Should We Tell the Kids Their Dad Has Become an Atheist?

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Should We Tell the Kids Their Dad Has Become an Atheist?
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@jeffgo5742 2 года назад

I think it’s more of a problem to tell your kids to believe in god without questioning it. Kids should be taught to constantly question everything even religion

@ayeshas5193 2 года назад

Exactly!

@rhettfreeman8186 2 года назад

But you prob wore your mask religiously and cucked to the big feddy gubberment

@jeffgo5742 2 года назад

@@rhettfreeman8186 nope sorry to break your heart

@amerikaansnieuws3248 5 месяцев назад

Should they question whether rape is bad? Or whether gravity is real? It sounds like you are leading them to a life of anxiety and conspiracy theories if you teach them as fact that everything is worthy of the same consideration regardless of how outlandish it seems.

@jeffgo5742 5 месяцев назад

@@amerikaansnieuws3248 those things are proven bad and real. God isn’t nothing but faith. Don’t be silly

@SSJBartSimp 2 года назад

I found out my dad was an atheist when I was a small child. 20 odd something years later, my life is going great and I have a great relationship with my dad, who is still an atheist.

@216trixie 2 года назад

Hes a smart man.

@CaptPicard81 2 года назад

Lol I mean yeah why not

@TheMrKristens 2 года назад

I have yet to read a Bible story (Jesus aside, but even He was up against the thick of it) with a clear path of perfect. I mean even those chosen by God walked hard paths. It's only in our minds everything needs to be perfect. But there is a beauty in letting kids be kids in that season. Seems like her Dad isn't bad at all. He clearly loves her. He clearly supports his family's faith journey despite not wanting one of his own. He clearly enjoys being their Dad, her Husband. I wasn't raised with Faith or in Faith. It was something I was told I had to do once a summer when we visited my Dad's parents. I was 2nd grade-ish. It didn't mean anything to me at that point. Flash forward a little over a year and I have 2 new best friends in a new town we are living in...and they both are super excited about Sundays. I learn they both go to the same church and are in the same Sunday School class...etc. They invite me to go. So my Mom is on board and drops me off, but she stays and attends the service while I attended the school. She fell in love with the community of people, the service, and the amount of families there. We went back week after week. Eventually, my brothers and Dad joining us. I think it just means everyone has a journey ...a path to their faith. Atheism is a faith in non-belief. I think her 14 year old will be ok in knowing...I don't think she will be so mad that she'll go off the deep end. Her Dad has a different faith journey. It isn't over. Maybe he never changes his mind. All will be ok.

@Mercury688 2 года назад

You both sound like smart people

@cabrito1cabral 2 года назад

There are no atheists in fox holes

@FloydofOz 2 года назад

Being an atheist is not a choice. You can’t make yourself believe in something that you simply don’t find credible. You can pretend or lie if you want.

@talyahr3302 2 года назад

Should you be honest with your kids? Yes typically. Especially since your kid is a teenager, not a toddler.

@anthill1510 7 месяцев назад

She is the toddler. She can`t deal with it and behaves like a 15 year old in this call.

@darwhitexo9084 2 года назад

This lady is something else... She's the one struggling with this issue not him. She's putting her own insecurities and stress about the situation on the family's plate. Yes, she is forcing him to "perform". Either make peace with it or move on.

@kita3256 2 года назад

Have empathy. You don’t know her past, her struggles. We all make mistakes. We all mess up big things. Have empathy.

@darwhitexo9084 2 года назад

@@kita3256 I came off harsh. But I am saying that she did accept where he was at in life when he disclosed his feelings to her..as it's been so long, she needs to work on making peace with it & they'll be happier as a family and able to move on

@kita3256 2 года назад

@@darwhitexo9084 of course, but that very same thing you’re explaining, is what is difficult for her. That’s her journey now. But past traumas, a fantasy of a family she always wanted, or whatever else, is like going through a grieving process. We should all look into these callers as humans just like us, filled with traumas and issues but at least she’s reaching out. She’s brave. I’ve tried to write to Dr. Delony for months and I can’t do it. Seeking help is so hard. So let’s congratulate her for already taking the first step.

@NeccoWecco 2 года назад

Religion doesn't make you a good person, how you treat other people does.

@KEP1983 2 года назад

Judging by the body counts, lack of religion doesn't make you treat people good.

