Almighty Allah says - Surah Ali 'Imran [3:195] - Al-Qur'an al-Kareem “ Their Lord responded to them: “I never fail to reward any worker among you for any work you do, be you male or female - you are equal to one another.”
@@shahidachoudhury6925 don't let Zakir fool u sister ! it's not about tooth brush sister ! Tooth brush is a small thing what u have in market today ! In ancient times they used ' miswak' . Miswak' is taken from the roots of a tree !! in ancient times U can buy it in long sizes! U can buy it up to 3 metres long ! For commercial purpose today u get it in small size sister ! So prophet was talking about beating her with long Miswak' sister ! And in what hadees u get that it shouldn't leave marks on her ?? Pls check "sahih bukhari 5825" hadees ! In it clearly says it's allowed to beat her hard that her skin turns green !! And also in Quran it gives permission to "strike her". pls Google the meaning of "strike"!
@@multipurpose6984 He never did answer the question. He started avoiding the question about what do women do when the man is wrong by bringing up father and daughter relationships.
the word that says “beat her lightly” in arabic also means “go away” why is everyone using the first meaning rather than the second one when the second one makes so much more sense?
@@fallacyyy I've read it online on several sites, I promise if I knew the names of the sites I would tell you but I can't remember it was a while I go that I read it
@@aformula4198 you can find different translations coming from different scholars if you search up that specific verse on wikipedia and then there's this link as well which specifically talks about that verse and the different translations of specific words: www.cie.ugent.be/bogaert/bogaert4.htm and I've read on other sites as well but can't remember those since it's been a while because I'm someone who when I hear something I do a lot of research and go through A LOT of sites which then makes me forget every site since I did so much research :)
I've never heard such nonsensical bullshit, in order to justify beating a woman. The fact is, it is wrong to beat a woman, plain and simple, and the verse that permits it should be unconditionally condemned.
no where in the quran is a man allowed to beat a woman, the aya in the quran refers to a tap like motion and it is not allowed to be out of anger nor should it leave a mark on the body
@@surabenshaban1160 Brother, the problem is people are complaining because they didn't really listen properly. What part was it mentioned beat your wife? They are just too blind by their hate
Please watch Nouman Ali Khan’s video on this topic it has been explained in more detail and the situation whr this ayah has been sent down for is very extreme situation not for everyday life. The video’s name is abuse of women by Nouman Ali Khan. Its a little longer but clear every bit of the doubt and questions. InshaAllah all the doubts will be clear. Jazakum Allah bekhair.
"this ayah has been sent down for is very extreme situation not for everyday life" Where in the Quran (a clear book by its own admission) does it say it's for extreme situations only? If we need some scholar to "interpret" and "theorise" about what the Quran meant (since it doesn't say that), that does not square with the Quran's own statement of being clear and complete and detailed.
Silvakie prophet interpret it and showed what is extreme situation . Scholars just remind the laymen who r not aware. Quran is complete . Beating isn't allowed but a situation where teenager wants to do drugs and u have tried ur best to nicely explain it kid and he is still adamant. And say ur wife not u but ur wife or the elder brother or sister of the teenager slightly slaps the teen to prevent him from doing drugs I don't see a problem . Bcuz sometimes we all need stern reminders . Now it doesn't mean it has to be like alright let's just keep bearing him for everything and anything
@@READ-cj3us You're a liar then: "Men are the maintainers of women because Allah has made some of them to excel others and because they spend out of their property; the good women are therefore obedient, guarding the unseen as Allah has guarded; and (as to) those on whose part you fear desertion, admonish them, and leave them alone in the sleeping-places and beat them; then if they obey you, do not seek a way against them; surely Allah is High, Great." (4:34) - Ibn Kathir commentary confirms the "beat them" section without "lightly" added by some translators. - Your example about a teenager is BS, the Quran says nothing of teenagers in that verse, it clearly (for a change) addresses the wives.
My father was an illiterate man and as he was a Muslim in belief, I have never seen him abusing my mother phyiscally or verbally in daily life. He always treated her nice and that was a practical example for me of being a Muslim.
@@nusratakter055 😂😂😂 I don't think you got my point. Here it is. DON'T FOLLOW ANY RELEGION IF YOU WANT TO BE A TRUE HUMAN BEING. Zakir Naik is a psychopath, never believe in him.
@@Nitinkandwal don't say that, believe in Allah is a must. I do in believe in humanity first before everything but I am not good human that's is a sure because I don't even do what I must do follow my Allah!
There is no beating of the woman in the Quran. watch the video for more explanation ********* ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-_qiQM41vL8k.html
A person only hits other person when they think They are stronger or a 'degree above 'than the other person which is why husbands hit wife . And it's not symbolic . It's not even handkerchief but a miswak (which is a big stick) . Hitting anywhere whether it leaves Mark or not is humiliation .
