Signs of a Toxic Relationship 

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1. You don't feel any support. 2. You don't communicate with each other. 3. There's a lot of jealousy. 4. There's built up resentment. 5. You feel disrespected. 6. You don't have time for other relationships.

Y'all deserve a relationship that allows you to sleep peacefully at night

Thank you for this, I was in an 8 month sexually abusive relationship and after 2 years free from it I met the love of my life, I sometimes get anxious that my new lover is copying my abusers behaviours and I need to level myself and realise that I’m safe now

Hello future and past viewer 1.)you don’t feel any support-1:05 2.)you don’t communicate with each other-1:33 3.) there’s a lot of jealousy-2:24 4.)there’s built up resentment-2:52 5.) you feel disrespected-3:32 6.)you don’t have time for other relationships-4:14

I'm happy that they show both sides. Not only one side is being toxic, that even the most good hearted person can commit mistakes and that everything has a solution. Is very sweet, thank you for this.

#1; you don't feel any support: 1:04 #2; you don't communicate with each other: 1:32 #3; there's a lot of jealousy: 2:23 #4; there's built up resentment: 2:51 #5; you feel disrespected: 3:31 #6; you don't have time for other relationships: 4:13

"its difficult to accept when the people we love the most are actually the ones hurting us the worst" That hits deep

My heart goes out to those with toxic romantic relationships. I'm kinda scared of that since I've had unhealthy friendships where my boundaries were disrespected ,sometimes I was just straight up treated as if I was a toy to be fought over, I was body shamed for being thin all the freakin time and I just felt like I couldn't tell them my problems with them without being told "Yeah but I saw you die in my dreams" (which actually happened) all while dealing with a pathological liar who I thought was my friend. God I can't imagine that but in a worse way.

Of course there's always hope to a relationship! One of my friends was super jealous when I was hanging out with other people other than her and she became overly obsessive with me. But when we talked about it she understood what was happening and realised that she was going to lose both me and herself if this continues. Now, we are very good with each other, giving enough space but being close too. We are better than we have ever been and we both help each other to grow and become better people. Trust me, communication and being open about your feelings is always the key to fix or develop a relationship!

Please please leave the situation now I have spent so many years in a awful relationship i finally left someone who was emotionally, domestic, verbally financially he was a Narcissist and so was his parents. It was 3 against me constantly. The keeping score thing was huge for him , he always said for me to leave. If I didn't do want he wanted he would threaten to throw me out of the house. I got on a housing list, and used my friends address so he didn't know what I was doing. I also put my cat as a emotional support animal. Once I found a place I was able to afford the rent and have my cat. He was shocked that I had a plan in place. And I have been gone for 9 months now and loving every minute of it

I haven't been In a Relationship before So I'm here for future preparations. Just In case lol

My relationship, or what’s left of it, it definitely moving in a toxic direction. On a break now, but I don’t think all is lost. They have only just become noticeable, and can be worked through. Thank you for helping to clarify these behaviors

I'm in a toxic situation, but there's so much we can do to make it less toxic. I'm not giving up, unless nothing changes or it gets worse.

This whole video really resonated within me. Especially the part about open communication. It just feels like we both weren't as open about our feelings about the relationship as we should've been. Neither of us took the time we needed to reflect on the whole thing. Both of us were toxic to an extent and this video has made me realise that I was the one who had more toxic habits than my partner. We never fought but there was definitely a cloud of resentment drifting between us, pushing us further apart. I wish I could take back some of the things I did but I can't do much now. I wish she told me sooner so I could've done something about this. My wishful thinking doesn't excuse that I should've realized my toxic habits too. I was blind I might still be. I can't do much now other than hopefully learn. I disrespected my partner on a lot of levels and I wish I was at least aware of this. In my next romantic relationship, I hope for more clear communication. I think that the lack of communication might have been rooted in my inability to commit to the relationship fully. I will hopefully do better in the future. Thank you for taking the time to read through my rant of a comment.

Its been a reoccurring pattern my entire life, so much that I have been guilty of being toxic as well. I just want to remove myself from everyone so I can get mentally well and stable for myself. I feel I owe it too all those that I have hurt, neglected, and at times manipulated. I didn't realize I was doing that, but I can see that that was what I was doing. I an remorseful and well do all I can to repair my values and intentions.

Thank you for the information. I just cried through the entire video. Yes, I'm struggling badly to get out and stay out

I love that you guys acknowledged the fact that you can still talk and air things out and potentially salvage things. Some people do the whole “cut it off and walk off in silence” thing and often times I feel like that leaves people with a bitter perspective of friendship. And then when you run into these people they have trust issues that you don’t immediately see until you’ve been friends with them for a while. But again, conversation is key! It will let you know if you can talk things out or if the damage is too severe and you should move on.