@pjcanadian3686 2 года назад

@@KEP1983 think about the amount of people who have killed in the name of religion. Not to mention the people who have been persecuted and judged because they don’t line up with peoples religious ideals. I’m saying this as a Christian.

@KEP1983 2 года назад

@@pjcanadian3686 The total number of people killed by secular governments in the 20th century is greater than every conflict in world history prior to the 20th century combined. The body count isn't even close. Atheist communist governments have killed way more than any other group and it's not even close.

@manuelestevez3062 2 года назад

Nothing makes us good. We all broken

@maryann7619 2 года назад

@@KEP1983 Well said. If anything, it's been the religious who have been slaughtered by the secular leaders.

@peterram430599 2 года назад

John need's to get one of Dave's mute buttons

@josephinenelan4204 2 года назад

Yea, this woman needs to let him talk to her. She's constantly interrupting

@hbrown6598 2 года назад

Yes she’s insufferable

@FloydofOz 2 года назад

Her nuttiness comes out with the side comments.

@emmarose6590 2 года назад

It’s healthy to see kids see their parents struggle with their faith. Ask the question in front of them, because more than likely the kids will struggle on day with it

@anthill1510 7 месяцев назад

He is not struggling with his faith, he is an atheist. He is very clear that he doesn`t believe in any gods. She is struggling with telling her teenager that the father is an atheist, which is ridiculuos.

@emmajones8590 3 месяца назад

@@anthill1510 Let the teen discuss it with their father, if they haven't already. She doesn't need to be involved in the slightest.

@sitns23 2 года назад

He didn’t lose his faith. He just found what works for him. We are often trying to change others to see things how we see it and missing the opportunity to teach our children to embrace differences.

@JLJ8039 2 года назад

Yes!!!! Completely agree. Its a bit annoying whenever I hear that people lost their faith as its something you misplace or a fashion you drop and pickup. To the contrary its a very hard process to leave religion.

@sometimesitdobelikethatdoe 2 года назад

He literally identifies as an atheist.

@Mercury688 2 года назад

AMEN…..and I never say that🤣

@parsleysue11 2 года назад

@@JLJ8039 nah. He lost it. It’s gone. If you’re a true believer you know there’s not another way around it. He can get it back though but for now it’s gone.

@JLJ8039 2 года назад

@@parsleysue11 I for one hope he never closes off his mind like that again. No belief should be above question when our understanding of the world continues to evolve and there is so much left to learn

@DiamondChipLover 2 года назад

My dad told me he was an atheist as a young child and it didn't affect me at all. It's a weird question to me but I understand religion is a big deal to some people.

@paulo7507 2 года назад

She was very very annoying to listen to with her outbursts

@emmajones8590 3 месяца назад

Plus they wouldn't keep to the subject.

@bethechange8889 2 года назад

The greatest thing a parent or anyone can do is live with the truth & set a good example.

@louididdy 2 года назад

Which truth?

@FirstnameLastname-vf9rp 2 года назад

kids are more clever than you think, if you don’t tell them they’ll figure it out on their own

@nicolcacola 2 года назад

Talking about atheism to your teen and developing a worldview is important. When the time comes and the Father is ready to talk about it, have that conversation.

@MeloFloww 2 года назад

Sure… God is still the way.

@emmajones8590 3 месяца назад

@@MeloFloww Maybe, if you believe that he/she/it or whatever it is you call God actually exists. I have never seen, heard or felt any evidence of the existence of any kind of a god. But then I am not paranormally gifted or highly sensitive to that kind of thing. I need hard proof to believe something. And it beats me why a deity would have to be so darned shy.

@JAM609 2 года назад

How fragile is Christianity that it’s a 30 minute conversation if you should hide someone’s lack of belief in religion from their own kid

@emmajones8590 3 месяца назад

The kids will soon figure out soon enough if they haven't already, that the dad thinks religion is b.s.

@24collin24Collin 2 года назад

Low Key this lady is super annoying, High Key Deloney deserves a raise.

@Hamyhamster24 2 года назад

i grew up in a religious family. became an atheist in my late 20s and im at much more peaceful place now. its a personal journey and fortunately in 21st century, it is now more acceptable (even encouraged) to leave faith in God's hands...or your hands. so yes, i encourage people to question their faith...again and again. Grow and become the best version of yourself, even if it means leaving your faith and community. there are 7 billion people in the world, you can find other community to be a part of.