Ma Shaa Allah Allahuma barik!! He reminds me of me when I looked for truth and found Islam Alhamdulillah... anyone else wonders if he became Muslim???😄
A wife cant hit his husband because that would start a physical fight which she cant win. Ok thats mostly true. That would happen if he hits back, but if he is in the wrong, doesnt allah forbid him to hit back? Just askin
@@muhammadmafaz8530 jesus says man should love his wife as if it is your own body ,as such ,they are no longer two , they are one(question of polygomy does not arise in christianity) .It shuold be uncondtional love. man should not divorce his wife except on adultary. If a man marries a divorced woman,he commits adultary
Sravan beating someone to get them to their senses isn't about man or woman. Woman also have the right to stop a man if he's being nonsensical question is can men take it the way women take it ? Coming to Islam there is no beating , it's a miswak thin tooth brush used to let women or children know that until u grow up or u understand what the husband or father point of view is this thing tooth brush tree stick not even plastic is something u shud be aware of. Prophet never hit any of his slaves or any of his wives.
How can he compare the Father-Daughter relationship to a Husband-Wife relationship...He always compares two different things that cannot be compared and makes a conclusion out of it.
@@shahnawazshaikh1157 but he is using that logic to prove wife can't hit a husband just because daughter can't hit a father. Think about it. Just because man has more strength doesn't give him the right to hit a woman. He says hitting with a brush and hand kerchief....does he even know....it hurts like shit when someone uses them to hit you
Hit with miswak...type of brush....slightly....no mark should appear....i think u forget these words.....and women cant hit husband....she has other ways to protest....no cooking...husband cant do anything....cooking is no wife responsibility....in Islam wife is queen...she is doing favour to husband and family by cooking. Our almighty knows best. He put these rules. For some reason.
@@shahnawazshaikh1157 if woman's way of protesting is supposed to be not cooking food...then why does the man protests by hitting her... slightly according to you or the speaker. He can even protest by not bringing stuff from market instead of causing physical pain. He can also protest in different ways instead of abusing physically. According to u both not leaving a mark on wife's body is okay...doesn't make any sense because u still can hit a person without placing a mark and u can hit her slightly....wowwwww
See these r Almightys laws. And u missed this first u stop tslking. Second dont share bed...third is slightly hitting. Snd suppose ss per u. He didnt bring market stuff. Then no food. Who will suffer wife elder children. Husbsnd has to order fron restaurant. Husband suffer . Wats the use. He did ghis so wife suffer. And if wife stop cooking. Husbsnd suffer by ordering food for whole family.
He is good story teller and nothing more than that, whatever you ask him, he will always give an answer in the form of story which is not even related with the question that is being asked. Then again after completing his story he aks you yes or no. You have to say yes in the peer pressure, than he takes you round and round and give you the feeling that you have find your answer. And he has a lot of followers for him to clap. You got your answer in the name of allah.
There is no beating of the woman in the Quran. watch the video for more applications *********** ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-_qiQM41vL8k.html
@@HamdiGlenn كلمة ضربة لا علاقة لها بالضرب المعروف في لغتنا العربية أو لهجتنا العامية ما المقصود بكلمة ضرب في القرآن ؟؟؟ What is meant by the word Daraba in the Qur'an??? facebook.com/mohimlaka/photos/a.109082697929725/126041472900514/
Why do I feel that he ran away? Cause what the phrase said clearly meant that Aisha has never seen a believer woman this beat up. So believer women were beaten at that time. To an extent that they were bruised badly. What Aisha saw must be much more severe to comment on it. However, her statement was so general that it seems normal until she was surprised by the severe beat up. May be at that time people were still changing and Islam was established but people were not easily changed and patience was needed.
Here is a quote translated into english that comes from the Quran. Men are in charge of women by [right of] what Allah has given one over the other and what they spend [for maintenance] from their wealth. So righteous women are devoutly obedient, guarding in [the husband's] absence what Allah would have them guard. But those [wives] from whom you fear arrogance - [first] advise them; [then if they persist], forsake them in bed; and [finally], strike them. But if they obey you [once more], seek no means against them. Indeed, Allah is ever Exalted and Grand. That can be found on the 34th verse of chapter 4 (sūrat l-nisāa). Yes -beating your wife is permissible.
Again one more time diplomatic answer... Man is physically strong that's why they can beat lightly but not women... Why they can't beat lightly because they can beat physically in the ans of that lightly beating... That's means acc to him Man don't have patience or understanding nature than women have... It's not always truth in both either Male or female...
Zakir does not answer directly. First he thought the Shekar was easy game. When thing went tough the assistant comes and asks Shekar not to take too much time. Just remembering a lot of references does not make one a scholar. This is a lesson to all speakers.
I didn't fully understand this doctrine of the Quran until I saw the most perfect explanation and refutation of the enemies of the Quran on Sal Recinos channel. Amazing.
⚠️The Prophet P.B.U.H said “Verily, the bankrupt of my nation are those who come on the Day of Resurrection with prayers, fasting, and charity, but also with insults, slander, consuming wealth, shedding blood, and beating others. The oppressed will each be given from his good deeds. If his good deeds run out before justice is fulfilled, then their sins will be cast upon him and he will be thrown into the Hellfire.” Sahih Muslim 🔥🔥🔥 😱 🔥🔥🔥
@@watch13famouspeoplewhoacce45 what about Umar Ibn Al Khattab he has slapped and burnt the house of Fatimah (RA) the daughter of Prophet PBUH in order to get Allegiance from Fatimah's husband Ali Ibn Abi Talib (RA) is he not going to Hell ??
