@@Classyo1nelife Yep she did. It's her fault. I totally understand why she wanted to get out of the contract and I believe that love can cause us to do stupid things. There is no way I will sign for my husband to use his sperm with a strange woman's eggs. Now she is bound for life.
I see both sides. Her last husband was no good and was just using Sherri as a meal ticket. Which is shameful. Only issue I see with is Sherri is that she shouldn’t have agreed to have this child seeing what kind of man she was dealing with.
Thank you for explaining that I heard a lot of different things from dr. Boyce Watkins and it was very disturbing but thank you for explaining it now I understand as they say they're always too parts to every story
Thank you for posting this, every since Sherri got her talk show there have been a few haters that seem to bring up this child from that no good ex-husband of hers saying that she abandoned the boy. TEAM SHERRI SHEPHERD 💯 RIGHT HERE‼
Exactly but ppl like to act like that never happened. When all this happened Wendy said Sherri caught him sleeping with the surrogate and that’s why she ended the marriage so quickly. That’s why she abandoned the child.
I too had a misunderstanding of Sherri's whole baby and custody situation. What I will say is this: I have ti respect the decisions that she has made. I too share the same religious background as she. I know that she was taught through the Scriptures that she should be subjected to her marriage and her husband. But she made HER chioce. Not to be used in any way. She has grown so much. She does what is right for her! She know exactly what she is doing and what her life means to her. She is not judgemental and has no regrets. I love her Truth to herself and that is good for me. You go girl! Keep doing you. You are beautiful. Keep prospering. Watch out for those wolves in sheep's clothing. ❤
Religion that came from slavery is being used to exploit many black women that is why some of us are Spiritual. The most religious women go through the most cheating and will do everything to keep a man bc of the pressure the black church puts on them bc these same Ministers and Pastors that yal maleworship take your tithe and cheat too. God is within get the shakles off your brain and enjoy your LIFE! You do not have to wait until you die to go to heaven.
Sherri just set there and lied. When this all happened Wendy reported on it she left her husband because she found out he was sleeping with the surrogate. She wanted that baby she planned the baby even did a interview on the view talking about her surrogate journey. She said they did Ivf and couldn’t get eggs so they got a donor egg they specifically wanted the donor egg from an athletic woman and then they had a surrogate and they were using his semen. For her to legally be the parent, she had to sign multiple documents she had to go through the surrogate process with him. She paid for everything because like she said in this interview, he didn’t have any money and he wasn’t working so she paid for the egg donor she paid for the surrogate process She stopped paying for the surrogate process when she found out her husband was sleeping with the surrogate. She found out he was cheating with the surrogate and she wanted a divorce and she didn’t want the baby anymore she told the surrogate she could keep the baby, even though biologically the baby wasn’t for the surrogate. No was that what the lady signed up for. She did not adopt a child (who could at less find his real mother) or mistakenly have a child. She specifically made a child bought the child into this world and then abandoned it intentionally because she didn’t wanna have anything to do with the husband which is wrong on so many levels. A child is living his life with no mother, because she refuses to step up to the plate that she made. That child will need therapy because of her.
@@BFick478 are you kidding who do you think paid for it how did her signature get on all of the documents? This woman is rewriting history. The courts don’t just make you a mom because your husband said so she did whole interviews excited about becoming a mom again
@@Nikki-kh8tt and she lied. She only left her husband because it was found out he was sleeping with the surrogate(which was wrong). She told the surrogate she could have the baby and the man. This was all reported on when it first happened. Before the cheating she was happy about the PLANNED baby and even did a interview on the view talking about her ivf and surrogacy journey
Exactly ppl are forgetting she had to sign documents for the egg donation and the surrogate. She had to sign a notarized agreement to be the child’s mother. Then 6 months in you say naw never mind I don’t want to anymore and just dip that’s crazy
4 sides 2 this. sally says shepherd made it clear she wanted a baby from practically the moment they first met in november ‘09, he says their 1st phone convo a couple days after meeting was a 6 hr marathon during which she grilled him bout whether or not he wanted to start a family. he assured her that he did. she said ‘thats great’ because she wanted very much for her son from a previous relationship to have a sibling.
