It's a played out shaming tactic. Shit don't even work no more. They desperate 😂😂😂 Anytime the rhetoric is of that "well a real man...." type shit, they just mad that they can't get men to comply with some bullshit
Its projection. People tend to project onto others how they feel when they wear certain things or do certain things. She's not confident or secure with herself that she can get attention without showing her body off. So she's insecure
They're insecure, that's why they dress that way! I've sat back and watched all of the women in my family, all the women I grew up with over the years, and my 3 sisters. Women crave attention!
So a woman who wears certain types of revealing clothes to attract attention from others so she can feel better about herself is calling the man insecure?
They want a man that will be masculine..but follow their lead and wonder why they always lose attraction for the guy that they thought would make them happy. They always follow a losing formula because they have been indoctrinated by feminism
Never obtain money, work on your body and obtain status just to gain the attention of women. That's just flat out shallow. Do it firstly to develop discipline and for your own mental and physical health. Period!
I say let 'em. There are so many dudes of this younger generation that don't do any of that. they just resigned and are getting fat and soft. At least if they start to go for those goals they might realize doing it for women isn't even a worthy goal, but they'll have the discipline to further improve their lives.
@@angelotorres4936big facts. It’s the simp dudes that buzzards have been around that have them thinking they are worth anything more than a smash behind a dumpster fire
@angelotorres4936 yep those simps are weak asf & melt by these women beauty. that's why ah woman's beauty is kool n all, but I care abt a woman's heart 1st. infact from my experience in life the most beautiful women are usually the most 304's
There are ZERO analogies you can use in the eyes of a modern woman. A car is not like clothes! 😡😡😡These young ladies are lost... Blind leading the blind... Until some other man gets out of line.
If your man isn’t putting boundaries on you then he doesn’t care about you. We only care about where you go, what you wear and who you hang out with when we care about you and want to protect you.
@@darkfatekod3962facts. Most women these days think this way. Just watch any dating podcast and you'll hear the same ridiculous shit over and over again about the man being insecure for having boundaries. 😒
If your parent's, a company, school or even your job lets you know you can't wear something too revealing do you call them insecure? But if the man who is supposed to protect you, love you, provide for you... if he even say's it in a nice way, he's insecure.. lol
I had a woman like this... once... she got all dressed up wanted to go "out with the girls".. I straight told her.. "if you go out... without me... looking like that.. you better find you some dude to take you home and keep you because you ain't coming back here..." she thought I was talking shit and went anyway.. when she came home, all her shit was in the yard and she was locked out. she called my phone asking what's up.. I told her "I told you don't bother coming back here. if you can't respect me enough to abide my wishes, you don't respect me at all and I don't need you, bye" and that was the last time I spoke with her...
@@bankrollace8737 Yes, women are like children. The modern day women has arrested development which makes her vulnerable to exploitation and other behaviors.
6:48 - The funniest thing that those banshees didn't understand is that you low-key told men to focus on building up themselves, but respect from banshees like them is worthless.
Even if we Guys get our money up, go to the gym and put on muscle and tone up, dress good and smell nice..... There is still no way we are coming these type of women. No way.
Everything he says come from fresh and fit when I first saw one of his videos I thought he was gonna say something different but yeah, it’s pretty much the same he just has a beard
Yeah but at least i respect this dude because he is authentic, keeps it fun even though he uses a lot of analogies from Fresh and fit. I enjoy watching him too. I hope he grows too.
My wife, raised by a wife, who was raised by a wife etc, has never had to be checked on her outfit. having respect for your man, has nothing to do with his money or status. His money doesn't determine what he cares about. If you call him your man and he calls you his lady, He should care what you look like, your health and safety when out of his presence as you are a reflection of each other. Why would you submit(sleep with) or be in a monogamous relationship with someone you don't respect. Respect the boundaries in the relationship otherwise don't engage. in your parents home, work and in a relationship there's a dress code even at home.
This is what a culture lacking respect and prioritizing feminism gets you. When did respecting yourself and your partner become an optional thing on the surface?🤔
How do you contradict yourself by saying “You knew how I dressed before you got with me and know I will do what I want to do.”, and in the same breath you say “If he’s my man and is taking care of me, I will submit to him and won’t wear what he says I should not wear.”?
It's not insecure if a man tells his daughter to change her outfit, if it's too revealing. so it wouldn't be insecure if he told his woman to do the same thing, this is about respect for him in themselves.
Ngl, my woman beautiful and listens to me all the time. But Im also very respectful of how she feels as well. I think these women think they he’s trying to say that they should let the man dictate what they wear. IF these women have any respect for their man back home, this conversation would of been so complicated because they would of understood from the jump
What these women failed to understand about a man wanting his woman to dress modestly, is that it's an indirect way of protecting them from predatory men that would approach them with the intention of using them.