@Yousuf Iqbal I don't wanna hurt anyone but better to got more information about our religion if you got time do alittle search. It doesn't change my life if you muslim or even in some other religion.
@@mansibisht6768 not Muslim logic ...you all misunderstood what Dr Zakir said and are stupidly mocking us all cause of that ....cheap move..... Simplified,a man can not beat his wife and the only time a man may be forgiven for his short temper which could lead into hitting his wife lightly is if she has cheated ...the verses before the one talking about hitting,are about women cheating .....read then talk......and there is no verse that says a woman can not hit her husband if he is cheating while men and women do react and feel quite different about such situations in the first place anyways....there is nothing that says a woman should suffer but instead Islam clearly states Muslim and women should not accept opression and unfairness ...we are all asked to be fair ....so please,move on ...those without logic were you here..men are qawam to women,so protectors and providers to them ....it is a mere comparation inbetween a father's job and a husband's job which are the same ....the difference is made by the fact that fathers have the fathering feelings while the husbands don't ....to husbands we can argue fairly if they wrong us and leave them,while to fathers we can not say uff even and are not allowed to break blood ties with (obviously unless the wrong was as disgusting as a rape or something like that ) ...
@@andreeaboloca4440 really ,I have read that two women equals one man and for divorce women should ask the men then🤨 women should cover herself bcz of other men😐 this is equality..
@@mansibisht6768 listen We all know that this is the actual tradition and belief of your very own country so before you come out shouting about equality for women when it comes to Islam,look closer to home and shout out there ....on the other hand,no,that is wrong...what you read is wrong...women are not believed to have half brains and in sunnah there are all kinds of hadiths as well as all kinds of translations which people use for their own benefit or to hurt others without checking it being able to check the authenticity of what they share and spread out there....in some cases there needs to be 2 women and a man if there are no 2 men as witnesses for the simply fact that women may use their feelings above their heads (and the truth) while on other cases it is enough for a woman to swear with Allah as witness ...Aisha our prophet's wife did that ..
I haven’t even gotten past the first 5 minutes. Why would you smack your kid? You explain to them that they’re not superman and why they can’t jump, then take them away from the situation
As a muslim, I'm disappointed with this answer. Men are not necessarily always right when arguing, them what makes him automatically granted the opportunity to "warn" and "beat her lightly"? What makes the woman have to bare the pain of someone else? Especially when females are more delicate in nature, and men more dominant/stronger, beating can be painful, no matter how light, and can get worse by time. This is pure physical abuse.
There is no beating of the woman in the Quran. watch the video for more explanation *********** ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-_qiQM41vL8k.html
Brain Dead christians claim God loved his son so much & despite being the OWNER & CONTROLLER of the WORLD he decided to let his son go through so much pain & then LET HIM GO, Christians 🙄 LET it go.
@Bryan Sunyou said "Allah could not protect muhammad from witchcraft and for sure he also could not protect him from the poison that killed him." I agree with you. This is also my point believing Quran is Zionist Plot to create confusion among people about Lord Jesus Christ SON OF GOD. What a fool Muslims are to believe a man who they believe to be the best and the last prophet of their Allah, but their Allah could not save Muhammad from his painful death!!
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Brother i think uh dint understand his statement . He was telling have uh understood the 1st part of the question. Then he sayss i am not completed my answer. Hope so uh are clear😊
@@familytube6401 bro I am not talking only about this video. There are many video where Jakir Naik acted same. And I am a doctor but I dont support the way Jakir Naik say he is a doctor & he knows better. He always said this thing so arrogantly. I agreed that he is a good man & he has blessing of Allah. But this kind of behaviour will not bring any good for him & this is proven. He is now prohibited from giving lecture & living a life with the permission of other countries president.
@@mdrommankhan741 brother there is allah who knw better then us. He know who is wrong or right. I accept tht zakir naik speak sometime arrogantly but brother his speech says the truth
قال ابن سماك: "كم من الذين يذكروننا بالله قد نسيوه! فكم من دعاة إلى تقوى الله هم أنفسهم شجعان أمامه! فكم ممن يقرب إلى الله تعالى وهو بعيد عنه! فكم ممن يدعو إلى الله نفسه يهرب منه! فكم من قراء كتاب الله أنفسهم طاروا من آيات الله! ""سنن الصالحين"" 1002.
Edward Lim you probably a silly guy going from video to video to comment stupid things around. I know what I wrote maybe many people know it too you the only one crying over it. Grow up and keep scrolling may Allah give you wisdom and knowledge and may Allah grant you paradise for you and your loved ones. Ameen!
