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She WALKED AWAY from the boat…now what? EP. 113 

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The thought of cruising around the world alone hasn’t ever really appealed to me. I like being around people, and more than that I love being around Katy. Sharing all these moments together, and working as a team to get through them, makes it all worth it. It builds a bond that is in some ways indescribable. People often ask us how we live together happily in such a small space. Truth is, we sometimes don’t. Relationships are hard work, living on a boat is hard work, and sometimes the two at the same time can be downright overwhelming. But every day, we choose to work at them both, and the small living space prevents us from building up walls between each other. This lifestyle forces us to openly communicate our emotions, wants, and needs, because if we don’t, if we aren’t on the same page, or at least in the same chapter, our lives could be at stake.
That being said, living this lifestyle together, in this small space, can easily blur the lines of individualism, of self. Katy and I have learned that it is important to continue nurturing our own independence, our own interests, and believe it or not, some of what we are interested in has nothing to do with sailing!
We both love our yoga practice but doing absolutely everything together is a part of those blurred lines. Here in Costa Rica, Katy has found a way to reconnect with Yoga, the classroom, and the community it offers, which is a part of herself that is very important. She is taking some time away from the camera at Nereus Retreats, but at the end of her time there, I will be taking you along with me as we look into what that space is like and introduce you to the amazing people who own and run it.
In supporting her own adventure, Ill be holding down the fort here on the boat, and it happens to lend itself to something I’ve wanted to experience for a while. What it takes to handle the boat all by myself. While she settles in there, the focus of the next two episodes is a look at what it’s like to handle this boat and lifestyle alone. I will be backing Boundless off the dock, living at anchor, tackling projects, and sailing solo for the first time in my life.
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1984 Passport 42
Hull #33
Displacement - 25,000 lbs
Ballast - 9,500 pounds of lead (encapsulated keel not bolted on)
Marconi Cutter Rig
Length - 42'
Beam - 12.75'
Water Draft - 6.4"
Air Draft - 59'
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Salt by Dye O
Numb by Nihoni
The Life of a Divorced Bumblebee by Josef Bel Habib
Things that Matter by Frank Johsson

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@SailingSeawind
@SailingSeawind 2 месяца назад
What do you do to fill up your own cup, while in a relationship? Individuality is SO important! Let us know what you think below ⬇️
@skipugh
@skipugh 2 месяца назад
We gave each other time and space (as much as possible), kind of like a do not disturb sign. My wife loves to read WITHOUT interruptions
@krautAmerican
@krautAmerican 2 месяца назад
I set my laptop on 4 small cans of tuna, to let the air circulate so it doesn't overheat.......in the 90's here at St Augustine Florida
@scott.the.sailor
@scott.the.sailor 2 месяца назад
Good job! If I can make a suggestion, double your stern line around the dock cleat back to the boat. You can cast off from the cockpit rather than standing on the dock. Obviously with no wind it's less critical but if you had a wind off your port beam it would be pretty critical (among other things, too, of course).
@candylook50
@candylook50 2 месяца назад
exactly what I was thinking
@rondejoux8006
@rondejoux8006 2 месяца назад
Treasure your time together, don't waste a minute .Its later than you think. Take care, good luck.
@RoryL83
@RoryL83 2 месяца назад
You've gotten very pro at making videos. That was a masterclass in cinematography.
@helenalways
@helenalways 2 месяца назад
It’s wonderful to hear about you both taking some time alone! Really looking forward to hearing what Katy got up to and all the Yin training she completed. Perhaps she could do her own channel with Yoga Flows on it, a beautiful sandy beach as the back drop, I would love that.
@marcuswynn89
@marcuswynn89 2 месяца назад
for your cockpit cover it might be hard to find but try using headlight cleaner that should help a lot, and if you can really find it ceramic coat it after you clear the film off of it
@wow.sailor.
@wow.sailor. 2 месяца назад
Wow Sailor, great to learn more about sailing life
@skipugh
@skipugh 2 месяца назад
Communicate, communicate communicate. Living together exacerbates minute differences and expectations. If you truly enjoy the life and each other you’ll find a way to work it out. 😊
@davidnichols147
@davidnichols147 2 месяца назад
Marvelous, truly amazing grease job. We would love to hear about Kattie's experience with Yoga.
@theapplguy
@theapplguy 2 месяца назад
It’s good to have time as a couple- to have ‘reset-time’ between each other’s company; I’ve had wartime PTSD that went untreated until recently and Katy’s treatment either through Yoga or BetterHelp will help ground her personality!