Videos like this just show me how toxic my last relationship was. She was short adorable girl that no one would have suspected her to be the way she was but now I'm just glad I noticed when I did and ran.

This didn't happen to me with a significant other, but with a friend. I saw many of the signs that I could relate to. We're now over and treat each other as strangers.

I was in such a toxic relationship for over a year. I was a shell of a person & he’d dismantled my entire personality bc he was desperate to have a quiet & acceptable girlfriend who wouldn’t embarrass him. I’m loud, I’m always joking, I love making people laugh & I’ve never cared what other people think. But he destroyed me little by little & I wasn’t me anymore. I told myself every single day “if I love him a little more today, maybe he’ll love me a little more tomorrow” … and he never did. No support, no kindness, just mean words & coldness. I let myself stay in that situation for so many months. I let myself be unhappy for so long. Please, don’t ever let anyone treat you like this. It is the worst feeling & it takes so long to recover. Im sending so much love to anyone in a toxic relationship right now. You deserve so much better. If it’s just slightly toxic, then I really hope you can work to better your relationship & get to a healthier place 💗

Unfortunately I was blind to the toxic nature of my relationship, those rose coloured glasses, I only realised to my detriment when he was arrested and jailed. Ten years of lies that I thought was real, it takes a toll on the soul 😔 the signs were there but I naively ignored them and really shouldn't have, more fool me.

This topic was like my relationships with my narcissistic parents nowadays

Thanks for making this video. I shared it to my friend whom is in a toxic relationship right now.

Reminds me a lot of my first relationship. It got pretty bad and it affected us both heavily. I used to be sad when we ended up stop talking with each other but I eventually saw that it was best this way.

and everyone tell me to be myself and i was like i'm so toxic why you want it and now everyone hate me

I was in a toxic relationship for four years. Both of us where responsible. And it was one of my hardest decisions I've ever made, but it definitely was needed. Even if it hurts the alot, time heals every wound.

This is currently what's happening to me, I'm scared to loose her, Idk if it's me who's the problem or the fact that she doesn't really communicate with me. I just want her love :( She recently lost her online best friend, which had a huge impact on her, and I'm trying my best to help her get better, but it's just super hard when she doesn't want to talk with me about it that much... I feel ignored at forgotten, it feels like I'm not a part of her life anymore :( I just can't see myself breaking up with her, she's hurt already, and so am I. I can't do that towards her, I'd see myself as an absolute idiot. I just want our relationship to go back to when it started (1 month and 5 days ago), she used to almost be clingy and never let go of me, I felt like we loved eachother so much that we would never experience stuff like this. Currently I'm trying to give her space and time because of her best friend who isn't with us anymore :,( but I still want to be loved, and I still want to be there for her. This video explains alot and I want to fix it all somehow, but I can't do that myself. This shit sucks man :c - whoever experiences the same, talk to me fr... we maybe can help each other

I used to have someone, she meant everything to me and I couldn't live without her. She was asexual and couldn't exactly love me back, but it didn't stop me from wanting to be with her. It broke my heart when I decided to end our friendship because leading up to it, I drained myself physically and emotionally to try to apologize for something I did, although we both knew that I couldn't be forgiven and our friendship turned toxic because everything I did was done for her when it was only hurting the both of us. I miss her so much and it sucks because we go to the same school, I wish I could say something, but it won't change anything.

I haven't watched this yet but it's almost a year now being out of a 7 off and on toxic relationship with no apology or closure. The ending was horrible and traumatic for me. I've come to learn a lot about myself and him when I finally distanced myself for good. I worked on myself and continuing to grow. There was many red flags but I later discovered I was codependent and be was a narc. We deserve someone who realizes we are truly special. We deserve to be at peace and not in pieces.

Any relationship that makes you feel worse about yourself, rather than better, is toxic! When you are left feeling unloved, drained and have been attacked in any way, is a sure sign that you're in a toxic relationship. No one is worth staying in a relationship that causes you constant pain and heartache.💔 💙RU-vidr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships

I was living with an ex partner for business and work reasons. I knew that he has developed strong dependency on me like I did too, but the moment when I've been taunted about leaving that living place, I knew something is up in the air. sometimes I regretted to be too kind and understanding of his mental illness that didn't help him with controlling his behaviours, but I know I can't do otherwise because I'd be a walking contradiction. It then became emotionally and physically abusive because I keep wanting out of that house for my sanity sake and I felt like a mom or maid helping him with the simplest chores seeing how he struggled with even taking a shower or getting food. Part of it has to do with my guilt from our past relationship history, but it also has to do with severe attachment to each other out of emotional and financial reasons. Few weeks ago, a big argument blew up and I decided at that moment that is it, I'm done. I'm done being made to feel bad about wanting my own life outside of his place. The built up resentments I have carried spilled out to our dynamic previously. Right now, looking back, it is truly toxic and abusive. I feel glad that I finally found the courage.