NO ONE IS SUPPOSED TO BEAT HIS OR HER PARTNER, PERIOD ! THIS IS NOT A TOPIC THAT SHOULD BE DISCUSSED IN A CIVILIZED SOCIETY. IF TWO PEOPLE, WHO HAVE OVER A PERIOD OF TIME REACHED A POINT WHERE THEY CANNOT LIVE TOGETHER ANYMORE, THE BEST THING FOR THE TWO IS TO PART WAYS. AS SIMPLE AS THAT. DON'T RAISE THIS BARBARIC TOPIC FOR DISCUSSION. IT IS JUST TOO PRIMITIVE AND THE TOPIC TELLS A LOT ABOUT YOUR BACKGROUND.
@@neutralcommentor3742 Well, that too is an underestimate coment of you... For those who studied tafsir and syarah, the question of brother shekhtar is an easy thing to answer. We just need to show him the syarah of the hadits. So he can understand the meaning of the word in the hadits he is questioning, right from the main source that has been written for decades.
Bocah Anom the problem is I don’t think that Quran is completely correct. The discrimination exists in Quran. And I am not saying that Bible or Gita or any other holy books are perfect as well. These books were written eons ago and times have changed since then. But the holy books haven’t with time.
@@neutralcommentor3742 Well....thats depends on your understanding of discrimination brothe. For me quran is the only holy book who up lifting women rights. Indeed there is some verse who seems un fair for the women comparing the men. But if we analyze if further we can find it was for the best, in general.
Bocah Anom maybe it was the best when it was written. May be not now. I have been born in a family that completely support equality (I.e. no discrimination on the basis of caste, religion, creed, region, sex, etc.) I have grown up to believe that everyone is born equal (in general) but in the end it’s all about what you utilize your time and the decisions you take that decides where you will go. Hence, I have a critical view to all the religious books. Now when it comes to Quran I am curious why you say that it is the most uplifting holy book for women. I have a completely different view about it when it come later to equality. Please note, I am not challenging you or criticizing. I am just trying to understand why you think so and I have a Muslim friends , but I won’t ask them this question coz they would take it personally. Hence, I am asking you coz we don’t know each other.
Salam ZN, Pls hv a look at this. And review your answers with deep research. BEATING WIFE? Is it true Really? Beating,slapping n any physical violence against any human is cruel n lack of dignity. Quran should be in sync with Sahi Hadith. There cant be contradiction between Sahi Hadith & Quran. Our Rasool SAW cant contradict with what Quran says. If there is any contradiction, its our lack of understanding or "perhaps" mistake in human narration or mistake in interpretation(Allah SWT knows best). Quran was written in Pure classic Arabic & it was famous for its poetic language. The word "beat" people use in this verse in Quran (4:34) comes from the Arabic word "daraba" which has multiple and many many meanings like beat, tab, "strike" and many other..100s usage (pls see link below) .... Instead of translating it as beat, why not take it as "strike different path/way if other 2 optionsI(talk to them suasively, leave them alone in bed - as mentined in Quran - 4:34) fails"? I will take simplest, safest n purest meaning - "strike a different path" rather than "beating". Let me support my interpretation with Hadith: As per Hadith a Muslim can't even beat an animal on face, see the respect Allah gv to face. There r nearly 10 Hadiths which warn not to beat wife. Beating is disgusting, no matter hw much verbal fight happens. As I simply detest those people who resort physical violence and let me share some strict warning from Allah swt for those who love physical violence. When Rasool SAW didnt beat any human(forget beating wife), why one shud adopt physical violence for any conflict? In so many Hadith Allah SWT strictly prohibits beating wife: 1) In Abu-Dawud, Ibn Ma'jah, Tirmidhi says - "Men who beat their wives are not best amonst u" 2) ... do not beat your wife"(Abu Dawud, Book 1, Number 0142 ) 3) Rasool SAW didnt beat & revenge any1: 'A'isha reported that Allah's Messenger SAW never beat anyone with his hand, neither a woman nor a servant, but only, in the case when he had been fighting in the cause of Allah and he never took revenge for anything unless the things made inviolable by Allah were made violable; he then took revenge for Allah, the Exalted and Glorious.(Sahih Muslim,Book 030, Number 5756) 4) ...Give them food what you have for yourself, and clothe them by which you clothe yourself, and do not beat them, and do not revile them. (Abu Dawud, Book 11, Number 2139) 5) .... Approach your tilth when or how you will, give her (your wife) food when you take food, clothe when you clothe yourself, do not revile her face, and do not beat her. (Abu Dawud, Book 11, Number 2138) 6) ....."How does anyone of you beat his wife as he beats the stallion camel and then he may embrace (sleep with) her?" (Sahih Bukhari, Volume 8, Book 73, Number 68) 7) Prophet suggested woman to reject wife beater's proposal for marriage. Fatima bint Qais (Allah be pleased with her) reported that Mu'awiya, Abu Jahm and Usama b. Zaid had given her the proposal of marriage. Allah's Messenger SAW said: So far as Mu'awiya is concerned, he is a poor man without any property. So far as Abu Jahm is concerned, he is a great beater of women, but Usama b. Zaid... She pointed with her hand (that she did not approve of the idea of marrying) Usama. But Allah's Messenger SAW said: Obedience to Allah and obedience to His Messenger is better for thee. She said: So I married him, and I became an object of envy.