slacks or shorts so in my opinion she made him wait that long just to see if he would and I’m so glad he stood his ground and took her home where she needed to be. She was probably bragging with her friends telling them how long she had him waiting and the stomach can use a few sit ups too
Am I the only one who finds it unacceptable for her to be on the phone live recording when she should be paying attention to the date. She never even looks at him most of the time, too busy looking at the camera.
No she not receptive, she was still lookin for a free meal. She was counting on that free meal today her mouth is still watering for it. You're not going to use me for content, Trick no good.😉💪🏾💯⬆️
Whether it's Cheese Factory or Mc'Donald's, that's why dinner on first dates is a big NO NOOOOOOOOO! Also, she has hands. Let her open the door for herself! She's Borderline and he's borderline simping! She's taking advantage of him not knowIng it.
To be honest, he was being nice by treating her to Cheesecake Factory.🤷🏾♂️ “Look at me. I can not go into a Cheesecake Factory.” Now, she wants to compromise because she’s hungry and he embarrassed her on a live feed by saying I’m taking you home. He humbled her ass!😂 Shiiiiiiid…straight out the gate, she’s about a 4-5 dolled up. Her titties are the main attraction, not her face. She deserves Applebees at best for a first date!🤣 And this dude is a doctor! He’s already at the top of the chain and out of her league!🤦🏾♂️ She lost and she knows it bro. Ain’t no sharing blame roun hurr. He was right to maintain his frame and push on. Most dudes would’ve cussed her out and left her in the parking lot.🤷🏾♂️
@@MistaRashad1984 Yeah,Bruh. Here I am thinking that a DOCTOR was a good catch. A HIGH VALUE man. Now would be the time for Sis to showcase her cooking skills & show him how she keeps her home. She totally fumbled. I really don’t understand this.
A lot of posts edited out the fact that she said she was sorry. I was surprised she even said that. He made her aware and when he did, she looked like she got caught stealing something.
He appear as a peaceful man….she a drama chick! And a first date….Yea take her as* home!!😂. By the way the Cheese Cake Factory is a nice place and good food 🙂
Kevin she felt dumb, he was well spoken and she had no choice but to respect his words. Lack of patients absolutely not. I mean how much patients should he have. He dont have to put up with the waking up of her negative pride.
This is interesting cus , my husband took me and my two kids to Cheesecake Factory . Unfortunately the place was too crowded .it would have been a two hour wait . So from what I could see The Cheesecake Factory obviously makes good food and gets plenty customers . Their menu looks very good .
ceandersonlive is the therapist friend of the woman in this video and she said it was a skit on her Instagram post. So, if anyone was wondering if it was real, it's not.
@@Ginza92 .... now what you just said confirms for me this WASNT A SKIT....her "therapist friend" comes forward and says this in defense of this mutt.. convenient when the attention she gettin is negative... not what she thought it would be..
@@yadda10akataxpayinvoter The woman in the video is a therapist too and they have a show together. Her being a therapist makes it worse since they are supposed to be honest and truthful. All she had to do was put skit in the description box but deceived millions of people instead. regardless I agree with you she's a bad person.
My boyfriend and I were walking frim his car to a restaurant. I inadvertently and not thinking walked on the outside of him. He immediately said: what are you doing? I reallly did not realize how I was walking. He quickly reminded me I have to walk on in the inside because he has to protect me. If you knew how loving my heart felt towards him. He has always shown himself to be my protector. We have been together for 5 yrs and his attitude towards loving and protecting me has not changed.
This woman was not only disrespectful of this gentleman's time....she was AN HOUR LATE -- no call, no text, no notification whatsoever!! Meanwhile he was waiting in his car for her! Had that been me.....I would have left in 10 minutes and NOT returned!
