I’m a 42 year old woman and I don’t understand these young girls either. Even if someone is paying for me I don’t go nowhere without my money in my pocket. WHO THE HELL GOT 18 FRIENDS PERIOD????🤣
Exactly, and if you look at their faces I the background those girls are smirking & grinning😏 & already on their phones📱 probably posting it all👥👩💻...they are getting a kick out of it ...& More likely jealous of her anyway & not true friends..and the ones that will give crappy💩advice to ruing her relationship & they'll slide right in🏃🏽♀️👩❤️👨!.. those are the looks I'm seeing in the background..& she's so immature she wouldn't know the difference btwn friend & foe!👀🤦🏾♀️
The fact that these friends are standing there watching this all unfold and not settling their own bills is beyond me. Im so happy I'm an adult and have adult friends.
who knows she probably made them think that was the plan for him to pay...I blame her for all of it, putting him on the spot like that!!! that's crazy!!!!
That's right as soon as she gets away from them they will start talking about her like she's less than human. And it's a guaranteed 1 or 2 of them would be trying to get to him if he would let it happen.
@@sylviaking87 trust me about half of those females don't like her and another half don't got a man lol she breaking up with her man in front of 18 females of half willing to sleep with her soon to be ex, such a dummy.
The fact that she made the statement " He's making her look broke in front of her friends!" BABY YOU ARE!!!! He is not obligated to pay for everyone. How are you trying to flex on somebody else pocket? GIRL BYE!!!
Yeah now this is what you call a "bye Felecia". its not even worth arguing over. Get your keys, get in your car and dont even look in the rear view mirror.
She called each and every one of them and said, “watch me make this sucka pay for all of us!” The reason she doing all of that shaking and arguing, he made her look like the sucka. 😂😂😂😂
Almost had the same thing happen to me at a casino. Met this woman and she asked me if she could join me for dinner. I noticed she asked me how many and how much comps I had on my card. I told her I had enough to cover our meals. Next thing I know, she's calling her brother, sisters, and cousins to join us and told them I would take care of their meals, (without even asking me if I mine). Well guess what, I waited until they all were seated, at their tables and then I walked out and went back to my room and ordered room service. Don't know what the outcome was for their meals, but I told the host what the situation was and told her not to charge anything to my card. She understood and even agreed with me.
in my younger days invited a young lady out for drinks and when I got there she invited 6 other female friends👀👀 I knew immediately she didn't give a damn about me...so I politely took all their drink orders with enthusiasm "expensive as hell"... headed to the bar to get the drinks...place the order, on my way back to the table, took a slight detour and took me a taxi home...she called later ....left a voice note cussin me out....played it 10 times..lol....what an enjoyable night🤣😂🤣🤣
Clearly she told her friends, “C,mon y’all, my man got dis”. Brotha should stop talking, walk away and give those two gifts in his hand to someone who’ll appreciate them: his mother or grandmother.
Something similar happened to me recently. I treated a friend to lunch for her birthday and she brought two extra people. I separated the check, bought her lunch and kept it moving. No more birthday lunches for her.
2 Little Ceaser’s Pizzas and 1 Liters of Coke ! Rainbow? Hell ya ! They take EBT and don’t sell food ! “ Girl , it’s your birthday, I’m going to take you shopping on me , I got the Goodwill store on lock ! Your birthday falls on 80% off Friday and you can spend a whole $20 and donate the change. No Burger King today! Because it’s your birthday it’s Wendy’s and we can sit down and eat , nope , you don’t have stand outside my car to finish that meal today,you can sit down and eat . Your man is going all out ! I only spent $7 when I met you and $5 went on gas . You are moving up baby and I’m proud of you.
Unless SHE had a catered event and SHE paid in advance. It’s her party after all. She could have rented a venue and hired a caterer if she wanted her friends to eat for free. Bums
They're waiting because they have "gamed" other fools into paying for all their dinner bills before. When she picked this dude to go out, she thought he was a thirsty Simp who would be foolish enough to pay their bills just for a chance to sleep with her. And if he would've paid the bill, she would've ghosted him and gone sleep with her thug dude who doesn't buy her anything
My bf's absolutely took me out on my birthday, and paid for everything for me. It is absolutely delusional for her to request that he pick up the entire tab, unless he is a professional athlete, and even then it's not something you spring on someone.
In one of the girls defense, who wasn't shown on camera, you can see she tried to pull her hand as to say come on let's go but the girl pulled her hand away and keep talking to the guy.