(Sahih Muslim, Book 009, Number 3526) PHYSICAL CONFLICT WITH OTHERS: Forget beating wife, Allah SWT even forbid touching face when fighting with others. And imagine how today's Muslims try to attack face first in any physical conflict. Our Prophet peace be upon him did specify that the beating must not include the face. Hitting the face of any human being and even animal is not allowed in Islam. a) ...'The Prophet forbade beating on the face.' (Translation of Sahih Bukhari, Hunting, Slaughtering, Volume 7, Book 67, Number 449)" b) "...When one of you inflicts a beating, he should avoid striking the face.. (Sunan Abu-Dawud, Book 38, Prescribed Punishments (Kitab Al-Hudud), Number 4478)" c) Even with slaves, if one slaps his slave in the face, then he must set him free: ".... He who beats a slave without cognizable offence of his or slaps him, then expiation for it is that he should set him free. (Translation of Sahih Muslim, The Book of Oaths (Kitab Al-Aiman), Book 015, Number 4079)" The above Sayings of our beloved Prophet peace be upon him preserve the human dignity from being compromised. There is no need to humiliate the person (any person) if you ever have to enter into a physical confrontation with him.. Of course, fighting by choice is also not allowed in Islam. Let me turn the table, "assuming" above verses of Quran is "considered" to b rightly interpreted, there is many clear Hadith which says not to beat wife but treat well as I showed above, which means we have a contradictory/doubtful info ? ISLAM "CLEARLY" SAYS TO AVOID DOUBTFUL MATTERS: "That which is lawful is clear and that which is unlawful is clear and between the two of them are doubtful [or ambiguous] matters about which not many people are knowledgeable. Thus, he who avoids these doubtful matters certainly clears himself in regard to his religion and his honor. But he who falls into the doubtful matters falls into that which is unlawful like the shepherd who pastures around a sanctuary, all but grazing therein. .....”. [al-Bukhari and Muslim] So one can't just say, Wife beating is allowed in Islam for any reason and u cant attack generally any human(even animal) on face. So Muslim brothers stop using/thinking the favorite phrase "slap his/her face". Forget beating wife, prophet Muhammad SAW chose best option & "forgave" and "prayed" for the people of Taif who stoned him and blood was flowing from his body and his shoes were soaked with blood, even when Allah SWT sent Angel Jibril (AS) to kill them by crushing between mountains (Imgine what we will do to our enemy when they stone us). Prophet Muhamnad is the best example of Islam & he took purest option. So, I will take easier, safer, simpler & purer path. Allah swt knows best. May Allah swt forgive me if I committed any mistake. Ameen Read full analysis of beating wife here... at least read summary...: please see 100s of usage of daraba/drab www.quran434.com/wife-beating-islam.html .
There is no beating of the woman in the Quran. watch the video for more applications ************* ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-_qiQM41vL8k.html
Well written brother, I was just wondering about you mentioning how a prophet SAW has never beaten a women. What about the Hadith mentioned in the video About hazrar Aisha RA feeling pain after being hit on the chest
There is no beating of the woman in the Quran. watch the video for more applications *********** ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-_qiQM41vL8k.html
There is no beating of the woman in the Quran. watch the video for more explanation ********* ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-_qiQM41vL8k.html
It's ok to to have death sentence in America to learn a lesson . But yet they talk about light beating as a last resort in islam. Islam is the best and Allah (swt) is the greatest,
@@abri_xxx it's ok to discipline your kids, but when islam teaches disapline you call it a beating when you smack your child you don't cal that a beating.
@@abri_xxx states to not hit in the face do not hit to leave any mark so how is that a beating like dr zakir sed it's like hitting her with hancheif, but you don't pay attention to the video your jus here to to blast islam in any way possible
@@kyeone9626 Lol no, I'm not "anti Islam". I'm anti violence. And there are many ways of violence but you are probably too restarted and ignorant to understand that. If Hinduism would teach beating I also would criticize it. Don't jump on that pathetic "You just want mock Islam" - train bc you won't get any empathy 😂 Beating IS beating. Just bc Islam teaches it doesn't mean it's right and it's not beating. Bc it is. It's simple like that. Islam teachings are 1400 years old. Think about it. Beating is wrong and Islam doesn't make it right 😂😂😂 I think you need to get beat to understand that lol
@@abri_xxx if your anti violence then why don't you go on other sites that beat the fuk out of women who are not Muslims who rape children instead of commenting on islamic videos
Imagine your misbehaving wife is going to change her ways when you beat her with a toothbrush, pencil or handkerchief . Why don't you beat your children with the same things? After all the children should not suffer more than an adult. So if the toothbrush, pencil and handkerchief can change the wife then it can more than change the children. These lying teachers are trying hard to defend their lying prophet.
How exactly did he belittle the questioner??? He was asking questions and not even letting him complete the answer... You couldn't find anything wrong with his answer so you said, "oh his manner was not right" please come on...
He did not belittle him he was given him knowledge on the situation. May allah swt protects dr zakir naik and grant him the highest jannah such a knowledgeable brother
With the help of Allah, the blessing of Allah and the knowledge of Holly Qur'an and Sahi Hadith there is no question that may not be answered by Dr Zakir Naik. May Allah grand him Jannah and long life.
