Shraddha Issue 😔 - What Really Happened in Kerala College?! | Madan Gowri | MG 

இப்படி ஒரு விஷயமே நடந்தது மதன் கௌரி சொல்லித்தான் யாருக்கெல்லாம் தெரியும் 😢😢

Really appreciate you bro for coming forward and speaking for Sherdha….. lots of Lov ❤ from kerala

I am from Kerala, i have faced such issues when i was studying in a reputed private school, during the year 2005 to 2013 . My father is a farmer, i belong to a middle class family but still my father afforded to give me a convent education. But other students parents were highly educated and employees. Because of this reason my teachers hated me.I don't know y. They deliberately make me fail in exams. They insult me inside the staff room and verandas. They also made character assisination for talking to boys. They cornered me among other students. My own classmates didn't talked to me for being a farmer's daughter. I have cried alot. I even decided to move to govt skl. But my parents supported me. They stood with me. Now i studied MA, B. Ed and am a Teacher. Thanking my parents for being a great support in my life ❤️🙏🏻

KG College of arts and science, Coimbatore. Vice principal , Anuja. I faced a lot of similar mental trauma in my five years of college life. And not just me. I m sure many others too did face it because of her !

For those who wants to know the college name, IT IS AMAL JYOTI

I studied in a women's college.. we had a lady HOD.. believe me she can speak bad about your character if you ask for one day leave (for a family function)..when I studied there I missed most of my cousin's wedding.. my HOD also had 2 daughters.. even though she spoke very bad about the girls studied under her.. karma will hit her harder ✌

I'm from Andhra Pradesh and I'm studying in the worst college.....as madan Anna said I can relate to each and every line...in our college i think each and every student are facing some metal torture because of the management..... and here comes the vise principal,the worst person of our college.....he doesn't know how to treat a girl....he will just shout loudly infront of every one....i don't know one day even my life may end like shraddha 🥺. Need justice for her🙏💔

I also studied in reputed institution which is famous for freedom. But now the current management is following similar trend of moulding students . I loved my college in my time period for the freedom and responsibility it gave and moulded us a good leader. But today in the name of guidance or discipline they are literally moral policing by bringing fear to all students mind that not to question anything . Training the younger generations to simply adapt, adjust, accept in the name of moulding

Actually I want to share an incident. I'm from Coimbatore. This problem is not only with one college or it doesn't stop with one person. Each and every individual students faces the same issues in different ways in each college (even whether if it is esteemed institute or college or university) Even one month back I had the same issue with my HOD where even i thought of going somewhere or end my life. But thankgod today I'm alive, I somehow managed and changed my decision. But if I think I'll be the one like Shraddha back a month ago😢. I'm a MSc student somehow bound back but think of the little one (shraddha) how much she would have suffered 💔💔💔 since I was in that situation, I know how much would've been painful to shraddha💔 I request only one thing from the staffs🙏🙏🙏 We are the students We doesn't know everything We are here to learn and experience You as the staffs are here to teach and explain us So don't be rude, don't show your angry towards us, Don't have vengance on us, We don't expect you to treat like your children but treat us with humanity. Because once spoken words cannot be taken back😢😢 Only one life❤ it's precious, so leave us & let us to live our life!❤

Madan I am from Kerala and I am very happy that you posted this video may this video reach everyone♥️

I had faced a similar kind of situation. In my final year 7th semester I used to go to college a bit late because I used to be a bit slow, immersed into depression I was going through... At max 15 mins only.. But in rest of the things and rest of the times I would be prompt in my works like record submission, assignment etc., one day one of the profs who was taking the 1st session was there before even I went to class.. I stood in the door itself seeking his permission to let me in... He could've just warned and let me in.. Instead in front of everyone in the class, he told me that I'm fit for nothing in this world 😢... No one knows how much it was painful.. Already I was in someother depression this added on to it.... But I seriously got triggered of that incident.. I sat for placements at that sem and got placed into 2 companies ( CTS & Infosys ).. Why I did this was, the students who are not placed in any of the companies are also very badly treated in our college...And I was not ready for any more humiliation.. 😢

Same problem naa padicha college la undu. Ulla pogum pothey mobile not allowed nu oru paper la sign eh vangiduvanga. Enna problem naalum parents ah kutitu vara soliduvanga. Intha mari strict college la thaa parents um sethu viduvanga, so that we will be so disciplined. Ellathayum face panni thaan aaganum. College la students counselling vaikalam to avoid these kind of suicides.

