Should the groom have to change his outfit for the bride? Nazranaa Diaries-Season1,Ep. 1 Rucha & Deb 

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I was re a lly shocked that with the first couple of the groom went out and bought his own outfit without consulting the bride. No discussion no asking her the color she was wanting to go with, no asking her to go with him, NOTHING…. I do not want to call names or put a label on it but having come from a large family and seen a lot of weddings and a lot of different cultural type of weddings I want to almost say this was so narcissistic of him but I won’t because what this worries me is further down the road then just the wedding. What is her life going to be like with him. That is my bigger concern what consideration Will he even give her in the future on major issues, if any. I only hurt for her if this is the life he the means of her and her very much disappointed she is going to be especially if she has watched her parents have conversations in their marriage and work together and then she something entirely different happen!! He expected her to make 100% concessions for him and he thought that was perfectly acceptable. It broke my heart to see that even though she did find a dress that looks good with him and she did love it , Hi feel that she was just lucky enough to have fonund something that did coordinate with his outfit and he was just beaming because he got exactly what hbe wanted. I am very worried how this relationship will turn out and I think many of us know exactly what it will be and that is not what I think she’s expecting but many of the Hindu marriages or a man telling a woman what to do and there is no control other than for a man to say to a woman what she will wear and but she will do and I’m w going to say anything more except Er wish

Cont’d…… I apologize my neuropathy fingers accidentally caused my fingers to hit the wrong button but I do want to finish what I was saying. I do want to wish this couple of the very best because I have no right to wish him ill well. I just want to say to this bride that should things not work out the way she wants that she hopefully will reach out for help and not do as I did and many other women do and feel as if you were ashamed and trapped and stay for many many years of abuse. To the bride who brought her husband to be and her friend and on the very first down she tried on, both the groom and the bride fell in love with the dress and said they were happy with it… They were trying to purchase a dress around $1500 for a beach wedding after deciding the dress that the grooms mother had purchased wasn’t quite appropriate for the beach wedding. Both of the bride and groom truly loved the dress and we’re willing to buy it and be done but this so-called best friend sabotaged the appointment & Insisted that the bride Try on more gowns and acted as if the bride REALLY DID NOT KNOW HER OWN MIND!!! Who needs any friends if they’re going to act like this girl dead!!!!I honestly do not understand why some people bring the people they do, to these bridal appointments❣️❣️ as it turned out, and they went through the rigmarole of trying on more outfits, they went back to the original gown she had tried on and selected it is he Siri said after the first dress….“I love it! It’s perfect! You look so beautiful! I’m ready to marry you now♥️♥️♥️♥️” Let’s get out of here….And a friend instead of just keeping her mouth a

….,(Continued last bride who had nosy friend…😂).. When the groom finally said that he was very happy with the red floral gown to go along with his green grooms outfit

Continued… And I’m sorry my cancer has caused me to have very acute neuropathy and I should’ve just done Friday but I want to make this point. The friend had already caused him to spend a lot of time unnecessarily trying on gowns when they were very happy with the first dress the bride trade on and when they finally went back, after trying all those other gowns on, to the first gown and He said “this is still the Gown we want to buy.” He tells the bride “ you look SO beautiful❣️❣️ I would marry You today… You look so gorgeous and I can’t wait till the day you walk down the aisle towards me to become my wife. Let’s get out of here.”❣️❣️ And that friend can’t leave it alone & finally stay out of things, but no she has to stick her nose in it again and says to the bride that well I’m not sure she always knows her own mind and can make the best decisions and goes on and on about wasn’t it worth it to try all of these other dresses on to be sure you get the right one and so on and so forth. I don’t think I would have her as a friend anymore when she sabotage you and makes you sound like you’re a blonde flake and I’m capable of making a decision without her. You don’t need a friend like that. They are insecure and want to make you look bad so they can feel better about themselves.!! These brides were beautiful and all of them knew what they wanted when they came in the store and they found it… Even if they didn’t get to buy it.a(Referring to the bride whose groom forced her to buy a different color to match him. Never in my entire life in the hundreds of thousands of weddings I have seen or been at has a Groom ever got to choose the color scheme of the wedding. I know this did not go over well with the people that saw this. Anyway I think you for your RU-vid videos; I think you for the quality of Your Navaranna Businesss; & I love the beautiful gowns you have in your shop and all of the craftsmanship goes into making each gorgeous gown so beautifully in the custom artistry with all of their stitching and Gems & Jewels Perfectly Placed😊♥️♥️❣️

I don't see what is wrong with trying on another few dresses to make sure the one you love is still the one you love. On any wedding dress show you often find the woman thinking the first is perfect, to realise a few dresses in that something else is more perfect. If you book an appointment to find the perfect dress, it doesn't hurt to make sure you have chosen right! I think everyone else was very rude about the bridesmaid.