Nah man, we're too busy to entertain this nonsense bro. Locking him out his car and taking a video of him like a fool. That's too much, I would have dragged her out ma car man f#ck that.
and they wonder why least preferred on dating sites. It's definitely not because of colour. I'm Indian, physically I find black women attractive but i don't approach, there are countless times i come across a cute black women, half of my brain is like..... "damn she's fine! " the other half of my brain is like..... "man we don't have the energy in us for what it will take"
You're giving her too much credit for not exhibiting poor behavior, AFTER being corrected for all her poor behavior. If you're thirstily trying to land a doctor, maybe it's counterproductive to act like you're an entitled teenager. What did Chris Rock say, "You're SUPPOSED TO take care of your kids...low expectation having mofo!"
She is NOT receptive, she is disrespectful, not-feminine, non-cooperative.... I think this gentleman would do better to search his mother country for a good wife.
Ruth's Chris steak house, the Chart house, and other restaurants are chain restaurants. If he took you there, you want to tell me, I bet she wouldn't be complaining because of the high end and status of the restaurant's prices! In short, she wanted a lot of money to be spent on her!🙄😎
Come through with that grown man energy. Mr Kevin! Just finish the date and don’t take another one! All this put somebody on blast is so corny; why you need all your followers to be a part of your date?
Actually some Arabic descent men love sassy black women. I know. I married one. He loved when I acted like that. He bought me a home and cars. I still have the Hashmi name 2:59
She didn’t say anything cause she was embarrassed and that’s why she looked stupid and didn’t argue cause she knew she was wrong from the start and he didn’t make any mistakes she was playing games and she got embarrassed
My Muslim I truly respect you and everything that you do and I do not give too many men that much respect. But the fact that she was recording is so disrespectful
He was not impatient with her he wasn’t going to play her games and that’s that. She was playing games and everyone could see that. And she only started talking different cause her games didn’t work on him. Stop giving her credit cause she doesn’t deserve ANY.
I wouldn't know what the big deal about Cheesecake Factory cause I don't have one near me. However, she is spoiled and I'm thinking dude is dodging a bullet. Get out while you can He is a bigger man than about 85 percent of us men. We would have made Princess walk home
Me myself is starting to beleive thatb this was staged and reasosn for this conclusion is not the host of this channel Mr. Wesley was not the same dude who cried about how he paid for his girls daughter wedding and she wanted to have her real father give her away and he told them to pay for there own wedding plus more. Now he had both the women and dude from this story on his channel and at the end he is sending them on another date, both have 2 different values it would never work. This is all staged for views period I will be unsubscribing from this channel as of now because I have better things to do in my life than listening to staged crap.
Na brother, i don’t agree she not worth this. She live that is why she apologized lol. He wasn’t rude if he was rude she would have been rude. All in how the guy handle rejection. You can see his doctor. She treated a good man like shit.
Salaam alaikum walaikum Salam the fact that she in the end realize that she was wrong part that she recorded him and try to make yourself look good to me that is very disrespectful because what she said cheesecake factory I actually know some people that work there and I know some more important people and that was embarrassing. To her at all because she was too beautiful for her own good the fact that she try to modify herself as one of these beautiful black women that's great that's awesome but when you realize the circumstances that you're in how many brothers would have done with that if she really was interesting that brother she would have did better trust me if she would have let him in the house not just knock at the door
I do like that you are trying to be neutral but there aren't any green flags in my opinion she set up a camera to record knowing she was instigating a conflict we didn't get the whole car ride just when she decided it went bad and she decided to publicly shame him that's why she was recording. Had she told him when she pulled up to the restaurant that she didn't like it instead of starting to record content. She wasn't receptive or really respectful of him or what he was say she spent most of her time looking at her phone. The only reason she stopped being difficult is she knew she was embarrassing herself and wanted to save face it was for content not sincere because if she wanted to use the date for content she could of waited to after the date concluded and it might of went a different way
Man she was disrespectful upfront. Im not waiting an hour after I pull up. That's an automatic get ghost. And is rude. And cant Directly communicate. No sir. She is the worst type to deal with.