I don't think this woman cares about her man. There is no way I would have my significant other going in debt for all those grown people. They were not his responsibility. They all should have made an allotment for a meal along with the money they spent on hair, makeup, and dresses.
Exactly! No woman that resepcts and cares about her man, would ever do this. I would imagine she would not even want any of those skeezers anywhere around a man she really cared about.
I’m 44 .. and my mom (rest her soul) always told me about having my own… so if I have a man.. fine! If I don’t have a man.. fine!! Every time I went on a little date she said “make sure you have money to get home, and loose change to use a pay phone (old skool..lol)” she called it “mad money” if he get mad for whatever reason he can’t leave you stranded!! I love and miss my mom & dad❤️🥰
This is so sad that she even thought that it was OK to ask her "bf", in reality she doesn't actually care about him, to pay for almost 20 people the SHE brought with her. This woman is the worse type of person.
They ate at Maggiano’s, which isn’t that cheap and most of them have to-go bags so they ordered a lot so they could take some home. That’s definitely wrong for expecting him to pay for all that without establishing that upfront.
Mafia is is actually cheap, that shit ain’t fine dining at all. One step above Olive Garden actually! Shit get expensive cuz mofos wanna get apps and drink liquor!
I had a group of coworkers get mad because I didn’t want to split the check evenly when my meal was $20 and each of them spent $40 plus extra for alcohol. Every dinner there after we all paid for our own food.
And they are typically the ones that will RUN the server all night, then barely tip 10%! I don't care who I'm dining with, we need separate checks, because I'm not paying for any of your incidentals and I don't expect anyone to pay for mine. Separate checks please. Period. Full stop.
I typically tip well. I had a friend who wanted to know how much I was tipping so that she could tip less off my bigger tip. No boo...tip on YOUR CHECK. Uggh Tipping is part of eating out...If you cannot afford to tip, then you cannot afford to eat out.
And that was best. I ask for separate checks when certain folks come out to eat. You always got those trying to be slick and ordering the most expensive items they normally wouldn't thinking we're splitting the check evenly. Not
I should have done this with my one outting with coworkers. I didn't make a big deal about it but I spent more than I should have because we split the check and I was the only one who got soda and not a drink. I had a best friend at the time have a birthday get together. Her other best friend came late with a guy and they spent the most money on food then said to split the check. I think I have whatever I knew I spent my money on which was like 25 bucks including tip. The funny thing is those would be the same people to call you selfish but don't see their acts as selfish behaviour when it is. Why come and spend almost 100 in food and expect people to split that with you? I ate one meal and had a soda or water.
She told her so called friends that her man was gonna pay. Otherwise most of them wouldn't have even showed up. She should've discussed that with him first.
@@sadiefrazier9314 right they standing there trying to see the outcome so they can go hit him up soon as she leaves. I don't know nobody that have 18 true friends.
She done went and lost her ENTIRE mind 🙄 why he still standing there tryna explain why he ain’t gone pay for all 18 of her friends is beyond me. That’s time wasted that he will never get back. Girl BYE 👋🏽
I had to school my father(May he Rest in Power) when I was younger going out on a date and I asked him for money, my father asked me why did I need money if the guy was taking me out, i told him it was “Mad Money” if the guy expected something from me because he was taking me out and I said NO, and he got “Mad” I had “Money” to come home. Since then, whenever I would go out on a date, my father would ALWAYS give me “Mad Money”. Love and Miss You Daddy!🥰🥰
The entire story doesn't add up. Why would he be among 18 women? Most guys would say.... Nah! Go with your friends and have a good time. We will do something later? Did he go expecting a meal too? Did he try to piggyback off of this event, so that he doesn't have to do anything, or did he plan something privately and 18 women showed up? Which is more likely? If you know you don't have the funds, why go?
@@janedough6410 Most likely he was aware of all the other guests, but he wasn't aware of the fact that he would be footing the bill for the entire party. And there was at least one other man in her party that looked like he was having words with her BF.
@@lesliemelton1100 Yeah... he told the BF he could have at least paid for his GF meal. The BF's response, "She makes the check, now spend it". Someone this inconsiderate on your birthday, most likely wouldn't pick up a tab for 18 people. The GF was delusional (if true) thinking he would on her birthday.
@@ibmortality1617 Heck no! But I do know there's lots of "men" out there who want to come over to Netflix and chill at a lady's place and maybe a six pack when he knows she likes wine. 😆 I hear about them all the time.