He never said no to the first dress. Traditionally in Indian culture in most families, groom pays for the bride's outfit and grooms outfit is secret where he comes and walks down the aisle as he's welcomed. Everyone gathers to see what everyone else is wearing in baraat. So, it makes absolute sense he bought his And he was ok with not matching and letting her pick the red dress. Turns out she did ❤️ the 2nd lehenga more. And look at the end. They look stunning. His sherwani is everything! Literally everyone wears a cream one! How boring. His outfit and as ❤️by his whole family. He has bought literally everything matching with it. There was no way it was practical for him to change everything!

You are definitely right. Its very annoying that he was overbearing and thoughtless buying his outfit wothout considering her

It shows how the marriage is going to go.

Groom wanted to be the princess.

Why? Its his marriage too. The main point is both of them to be happy. If the bride like the red outfit she should get that one rather than thinking matching the colour .

I think you mean Isabel

In the Deb part, they were too rude to isabel :p like they would have just kicked her out, that is too bad

lol then dont watch it simple af

Peya 16 what old episodes? isnt this seazon 1 ep 1?

This is now a scripted show ala Say Yes to the Dress. The producers think it will get better ratings. What you see in most every show: first the very awkward introductions, next, the presented dresses go from worst to best, a drama moment ensues whether the mom says no, it’s too low cut, it’s not a traditional color, Our brides always wear a sari, etc. or the bridesmaid creates dissension, etc. In this case the groom gets obnoxious per the script, Then the Perfect Outfit is found and there is Happiness all around. After the Perfect Outfit is admired and gushed over, the trademark “Are you ready to be a Nazranaa Bride” question is asked, just to make sure we know who is making the video. Last is a mandatory hug followed by the recap.

I don’t know about that

Totally agree....he is so self centered

@@vaishaliaggarwal7833 the compromise was a joke....she never compromised

Well... it's his wedding too.

Hes buying soooooooooo

Mel Reze If my fiancée acted like that, I would give the ring back and run

Riya George yeah Shia* needs to check herself

Totally agree with you!

Lol the ‘salesgirl’. She’s the designer but yes, she was really quite rude about the friend.

Sarah Smn yesss exactly! It looks so fake

Sahara One Guess what, it’s the internet Sarah can say whatever the hell she wants. Once someone puts their show on RU-vid for the world to see they are opening up criticism. I didn’t like the way Shia talked about Isabelle either, it was uncalled for. Isabelle just wants to see what looks good and doesn’t want her friend to have any regrets.

Sahara One I’m calm.

Shia is a shit show. She needs to learn manners and service skills.

Yeah, the second outfit was the best.

Also buget is a big part of it...

Yes the 2nd one was beautiful. Isabelle wasn't wrong. The bride just tried on 1 dress. The dresses are expensive so why not try on more 🤷‍♀️

Why did they even bother bringing her, they completely disregarded her feedback and were so rude

Minimus Mouse honestly one thing I like about us Indian (either from North America or Asia) folk is how everyone bands together when they feel like someone is being rude or unfairly treated. It’s really wholesome and makes me proud to be a part of this community haha

Noreen Akhtar lmaoooooo

I’m dead 🤣🤣

It was good up until then. Then it all went downhill from there. So scripted.

Tell me about it

lolll this comment is everything 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

Mystierium Thank you

And the music is depressing.

lol.... It's a TV show. She could've tried on 20 dresses while she was there. They only have enough time to show a few.. duh

Kiana Kosack probably right but still doesn’t explain the lack of color, personality and overall lack of care for the bride shown in these new episodes. And it’s even weirder when you think that if they edit so much out that these were the best takes 🤷🏻‍♀️

Mystierium ....completely disagree but okaaaaay

She was sweeter and happier in the first few episodes 😒

I’m Mexican and same thoughts … binge watching as well 🤩🤩

I’m also Black American. I feel that perhaps 🤔 if I was younger, I would have gone to this store and purchase a lengths. I feel that h th get are done glorious

I'm white British, and also addicted to this show and learning about other cultures

Amen girl! Her comments about the "bridesmaid" is totally unprofessional and plain rude. If she's clearly clueless then teach and patiently show here, since you're the expert.😶😶😶

Yes i agree with you about the isabel matter but not the groom matter.its his wedding too.he didn’t say no to her red dress.why he has to compromise for her???why she needs to match the dresses??of he didn’t bought it than I could understand but he bought it already.its nit cheap either.the way that bride react not cool at all.also shea acted relly unprofessionally on the 2nd one.

I would be telling these busybodies where to get off in the choicest Australian I could muster if it was me o yes this stuff goes on at Australian weddings too I know one girl had to change the actual place where the wedding was held to some old “ dear “ who couldn’t travel that far then she went all the way for the reception so what was her problem.??

Akila Baklia me too ! Feels like they are adding conflict on purpose

Me too! It had so much potential

She may have been ride about her approach but she was right because Isabella was not considering the bride and finance opinions.

Twas so out of line, plus Isabella was simply sharing her genuine opinions, i mean the bride brought her along for a reason...