@deepthinking8633 2 года назад

Stop encouraging people to do that please. If you make your decision that’s fine, but don’t do that to other people.

@Hamyhamster24 2 года назад

@@deepthinking8633 the contradiction is unreal…in your comment and your account name. I’m assuming you’re a deep thinker and ponder about life often. What exactly do you think happens when people ponders and ask questions? They start having epiphanies. And sometimes those epiphanies includes leaving a religion. And I will always encourage people to question EVERYTHING.

@firefly9838 2 года назад

@@deepthinking8633 why not encourage other people to think for themselves and live the lives they want to?

@emmajones8590 3 месяца назад

@@deepthinking8633 Other people can surely think for themselves.

@Sekhmet19aspie 2 года назад

Am I the only one who finds this question outrageous? It sounds just like ''should we tell the kids their dad is a murderer/drug dealer?'' while the dude has done nothing wrong, he just stopped believing in some myth.

@sometimesitdobelikethatdoe 2 года назад

Exactly and then you have some people on this comment thread that are saying “well he still has some faith”. Like if you’re a Christian imagine how annoying it would be for you when someone told you that you believed something that you didn’t

@louididdy 2 года назад

It’s a conservative crowd, this is tough for them to accept.

@Matt-cr4vv Год назад

Meh to non religious folk this question isn’t a big deal at all. But for extremely religious families it actually is a hard decision to make. If you have a reasonable family who respects your decisions it’s no big deal. But if you have a family that isn’t reasonable this information getting out risks genuine harmful conflict. He hasn’t done anything wrong for sure but it isn’t always as simple for them as it is for others.

@thedavesiknow4598 16 дней назад

Your religion should be your family and if you are married you should absolutely love and worship your spouse and your family

@amandag4618 2 года назад

The fact that he educated himself and dived into his faith like he did for so long but has the critical thinking skills to continue to develop his beliefs is amazing. People these days like to pretend they have it all together and know everything for society. I have so much respect for people who think deeply about their faith and are able to change their mind but continue to be a good person. Religion doesn’t make you a “good” person. Your character does. I think that sets a good example to the kids.

@thejakelegion 2 года назад

Yeah, except refusing God is refusing salvation. So while it's fun to make it look like he's doing an intellectual excersize, what he's doing is rejecting the Creator. So yeah, have good character. But rejecting God is a no-no.

@amandag4618 2 года назад

Out of the thousands of religions why do you assume everyone believe the way *you* do? This man has studied religion as have I and has made an informed decision. I think there is a god as well but I think he is a compassionate god who doesn’t condemn you for not knowing. Man has twisted religion to meet their personal narratives and bias. Believe what you want but at the end of the day a lot of it is hearsay and most likely your opinion is based off what your family has taught you. A long game of generational telephone? I’ll pass.

@parsleysue11 2 года назад

@@amandag4618 But you’re not God. He has a plan just like life does too. You don’t get to make the rules. Just like you don’t make the rules in life. Not to get anyone angry I’m just saying this. It’s there whether you believe it or not.

@MichalJan 2 года назад

That was a great conversation! So fun and wise! I went trough a similar journey as the callers husband - was a child of religious parents, having deep faith as a young man and even thinking of becoming a priest. Then after marriage and having a child, followed by thinking a lot I came to realisation that I don't believe in any religion anymore. I became an atheist. I don't think that I have changed in any other way outside my religion. Morality and empathy is still very important to me. And I feel free and honest with myself - more then ever.

@Mercury688 2 года назад

The father sounds like the only one with common sense in this equation

@anthill1510 7 месяцев назад

She talks and behaves like a 15 year old. I had to force myself to listen because I wanted to hear Dr. Johns advice.

@9liveslisa 2 года назад

My shrink many years ago as a teenager said I was off the charts on the trauma scale! But I survived and lived a good life. It can be done.

@actuallyterry 2 года назад

I couldn't listen to this one. She just went off on too many tangents.

@KeatingChick 2 года назад

Totally agree with you.