@user-pe6hh4rp6c
@user-pe6hh4rp6c 2 месяца назад
Did y’all break up or just take a break? The title makes it sound like she packed up & left. Other comments sound like y’all are done & you are going to circumnavigate alone?
@TexasbyStorm
@TexasbyStorm 2 месяца назад
You could watch the video and you'd know.
@ryanforshaw836
@ryanforshaw836 2 месяца назад
Thanks, guys for another great video and your continuous inspiration. We hope Katy enjoyed the retreat and we are looking forward to learning about that! Hopefully you both have opportunities like this for your own mini adventures and we get to see what those are, it makes for interesting videos.
@nas6587
@nas6587 2 месяца назад
i saw it coming... she pretended to be happy i noticed in some episodes... just being honest... you on the other hand seem to enjoy every moment... another thing,, when you walk no need to put camera to you... show your surroundings we can hear your voice... its all about the world around you bro... enjoy ur time and move on...
@robertkoehne1795
@robertkoehne1795 2 месяца назад
Sailing with you is not her full time passion. Little respect is shown towards you or your passions and sailing but camera for posing. In her defense, being together 27/7 on a boat is not for everyone; very difficult. Good luck to both of you.
@OxInTheWild
@OxInTheWild 2 месяца назад
You do realized she,s not gone for good, right? Yes, sadly they used clickbait, but he said she’d be back in a week.
@TexasbyStorm
@TexasbyStorm 2 месяца назад
What are you talking about? She seems content and comfortable, but she's just more reserved of a person. She went to a retreat, she isn't gone for good. Do you even watch the videos or do you just react to titles?
@Tomm9y
@Tomm9y 2 месяца назад
You could attach a 2nd main halyard to the end of the boom but rather than keep it flapping against the sail. bring it along the side of the boom, in the stack pack, attach it to the mast at the gooseneck, then up the mast to above head height, then out to the shrouds, (inner or outer) and tension sufficiently, perhaps with a bungee cord.
@MrRourk
@MrRourk 2 месяца назад
Crew Finder? Maybe take a break and do some boat deliveries?
@rodjohnson683
@rodjohnson683 2 месяца назад
Try Meguiars PlastX on your dodger windows if you can find it , works great.
@victormartinez3050
@victormartinez3050 2 месяца назад
You have your whole life in front of you so try to live it to the fullest.Be happy and get rid of everything or everyone stopping your dreams.There is a new bright future waiting for you.I subscribed to this channel because of you and I think you will soon have millions of subscribers.KEEP DOING THE GOOD WORK!!!!
@TexasbyStorm
@TexasbyStorm 2 месяца назад
Katie is a sweet woman and comments like yours just show your inability to pay attention to anything and are plain rude to the one that didn't title this video or upload it. She's going to read these comments and see how awful people are.
@waltervanderboor
@waltervanderboor 2 месяца назад
Just came across your channel. Sailing alone is not so much difficult it’s a matter of planning a few steps ahead and always put safety first. When in doubt… it’s dangerous. As for traveling alone it’s a personal preference. I agree sailing is best enjoyed with others. Seeing you stepping into the boat after pushing it away is not how I would advise to do it. ( having sailed our 50 ft for a decade and often alone) To prepare make a central line on your boat from where the boat goes evenly to the dock when you pull. In our case I have let that line to our winch in the cockpit so I can release from there. When you leave all other lines can go but that one stays around a cleat with a bit of tention and is secured onboard. Obviously a couple of fenders between the dock. Only let go that line when you’re sure you leave and push the dock away from the boat. Use a sturdy boat hook ( I have an extra thick and extended pole for that) because falling between the boat and dock after you un tighten the boat works out disastrous. Do not use your feet with risk of falling. Keep it safe. ( I presume you have a long keel so yes it takes some force to push) I didn’t see you dig in the anchor but assume you did. Anchoring alone with your set up is a sweaty job. All in all Well done for a first time!! As for relationships? I would ask her to make the route planning. Get her involved. Also let her help with maintenance etc. Woman are different in their approach but can be very good sailors. Although 95% of them get seasickness hence don’t leave a day before her period on a long trip. Wait a few days and then go. My five cents..
@DanFerrantelli
@DanFerrantelli 2 месяца назад
I have to say I’m not a fan of the title. It made me sad to think of my favorite cruiser couple splitting up. After finding out it was a week long yoga retreat for Katy and solo adventure boat project for Parker I feel better. Plus, Katy gets to come back to a less squeaky boat! Great video Parker! I can’t help but wonder if you decided to actually try your hand at a day sail and solo sailing. Perhaps I’ll find out in the next episode. Take care of each other. You’re both keepers!