@@gracia.246 But Isabella was simply sharing her genuine opinions, i mean the bride brought her along for a reason... N pulling the 'not indian' was just extra much or simply rude n offensive. I bet she was offended and her feelings were hurt when she watched that part.

Especially when she herself still doesn't know how to pronounce LeHenga.

Yeah isabelle is so sweet. I would love to have her as a friend. So what if she isn't Indian. She is right since they are spending money what's wrong in looking at more dresses🤷‍♀️ The bride only tried 1 dress on. Shia just wanted the appointment to be over

Pink Heart you dont need to be indian to even see the quality and design of a lengha. Agreed isabelles a sweet person

@@noreenakhtar8843 Agreed.

She was Shivangi how did she become shia

@@divyachandron that's what I was thinking!!! I keep seeing Shia who tf is that? Lmao

Somethings are a done deal! Did you ever think that his family had picked out his outfit and he was also under a lot of stress to wear it too! I've seen women on this show suck it up to their families a lot while the men sit there having to go along with whatever the parents said. Now, a woman has to go by the wishes of her husband. She didn't get everything she wanted, but there was a compromise! Groom probably even put a bit of $$ toward the purchase!

Well it's his wedding too. And had already bought his outfit. He should have a say.

@@funkyfiss Actually, I think the bride and groom should have the only say, but that's me! I've watched this show for one year and it's filled with manipulative family members making the bride and at times the groom miserable! There is no joy sitting watching family members berate the bride and groom because they feel their needs and wants should come before the couple! Not only that, the comment section on EVERY video is filled with hate towards the shopkeeper and her products! It's terrible and gives outsiders the impression that Indian people hate themselves!

Totally scripted when they fought

funkyfiss oh hey already bought I am on his side lol

TYVM!!! I thought I remembered her name being Shivangi!!! What’s up with the name change?

@@IntellectualCuriosity Yeah! I googled up as well to confirm! She is the co-owner, Shivangi Gupta! Only the heavens know how she had a sudden name change 😂

That’s exactly what I said! How do they change her name LOL

@@husnaavhora6485 Ya! Only they know! Bad scripting.

This is what I was thinking 😂😂

The girl knows what she's saying, I loved the 2nd

yes I picked up that too, compromise is meeting somewhere in the middle, not succumbing to his demands

couldnt agree more!

Shayana Jay no wayyyyy LMAO you’re saying this shit is scripted? DAMN I feel kind of bad for hating on Amit now knowing the drama was all fake

Thanks for spilling the tea!

true!!! because if you google "amit and rucha" and "deb and neal" you can find their wedding video on vimeo. This is soo fake

Huh.nobody stop her to wear that red one.she is the one who decide it.i am happy for the groom.he looks absolutely stunning

Merilora Duncan do not be rude and by the way you try to make a show

Meiralora Duncan Why wouldn’t a woman confronther fiance? He did something horrible, this day is about how the bride looks, not the groom and now she had to wear a different colour, because of him.

I can't stand the way Say yes to the dress has become. I really like this series. I really like India especially the movies.

Couldn't agree more

True.

Oh really?? So for you the groom don’t deserve to get what he wants. Watch the episode carefully.he told the bride several times to get what she wants but all he want is to wear what he want.the brides is so stubborn. She only think about colour matching thing.wedding means both of them to be happy. Wedding pic is not everything.both of them to be happy and enjoy their wedding is more important.

I agree with you - he was such an obnoxious brat - if my husband did that nonsense before we got married; my family would have created a bloody scene!

@@manjarin_sd indian wedding is huge and their outfits are supposed to compliment each other's. I am kinda shocked that people don't understand this guy is narcissist. They are supposed to get out together. Choosing bride's dress based on groom's is so hectic. It's not western wedding where groom may wear any color of suit,tie and match with a handkerchief/flower in the pocket to compliment the bride.

@@Sam-nl3mz watch this episode again then you will understand that the guy never said that she cant have that red dress.its his wedding too. So he can wear whatever he want. In india most of the brides dont have that freedom to choose her own dress. Atleast this gave her that option. If a girl can demand a guy also can. Marriage is all about being happy together not matching outfits

@@manjarin_sd marriage is about lot of work and communication. Happiness doesn’t come running without efforts. He can wear anything, sure but he should have communicated with the bride. I am sure she would understand what he wants to wear for the wedding. He just went for shopping himself without discussing theme/colors, zero consideration for his bride and now saying "oh I am not changing my outfit,you can wear whatever you want". Such a big ego! Who does that? She surely won't wear anything that absolutely doesn’t compliment each other,so it’s kinda passive forcing lol. Red flag. You either not seeing the red flags as other do or you are one of his relatives 😂

No dress is same..but dupatta is different

Dupatta is easy to made.that bride made different head dupatta later.she wear the same shoulder dupatta what she bought.

Isha Srivastava yas

True.Why is the mother in law buying the wedding dress for the bride?😣

Hasfa Bahar they’re probably encouraged to start drama