@JLJ8039 2 года назад

He didn't lose his faith. He realized none or most of it didn't make sense to him, after much questioning, was honest with himself, and once you have that realization, its pretty hard to continue the suspension of disbelief. I know cause it happened to me.... You do NOT need religion to be moral. If he is a good person, father and husband, that won't change. As long as she doesn't turn this into a defect and respects him (they need to respect each other), they should be fine. Explain both alternatives in life: religion and atheism. Your kids will choose what to believe in the course of their lives.

@sitns23 2 года назад

I couldn’t agree more. Well said.

@nicolab2075 2 года назад

I agree, except that I don't think we choose to believe in god. I think we're either convinced or not, don't you think?

@JLJ8039 2 года назад

@@nicolab2075 Hi Nicola! I think in the beginning, like when I was a small child, you are taught to believe in God. You are told he is real by the adults that raise you, and so you trust that is the truth. Some things in the story, may not make sense, but I think the concept of faith takes care of any discrepancies you catch. Faith is belief in the absence or in spite of evidence, and you train for faith as you grow up in church. So suspension of disbelief comes easier for you. I think this is also why religious people start instilling these beliefs when you are little . If I told you the same stories in the bible as a 30 yr old vs a 5 yr old, its going to be easier to convince you without any evidence as a child. Once you are an adult and you experience more of the world around you, I do believe you have to choose to either ignore any evidence to the contrary or to continue to believe in a god even if there is lack of evidence that a god exists in order stay religious.

@nicolab2075 2 года назад

@@JLJ8039 Hi! Thanks for the friendly reply. That all rings true to me. I'd just make one suggestion - that adults who move away from faith are not necessarily ignoring the evidence. They may simply find it unconvincing. Which is why, as you say, religions try to catch 'em young. I was not brought up religious and have never been convinced, which is why I asked the question.

@JLJ8039 2 года назад

@@nicolab2075 Hi Nicola! It's understand. Thank you for the friendly question! I agree with you on your note about finding evidence unconvincing. That's certainly how it started for me. Just that the more I searched for answers I realized that I had not found a single actual evidence of the existence of a God. Even those things that were provided to me as evidence of a God since the start, upon scrutiny, I had to conclude they were never evidence to begin with but religious dogma.

@roofieandraggy16 2 года назад

Fellow athiest here. I can tell you with 1000% certainty i am kinder and more moral than sooooooo many zealots "christians" i know.

@thejakelegion 2 года назад

Right, because being kind is all that's important.

@sudhanvakashyap297 2 года назад

*insert Obama giving medal to Obama meme*

@roofieandraggy16 2 года назад

@@sudhanvakashyap297 insert i own way too many guns.

@om617yota8 2 года назад

Interesting discussion. Atheist myself, and the idea of not telling my kid I'm an atheist and playing the religious role would be flatly unacceptable to me. Just a non starter on so many levels.

@arleensantos3397 2 года назад

It was so painful trying to follow the line of conversation when frequently it’s getting off topic and interrupting each other… I’m sorry, I’m annoyed….

@alanparedes2034 2 года назад

I'm 61. I've been an atheist since a teen.

@1979wood 2 года назад

Do not leave this earth without Jesus.

@maryann7619 2 года назад

I'm sorry 😞

@emmajones8590 3 месяца назад

Me too. I am 70 next birthday.

@emmajones8590 3 месяца назад

@@maryann7619 What are you sorry about?

@Military-gradenutella3068 2 года назад

Turn it around: “Should I tell our teenager that her father has become a theist?” I doubt that it wouldn’t even be a question? Because guilt. Religion-placed guilt.

@emmajones8590 3 месяца назад

Like a Jew, or a Muslim. Or a Hindu, or Buddhist.

@jansilloway325 2 года назад

A 14 year old will be relieved to hear doubts and uncertainty.

@ms.suzanna2511 2 года назад

My Husband and I are of different faiths, our Son and Daughter have grown up knowing and seeing their Father have the utmost respect for me and my religion and vice versa - love and compassion, honesty and trust, faithfulness and support have been our Guiding Force. Best of everything to the caller and THANK YOU Dr John.

@Laker62282 2 года назад

From what century was this question asked? It really isn’t a big deal to be an atheist.

@sweetkids9 2 года назад

I'm a firm believer in living life out in the open in front of kids.It's healthy to teach your kids open communication and to know how to disagree and work though something in a healthy way. Some day kids will decide what they believe in life, regardless. Might as well show them what life is like at a young age. They see through things anyway. :)

@apaulotroughtzmantz2914 2 года назад

I think this woman had a few too many cups of coffee before this call

@Dwights_trash_can 2 года назад

No kidding 😳 this call could have been 10 minutes without all the outburst of randomness

@ethan4048 2 года назад

Glad I left the faith when my daughter was 3. One less painful conversation lol

@216trixie 2 года назад

Good.