I just want to say how Sherri and the host look like sisters. Her business is her business. The ex basically forced that situation and now yall saying she abandoned the child. Bye.
But why sign papers saying you agree to the surrogacy and you agree with the egg that’s being used and you agree to be the parent then a year later change your mind because your husband who you married without a job doesn’t have a job. Be a critical thinker that woman just set there and down played a marriage she was in for 3 years.
Don’t allow someone to convince or guilt you into making a major life decision…that you are not ready or wanting to make. It will only birth resentment toward that person. It should be YOUR decision. You may decide to accommodate them for a reason or no reason at all….and there is nothing wrong with that decision. If what they want you do, is not a good fit for you…and you say No….there is nothing wrong with that decision either. You need to have that difficult conversation…how do you proceed from there. This word of wisdom is not gender specific. Marriage, kids, jobs, relocations, etc. Compromise should NOT enter the equation for a major life change contrary to popular belief. Compromise is for dinner, movies, what to watch on tv. Compromise means a concession. You shouldn’t have to make a concession that you don’t want period. If you decide to any life change, let it be because you WANT to do it. Therefore compromise doesnt enter the picture.
Mary and Wendy didn’t spend hundreds of thousands of dollars to bring a child into this world only to abandon it because they didn’t want the husbands anymore
I always wondered what the deal was with Sherri & the surrogate baby. Interesting. Glad she got away from this man. 🙏🏽iHope the baby/child is thriving🙏🏽
She’s lying. You can’t dupe someone into IVF. Yeah he was a bum (which she should have known) and was a cheat but she wasn’t tricked into having the baby that she abandoned. Kid wouldn’t have existed without Sherri.
I get the part about Sherry not wanting to be married to him. Saying that she can’t love a child that’s not her biological child is shallow. Family is more than DNA.
She never said she couldn't love him. She said that she didn't want to connect with him and put Jeffery through that. She also said that it's not the child's fault and glad that she could be a blessing (Not exact words though).
@@xirixseven6032 She said she didn't pick the egg donor nor the surrogate! She went along with the plan to bring some levity to the life/marriage but she knew after a while it was a mistake. She found out what her 2nd ex husband was up to and shut the marriage down.
@@xirixseven6032 because her deadbeat husband was cheating. The baby was his cashcow and she stupidly agreed to it because she was brainwashed about marriage and being loyal to your partner
Sherri is halfway lying. He couldn't get her name on that birth certificate if she didn't legally agree to baby. She know she signed those surrogate papers, making her the legal mother. She needs to admit that she wanted the baby at first, but when the marriage went sour, she wanted nothing to do with the baby, which is terrible.
I wish I had Sherri Shepherd's husband lawyer twins was born in our marriage by in vitro fertilization and my husband got out of paying child support twice I'm going back and forth to court trying to get child support for two children born in the marriage that my husband signed the birth certificates on carry them on taxes took out life insurance policies on these kids hoping they die I guess because they were Twins when they were born he even trying to cash in on the death of our children along with been getting income taxes on them for 4 consecutive years back to back along with the fact that he got out of paying for child support he trying to not say it's somebody else's kid like somebody signed a voluntary acknowledgement of paternity claiming that the kids are there's just to get out of paying child support I pray to God come Friday because I can't afford an attorney on the 28th and Court the judge would see fit to grant me $1,239.24 along with back pay for the twins because I feel like they're his kids when he can financially benefit off of them why can't he pay child support along with the back pay from the time that they granted me child support why is the law always seeing because of this and that he ain't gotta pay and I got the proof that he was cashing in on my children without me there I got the tax returns that was presented to a judge for when they first granted child support due to the amount he received back from carrying are children born in a marriage I think a lot of times when they're celebrities they just want to stick it to celebrities but when you're black in an interracial relationship to judge only sees one thing is color I hope this judge that I got see Justice and doing what's right for the children born in the marriage and if not I still got to GoFundMe account that ain't nobody put a penny in if you want people who's looking at this you can click on the link below and maybe add some money and I can get an attorney by Friday or if it's theirs an attorney that would take my case for pro bono I'm in Bellwood Illinois is my kids will be at Maywood Courthouse just show up and help Friday September 28th and 9 I can use itwww.gofundme.com/60rzmf4
People didn't say it, God said it through His word. Sex outside of marriage is a sin. She claim to hear God about everything else but what His word says? hmm
Religion is manmade who gives a fyck. Polygamy is in the bible too but yal don’t want to share yal man so what difference does it make. Many Christian women are having sex outside of their marriage Im sure they won’t burn in the lake of fire forever for that bc if they do the God yal worship is evil asf.