I think it’s high time to install cameras in every corner of the colleges such as the HOD room, faculties rooms, and CLASS ROOMS! Not to restrict the students but to save their lives!

Money plays a huge role in every sensitive case

I too faced this kind of incident in college last year. It's the top ranked and famous women's college in Coimbatore (PSGRKCW). When there was some changes in my marks, I asked for correction but class tutor and Hod was not ready to correct my marks and used some abuse words and even scolded my parents in front of my classmates. Immediately I brought this issue to Principal. She understands and apologized and gave assurance that this incident will never take place in future and finally said it was confidential. But the behavior of Hod continued the very next day and she also threatened us like "Unaku seat kuduthathae thappu & ne epdi degree vangura nu paatharen". Again I reported to Principal, secretary and dean of Student Affairs, but they said that hod is going to retire soon and she has some health issues. So, you get adjust with her and focus on your studies. Soon my parents raised the complaint that how they can focus on studies when your staff behaves like this daily and so on. They changed the issue on my side and closed the grievances by giving the reply in mail that your daughter has violated the rules and if this continues the severe action will be taken. We knew that, they will turn the issue on our side. So, one of my friends recorded all the conversations btw me & Hod in our classroom. Unfortunately we couldn't use that. As there was no mistake from my side and me and my parents keep on asking about the violation of rules and false accusations but they used to ignore those mails and grievances. The sad part is that no students from my class asked about this issue or tried to stop her. As hod used such abusive and colloquial words and yelled in front of my fellowmates. The staffs of whole Department behaved with full of vengeance by reducing my marks for unnecessary reasons, talking indirectly, marking absent when I was present. Classmates didn't kept good relation as they was before this incident. The whole year was like hell. Me and my 2 friends was completely down and we're in the mentality that we don't want to continue our studies. Though we had our parents support we completed our studies successfully last month.

This remembers me q quote which says - the brightest smile hide the darkest pain. This quote can relate to this if it was a normal suicide case . Some people say just being in relationship can make people depressed or sad this is the mentality of most of the time . There is problem other than being in relationship lives gives you hard times which we can't even manage. When life gives u hard time we people can do nothing but to fake a smile 💔💔

Most of the college students wants to change their College after first year😢

Once an individual crosses their 18yrs, I think they should be treated as adults and not as children...they should be given the freedom to think and act...each person is different...never try to shape them like the bricks in the wall...

I've experienced a similar kinda trauma during my time in college. There were numerous issues with the infrastructure, management, and other aspects of the college. But I've discovered that if you ever make a mistake and get caught, they'll punish you poorly regardless of how small the mistake was, up until your very final day of college. They'll start to notice every single thing that you're doing with the help of their so called spy and will treat u like u committed a serious crime, they'll literally see u like you're the only notorious person walking around on earth... They'll literally make u feel weird about yourself, with their judging looks on you... I too had suicidal thoughts multiple times, I had no one beside me to talk about this at that time and went through alot alone... Such a terror experience it was.. Rip shraddha, I feel you😢💔 I hope one day our society will change🤞🏻

I have been extremely lucky to have had an opportunity to leave India during my school life but my heart aches for everyone struggling in the system every day. I have had a terrible terrible experience in India, and I'm sure everyone had it worse than me. I have been physically abused, beaten so bad because of just suspicions of stealing teacher's possession, well, the guys in the entire classroom got called in and beat up individually with a massive ruler. In the end, it was in the teacher's handbag the whole time. Some were bleeding, some couldn't return to school for a few days. We never got any apology. Our parents encouraged teachers to beat us up if we misbehave, so none of us told our parents. Besides, we get beat up for growing slightly long nails, haircut with lower number on the side, long hair, for improper uniform, lack of ID card, bad handwriting, not bringing homework, for getting rank any lower than 10. Man I ended up in depression that affected my whole life. I left India to study in a completely contrasting western education system. In the west, phones are not allowed, but students can keep it switched off, teachers are not allowed to take it. In college, students are free to use their phones and laptops, even headphones with music, it is entirely up to students. As long as they don't make noise or distract others. Everyone is also sensible enough. If students have the drive, they will study hard and achieve, and if don't have the drive, then they won't be successful, teachers do not beat students. The punishments are simply shouting and detentions. I hope Indian schools/ colleges can be like this one day.