Then he said: “I am Joseph your brother, whom you sold into Egypt. 5 But now, do not therefore be grieved or angry with yourselves because you sold me here; for God sent me before you to preserve life. 6 For these two years the famine has been in the land, and there are still five years in which there will be neither plowing nor harvesting. 7 And God sent me before you to preserve a posterity for you in the earth, and to save your lives by a great deliverance. 8 So now it was not you who sent me here, but God; and He has made me a father to Pharaoh, and lord of all his house, and a ruler throughout all the land of Egypt. Genesis 45:5-8 Do not be discouraged no matter what you go through, keep the faith like Joseph even in hard times and God will deliver you as long you keep doing the right thing even when its hard and even when the culture says its not "cool". His brothers sold him into slavery, then he was cast into prison for being a just man and not sleeping with his masters wife who turned on him, to being promoted to ruler over the whole house of Egypt. MORAL OF THE STORY: Never give up on God! He will never give up on you! He leaves the 99 to come find you in the wilderness. Keep the Faith Always NO MATTER THE CIRCUMSTANCES. These days Satan is trying to get everybody living in fear so he can try to control us. Don't Buy into it. There's a lot of deception out here. You were bought with a price that JESUS paid for. Give your life to him and he will protect you and shelter you from all darkness and fear. He gives you PEACE that no one or anything else is able to. "These things I have spoken to you, that in Me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation; but be of good cheer, I have overcome the world.” John 16:33 "Through the tender mercy of our God, With which the Dayspring from on high has visited us; To give light to those who sit in darkness and the shadow of death, To guide our feet into the way of peace.” Luke 1:78-79 "Peace I leave with you, My peace I give to you; not as the world gives do I give to you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid." John 14:27
How did he not finish his answer when he asked the gentleman if that answered his question... I really respect how smart and well spoken that man is. But he really needs to work on his humility
I m sorry but don't u even know the rules of basic communication?Supposed u asked me a question and the explanation of that question is big.Suppose I would need 10-12 mins to answer that question and there is a high chance that u won't be focused on my explanation the entire time.I am answering u and after 5 mins i say "Are u following u?".That means I want to know if u are listening to me.That doesn’t mean that I am done.That's a basic rule of communication.The man here asked another question about that verse.So the answer was incomplete without that verse.That's how hard it is for us to deal with prejudiced people like u.Always jumping at people without even doing the tinniest bit of thinking
There is no beating of the woman in the Quran. watch the video for more explanation *********** ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-_qiQM41vL8k.html
There is no beating of the woman in the Quran. watch the video for more explanation ********* ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-_qiQM41vL8k.html
Previously (Why a women can't beat a men whereas men can) Now( Why a man can't beat a women whereas she can beat him). You know what am I saying if u know Neha Dhupia meme..😂😂 Just for joke.
Hey. Being fair does not always mean equal. As he said. *if a women is doing a bad thing* 1. Warn her ->if she dont listen 2. Dont sleep with her. Avoid her >if she dont listen 3. Husban can lightly flick her using either miswak or handkerchief. *If a husband do wrong* 1. Warn him-> if he dont listen 2. Protest by objecting things. (Sleep separately is ok too) Why female cant flick her husband? Because men is stronger physically. If female flick her husband, what if the husband het mad and punch her? Its a tendency for men to do that 💁 well not all. But some men do have ego.
@julie andrews its you who does not know anything about the real teachings of the peaceful religion of Islam yet talking about moralities..not even a single obscen word in the holly Quran..get educate and throw away your dark spectacle!
@julie andrews lol thats funny because Islam gives more importance to women than men. If you were paying attention to the video, Zakir clearly says your daughters have the power to take you to Paradise and the son do not. Read the Islamic religion first with an unbiased approach and trust me you'll be surprised.
@@anonymousneko7908 So what are you saying? That it's OK if you hit someone weaker than you because they can't defend themselves and won't hit back? But it's not OK to hit someone stronger? Do you realise how wonky that sounds?
First time, I m not agree with Zakir sir. Aadmi physical ho sakta h but aurat hogi to galat h and man will left him. Physical takat h aadmi mei isliye wo physical ho sakta h. Zakir sir hurt hua y sunke wo bhi aap k explaination mei.
MODI=BJP=RSS Government compelled and forced him to leave the country by putting false and fabricated allegations against him... Dr Naik is real gems and real Patriot..true Muslim and perfect Indian..we millions of Hindu & Muslims salute him and love him
Zakir was not able to answer this man's question 😂 I see zakir's video and he use to answer everything but this question he was not able to answer 😂😂😂😂 very nice
"আপনি কি ভেবেছিলেন যে আমরা আপনাকে কোনও উদ্দেশ্য ছাড়াই সৃষ্টি করেছি?" #কুরআন ২৩: ১১৫। নবী মুহাম্মদ (ﷺ) বলেন... "এই পৃথিবীতে এমনভাবে থাকুন যেন আপনি কোনও অচেনা বা ভ্রমণকারী হন।" #সহীহ_আল_বুখারী ৬৪১৬। #হাদিস #ইসলামেরদৃষ্টি
You should NEVER hit your wife! Shame on this teaching! He condones slapping and ignoring the wife. The bible says to treat others and you want to be treated.