He needs to walk away from this relationship. Her friends standing back there expecting him to pay for their meals...completely ridiculous!! She and her friends got a lot to learn. If her friends were truly respectful of her, her birthday, her relationship with her man, they would pull her aside and assure her that they can & should pay for their own food! Get it right girls!!!
Most likely they did because the video takes place after eating. Either the birthday girl paid for it all, her friends or combined. The guy either paid for his own meal or NOTHING. He definitely didn't pay for his woman's meal. So if anyone needs to walk away it's her.
I'm with you Shuler. My mama always told me be able to pay your OWN way. EVEN if someone asks you out have your own money and way home. I have tought my kids the same.
Pure embarrassment! I would have left her standing there and told her to lose my number. How in the hell are you going to argue with someone when you have no money yourself? Anyone defending this lady who is running her mouth is a straight ZERO like her! They literally add up to nothing.
Those are the same ladies that's gonna back door her ass, and slick get with her man, if I was him I would teach her a good lesson and show her who's really her friend.
@@sharonfincher2032 no need she taught him two things broke is as broke does birds of a feather ain’t no amount of pretty worth trying to compensate by petty. Ice all of them especially the slick I’m not like her the weaver before the choke NOPE 👎🏾
@@increasekru5123 nope. i believe she told those girls to show up and now is whining to save face. she didn't have the money and she is putting it all on him.
@@increasekru5123 Nah. I think he's probably just been good to her. Probably bought her a few nice things and she (stupidly) thought he was a fool. She thought she had his nose wide open. She's one of those folks you can't be nice to. Takes his kindness for weakness. .
@@rondaallen7211 Everyone is entitled to their opinion but I can not believe she is acting this crazy, and he has never ever paid big money for her before, I could be wrong, but either way, that would my last day seeing her with that ignorance.
You hit it right on the head, when you said that people who like money so much, never have any, and become angry when you will not pay for them. Unfortunately, I have a family member that fits that description. She knows that it is not supposed to be that way, but she is trying to show off for her friends, but now she is embarrassed. Ms. B. Churchill
This is also true with respect, ppl who disrespect others easily, demand respect . I see it in grown older folks, but as I digress, she get this behavior from her parents/ broke momma who told her men r supposed to do everythg financially for a woman. These type of women only offer u looks n body, cus u see how she start to act out in the streets when she can’t get her way, 🏃♀️ brother 🏃♀️
First of all, no one has “18” real “friends”. The older mature people get, the smaller their circle of friends get. Your could probably count them on one hand. Real friends would not expect someone’s significant other to pay for their meals.
If I was one of the 18 friends, I'd have been embrassed and rejected the idea that this man could pay for my food. It's called pride and dignity. They ain't got none evidently...
no all women are but they are a certain few out there it's pretty grim out here especially when you don't know people motives man, to me mindset is everything I don't want to have that burden of entitlement or feeling like anyone owes me anything because reality is nobody owes anyone anything now we all do need help from time to time but people are not obligated but if someone chooses to help out of they're heart then we should be grateful because it is not on anyone else to fix our lives it's up to us at the end of the day so I always try to hold myself accountable for my decisions in my life because I know no woman owes me anything and vice versa people should be thankful to encounter sincere people with good hearts it's so much entitlement and attitude that it makes me want to puke because it's a two way street and the rules apply both male and female nothing in life should be one sided at all because we're not really evolving as human beings and reaching our potential but that's why you have to mindful of how you treat people and the energy you put out into the world because it will come back it always does
I'm not sure why you would be ashamed to be a woman because of them🤔 Big difference in a grown woman and a lil girl. Big difference between mature and immature. Since when did this lil girl become the spokes person for all woman kind 🤔
You missing the point. she plan this, so she can have a justifiable reason to break up with him cuz that's what she wanted to do anyway. this is premeditated.
@@tonyabela3799 I had to think through what you said and I believe your correct. What a way to hurt and embarrass even emasculate him. But she is in the wrong.
I love how he wasn’t even talking about leaving her, as in breaking up, but that’s where she took it. They say one of the types of people that will tell you how they really feel are angry people. Hopefully he realizes that.
I remember going out with my friends for there birthday…and we would all buy the birthday girls dinner. Meaning we would buy our food and then each of us would put a little in to pay for the bday girl…all these girls now want to be taken care of rather than working. 😂🤦🏻♀️
My dad always covered everything when we went out as a family. _But,_ when I started going out with friends and dating, he always told us to make sure we had our own. He’d send us with more than enough money to “Go, Get, and Get back”. He would have had our mom whoop the wheels off us, if we were any of these broke heifers in the background, waiting for another woman’s boyfriend to pay for our meal!