Bro 3 days before Thiruvanamalai govt agri college la exact situation...a 21 yo girl commited suicide and in her letter she wrote about the institution's mental torture

Using mobile phones are common these days. I completed my college 10 years back. We used mobile phones in our college which was bit normal those days. But now after a decade, I’m shocked to see the restrictions of using phones. Let government regulate on imposing these rules on students.

I had experienced the same in my college, but life is very big compared to anything don't loose your life for unwanted people, instead you should reach a place were they can't do anything with you on that time you should show them...What's the student Power...

Colleges are taking advantage because of the parents who don’t believe in their children. You can notice college management won’t be treating the students who have supportive parents with the same arrogant behaviour. Parents Pls do change! It’s high time to believe your children and communicate with them. They are kids without any background other than their parents. Pls be supportive!

Iam from Kerala and feeling so sad to tell this!Many political parties are engaging this and changes the case's direction to their hidden agenda!Justice is necessary but we must avoid political games😏

Faced all these thing in my college... Blackmailing.. Targeting the students..playing with internals,..backlogs.. OMG..overcome all those things and completed my degree in this April 2023.. Everything need too changed bro.... From Andhrapradesh😢😢

Anna , Tamilnadu Engineering colleges are similar or much more worst like this. This kind of torture starts from school , the level of physical and mental torture faced by barely 5-6 year olds in school is just unbearable. The same cunning attitude continues in college. Character assassination is the most used weapon to humiliate students. I KNOW A PRINCIPLE IN CHENNAI COLLEGE WHO STRAIGHT UP TOLD A GIRL TO DIE , IF SHE WANTS TO BRING MOBILE TO COLLEGE. THESE PEOPLE SHOULD FACE THE KARMA OF WHAT THEY DID. THIS IS NOT ONE MANAGEMENT , THIS IS 90% OF MANAGEMENT.

Thanks for understanding the situation and support them ❤ from Kerala

I graduated from a private college in Kerala about 20 years back and have endured similar mental torture during the course of my engineering. It was realized soon that scoring top marks has nothing to do with how successful you are in your career later on. It is utterly disappointing to see that the extreme scrutiny by the college management has not changed a bit in the past 2 decades. So many lives lost, so much of mental trauma. All for what?

13:20 to 13:42 💯 true..💯Thank you 🔥MG🔥 anna for talking about the atrocities that are happening to the students .

I too faced humiliation in a school located in Nagercoil until 2007. My family was financially unstable, and the tuition fees and other expenses were very high. They used to post a list of students who hadn't paid their dues in every classroom and at the main entrance, humiliating us based on my caste. I was ill-treated, and although I asked my family to change my school, they never listened to me. These traumas led me to cut off contact with everyone from that school, and I haven't stayed in touch with any of my former classmates. During my 7th grade, I participated in an essay competition and the social studies teacher said to the office assistant, "Why are you enrolling these caste people?" I know that particular teacher will not be successful in their career. If I were to meet her now, I would give her a tight slap. The school encouraged humiliation and casteism. The name of the school is Good She***d, Nagercoil.

Now I am studying 11th. so, soon I have to join college but after hearing this new and reading these comments I am really become afraid . I really feel bad for shraddha akka 😢💔💔

my HOD literally saved me from not getting dismissed from college by my evil department teachers. she looked like god to me that time. but because of some bad teachers all the teachers are getting bad name.

I did my UG in Stella Maris College. I did experience the same trauma which this girl had gone through. I literally waited for half a day after college finishes, begging for my ID card before the staff room when my phone was confiscated and they didn't even respond and respect me. They just treated me as an accused. I can't even imagine that situation right now, that much I've been mentally affected. We had the very strict HOD with zero friendly nature and she thinks that student will respect her only if she has a very high attitude. And the teachers and hod of my department make fun of us by making us to beg and cry for ID card when our mobile phone was confiscated. Even if we have exams, they don't give ID cards, we have to get bonafide certificate. And for attendance we have to run after every break, we can't even sit and eat peacefully. I didn't expect that my college life would be this worst because of my department.

S same thing happening in most of the colleges, I m 2014 pass out from mookambigai college of engg cse dept. They did the same thing, I haven't used my phone during class hours, I was staying with my mom alone for my studies so phone s mandatory... During break hours I used my phone, one lady lecture entered my classroom earlier and forcefully taken my mobile from my bag which I kept inside and hanover the phone to HOD....Then I faced lot of troubles bcoz of that incident.. But they gave the ph back to other students but not for me...