@ChrisMartin-kk1dh
@ChrisMartin-kk1dh 2 месяца назад
She needs a lot more than a two week yoga class. Sorry bro. It’s palpable in the videos. You are so even keeled in all your videos and she seems so displeased most of the time. I do hope she finds her way. I just don’t think it’s this life
@patriot130
@patriot130 2 месяца назад
Cant say I didn't see this coming.. She never really looked very enthusiastic over this whole sailing thing.. Along for the ride does end in time... New adventures new people new fun and lots of sun and alone time is the right medication.. Give your mind time to recondition its self you will be fine. Cheer up you have a 42 ft boat and a whole world ahead of ya. Cheers!!!
@crprovost
@crprovost 2 месяца назад
She’s just at a retreat for a week or so. They haven’t split up
@scott.the.sailor
@scott.the.sailor 2 месяца назад
Did you really write all that without watching at least the first two minutes
@iamhe981
@iamhe981 2 месяца назад
@@crprovost She wont be back, I saw it coming as well. Good riddance I say she has a most unpleasant personality.
@rws210
@rws210 2 месяца назад
Come on, people, this is the same thing. Sailing or vagabond dad when Elaina missed the boat for a little while to do her. So-called dieting and nutritional retreat. All it does is promote the retreat. They make a little money under-the-table on it. And then they have a big reunion. Come on, people wake up and smell the dmama. Be nice for sailing channel to come up with a new scrill.
@209turtleboy
@209turtleboy 2 месяца назад
Maybe tell her that with your new found freedom you want an open relationship.... ...she will be back in 20 mins.😄
@skipugh
@skipugh 2 месяца назад
I can’t believe you’ve never soloed a boat. You seem to have lots of sailing experience
@geoffstrebel2808
@geoffstrebel2808 2 месяца назад
@2:28 Hell yea brother!
@gmartin1726
@gmartin1726 2 месяца назад
Katy works full-time on a computer in a bouncing sailboat! She is approximately 28 years young and they are from the landlocked Midwest United States…now living on the Pacific Ocean. Needing a little time grounded doing yoga sounds sensible to me. Furthermore, we don’t know anything about their past personal experiences, so for those of us beyond 28 years maybe a look back would add some perspective. For those under 28 maybe a look forward. A voyage metaphorically speaking.
@SailingSeawind
@SailingSeawind 2 месяца назад
Couldn't have said it better 😊
@lotusdolphin
@lotusdolphin 2 месяца назад
Great job Parker. It was just an interesting perspective watching you do everything without Katie. must’ve been an exhilarating feeling of anaccomplishment. I would imagine it brings a whole new level of appreciation for what she does and how the two of you interact like clockwork. Enjoy every moment together they go by so fast. My folks were married for 70 years and went together for three or four before that. It was so cool to watch them. They were so crazy in love right up until the end. Sending many blessings and lots of love to both of you From LIZ in California💜🤟🏻⛵️😎🤗🇺🇸
@arottie4097
@arottie4097 2 месяца назад
W0W! That's awesome, they were very blessed to have found one another!
@flightforensics4523
@flightforensics4523 2 месяца назад
😅😅😅😅😅
@rickkwitkoski1976
@rickkwitkoski1976 2 месяца назад
Thank you.
@daner.d
@daner.d 2 месяца назад
personally im i big fan of molly grease. very tacky and resilient, might cost a little extra but worth it. or if money is no object krytox or molykote. that will make your head spin
@lotophagi711
@lotophagi711 2 месяца назад
Both of you should be able to handle the boat on your own in case one of you is incapacitated.
@valerieb.4912
@valerieb.4912 2 месяца назад
Parker, this was an excellent opportunity to build your confidence and get to know your boat personally. And you did it well ! All by yourself ! Awesome! Oh! Parker you look silly with the go pro in you mouth. You look like an old man with no teeth. Happy Sailing ⛵. Glad to be a Patreon for your both and especially Boundless. P.S. my last name is spelled wrong.No worries. It is Breyton 😎
@SailingSeawind
@SailingSeawind 2 месяца назад
Hey Valerie! Thanks for the comment! Yeah that camera is so weird and funny like that 🤣 So sorry about your name being spelled wrong! I'll make sure to fix that this next episode 😊
@valerieb.4912
@valerieb.4912 2 месяца назад
@@SailingSeawind 👍
@flightforensics4523
@flightforensics4523 2 месяца назад
PARKER! You're scheming for ALGORITHMS and several like myself can see RIGHT THROUGH your BS!