To walk away from a marrage is your business but that baby dont deserve to be without a mom because you dont want your husband anymore. She is wrong for this one. Period blood related or not you are responsible for that child and god dont like ugly. I do however believe her husband was no good but that has nothing to do with that baby. SHAME ON HER.
She still abandoned that child. You agreed to have that baby and then you abandon the child. leave the husband. Biological dont make it any less bad. That child wouldnt be here if you didnt agree to have it. Sad
If he wasn’t working how’d he pay for the surrogate? Justifying leaving her husband is one thing, but after she announced a new baby via surrogate to say there’s no biological tie is messed up! I just can’t get down with Sherry.
She definitely suger coated that story because why were you doing interviews excited about having a baby if you didn’t want one. It’s not like an unwanted pregnancy which can mistakenly happen you had to sign papers saying yes this is my child before the process is started. Your name is on that babies birth certificate regardless of blood so not meeting him after 10 years is crazy. She’s a horrible person
Amazing the amount of people in the comments bashing Sherri and not saying a word about her deadbeat cheating husband. Lots of internalised misogyny and hate going on. She was foolish to be with him and be a part of his shenanigans. She was not right mentally when she went into the relationship- it was a disaster from the beginning. Went into with so much baggage and brainwashing: hence being a bum
He won’t work: Red Flag He wants a baby, and is willing to cheat to get it: Red flag He wants a big wedding on TV: Red Flag. Why on earth did she marry an OBVIOUS gold digger/groupie? Im so glad I ain’t never been that desperate. I remember all this much differently. She was gushing about this relationship and this baby on TV. Something in the buttermilk ain’t clean.
When Joy and Whoopi, didn't go to Sherri's wedding because they had bad vibes about him, I knew he wasn't a keeper. He lied that he had a job, expected to be a stay at home dad, have a nanny, have his son go to private school, he chose the surrogate and the donor eggs...The courts held her financially responsible and that is her only responsibility. He still doesn't work and she is financially responsible for 18 years. Thank goodness she wasn't forced to be anymore involved in that man's shenanigans. He needs to find a job, wife and stepmother for his son before the child support payments end.
She abandoned the child. Her name is on his birth certificate she is his mother same as if she adopted him. She signed paperwork before the surrogacy process agreeing to be that child’s mother and 10 years later she doesn’t even know him that’s just not right.
@@yup_im_tiff Abandon - means: to not support or look after someone. It seems that you do not know the definition of abandon. Sally’s son, who was conceived with Sally's sperm and a donor egg divorced Sherri who pays him $6,400 a month. Sally took her back to court for more money but the courts denied his request, and he still refuses to find employment.