@rn2787 6 месяцев назад

It's one thing to make your partner respect your beliefs, but making them lie is ridiculous. I know she wasn't trying to hurt him, but she has by not respecting his beliefs in everyday life. I hope she can get enough courage to apologize and to be honest with people that actually should know. It's hard to apologize, but divorce or living a lie is worse.

@carlo6912 2 года назад

Most of the nastiest people I have met are believers while the kindest most caring are non believers.

@neodaltiair8624 2 года назад

Goes both ways...study and judge the teachings of the religion over the people.

@Cathy-xi8cb 2 года назад

I have no idea what my father thought about religion. And I didn't care. I knew what he was like as a person. I suspect that he was a cultural Catholic. But I couldn't have cared less what he thought or believed.

@emmajones8590 3 месяца назад

My father never talked about those kinds of things either. My mother was an atheist, but went to church about once every 2 years, as a social outing. My dad never went. We kids were sent to church, which we found intensely boring. The reasons given were diverse: - What would the neighbours say, if you didn't go to church / Sunday school? - We want a couple of child free hours on a Sunday morning. - When you apply for a job after school, you'll need a reference from your minister.

@pey7777 2 года назад

The vast majority of people only join a religion because that's what their parents believed and basically forced them to follow suit. I was raised in a family where we were taught to make our own choices about faith and that there is no wrong answer, and as a result, I have been an athiest for my entire life. I am spiritual, but not in a way that conforms to organized religion or to the judeo-christian belief in god.

@v.m.4453 2 года назад

In a country where a large sum of the population is secular, this is an issue? Jesus, get a life lady!

@ansontilford 2 года назад

Unfortunately, this is pretty common in the US. Anyone who is not a bleeding heart Christian is viewed as strange or an outcast.

@H.A.L96 2 года назад

I'm atheist, and I don't believe in blindly following a religion or even a political party.

@Givemegymtips 2 года назад

I’ve been an atheist for 12 years. It doesn’t have any relevance to my children.

@capostatus937 2 года назад

She mine as well get used to it, a lot of people are turning away from religion not just her dad

@janelleg597 2 года назад

Wokism and politics is the new religion. Same thing, different package

@Jelly._.cat._.1 2 года назад

I’m atheist, my kid is not old enough for the religion talk. But when she is, I will let her follow whatever is in her heart and support her and not argue or give my reasons. I will say one reason though and that is “the only way we are ever going to find out if god is real is we have to die to see if there is a heaven or not. Please don’t go doing that, because that’s cray cray”. If there really is a heaven, I highly doubt they will reject me and all other 90% of non-believers that are good citizens

@sometimesitdobelikethatdoe 2 года назад

Dude get to the point like there’s so many side bars going on

@Matt-cr4vv Год назад

Being allowed to question faith and make that choice for myself at their children’s age would’ve been amazing growing up instead of being forced to practice the faith as I was expected to do. It would be a refreshing culture change to allow people to openly look into this stuff and truly choose for themselves without the familial pressure that keeps so many people in line.

@mv7374 2 года назад

I'm pretty sure the kid's not gonna care lol I feel it's more that she doesn't want her kid leaving christianity

@216trixie 2 года назад

Good for dad!

@thejakelegion 2 года назад

Nope. Bad for dad. Bad for the family. Bad.

@216trixie 2 года назад

@@thejakelegion Waking up to reality is always good.

@thejakelegion 2 года назад

@@216trixie I guess if it leads to the change necessary rather than accepting bad ideas, sure :)

@bubaba8938 2 года назад

I wish i could believe in god but i just don't feel anything when being in church and see no logic in suffering of kids and cannot get why god would allow that

@emmajones8590 3 месяца назад

It would be nice to believe in an afterlife, with or without a 'god' being involved. But I find the concept unlikely.

@leonardu6094 2 года назад

Geez, lady, shut up and let John talk.

@MichaelJones-rn2pq 2 года назад

This woman would make most any man lose his faith in a loving God if he had to live with her more than a week. The best I can describe her is that her candle is burning too bright.