Thanks, Psych2Go! I watch these types of videos not only to look out for myself but for my partner as well 🥺 I don't want to become toxic towards him, he deserves all the best this world!

These are all things that have happened or are happening in my relationship, but I feel like I can’t leave. It’s been 2 years and I’m drained and exhausted most days. Her family treats her like garbage so I know that everything she does is not her fault, it’s just responses and behaviours/habits to being abused by her two siblings and her parents her entire life. I know how she is on the inside better than anyone else so I know she’s a sweet, romantic, artsy, and happy girl but her depression makes it very hard for us to enjoy our time together. The problem is that if I leave she will most likely end her life. I’m the only person she has to call back on and in the only one who gives her time of day besides some of her work friends. We’re always together, not because that part is toxic, but because she can’t be at home, or then I have to deal with talking her out of a depressive episode because of the things her mom and her siblings say to her every time she’s at home. I don’t know what to do anymore. I feel like things would improve if I asked her to marry me and we just left, but I’m not sure I even have enough left in me to make that incredible effort. I love her to the moon and back but it’s getting harder and harder to call her in the mornings.

I am so glad I watched this. I am breaking up with my boy friend tomorrow, I relate to all of these 😢

I love the Stardew screen and music it is one of my favorite games and I find it calming.

I’ve never been in a relationship(teen) but *thanks* to your videos I think when I get in one it will be as *healthy* and *good* as a relationship can get 😊

I realized I am a toxic person and I experienced & noticed all those 6 points in me 1. You don't feel any support. 2. You don't communicate with each other. 3. There's a lot of jealousy. 4. There's built-up resentment. 5. You feel disrespected. 6. You don't have time for other relationships. At and end of that I lose her ( she was the first person i ever truly like and opened my heart). It was completely my fault. I never knew I am a toxic man. Now I know but don't know how to become better. I hope I get or find some help. ( This video is 100% correct with real information.)

Sad to say that i was in a relationship with someone who was angry that i wasn't the jealous type, as well as having privacy.

We have a limited amount of time on this earth. Spend it wisely on yourself & non toxic people.

In personal experience, I had a toxic relationship and it was hard to leave her. After that, when the shitshow ended, I had the chance to be with a lovely girl, but after almost a year, when I have felt I needed some time to be with myself and to heal because of my own depression, she slapped me when I was telling here I wanted to be better... And that broke me. All and everything I felt for here. I just leaved and that was it. Sometimes is even harder to see the signs... The last lesson she left me.

Im thankful were not yet in to a big fight.. and anyone of us looks down or hurt.. we told eachother with care even were not yet on to a relationship.. we have up and downs and quite cold eachother but were still on track of things..

I honestly don’t know if I was in a toxic relationship or not. It all felt like a blur. Even with this video I’m still left confused.

Not just relationships, but it applies to everything relating to human relationships too. If you can’t see or feel you’re relaxed with the person or people, leave!

Like Icarus, I flew to the sun because she said to get her a piece. And all the same, I burned up before her eyes. All she did was laugh with her friends. Suddenly, days later, her friends leave her for similar reasons, and she comes crying back to me because I treated her better than anyone else ever did. Poetic, how that ended up going. No, we didn’t get back together because she didn’t change at all.

I do like the videos that are uploaded to this channel. Im more of a visual and hands on learner. So most of these videos are helping me learn from past mistakes and understanding better on how to work on things with myself.

I’m feeling actually depressed after watching this video. My ex dumped me because I’m one of this toxic persons. He didn’t literally say that but I knew I was a toxic gf. He told me “I feel guilty to spend time with my friends and family. You restrained me”. I never wanted to be a toxic person…I hope he will find someone better and find the love of his life. I am on my healing journey from breakup and I never wanna go back with who I was. I wanna be a healthy person to others. I’m learning how to be better and enjoy life on my own. Definitely I’m progressing. However, I don’t think I can have a romantic relationship ever in my life..

Thank youuu I really needed this

I didn't know it was okay to be apart. I still don't know what it considered "normal" time apart but I knew that spending everyday together was not it.

My significant other says our relationship is toxic but some of the things listed here don’t seem to be the case. It’s because she’s suffering from bipolar disorder and I’m trying to get her into helping herself but she just refuses so much. And it frustrates me a lot because I love her so much and want her to do better but it’s so hard to do when she doesn’t want to do the work.