I am from Sri Lanka and I just now finished my schooling. Many schools in here are treating children like trash and people are not even talking about about it. Parents encourage that kind of teaching. I don't know what kind of mentality they have. One incident that I can remember is I was going inside of the school with my friend and I don't know that there is a rule to not to walk with another fellow girl student with the school uniform. I don't know what kind of a mindset they have but the head of student discipline(btw he is a Buddhist monk) called us and blamed us for walking together into the school. We told that we don't know such rule and apologized for that but he started to use racist words on use just because we are Tamil and the school is only promoting Buddhism. I still can't forget that incident and also there were many incidents where he called only Tamil students to clean his room and all kind of the cleaning works. Some teachers treat us like shit, calling us using inappropriate words and blaming for even a minute mistake. I am glad that I cam out of that hell and I still feel pity for the ones that still study there. If someone can take action against these things it would be mentally good for many students.

I was an outstanding student when I was doing my UG with university ranking however not a person buttering the HOD as she expected. I ended up in her bad books where she even poked her nose into my personals and threatened me. I stood up for myself and told her she didn’t have any business with my personal stuffs apart from my studies. So she had a chance to take a revenge on me during my final year practicals. I came to know from another friendly staff that she was trying to tell the external that I am not a good student and wanted her to fail me in the practicals. My good time worked out there and the external did not listen to her and mentioned that I did the right thing. So students please stand up for yourselves. Nothing is more worth than our own lives.

En life la aana true story bro 🖤🥺mentally na depressed ayita attendance erundhum oru subject block panitanga oru backlock kuda ellama padichutu erundha aana carelessness attitude nala oru Mam enna block pani venumne fail panitanaga…. Na sethalum edha maraka maten worst experience in my life 🖤 without writing my exam na fail ayita na yeludhu erundha 80+ sure ah I would have got 🖤 Kind request to all teachers hod unga attitude ah students life la katadhinga 🙏🏻

OK bro thank you so much It's awesome to hear your calcification of this sad incident... thank you Now I want to tell you about what is happening in one of my school where I did work in Sri Lanka and because I'm also from Sri Lanka I don't want to tell that's school name but it was a truth.. It's a bilingual abjects school.. there are more than 900 students studying on in separation of girls and boys abroad Meeting of staffs are alot and happens alot till it makes us into intention that ah! Wow it will happen by this meeting very well... because lot of time spending waste at the moment while there are more important events they we want to implement between themselves better than what we are discussing in this kind of shot meetings... Every single meeting happens with no update.. by whoever arranges us to that.. No proper time schedule for running it on better way Management calls or regards about parents to us as they are only our CUSTOMERS and director also says like that... No proper care of staffs they come school to dedicate themselves along with students... Whatever a small mistake happened by a staff, then the Holy Management cuts the time of school and arranges a immediate meeting for what?? Only for cheat that staff in front of all other staffs describing he like this and like that as there are one big powerful time bomb blasted in the school.. oh my god oh my god... this is not only a one or two times.. Every year its like that.. No rest there to students... because time of classes there are approximately around 18 hours... haha... They Don't understand how to make them relax of mind of students to playing or doing some funs etc.. The Holy Management touches they hands in the staffs salaries, acting unaware of the staffs worries and salaries also aren't enough for themselves... Students now are not interested to improve their skills and studies especially in studying with seeking happily... Staffs leave from school and students leave... the suffering is that land is so bigger, all kind of statements there have to improve the opportunity of developing the skills.. but the Holy management are only taking the political actions how to collect monies for their customers... I meant parents.. Appreciations are so so low through staffs by management... so staffs are like that and students are on a way.. but fee rate is so huge

Professor romba bad words la thaniya kutitu poi thituranga.... Tourcher panuranga. Boys kuda compare pani pesuranga,,,,,😑😑

Why schools and colleges do not realize that each child ,girl ,boy has individuality and independent thinking...guidance is required..not punishments

I had so much stress in college hostel life. But thanks to my HOD and some staff in our cs department. Even keralites use to come and study in our college. It's in keelakarai and we had enough facilities and freedom. Now I am really thankful for them. But nowadays teachers are so unfriendly inspite of this modern era. I see my kids teachers back in India were so jealous and some even acted like having mental issues and use to hurt the feelings of them, insult them, bully them and always argue with the parents. 😢

today in my college suicide was done by a girl 4th year bds rvs sulur dental college but no one knows for which reason she commited suicide talk about this so that she get some justice

Wonderful! Thank u. Everyday bring out a new video on the same mater.