@JM.TheComposer 2 года назад

This woman sounds like the "oranges lady" that called The Ramsey Show a few years ago. The call is on RU-vid and it's hilarious!

@Michael-ft9pm 2 года назад

If it were me, I would be filing for divorce the next day.

@JudePi-jx7yo 5 месяцев назад

Him or her?

@Michael-ft9pm 5 месяцев назад

@@JudePi-jx7yo Her

@actiondefence 5 месяцев назад

I really don't understand religious faith. You believe in religion, good for you 👍🏻 You don't believe, good for you 👍🏻 I just don't understand why it's important to someone else. I've met people who have religion and I'm happy for them. Gives them a blueprint for life, helps them get through, great stuff. But the same people have had a problem with me not believing. Absolutely baffling.

@larkiess 5 месяцев назад

Their delusion convinces them their loved ones are going to hell. That's why they can be so insufferable

@bilbobaggins4403 7 месяцев назад

She seems like a little kid ....giggling....nervous laughter...kind of like a teenager.

@UnAnonKnown 2 года назад

I mean, the alternative is to have him lie to his kids about his faith for the rest of his life. Call me crazy, but I don’t think God would support lifelong lying to your children.

@TestTest-ei4gi 2 года назад

I’d have a wildly different view of my father if I found out he was an atheist.

@che66684 2 года назад

Jesus Christ, she took forevermore to get to the point 🤦🏻‍♂️

@neodaltiair8624 2 года назад

Kind of a strange call.

@letsgetfunky7230 2 года назад

This sounds like a thanksgiving discussion

@joceyrocks8840 2 года назад

I love this caller

@shelleycampbell623 2 года назад

she interrupted to much .. she seemed sweet but she should of been quiet more sorry

@josh.kaptur 2 года назад

Sorry, he’s been an atheist for 14 years and you’re thinking it’s time to tell your teenager - you absolutely have not lived with integrity in front of your kid. Your conversation with her should start with a confession that you’ve been dishonest because you were scared but that was wrong.

@jayc4715 2 года назад

Atheist = reality

@rockpaperscissors. 28 дней назад

How much of an age gap are we talking about here? This woman still seems immature after 15+ years of marriage. 🤔

@RushFan84 2 месяца назад

In the beginning, man made god in his image; petty, evil, jealous and vengeful.

@parsleysue11 2 года назад

If she is a true believer she’s going to struggle. There very foundation is now broken.

@olabashanda 2 года назад

Brene Brown “Shame eats secrecy for breakfast.” If I quoted that correctly

@VeryPersian 2 года назад

Not a real doctor

@emmajones8590 3 месяца назад

I can't imagine this even being a thing in a European country. In Iran or somewhere, maybe.

@oscarpicon7164 2 года назад

New Seattle band: Delony’s Garden Nirvana in Chains Jam

@Smallvillefreak 2 года назад

11 month old within 1st year of marriage? There’s a lot here.

@carnivoreRon 2 года назад

Ha Ha I do crossfit....bwaaa ha ha ha ha Having faith does not mean being part of a religious organization or congregation. I think some people equate a religious organizion with faith. Not me.

@ColeBeasley 2 года назад

This chick's wntire world view is based on magic.. lol

@Julia-us1nu 2 года назад

Heading towards a brighter world without religion

@thejakelegion 2 года назад

If my wife became an atheist and tried to foist that worldview on my children, I'd divorce her and do everything possible to take the kids.

@MsHenrei 2 года назад

Good luck with that.... Your Honor, she wants my children to know about atheism. Hence, may I have primary custody? 😅😅

@thejakelegion 2 года назад

@@MsHenrei don't worry sweetheart, I know how courts work. :) I'd get the job done.

@ColeBeasley 2 года назад

This is why believing in magic is bad..

@BryceCorbitt 2 года назад

Nothing against this lady's decision, but for me, losing faith would be grounds for divorce. Corinthians 6:14 "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?" Though it's also worth noting Matthew 5:32 says "But I say to you that everyone who divorces his wife, except on the ground of sexual immorality, makes her commit adultery, and whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery." so I would be forcing my hypothetical spouse into committing adultery.

@tigerprincess11 9 месяцев назад

Pandola? 🐼

@mirabella2154 2 года назад

Something very sad about someone who loses his faith.