Dude, you can disagree with your husband. But you cannot hit him. If he abuses you, then you have the right to stand up for yourself. But if you hit him just because of an argument, then you're in the wrong.
There is no beating of the woman in the Quran. watch the video for more explanation *********** ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-_qiQM41vL8k.html
Beating is not a solution of problem. It is like to spress the voice of that person. If she is wrong tell her appropriate reasons and take her back to right way. If you cannot tell her reasons.Accept it she is right. Beating required just in exceptional cases like when without beating a person can loose his/her life.😇😇😇 (love Allah)
Yaeh dr Zakir naik said so, first we tell her reason and take her back in right way in very last case when she can't understand truth, then u just slightly beat very slowly.
The verse about biting comes after the ones about cheating ....so no,a man can not beat up his wife ...but if she cheats then his small sin of reacting may be forgiven ...that's all...
@@mansibisht6768 the big bang compared to the way was the earth made (he did not compare it with the Quran) as per the Quran it is actually quite simple to understand why would it be similar ,whether you like that or not ...
Shekhar is far more intelligent and his points are valid. Since, Zakir is not able to reply properly, that's why he has to refer to many versions. And probably he should say, if I am not able to give the answer, I will leave the faith. religion. Its more like show rather
There is no beating of the woman in the Quran. watch the video for more applications *********** ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-_qiQM41vL8k.html
There is no beating of the woman in the Quran. watch the video for more explanation ********* ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-_qiQM41vL8k.html
Haha from seeing some of the comments, I realized It's very difficult to infuse the thought of "wife-beating" in this modern age due to the whole rave about "equality". Personally, I found that what Dr Zakir Naik said is absolutely logical on how the beating of wife lightly is symbolic, and more importantly, he also mentions how if man and woman just started physically beating each other then the problem cannot be solved (with a hilarious example of Arnold Schwarzenegger). To put in on context of the modern world, if an organization starts saying everyone has equal rights (CEOs, Stakeholders, managers, staffs) in terms of the roles and responsibilities just imagine the disaster waiting to happen in that organization. Similarly, I think, the point is, both men and women have different roles and they need each other to live on. Islam, is that perfect example/guide on how we should live life. One shouldn't just assume, that Muslims young or old, are beating their wives up. Sure, there a number of rotten apples among the Muslims who badly bruise their wives in a haram manner, but hey, similarly, rotten apples exists in other cultures too. I can go on and on about the violence in the west, but I choose not to because I have a couple of western friends who are absolutely perfect in their virtues; it'll be wrong to judge the west based on those rotten apples. Do remember we're one of the largest religion in the world, these rotten apples are bound to exist in such a huge group of peace lovers.
There is no "haram" or "halal" way of beating, abuse is abuse, and that's disgusting.. u probably don't even know what gender equality now days debates ( which is insane), abuse to innocent ppl is an non negotiable incident, if ppl justify it , then society is corrupted
Sorry man but you're trying to justify something that is not justifiable or rational. You're pretty much saying women are inferior if you admit a man can beat her but the woman can't beat the man. There's ALOT of stuff that Islam defends that I agree, believe me. However, we need to question things and the fact there's an "etiquette" on how to beat a woman is very concerning. I'm not a feminist, nor pro-LGBT or stuff like that but this is one of the things that is indefensible and that muslims will always try and fail to justify .
Ah. I wanted to ignore the replies here because any argument made will result in a loop/debate of an unfound basis of "equality". Anyways, to the both of you geniuses who replied me, yes, abuse is bad. Everybody knows that. You don't abuse anyone, man or women. It's a given. However, you're losing the main point here. A system where man and women shares the same spot in terms of leading the family, becomes very difficult to manage. So Islam, teaches us the roles of man and women. They're not equal. Period. The women has rights which man has to honor. The man has rights which women has to honor. It's a clear system to run your family. Now regarding, the abuse, as mentioned, we're not allowed to physically harm women.. The point made was that it's symbolic, and, Dr Zakir Naik already explained why it's symbolic. I don't have to repeat that.
@@ahjeee1992 forgive me if I'm asking to much but, why is this the best way of running a family? Where a man is the main power and the woman is secondary. I know many households that are very happy without these rules of gender inequality.
