I would not delete the family videos. We cannot change the past. We learn from them. You will be deleting a part of your daughter's memories. She will see the joy you both shared when hubby was around. This will help her to feel that she was wanted by both of you even if he was not present in her growing up. Be happy and create a new future for both of you.❤
Happy belated Mother’s Day,girl who God bless no man curse ,I am so happy for you the way you are picking up the pieces,may God continue to guide and protect you and your daughter 🙏🏾❤️
Nope. It’s a journey. Let Tim watch a weep about all he lost! Lol. Anyway, that’s not Christian-like of me but bottom line is that it’s up to you. Nevertheless, it’s your history. It may be painful but guess what? When you pass through this you will also look back seeing how much you’ve grown and overcome. It’s history and has it place. But it’s up to you my love. Do what you deem fit for your mental health.
Tim didn't lost anything, because he wasn't into this relationship wholeheartedly. If he was truly in love with this woman, such a beautiful soul, he would not have done what he did repeatedly. J this happens to the best of us, so you'll get over by God's grace.
He lost a lot. He doesn’t have to be in it totally. She gave and what she gave that he walked away from is a loss because he gained from it. All her contributions is a big loss.
I don’t think you should remove them this will allow new subscribers to watch these as replay so to understand where you’re coming from without you having to answer questions over and over agin. You can always re direct them to go watch. But it’s your decisions as well . Happy to see you getting to a comfy space of ❤️🩹 healing.
You have the right approach girl. I admire you so much even though I am very much your senior. My motherly advice is to keep the family videos. Memories don't live like people do they always stay with you whether they be good or bad. Your daughter needs to see the indelible memories. Put God first in everything you do. He will see you through. Keep the positivity going. This too shall pass. Blessings 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Thank you for the Mother’s Day wishes and happy Mother’s Day again to you lovely lady and I don’t think you should take any of your videos down. You know let people see the rhythm of your life. It’s your truth you know and we’ll see more beautiful moments of your life, it’s a timeline and besides the fact you don’t want to mess up your views. Not that that’s important but it kind of is important but it’s up to you completely with you. Choose to feel like you wanna do that’s completely up to you either way we love the content.❤ FOOD LOOKS REALLY GOOD
Jaye it's too soon for u to delate, don't do anything hastily, those videos show how much of a wondetful wife u have been. I always admire how young u are and yet manage your husband and daughter with so much love and care. Girl u were the jem in that relationship. You've done your best. Love u girl
Hello Jaye happy belated mothers day, do what u feel to do to heal u mind but if it was me i would not deleted them let them stay for u daughter to see in the features keep the faith be strong ❤❤
Stay strong and believe in yourself. Celebrate your now and recognize that family as it was then is part of your journey so makes no sense to discard the videos. They will strengthen your resolve to break free. For the rest of your life, Tim remains the father of your daughter. Don't laugh but remember Tim in your prayers regardless of how bad things were. Look at your beautiful princess and celebrate your accomplishments knowing that there are no guarantees in marriage, etc. You are starting over young and you will grow into the phenomenal woman God intends you to be. Hug yourself in weak moments and love you no matter what you are facing. Life is just life! LIght and love to you and your adorable Nev. Watching from Kingston 🇯🇲
Imma say that I know God is going to give you the perfect man for you. You are a wonderful mother and woman. You deserve someone who understands and cherishes you. We all deserve that. Alone can birth unspeakable peace. Peace you don't have without a supportive, all in partner. The videos are history. You do what you want. Remember you don't have to go back and look at them. When you start another serious relationship you can always hide them.
Stop giving young people foolish advice. God made marriage not you, never mind they are problems now Family was Gods plan. She and husband may get divorced but he is still her daughter's father and that cannot be erased. It would not be fair to her daughter, you people think it is so easy but divorce is never easy no matter how much you wanted to get rid of the person.
Jay I don't think you should delete this family page it's where you've started off and we ain't going nowhere , you've move on and not looking back so keep doing what your doing God has been good to you no matter what and it will only get better❤
I don’t think you should delete your family videos, remember you have your daughter and they will be memories for her as well. There is always a pass just think about it like that. Happy Mother’s Day to you and your mom.
Happy Mother's Day Jaye, a little late, but it's never late to say happy mothers day to mothers like you, you make mothers day special each and every day Jaye ❤️ ❤❤❤❤
I don't think you should delete them because Neaveh is feeling like you have eased her father and may not be good for her ... I understand your feelings, but you have to think of her too ....he'll always be her dad....I know someone who cut off her husband from all the pictures they had and it didn't work out too good for her when the children where old enough to understand.. Everything will work out for you in whatever you do in life. Just keep the faith 🙏 ❤❤
Please don't, there are different stages in life...that was just one chapter... memories live with us, wether they're good or bad.You are doing well that is closed.new chapter is about positivity... live your best life.❤
Jaye, I'd love to see how you make your plantain porage. "Crum de la yum yum"...I've gotta use that. You are so mature for a young woman. I really admire you Jaye. I agree that your past videos should not be deleted since they were YOUR videos. They show where you came from. OMG... you threw down and your meals looks soooo good!! Invite me over.😊😊 God bless you always Jaye and Naveah.