Hey Shuler. My wife and I, as well as another couple came to your 7pm show this past weekend in Houston @ the Improv. We sat directly off to stage steps to your left, you facing the audience. MAN YOU GAVE ME MORE THAN WHAT I PAID FOR THE TICKETS THAT NIGHT. I WANTED TO TELL YOU I HADN'T LAUGHED THAT CONSISTENTLY HARD AND A MANY YEARS WATCHING DIFFERENT STAND-UP COMEDIANS. YOU DID A GREAT DAMN JOB BROTHER! I WISH I COULD HAVE STAYED AFTER THE SHOW TO MEET YOU AND ALSO LET YOU KNOW I'M AN SCSU BULLDOG RIGHT THERE IN ORANGEBURG, SOUTH CAROLINA. IT WOULD HAVE BEEN GREAT TO CHAT WITH YOU, BUT HOPEFULLY THE NEXT TIME YOU COME TO HOUSTON I'LL GET THE CHANCE TO MEET YOU. KEEP MAKING US PROUD BRO!
Thanks Damon Bethea, Glad you enjoyed the show! But, Bro, why are you in the comments section yelling! Lol, my hears are ringing now! Lol, Please understand that *"when on the internet"* and interacting/communicating with others through *"comment sections and chat rooms",* typing in all *"Caps"* is the *"equivalence"* of yelling! Lol, going to have to go and take something for a headache now! 😂😂😂😁😂😁😂😅😅😅,
2 Little Ceaser’s Pizzas and 1 Liters of Coke ! Rainbow? Hell ya ! They take EBT and don’t sell food ! “ Girl , it’s your birthday, I’m going to take you shopping on me , I got the Goodwill store on lock ! Your birthday falls on 80% off Friday and you can spend a whole $20 and donate the change. No Burger King today! Because it’s your birthday it’s Wendy’s and we can sit down and eat , nope , you don’t have stand outside my car to finish that meal today,you can sit down and eat . Your man is going all out ! I only spent $7 when I met you and $5 went on gas . You are moving up baby and I’m proud of you.
Even a 3 yr old will speak up and say I got it I got it even if they’re doing it wrong they’re trying to show some kind of responsibility and pride in doing it for THEMSELVES!
Honestly, I think he should have taken her out for a SOLO birthday celebration, and HER friends should have taken HER out separately (where they could then argue among themselves who was going to pay)! AND, how is it that one of these friends in the back is arguing with him?! The sense of entitlement is unbelievable!
2 Little Ceaser’s Pizzas and 1 Liters of Coke ! Rainbow? Hell ya ! They take EBT and don’t sell food ! “ Girl , it’s your birthday, I’m going to take you shopping on me , I got the Goodwill store on lock ! Your birthday falls on 80% off Friday and you can spend a whole $20 and donate the change. No Burger King today! Because it’s your birthday it’s Wendy’s and we can sit down and eat , nope , you don’t have stand outside my car to finish that meal today,you can sit down and eat . Your man is going all out ! I only spent $7 when I met you and $5 went on gas . You are moving up baby and I’m proud of you.
Some wisdom there Shuler. If you go out to eat with someone, no matter the arrangement, make sure you have enough money to be able to pay your way. Never know what's gonna happen and the person you're with goes to the restroom and never comes back!
I happened to be hanging out one night and my bff was in town with her man and another couple. They found out it was my birthday weekend and from that moment on i didn't have to pay for ANYTHING and the one couple didn't even know me. Bottles and drink service and food came out of nowhere. THAT'S HOW GROWN FOLKS PLAY. These are kids. And honestly I'm glad that young man saw who he was really dealing with so he can move on and meet him a nice young woman who will appreciate the chivalry and a nice young man. These lil girls.. . Smdh
2 Little Ceaser’s Pizzas and 1 Liters of Coke ! Rainbow? Hell ya ! They take EBT and don’t sell food ! “ Girl , it’s your birthday, I’m going to take you shopping on me , I got the Goodwill store on lock ! Your birthday falls on 80% off Friday and you can spend a whole $20 and donate the change. No Burger King today! Because it’s your birthday it’s Wendy’s and we can sit down and eat , nope , you don’t have stand outside my car to finish that meal today,you can sit down and eat . Your man is going all out ! I only spent $7 when I met you and $5 went on gas . You are moving up baby and I’m proud of you.