This is what happened in my college too (Chennai).. same incident... Hostel room la suicide panitanga.. same protest happened.. but management elarayu immediate ah ooruku anupitanga.. warden thapichutanha.. after 1 month college open pananga.. then incident nadantha thadayame ila.. 😢 this is not the first time.. need strict laws against these kind of activities in colleges..

I completed my Bachelor degree in 1999. During my 2nd year small incident happened. Myself and my friends was at college bus stop, just waiting for bus. Everybody keep rushing to sit comfortably and travel, in the same way me and my friend was rushing to catch bus and sit. We unknowingly pushed one professor who was also rushing to catch same bus. She asked us to which department we belong. We just informed and sat. Next day, Our department professor called to staff room and asked us about yesterday incident. Though we explained, she asked us to give apology letter to her. My friend abide by saying yes as she was afraid. I strongly said cannot, as it is public place and we are not aware that she is a Professor. As I was strong, the Professor told us that this will be 1st warning, if happened next time will be punished severely. Some Professors and Lecturers are like that taking advantage of the situation but not all.

Ayooo.....Antha ponu pakavea evlo azhaga siricha mugama irukum...

Our gvt collage lecture HOD principal also very good and lovely and very experienced lectures ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

Here every indian students have to join together and we need to change our education system 😢

Colleges not just blackmailing students, it is blackmailing staffs also, their standard operating procedure designed by Management is the most responsible, but they escape all the times.

Even our clg also have a rules like sending students back to home who were coming late even 5 mins also to the clg.. Clg poonalu staff illa so late ha pooro appadi poona v2ku send panniduraaga

I am from karnataka I am studying nursing course bro.The main issue in my college is collecting penalty or fine that also in thousands for each and every things it is making mental pressure on students.

Solution to this problem is like special attention or survey should be carried out in every college and schools in India so that we may get how many people are facing same type of problem ,and ensure this won't happen anymore.

😡 like this incident happened to me also, but I face it with boldness . Students should speak boldly and have courage to face it and should Share your problems with the family and friends

Madan, you are 100% correct. You made a very good analysis and presentation in this video. It is true that students get highly depressed when their phone gets confiscated by college management and when some disciplinary action is carried out by the college management on the phone issue. I know some youngsters (boys) who couldn't focus on studies after their phone got confiscated and then they had to go through counselling sessions. Students also should understand that they could talk to their parents about anything these days. Parents will surely help their children by giving moral support and get their phone back to them. College doesn't have any right to take possession of another person's property including the phone.

Madan Anna, Whatever you told about the college management is exactly wright... Everything you told is bitter truth... No one can deny..., Almost every college in India like this only...... There is not at all liberty in college campus.... 😞

Justice for shraddha ⚖️⚖️⚖️♎♎♎

I’m an MPhil graduate from the reputed Clg in Chennai. I’m a Muslim. I scored 94% in my MSc nd I’m the topper of my dept. but they gave Gold medal to another girl who scored 89% They rejected me it’s coz im a Muslim. My HOD told me at straight as “even if u study well, everythg is in my hand. U can’t get anythg unless I prefer to give.” I cried a lot nd my parents convinced me to be calm nd advised me to hand over the issue to God. This one I cannot forget in my life nd I will never forgive my HOD Too. Hope God will tc of everythg.

Bro idhu pola dha (shanmuga college of allied health science,selam) intha college mentally torture kudukuranga.. 😔

Very true Madan, most private colleges are owned by politicians and highly influential ppl. I am a mother of a 24yr old who was a happy student during his school days but he lost all interest in studies thanks to the constant torture by his college management, nothing personal but overall the students are stressed out. I tried taking him for counseling etc but he only became more and more angry, shut himself up and stopped sharing any of his thoughts/ feelings with me. Becoz of which i am also helpless and unable to help/ guide him. Teachers and academic institutions are not equipped to groom the youth properly, in our country. No wonder students are also losing respect for teachers.

Super madan ye....Unnoda Honesty Pudichiruku....Thairiyama Ella issuem pesura....