Hi Jordanne, wow wonderful meal prep. You definitely did your thing. I would say don’t delete the video but if deleting them will benefit you mentally then delete them. Either way I just want you to whatever you feel is best for you and Neveah. ❤ Blessings
I don’t think you should delete the previous videos. Speaking as a divorced woman, i understand the betrayal. But that is also your daughter’s memories for the future. I think you should talk to a therapist, talking does help. Wow! I just heard you mention that everyone should get a therapist. You have our support sweet lady.🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸
Do not delete the videos. Yes it may be the past, however, as time goes by and you’ve healed and will be in a better place and have grown, you will be able to look at it and see how far you’re coming from. Those videos also will help you to gain money, so leave them up. You can’t change the past hon. For now, just don’t watch them. Focus on improving yourself, healing, growing and loving your baby. What’s to come his way, will. Suppose I tell you what I experienced recently from my relationship with my ex. I got it worse than you hon, I mourned, and allowed myself to feel the pain and then I worked on healing myself mentally, spiritually and physically. Exercising does a lot Jaye. That’s what I did and am doing to help me to heal. Staying inside or isolating sometimes did increase the depression for me I realized so I started exercising every morning at home with my aunt, eat better, seek a therapist, watch positive videos, avoid as much negativity as much as possible, cleanse my space, spoke less and listen more to people, became more observant, go to the beach or river or some road trip sometimes by myself or with my friend and nephew and go dinner or movies by myself. Girl yah get better just pray and read your Bible more. Be specific in your prayers. I listed everything and called his name in my prayers. I spoke to God and tell him how I was feeling and what had happened even though he was aware. I begged him for his deliverance and help. People are cruel Jaye but then there are some really great ones. It’s just for us to take people for who they are and to pay attention to the first red flag and then determine from there. It will get better. You will be healed. As a fellow swan big sister, Jaye you are loved and will be healed hon. Take it one day at a time baby and pray always and journal a lot.
Don't delete those videos .join z book club and focus on you and your beautiful daughter trust you had a beautiful mothers love your videos stay positive.
Happy mothers day Jaye , wishing you all the best on your new journey has a single mother,.... Keep the videos, your daughter will be able to watch them years later...
Those videos will be memory for Nevia. Love your vibes girl. Thanks ad you same to you sister.Tim give up all of these for what? Oh! Buoy. You know what men don’t appreciate and accept a good woman who takes care of them in every aspect of their life. When they left , that’s the time the regrets steps in .
I admire your strength to be so young and faced with such a challenge but you are holding your own, kudos to you. I would like to encourage you to stop saying da..da..da..da when speaking, not sure if you are aware how many times you do this, soon your daughter will pick up the same habit. Continue to articulate when you speak because you also do that well, remember these kids are like sponges, they soak everything in, the good and the bad.
As long as the father of your daughter didn't tell you to delete him from your channel,i don't think is a good idea for you to delete the videos.When you keep yourself busy with your cutie daughter 🥰 you will have less to think about.Happy mother's day to we all moms 🙏🏾🥰 and moms to be 🥰
No Jay let them remain it's a part of your hard and beautiful work more blessings on you and Nevie you are doing well stay strong stay focused and stay blessed ❤❤❤❤❤
Happy mother's day Jaye. Please don't delete those family videos and pictures. Your daughter will definitely need them, remember we can't change the past. But we can control the past so it won't hurt us. You will remember the happy times and that's good. So focused ahead by God's grace, you're an amazing person❤🙏
I am with my dear do what's best for you sweetheart i pray for your strength i am with your all the go girl regardless i hope had a lovely Mother's Day with Naveah ❤❤❤🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲
Hi Jaye, happy mothers’ day to you too. Please don’t take down or delete those videos. Leave them for your daughter’s sake. Darling, you cannot change the past. Just look to the future. God is in control 🤗💕
Sometimes people enter our lives, for whatever the reason God allows them to, maybe to fulfill a purpose, they were not to stay, and they moved on and you moved on as much as it hurts. Either you wouldn't have a daughter, or you would not have this daughter. Your husband entered your life and you got this daughter and an opportunity to travel to his country and the possibilities are endless, so after the hurt is less as the days, weeks and months go by and the hurt will get less maybe you probably will look at the situation with a different perspective. One thing you should not do, not now, close off yourself from relationships bc your husband that will be with you for years to come will pass you by.
Agree with with all the above comments - personally, I would get rid of the sofa (too much memories) get a new one that fits in with yr decor - just my opinion.😇