@jimsolomon9090
@jimsolomon9090 2 месяца назад
she will/has find/found something/someone new. Retreat then a course then another excuse. Sailing isn't for everyone you either get stronger or drift apart
@TexasbyStorm
@TexasbyStorm 2 месяца назад
Moronic
@LRhiannon1
@LRhiannon1 2 месяца назад
Taking a break is good….I suppose we won’t see the video of you in your underwear running around yelling “I’m in charge ..I’m in charge”..😂..becareful young man..💕
@lobowynnTV
@lobowynnTV 2 месяца назад
I’m going on 37 hrs with my number one and it’s been the easiest thing in my life , but we live by the laws of God and respect each other, I have never put angry hands on my wife ever
@wykedmoose7642
@wykedmoose7642 2 месяца назад
The 360 looks Soooo weird man
@rusty-oc2tj
@rusty-oc2tj 2 месяца назад
no one belòngs aboard that couldnt handle the boat alone, i just subed recently, this is going ti get interesting
@TexasbyStorm
@TexasbyStorm 2 месяца назад
Really? Our 6 month old should be able to sail alone? I'll let my husband know you said so.
@rusty-oc2tj
@rusty-oc2tj 2 месяца назад
@@TexasbyStorm thats so cute dont be silly, when i take guests sailing thier told dont get all fat and lazy your sailing the boat today
@juliazentner681
@juliazentner681 2 месяца назад
He said in beginning its just 2 episodes
@Ianick87
@Ianick87 2 месяца назад
I can watch it at 1.5x speed and still feels normal speed
@arthurmair8901
@arthurmair8901 2 месяца назад
click-baity title tho..
@USA4thewin
@USA4thewin 2 месяца назад
find another katie ,,,
@user-pl5gn8vs6e
@user-pl5gn8vs6e 2 месяца назад
Man up Laren Landers does it you’ll be fine
@6800891
@6800891 2 месяца назад
You were pretty much carrying the channel. She was pretty......and that's about it.
@Stephan_01
@Stephan_01 2 месяца назад
♥️♥️🥰🥰
@arthurme1911
@arthurme1911 2 месяца назад
I have watcher other sailing couples a guy can sail the world along a woman needs other women. To be with so bring her friend’s
@TexasbyStorm
@TexasbyStorm 2 месяца назад
Not always. I could be alone forever, my husband loses his mind if he doesn't have someone to BS with.
@joeybryan7065
@joeybryan7065 2 месяца назад
Okay the face forward camera should never be used ever again
@joeybryan7065
@joeybryan7065 2 месяца назад
I mean when you are holding it in your mouth looking back at your face. It looks soooooooo weird
@janaferreira8882
@janaferreira8882 2 месяца назад
❤ missing lovely ol Caity.
@alexandertaranenko2811
@alexandertaranenko2811 2 месяца назад
Смотрят и смотрят и смотрят любят........тс
@Bellyupandbored
@Bellyupandbored 2 месяца назад
Well, Buddy, You can kiss your marriage goodbye! She will be long gone. But hey thousands of Women will take her place in a heartbeat! Enjoy Your next great adventure.
@handsamm
@handsamm 2 месяца назад
first comment
@allynonderdonk7577
@allynonderdonk7577 2 месяца назад
Women don't settle down till they hit 28. If you can get along with her that is great, but every relationship I had failed until I met a woman old enough to want to settle down. I am glad that you seem to both still be involved still.
@flightforensics4523
@flightforensics4523 2 месяца назад
You viewers and commentors can't see the scheme in getting you to further view THEIR COLLECTIVE BS?!? Ive note 4 that have called it like it REALLY IS! Scamming for algorithm!
@allenclark1914
@allenclark1914 2 месяца назад
Please try harder for the titles,, the clickbait thing is becoming all too common on everyone’s episodes. Better to just say taking a retreat to yoga resort for a week or whatever it really is.
@AnthonyParr-do5jk
@AnthonyParr-do5jk 2 месяца назад
Click bait ☹️ unsubscribed.
@JamesGangOutlaw
@JamesGangOutlaw 2 месяца назад
Hang on let me share something with you if you both were building from the bottom with boat projects but it was like yall meet and I guess she got on the boat,,,I divorced a woman of 18 years because I wanted to sail and buy boats
@alexandertaranenko2811
@alexandertaranenko2811 2 месяца назад
Мне и указывать?
@Mindy209
@Mindy209 2 месяца назад
Ehhhhhh no bueno. A woman gives all or nothing. You are seeing nothing. Keep going!
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