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My ex flirted with me first after we met up since the break up. We met up a couple of times afterwards and he was flirty and affectionate, and I did the same. It's been a little over a month now, and he's starting to do it less. He still says he loves me a lot. I try to flirt with him and be playful, but I feel like he's not attracted to me like he used to. What should I do?
Clay I really need help understanding something. So after a month of not talking she reached out to tell me congrats on graduating. She then went cold. That was all a month ago. Two weeks ago she stopped being the first person to view all of my posts. Starting Tuesday she started viewing all of my posts again, I can see that she’s been listening to a TON of depressing songs, and the craziest thing, she liked me and we matched on tinder two days ago. We haven’t talked in over a month. What do you think she’s feeling? Does she want to get back together? What’s my next move? Please help.
@williamdolan7189 , it sounds like your ex is also trying to express her boundaries. Will you be able to respect her needs as of this time? Sending more positive energies on your end.
So if she likes her best friend what do I do, I really like her and she knows this, but she says “I don’t like you” but she wants to kiss me and whatever, what do I do
why did my ex -wife agree to have SOP with me, even though she said she doesn't love me anymore. and we both enjoyed afterwards. what does this mean? she still luv me?
Hi Clay, my ex has been very dry with me as of late, any time i speak to her its either very short replies or no replies at all. I called her out for this just now saying that i feel like a nuisance if i ever speak to her and ill leave her alone now which i plan on going NC for a couple of days to a week now. I know if i was to flirt it would just be met with "stop flirting with me" and she would get annoyed so i cant even do that. She has a new bf but theyre LDR and wont see each other until August. I really dont know what to do
After the break up, I used NC, she reached out a couple times. So last week, she msged me and said she was wondering how I am with what's going on in the world rn, also mentioned I was in her dream. I responded to that At night, she responded the same night. Then over the weekend I stayed at a family members house and we ended up speaking abit more Saturday night. She asked if i'd been thinking about her during the time we'd not talked. I asked why and she said that she misses me... This is where I got confused, she then said that she thinks I'm the "right person for her" but at the wrong time. I said that, I'm not trying to be friends and she said that, she understands if I don't want to talk to her but it won't stop her speaking to me. I think I took it the wrong way. So I ended up texting the next day, when she is free? No response yet
Damn bro that's confusing but at least she's saying how she feels! Keep no contact stay working on yourself and keep your masculine frame don't be needy she will contact you soon.. I would love to be in your shoes right now bro good luck!
It was nice speaking with her. Maybe she sensed I was too focused on an outcome rather than just connecting, towards the end. Thanks tho, what's your situation?
Hi Clay, bit of a strange one! not sure if you've seen my previous comments and know my situation, but broke up in February, were still texting etc meeting then this "situation" happened and she became a bit distant. we had been meeting for a walk once a week during the "situation", last week on our walk she was trying hard to tell me she had been on a date and had another one on Sunday, she bought it up about 6 times! but each time I didn't react just acted like it was part of conversation and didn't ask, so I didn't react how I believe she wanted (asking who and where etc). we still text a bit Saturday, seemed to be on good terms as all of our walks have been good interactions and texting fine. then all of a sudden last night she blocked me on all social media and even my phone number! it seems really out of the blue as like I said we've been on good terms. I can only assume she went on this date Sunday and is now blocking me to try focus on that? I'm just confused as it seems to have come out of nowhere, we've had good interactions when meeting and texting has been good, any advice? ***UPDATE** she unblocked my number and text me saying I just turned up for the walk (when I didn't) and it made her feel weird, plus shes dating so thinks we should break away until she knows we can be friends and her not feel weird! she said shes moving on and really likes this guy and its going well (they've been on 2 dates) I feel like shes trying to forcing herself to move on by blocking me instead of processing her emotions? thanks in advance!!
Clay, I heard that. I’m not in love with you anymore, the connection doesn’t feel the same but you were perfect and and a great boyfriend and did nothing wrong. She said she will always love me and said she sees me as more of a friend after 2 years. What’s the reasoning for this and why is she saying this? Makes no sense to me. We talked about a future and long term for the end goal.
South Florida 2 years, serious relationship, on the same page, her emotions last 2 weeks were just up and down and all over. She’s not dating a guy 2 months later after we broke up. A guy she used to just hookup with.