@@jearl3054 she abandoned the child and was forced to pay child support, so maybe you don’t understand what abandonment means because she literally had to be forced to pay child support when the child was one years old, so there was an entire year where she was not contributing financially, nor was she seeing the child a.k.a. abandonment Also, she went along with him to pick the surrogate. She went along with him to pick the egg she has said that in previous interviews before they got divorced it was also said in court. She’s not telling the full story in this interview. You should probably get a little bit more information before you call yourself correcting someone because she did abandon that child. That child does not know who his mother is and that is sad. She is a pathetic piss, poor excuse of a mom. She agreed to have the baby. She agreed for the baby to be made, and she also went along to pick out everything involving the baby, including the fact that she wanted the child to come from a woman with an athletic background that was her idea not his there’s no way that he could write her signature on everything and again if he wasn’t working who do you think paid for all of this? The reason she didn’t use her own egg was because when they tried IVF, she didn’t have any valuable eggs, that’s the only reason the egg donor came in to play because she didn’t have anymore and she had already spent a lot of money on IVF. This is all information that can be pulled up on RU-vid.
@@yup_im_tiff OMG! I am not going to read all of that. Nor will I engage in a written tennis with you. I'm done. But I will agree to disagree with you. Bye
The people siding with this man have some major issues. She did not use her eggs. She did not burth this child. This man mentally abused this woman so that he can benefit from her celebrity status for a payout. Now, she has to pay for a child who is not biologically hers. He got his 4100 for the next 16 years and is still trying yo get more from her. He is a piece of crap.
He should’ve gotten the $10,000. The child was brought into this world with a deadly disease because she forced him into existence. She tried to wash her hands clean of this and leave her ex-husband to suffer her poor decisions. This is no small matter. This is life and she’s a terrible person for what she did.
Now the judge has found she’s the natural mother and she was there when the egg was implanted then bragged about a pregnancy it’s pretty shitty. Doesn’t matter how horrible ur husband was u don’t do that to a baby u signed up for.
I understand her mistake in entering the marriage for the wrong reasons. However, Sherri will forever be wrong for agreeing to the baby and then abandoning the baby. WRONG, PERIOD!!!
Not an easy decision, having to care and love a child that is not yours from a cheating ex husband and dealing with his side of the family can be stressfuly tough. She surgically cut off the tumor from her life and moved on.
@@Wezzie0 Absolutely NOT the same situation, and you know it. They agreed to a surrogate. This wasn't some random affair and side chick. That is such a reach.
@@Classyo1nelife her husband wasnt being faithful, she chose not to be with him or his surrogate offspring. She didn't want the baby, it's not even her egg..now she would be stuck raising his child when she wants nothing to do with him. She got her fair punishment - child support!
When Joy and Whoopi, didn't go to Sherri's wedding because they had bad vibes about him, I knew he wasn't a keeper. He lied that he had a job, expected to be a stay at home dad, have a nanny, have his son go to private school, he chose the surrogate and the donor eggs...The courts held her financially responsible and that is her only responsibility. He still doesn't work and she is financially responsible for 18 years. Thank goodness she wasn't forced to be anymore involved in that man's shenanigans. He needs to find a job, wife and stepmother for his son before the child support payments end.
The person abandoning the baby is her ex husband. Not working and extorting other people to provide for him and baby. She was foolish to be part of his shenanigans.
DATING IS FOR "DATA" ONLY! IN THE BEGINNING OF ALL RELATIONSHIPS, THIS IS THE TIME FOR TALKING, INVESTIGATING AND FINDING OUT SOMEONE'S GOALS AND DIRECTIONS...ALL OF THIS COULD HAVE BEEN AVOIDED HAD THE "DATA" BEEN GIVEN IN THE BEGINNING OF THE RELATIONSHIP! OTHERWISE, IT WILL ALWAYS COST YOU! PEACE!
Sherri said, 'he cheated on me and had a baby' with someone else. Sherri did not agree to the cheater having a baby. Listen to the interview again. Im proud of sherri for standing her ground and fir not being involved with the baby.
I believe that was about her 1st ex husband. The 2nd ex husband was a scheming individual and a reminder to all to not be blinded by wants/desires...we must think clearly when considering life partners. The idea that love will supersede all misgivings is not wisdom in charge. 🙏🏽