Anna even in AIIMS medical college Delhi... A 24 year old boy died due to some problems in his pg entrance.....he was the topper in neetug😢

All students should join forces and get justice ⚖️

Wish theres a way to counsel children to handle stress in many situations today

While I was in MBA, I experienced the same thing when one of the staff took my mobile from my bag and gave it to the HOD, so I went to the HOD's office and told him I was traveling from the AP Board, which was a three-hour journey for me. He said I had given all my mobile phones to the principal. After that, I went to the Principal's office. Similarly, I told him, since my parents don't have an issue providing me with a mobile, why should you care if I have one? I didn't use my mobile in class, and I asked him without my permission who gave authority to our staff to touch student bags if I used my mobile in class. When he asked me to bring my parents, I told him it wouldn't work because they couldn't travel three hours up and three hours down. I will bring my parents' letter if they want, and I will overwrite in the letter that we have no problem with my daughter carrying a phone. After I got home, I told my family everything that happened in college. The next morning, I went to the Principle's room and took my fro. Mobile from his table. Some people create unnecessary things to prove themselves.

Madan we are still following your Odisha train mishap reports. So please post it once you will collect all further informations. awaiting 🥺 we need a justice for all decedents and Survivors

To compare this college issue I have studied in two colleges my MBA HOD and professors are god to us even I have faced this same issue in my college... My principal took my phone and my frnd phone went 2 her room in that time my HOD helped in that situation.. She return back our phones in that day itself... But my hod worried about that incident and say shud not repeat this again that's all after that we didn't do that mistake.. Soo some college and hod professors are good some of the college will be worst like this

The worst thing is this is normal is most of the colleges (even schools) all over india and students cant even fight back.If anyone fights back they blackmark them and wont allow them to attend campus interviews they will deliberately give arrears and torture them so no one raises their voice and accpets the hell these colleges are imposing on them. Government should intervene and take action against these colleges. Thanks madan for addressing thia issue.

Whoever facing such situations please stay strong. If you r feeling disturbed please share it with your family or your friends who u trust. Iam sure when you share u will get relieved and u can bounce back in life. Such things not only happens i college it happens even at work....... Life shows difficulties and v may have to cross difficult and psychos sometimes. Take it as a life journey or a experience andsec walk away. Do not take hasty decisions please. Think of your family for a sec.

10:19 Everyone talks about physical abuse but no one talk about mental abuse...it also same only it cause much depression and anxiety :(

U said absolutely true bro even my college also did like everytime . management rules nu solli rombo mental pressure pandranga ithuthan Inge rules nu solli ovvoru vaati um blackmail pandranga oru chinne problem kedecha pothum perusa aguratha irukatum ellame inthe private colleges pandre torture bro even shraddha ku nadanthe maari yaarukum nadake kudathu . And shraddha case enne achunu investigation mudunche apro detailed ahh explain pannunge.

Anna indha mari naraya schools layum nadakudhu after srinidhi like mental affect pandra mari pesuradhu if we did not make any work properly the teachers are using abusive words if we complain to principal there is no response

This happens in most of the colleges and doesn't just come out. Even in my college, if students laugh loudly in the buildings, come late to class or any reason ID card revolves all around the college and ends in HOD'S hand only. Some staffs do these while some just warn and some ignore. Then we have to beg, cry and so on. I don't think these are big mistakes. Even if they do these stuffs, students will repeat the same. Staffs have to be strict but that also has an extent. Most of the colleges try to close and save the reputation by blaming the students when it ends in suicide cases/murders. @ students if ur under stress instead of taking ur life talk to ur parents. Don't be afraid of them. They will be the only souls standing beside you irrespective of any issues and support. Some parents can be weird(rare) and if that's the case then talk to frnds or someone that you trust and let it out but parents should be the 1st to know or siblings. If ur mistake accept and try to be a better person or if its someones mistake live alive and fight for your justice. Pls eliminate suicide as a solution. Be gratitude enough that u have a chance to live because many innocent lives are taken away in natural accidents or intensional.