2 Little Ceaser’s Pizzas and 1 Liters of Coke ! Rainbow? Hell ya ! They take EBT and don’t sell food ! “ Girl , it’s your birthday, I’m going to take you shopping on me , I got the Goodwill store on lock ! Your birthday falls on 80% off Friday and you can spend a whole $20 and donate the change. No Burger King today! Because it’s your birthday it’s Wendy’s and we can sit down and eat , nope , you don’t have stand outside my car to finish that meal today,you can sit down and eat . Your man is going all out ! I only spent $7 when I met you and $5 went on gas . You are moving up baby and I’m proud of you.
After she said that he had the nerve to say, "Are you coming with me or are you staying with them?" Naw cuz still giving her too many options. I don't want her no more if that come out her mouth. I would have walked and told her, "Anything you had at my place will be on the porch waiting for you to come pick up"
🤣🤣🤣 I was saying thru the whole vid, that would’ve been the end of us🤣 Remove the makeup, hair, clothes, relations, etc. she is who she just showed u, she was.
He's crazy for not turning around & walking away standing there arguing with her while her & freeloading friends stand there watching. They deserve each other!
Definitely seeing the trend here: the Mom that got 5 kids, wanting one of the Dads to feed all of them, not just his own. The woman that brought the whole family to the blind date expecting the man to pay for all their food. I don’t know if it’s lack of parenting, bad economy that causing everyone to want a free meal, something in the water, maybe all of the above?!
@@jopinscott1777 LoL so do women. I know a chick that got talked into buying her man some rims for his car. Most women are in jail because of a man. It just goes both ways
My 17yr. Old daughter through my Wife is like this when it come’s to her friend’s! The difference is that my wife take’s them out to eat, on trip’s and pay for the majority of everything. Sad thing is that they also have parents who don’t seem to send them out with money. I pay for our children only, not the friend’s. If it’s not family (Children, Niece’s, Nephew’s, etc.), don’t expect me to pay for nobody else’s children UNLESS I (not the children) invite them out.
She’s silly for assuming…wild assumption… Wise words I was told…never ASSume…bcs you make an ass out of you and an ass outta me. She just wanna be seen. She should be paying for they food or everyone there own…guess they need to call them momma now 😂
Obviously she must have told them her man built like that. And the one with the grinning behind her, looks like she is going to be the one calling him to be that ear to vent, that arse to wax and the next to try and run his pockets. 😂 ✌️❤️🍷
Mine is coming up in two weeks and I feel you! ME AND MY DOG, I’m smoking and she will be probably nibbling on her foot or something - but we about to be aaaaaaallright!
2 Little Ceaser’s Pizzas and 1 Liters of Coke ! Rainbow? Hell ya ! They take EBT and don’t sell food ! “ Girl , it’s your birthday, I’m going to take you shopping on me , I got the Goodwill store on lock ! Your birthday falls on 80% off Friday and you can spend a whole $20 and donate the change. No Burger King today! Because it’s your birthday it’s Wendy’s and we can sit down and eat , nope , you don’t have stand outside my car to finish that meal today,you can sit down and eat . Your man is going all out ! I only spent $7 when I met you and $5 went on gas . You are moving up baby and I’m proud of you.
She would have made a perfect match for my ex husband. Everytime we went out to eat with his large family he always paid for their food against my wishes and they had more money than the ATM. We would argue all night about him doing that until finally I filed for a divorce and he asked me why I want out and I told him ain't no need of both of us being in bankruptcy somebody need to be debt free to tell the story so I tell it every chance I get 😂
He did that to show out. It's one thing if you got it like that and want to be generous but even then it's just not smart. They can pay for their damn self. That money should be put towards your family, not him trying to show out.
That's right! All of my sisters were taught to have "just in case money" even if they're going out on a date. This is so wrong. I would have walked out and if my lady wanted to be with her friends, bye Felicia.
He took you out for your birthday while wearing a fruit of the looms t-shirt on a special occasion, and you thought he was paying for all 25 of y’all? Bish you crazy 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂
Yeah, she plan that! she wanted to embarrass him on her birthday so she can have a justifiable reason to break up with him.. because that's what she was going to do anyway, so you hit the nail right on the head with that!
I just had a birthday yesterday to be exact. I wish I would do this! It's inconsiderate and irrational. If anyone gets special treatment from my man, it's me only. He might as well date all 18 if he has to pay for everyone to eat. She wanted to stunt for her friends. But if her friends can't afford to celebrate with her they should stay home.
THIS IS WHY YOU HAVE A HOUSE PARTY. EVERYBODY know, when you do a restaurant party. You pay your own. The restaurant supply the cake. Unless you bring the cake.