@@adamgillespie3393 hey man. No worries. I think it's a very sensible question. A question which should be posed to a knowledgeable scholar. However, here are my thoughts. Honestly, I know a number of households too whom are very happy with the idea of equality as a basis of their relationship. However, often, at least from personal experience, I hear alot of unnecessary friction in how they should run the family. In an analogy, it's like 2 captains trying to steer away from an ice berg, one says he wants to go left, another says she wants to go right. If one of the captain managed to convince the other, they would barely miss the ice berg. Else, they will hit the ice berg. In a real world example, often I hear about how the man wants a child and he's afraid his wife will get too old to conceive. The wife is afraid that it'll affect her career progression (and she's right to be afraid) and that becomes a reason for her not to conceive or maybe conceive at a later time. You'll see many surveys online where women in this modern age prioritizes career over having a child. Now the problem here is, though it's the man whom wants the child, no matter how much he tries he can't bear a child. Only a women can. So the man unfortunately, won't be able to fulfill the role of a women who can bear a child, and have to wait for the women to be either be convinced by him or be convinced by her career progression. Sure there are many households in which the men and women are both working adults and have children. But they must have worked really hard to make it work. They narrowly "missed the ice berg". As for clearly defined roles, where, the ship has only 1 captain. It's easier to run the family or "steer the ship". Of course however, many rotten scums (let's not call them man cause they're not real man) have abused this.
A Real Woman should not even get with her behaviour to the point where that is necessary for the man. She must obey him and he must respect her. You know common sense, love, respect each other....
@@iamhuman7900 because if she also doesn’t respect him then they are equally at fault. But if she does respect him even when he doesn’t respect her then she is the greater person
True. I checked on Google just to have proof... Google says there are more men than women...In America the percentage of women is higher but globally there are more men in ratio. So that means every woman can be married easily to a man without being PUBLIC PROPERTY which I think the term he has used is extremely deteriorating because so many women these days don't want to be married because of the fear of being cheated on and I think it's terrible to say that a woman will be public's property when she doesn't need to belong to anyone. There were times when women were not secure financially as well as physically but I think any woman is capable to live a life on her own if she wants to.
@@drReetHooda Can't agree more ! Women were made companions not a property.... that's makes a huge difference. Thank you for sharing this info. Jazakallah !
@@drReetHooda he did mention that in some countries where female infanticide is prevalent the ratio is different. India and China especially. These countries also have the largest populations. Optimally there would be no female infanticides at all, and the the ratio would end up being more women on average.
See how Naik avoids the question and begins questioning the man and starts talking in a manner that confuses us and we forget the question. The sad bit is that Islam doesn’t really respect women. Yes it provides protection, but this means being controlled by men. The man is always right. So it’s ok to beat the wife. Violence isn’t just physical. It can be mental. Zakir admits that women are unequal to men.
Islam is proven by Harvard to be the number 1 best book for justice. See the thing is in Islam compared to other religions historically has more rights for women. In the bible a women is to stay quiet and obey her husband, it is even disrespectful for a women to talk in a church, theres even a debate in christianity whether a woman has a soul! I'm a woman, so of course you as a man know so much about me.
@@MohammadAsif-tu2os exactly, it's the fact people dont know that the original language of the Quran was arabic! People just try to find anything wrong, and it's embarrassing. Good for you for being factual.
@@afshinmuhit Also, most of muslim ppl follow their preachers blindly 🤦♂. Trying to correct them is like banging your head in the wall! They don't care even if it sounds disgraceful to Prophet Muhammad ( peace be upon him) and Islam! They are busy trying defending their preachers while putting Islam at stake.
He is the man of enlargement knowledge pertaining the Holy Book of Allah Almighty, may Allah is being given him a life long time so that provisions of Islamic principles among the over all the humanity in around the world.
Not beating but tapping lightly. It’s on 3rd try. There are women like that you may not believe how bad their actions can be. Some steal money or stuffs, some lies to husbands, some abuse their in-laws, some quarrels with neighbours or family members etc. For them as husband is the leader of the house, Allah said to be gentle with women while try to change them. If they Don't change- 1) stop talking to them If it fails 2) separate your beds (no physical relation or anything) If that fails, 3) tap lightly. The questioner aldo said it means tap by fingertips. All of these to make the wife feel guilty for bad actions and to change so that the relationship don't break. If all these don’t work, then only husband can ask for a divorce.
I don't understand the example that he gave that 'what if your daughter slaps you?" there's a difference between father and daughter and a husband and wife i still don't get it.
What I understand is , this beating from husband to wife is symbolic beat not physically and if womens do same to mans then it could hurt mans proud ( though mans are physically stronger than womans dr zaik compared it with massive bodybuilder and normal man) and mans can physically beat womans because they can actually do it.
There is a difference in position/hierarchy within the family between a husband and wife. This is something that is not understood in our modern world. The man/husband is the head/boss of the family. The wife is his subordinate. If she is righteous and obeys and pleases her husband, it will be said to her, "Enter through whichever gate of paradise you wish." Such is not the case for the man. We are on Earth with different roles, each with different tests and trials which ultimately signify obedience to Allah's Command for which we are rewarded.
I really keep appreciate this man Dr Zakir Naik teachings, his teacher was Dr Ahmed Deedat.. Who will be the next after Dr ZN, who is the brilliant student of him or someone good as him or better than him gona replace him afterwards??.
There is no beating of the woman in the Quran. watch the video for more explanation ********* ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-_qiQM41vL8k.html
Aisha (ra) said that prophet Muhammed pbuh was the best representation of the Quran (a living breathing version of it) and he never hit any of his wives. He was romantic and he expressed his love for them and when he was upset with them he would resort to staying silent. From his example it is clear that there is no room for abuse either verbal or physical in a marriage.