This kind of incident happened to my sister ,when she was 19 years old .Till now we don't know what exactly happened to her 😢. RIP SHRADDHA 🙏😔😢

Anna... Ethu co-education ahh irukarathala tha ethu veliya vanthuruku... But women's clg la etha vida innum neraya nadanthutu iruku...athala solla mudiyama eatho clg senthutomeyy 3 years thana padichutu poiruvoo nu sagichutu irukavaga tha inga neraya irukaga... Naa soldrathu women's clg la padikira ella pnnugalalaum relate pannika mudium...💔

these issues are not only happening in colleges but also in schools. certain teachers are way too srtict for no damn reason at all. my class teacher makes students stand outside the class that too during this peak summer when they arrive at 8.20 AM instead of 8.15 AM. incase if the student arrives after 8.20, he/she is marked absent for the whole day. the teacher still insists on bringing lunch towel to school as if we belong to 1st grade. if failed to bring lunch towel, the student is made to sit outside the class and eat lunch in front of all the staff and students (which is very humiliating). also GIRLS TOILET IS BEING LOCKED except for the recess time which is very unfair. what if a girl has some emergency and needs to use the restroom in between classes. when requested by the girls to open, the Headmistress was very rude about it and asked us to deal with it anyway. my class teacher is guilt-tripping students for the whole year regarding a small mistake which was committed at the beginning of the year. doesnt it humiliate an adolescent student. there are also some vulgar words used by the teachers to scold students in front of everyone which hurts them and gives them a bitter memory of school days. students ketta vaartha pesa koodaadhu naa teachers mattum pesalamaa? adhuvum apdi oru studenta thittalaamaa?

This happened even to my daughter,her principal caught her with mobile with ear phones and he took the mobile and earphones and scolded her badly.After some time he asked her to come to office to collect mobile,she apologize and he abused us and gave her mobile but he didn't returned earphones.our daughter felt very sad about his behavior but we supported her.This is happening everywhere,children pls share with parents so that they could help u

Super Madan Brother.. Ur absolute fact.. because now I'm undergoing exactly what ur saying ( I'm doing PG in govt institute) eventhough iam male student.. I'm not able to control my professor Torchal.. For chilli things.. But I kept in prayer and moving on. To continue my course sucessfuly.. Because I got the news from my seniors .since it's started..being like... Really I don't know yyy there are like... Seriously..

Even when i studied bcom its one the private college's in Chennai,its arts but surprisingly its very very strict i saw a girl standing outside whole day coz she had took long leave for chicken pox like that lots of torture happens in that college eg u cnt eat when ur hungry , restroom are so bad,u have to sit all hours and watch their classes no interval etc..

Even myseld faced this type of problem in my college too .. really not only at one college it was happening most of the student were facing this type of problems in there college ..

13th min Bro very true.. education is business these days...students are going through lot of stress.. especially plus1 plus2... professors are well educated... they should understand that they are the ones going to mould the students future ...they should be a little empathetic... try to think every student as their own child and try to motivate the children.. be little kind ..

Let the youngsters explore life in their collegehood. Don't try to make them down with your chilly mistakes(staffs).

During my college days, I also experienced a situation where the teacher humiliates me in front of my classmates for just talking to a boy while passing through the college corridor. The boy was also from my native place and he just says a hi and I giv a reply to that.... My teacher saw this...and she waited for class hours to question me about this... She scolded and humiliated me in front of my friends and classmates..... She blabbered all foul words and badmouthed me... She even stated me as similar to prostitute....... I had never experienced such a thing in my whole life... That trauma led to seizures and fell down unconsciously.... Later the managemnt intervined and admitted me in to the hospital...That humiliation and trauma cannot be erased from my memory..... What was the fault that I have done for suffering all those worse things in college life....

same problem in most of the colleges especially in a reputed autonomous college in perundurai,erode,tamilnadu.

Love you bro for sharing all recent updates ❤

I felt the same emotion, when I came out from HOD'S cabin for a issue which was pointless. The way they saw me made me feel bad. I feared seeing the world. Went back to hostel, spoke with my mom and sister about this, they asked me to come home. So I went to hostel wadern to ask permission, she enquired why I'm going to home in the weekday. I narrated the whole incident, without any delay she made a call to principal and also women's wing. The nxt day HOD and my adviser spoke with me and my parents and they assured that this will not happen again and the person who did this will be expelled. They did the same as they said. This incident took place when I enter 2nd yr of my clg. The first wk after clg reopened. But after this I got a bad image, it took almost 1 yr for my classmates to understand my situation.