@theshunnedBandersnatch 2 года назад

What's sad about it?

@jwehrli6 2 года назад

@@theshunnedBandersnatch His distenation. maybe not sad but scary

@Hamyhamster24 2 года назад

i lost faith in God, but i found faith through my own spiritual journey. I'm much happier now. so i can't say whos sadder: the person who feels sad for the aetheist, or the person who found happiness in atheisms.

@mirabella2154 2 года назад

@@Hamyhamster24 Alcoholics find happiness in alcohol too. They are still sad.

@andrebyman8744 2 года назад

@@jwehrli6 I don’t think there’s anything to be afraid of until we can tell for sure this destination exists. All we have now is spoken and written tradition.

@tacooflove6175 2 года назад

She is what makes that marriage holy but being with someone who doesn’t believe makes the intimacy shallow. Like you have a part of your life that gets harder and harder to share.

@alanparedes2034 2 года назад

Speak for yourself

@firefly9838 2 года назад

Yup in your experience that’s the case maybe.

@SongofBeauty Год назад

She was so annoying.

@jwehrli6 2 года назад

She is taking the whole thing very lightly. She doesn't seem worried about being unequally yoked with a non believer. What is she going to do if her husband tells her to not go to church.

@LisaLisaCJ 2 года назад

Well she can’t divorce him. She has to submit to him even if he is an unbeliever right? That’s what the BIBLE says….

@thejakelegion 2 года назад

So funny when people like Lisa try to act like they know what a comprehensive Christian worldview and life looks like. Sorry hun, can't cherry pick.

@LisaLisaCJ 2 года назад

@@thejakelegion not cherry picking sarcastically answering his question lol. But nice try buddy

@subjecttochrist 2 года назад

if he was a professing christian, then he never 'lost' his faith, he never HAD faith.

@karadaniel6334 2 года назад

I disagree, I think you should listen to the Holy Spirit, (which seems to be still within him). He has not spilled this out to his children before now, Which makes me believe that his reasons for his crisis of faith have more to do with emotional maturity and upbringing. Your children need an anchor, not a sailboat. Why subject them to confusion in an already very antiChrist world? He’s going through this time of deconstruction of his faith, and however long it is, it is his journey. I always think of the scripture “Woe to any of you who lead my little ones away from my teaching, it would be better for him to have a heavy millstone hung around his neck and be thrown into the deepest ocean.” Matthew 18:6 Don’t share this with them, continue as you are and be the Christlike example that you have been.

@theshunnedBandersnatch 2 года назад

She clarified that her husband finished his deconstruction process and is now an atheist. He's not going back. It doesn't make sense to hide this from their *teenage* daughter; she'll figure it out & wonder why her parents were dishonest about this when they emphasized honesty & truth in every other area of life.

@phil3924 2 года назад

The fool has said in his heart there is no God. Next...

@loolooenve211 2 года назад

God is not afraid of your questions. Are you afraid of His answers? When God contradicts you, and He will, will you humble yourselves or exert yourselves

@Raul1CC 2 года назад

She should RUN! I wouldn't want my kids in the home as an Atheist!!

@MsHenrei 2 года назад

Really? Why? What do you think will happen?

@ludoludo80 2 года назад

lol 😂 let’s hope for you to stay single… you scary !

@GardenerEarthGuy 2 года назад

Keep them away from him- he'll transition next.

@ethan4048 2 года назад

You're not the brightest are you?

@mirabella2154 2 года назад

🤣

@sXePunkV2 2 года назад

No matter what the subject, your comments on this channel are always hateful and bizarre. I hope you get the help that you so desperately need

@karadaniel6334 2 года назад

Protect them, don’t tell them. Matthew 18:6

@nicolab2075 2 года назад

Why not just let them decide for themselves whether this particular ancient story is convincing to them? They might choose another one, or none at all.

@thejakelegion 2 года назад

Amen, Kara. 100% correct.

@strangeaslife 2 года назад

Yikes. As someone who was not raised Christian but grew up around plenty of Christ loving Christians who confused me with their nasty, toxic behavior ... this quote is enlightening. Thanks for shedding some light on that for me. It makes so much more sense now.

@nicolab2075 2 года назад

@@strangeaslife I just read it too, because of your message. It's pretty awful to think that literally millions of people use this hideous book for moral guidance!!!