It's called modesty, respect, and it's loyalty. Sadly this mindset is not just in relationships. It's in jobs that people who think their bennth this but still can't do better.
Something I don’t agree with that Cooley said was that men will get more respect from women if they build themselves up more… but it’s still not the man that those type of women respect… it’s the things and status the has that they respect… meaning that if for any reason the man was to lose the lifestyle he worked so hard for the respect from the women is lost too… he should tell men to deal with women that just respect men period…
💯. When did respect become such an optional thing out of the gate. The truth hurts and men are waking up. Nothing else matters to a man that is being intentional about a relationship than respect.
It's transactional if you have money you will get decency , respect and cooperation. But if you're not paying for the relationship then the disrespect should be okay. ❌👎🏽 In order to get access to my money you would definitely have to show me those traits before. 💯
Little fact, if you present yourself in a wifely manner both in appearance, character and how you conduct yourself, men are less likely to approach you because they can tell when you're taken and have a high level of respect for yourself, enough respect that they know it would be a waste of time approaching you. If men feel comfortable approaching you in droves, it means that you present yourself as a single woman that men can try and have a shot/chance with.
Simply put the act of asking a woman to dress moderately isnt insecure it just depends on how much money you have. Same thing goes for men being labeled as "creepy". What the man does isnt actually creepy it just depends on how attractive he is.
The fact that your with a dude u don’t respect enough to question your outfit just shows you shouldn’t be dealing with that type of fella in the first place, here in lies the problem.
Complete projection to call men insecure for wanting a woman to dress modestly. Women dress a certain way because they are in competition with other women to receive male attention. If she is wanting attention from anyone other than her man, she doesn’t respect you and needs to be shown the door.
These conversations are draining 🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️ The answer is YES ORRRRR NO. NOT YES AND NO. It’s a complete contradiction out the gate. These girl want to do what they want to do regardless of how or what their man thinks about it and still wants that same man to do all of the things she expects from him. It’s always he’s insecure when he doesn’t like something she is doing. And the chic that said oh you should know what type of women she was and she ain’t about to tone it down for you still expects a man to turn it UP for her in every way possible. More money, better lifestyle, expensive gifts, trips, dinners etc and over time she will expect to see that evolve into an expensive 💍 but yea she won’t turn it down for you. 🤣🤣🤣 Fellas pay attention.
I care that my man cares about what I wear because I understand that when I step out that I am a representation of HIM. But don't mind me.... I've only been happily married for 16 years 😏.
Any real man would look at his relationship to anything as an investment. With our woman even more so because now the man and woman become an extension of each other. If this can't be understood or request met, then you're destined to fail. Definitely not an insecurity wanting your woman not to look like a slut or available.
If a man has to think twice about what shes wearing and what shes doing ..... you will not be with him ..... and theres no argument .... or discussion.... we dont negotiate with terrorists
It is in these conversations more than any other that I see that overwhelmingly, young women don't know what an analogy is, or how to use or apply one.
Yes, high value in terms of money and what if the economic crisis visits tomorrow and he has nothing, should she leave? Having a woman that will stay only when things are smooth, is dangerous
Women who say "I dress like this for me" are straight capping. Even IF they're loyal, they dress promiscuous because they like the attention it brings. Even though they're in a committed relationship, they still want some of the benefits of a single woman. It has NOTHING to do with insecurity, but EVERYTHING to do with respect.
My incentive for accomplishment and improvement is not driven by pride in my reflection. Its driven by what becomes more obtainable when you put in such an effort. The whole " do it for you" mentality creates narcissists.
She don’t wanna answer because she knows instinctively he is right and his example is so easy to understand and it obliterates her “insecure” nonsense.
The thing I like most about these convos…it shows who’s a virtuous woman, and who’s under Jezebels influence. I rebuke you in the mighty name of Jesus Christ. 👍🏿👍🏿
You can’t garner respect by building up a bank account and working out! Either she RESPECTS YOU OR SHE DOES NOT! Who YOU ARE AS A MAN WILL DETERMINE THE WOMEN YOU GET! Leave the pigeons like this in the pigeon coop!
It's only insecure if the man's reasoning is centered around his ego and desire to micromanage and control her life. If his reasoning is that he wants for his lady to dress more modestly when she's out in public because it's genuinely within his set of values and that's what he's seeking in a partner that's not insecure, that's him standing on his values. Or if he's viewing it from a lens of looking out for her safety, if she's dressed in a way that may draw more unwanted attention than would be typically expected assuming she's that type of good-looking, then saying something out of being her protector is also a sign of leadership and care, not insecurity. That being said, there are plenty of men that will mask their reasoning and not be honest or upfront about the fact when they are being egocentric and controlling because that's just who they developed themselves into as a guy. There's a difference between protective leadership guided by love vs control-based leadership guided by fear. On the surface they can seem the same, and are easily confused, but when you peel back the layers, they're fundamentally very different.