This is a serious issues happening in so many colleges, even i encountered with many situations like this my teacher slut shamed me infront of boys in my class at canteen it was really traumatizing and embarrassing to even remember i didn't really expected this from her

Exactly, me being a fresher teacher in bangalore experienced a mental torture from my HOD. I just graduated from college worked in a company for 11 months and always had passion to teach... Eight months the HOD gave me a mental trauma.. And treated like her servant. Now this has made me sit at home and trauma has affected me badly.

Friends even if the world seems to be the end...never ever make such mistakes by hurting yourself.....even i have a lot of pressure and problems in my 19 years of age.....it time to unite....don't be alone...share your problems with parents or friends.....there is nothing more important than our life......Try to observe your pressure....

Really u r great bro. Speaking senseful matter very daringly. இந்த பொறுப்பு எல்லாருக்கும் இருந்தா நாட்டுல நிச்சயமா குற்றங்கள் குறையும். Hats off bro.

Same things had been done in schools also, it is more painful when someone hits you mentally, that keeps repeating in our minds like hell, once innocent parents are introduced to such respective staffs they will take advantage from them to yell at you in front of all the other classmates, to speak about you badly and teasing you with all the other students , In that situation you feel cornered and none of them would be able to help you with it , teaching is a god like profession. you can be able to teach without hurting someones emotion, because we are humans, we are able to understand each other .

yes ennakum edhu mari nadandhu iruku ethitaji for women's college ...na romba ve kashta pattu irukan that time 13years back epo nenaichalum romba kashtama irukum

This story reminded me of my college days where teachers/HOD used to harass students for silly and small things.Students felt the college was like a jail. College should be like a college not a jail. One student was laughing loud in class, teacher snatched his ID card and told him to collect his ID Card from HOD room by calling his parents. College is in Chennai and his parents stayed in Nagercoil (South Tamil Nadu).So he called his parents from Nagercoil to Chennai to receive his ID Card.

I did my UG in sathyabama University. I also faced a several problems in my college at Chennai. The same incident has been happened in my college. The girl got suicide in the hostel in the year 2017.

Put camera 🎥 in all collage HOD room and y give separate rooms in hod

Clg management ipd dha bro iruku.... Mentally breakdown pannama vda matiguranga oru sila staffs thappa pesuranga bro.....🥺 But namma oru porumaya irukanum indha suicide not a solution for this situation bro.....🥺🥺🥺🥺

A college in Chennai is also great for these f rules. Fortunately i have passed out this year and really thank covid for 2 years of my college life. An incident took place where a boy brought a hide and seek biscuit to college and a faculty saw that. Then he was sent to HOD cabin and wrote a letter to the Hod stating that he did a very big mistake and also got sign from HOD. Also, nowdays many colleges in Chennai have a rule of boys not talking with girls and they seriously follow it to an extent where in my college if my HOD sees a staff who is free, he will ask him to stand in the corridor so that the interaction between boys and girls can be avoided even when they get out of class and go to break or lunch. Yes there are some boys eho misbehave or verbally abuse girls but for that you can't put a rule that nobody shoukd even think of talking. If it is like this after completing your ug. You might have to work in a company where your team might have girls at that time it will be difficult for boys to interact with them and also make some serious mistakes which can cause trouble. This comment will not be enough if i start saying all my experiences😂😂. Happy that i have completed my bachelor's in such a super strict college by just attending 4 semesters. Also seeing a downtrend of incoming applicants due to lots of awarness and their funny rules.

Even in our college if we caught using mobile na they use to check into our mobiles (chats) these kinda trauma and breakdowns are still happening in many ppls life

Every college should start a mental help structure where the students can go and talk about anything they are being bothered about and in fact the kids should be granted with mental help facility or holiday or any maximum possible help from the authorities .. or Atlest inform the parents or any trusted guardian of the kid or any adult whom the kid wishes to be talking to .. at the same time even parents need to understand the students and not pressurise them and create a fear ..

Sathya Bama University. 2018 one Telugu girl and her brother was studied. This girl wrote the exam with copying of others. Computer science department. Incharge of the examiner scolded this girl with bad words. So that girl went to her hotel and send message to his brother that he is going to commit sucide. Her brother rushed to the ladies hotel, but the warden not allowed, by showing the message not allowed. The girl was died and they never took her to any hospital. Her death after 5 hours they informed to parents. Sathya Bama University have lot of police in her hand. All the students asked justice but no use. They talked to her parents very cleverly but her brother studied in that college with no fees and got placed. If you have money. You can do anything. That is Sathya Bama University