Thing is don't hold it inside you and should be supported at all times talk things out don't hold it in side work together

Welp, didn’t know that I was in one before… it messed me up real bad, thinking it was all my fault despite the fact that I tried checking on them everyday. They just stopped talking to me for weeks and started getting mad because of my insecurities

Me and my bf were like this but we talked and he got upset at me asking why i didnt tell him sooner he wouldve fixed had he known he's so sweet now

This is more of a rant for me, so you don’t have to read this. My ex would constantly tell me certain habits of mine were weird and unattractive, like putting my hands on my hips. They would also always try to hug me and pat my head, despite them knowing about my trauma with physical touch (sexual harassment). They would also never listen to me. They would constantly give me things, even though I told them I didn’t want anything. Another thing is that they would constantly talk to me to the point where I’d get texts at 2 am saying that I was ignoring them and didn’t love them. They would tell me that I would also make a lot of sexual jokes, and some of them were directed to me (again, I have trauma from sexual harassment). This went on of 6 months before I broke up with them. I definitely consider this toxic.

I’m posting this here in hope to find answers. I’ve been in a relationship with someone for now 5 years, we’ve met in highschool on my last year and his first year, I’m 2 years older than him. First before dating he was a lot on me, teasing me and making jokes but I didn’t mind, told me about his crush in another school and truthfully said that if it was a flop he’d date me instead. At first I wasn’t too sure about it then I was a bit upset by it and felt bad about myself. But all that aside we got our first date at the local cinema where a friend of mine wanted to join in too and she kind of acted like a cupidon. Kiss and stuffs and now we’re officially date. I spend weekends at his place and now that I’m in college he switched school but he had to redo a year because of it. It’s been fine so far but lately I don’t feel like it’s « it » anymore. Sometimes I feel like some kind of object to his eyes, something he achieved or something like that. Likes to talk about what we do to his friends even when I don’t like him telling all that. Judges stuffs about me like my works, my hair, my body (I’m small, chubby and I was long hair but my hair is thick it’s hard to keep it good, and I do art and games in college), he’s always upset when I don’t go to his place during weekends(we still live with our parents) and when I spend time with my friends and some of his friends. But then I’m just focusing on the bad part, he was there when I felt bad sometimes, give me gifts bought me games and plushies. I’ve been thinking of doing something to make our relationship better but I don’t know how to do it, I’m not really smart in my way and I do lots of mistakes on my part too but I’ve been willing to take ahold of myself, started working out, cut my hair and working more. He wants to marry me next year but I’m scared that things gets worse. Marriage costs a lot of money and it’s a big step for young adults. What should I do ? I feel like I should take my courage to tell him everything I have in my heart but at the same time I’m scared that he gets that wrong or he gets upset with me or that he just ignores.

There are people who bring you down just by being them.....

2 for parents because I always try to do what makes them happy even if it doesn’t make me happy.😞

I've had toxic relationships throughout my entire life and nothing has ever changed....

1:10 I don't know if this was intentional, but the flower in the girl's hair looks like a Rafflesia - a very smelly flower that has a parasitic relationship with the tree it grows from. I think that this is a very fitting description of how toxic relationships "grow." (Fun fact: the flower on the Pokemon Venusaur's back is a Rafflesia)

I’m grateful my girlfriend broke up with me. While we didn’t mean it, we were toxic for each other. I hope she’s better now, even if I miss her. Can people who were once toxic together get back together if they’ve healed?

This is so hurtful I'm in a toxic relationship but it feels like we are meant to be :( idk anymore I love him so much and I don't wanna lose him

You're voice is so friendly and welcoming, and the content is always so interesting and eye-opening :)

I should be sleeping rn 😳 Great video as always! ❤💯

Me who doesn’t have a relationship and never will because I’m ugly: interesting (the Miranda Cosgrove meme)

She told me that its a toxic relationship and I didn't know it at first but when I watched this I finally come to sense She said I don't talk about my problems at all The reason is that I wanna Have most of me and her time only the happiest I don't want any sad memories with her but when she told about her problems I listen and tried giving the best I could but she just said saying 'cheer up' won't help but I tried making the people around me feel better around them and make them happy but yet I got called a 'toxic friend' and 'toxic girlfriend' welp sometimes it would be better to let go, someone, we broke up (Sorry about venting)

exactly as my last rs, but i am the toxic one, im just glad that i realized it early and even though she didnt want to, we broke up.

My ex-bff thinks we had a toxic relationship bc we don't talk very often and I was fine with it bc she said she still wants to be friends

Dude this happened all the time I am so glad I didn’t be with them anymore

Hit the nail on the head!

“Love shouldn’t hurt” ~*the sign outside the supermarket by the dude that sells corn near my little cousins school*

Grateful that I found this channel

I get jealous pretty easily, I dont know how to stop doing that, he keeps joking bout other girls being prettier than me, n calling my bully better, I didnt realize I was being controlling by telling him not to follow my bully n make him block her, but he unblocked her again n started following her, which actually made me feel really bad, not that he followed her, but that he lied to me bout it. when asked why he did so, he said he did it cuz he has the right to, it's his life, his acc. we havent talked evr since, it was like bout this morning

Don't ever change the person who does the narration. I have a crush on a voice 😆.

I realised that i have never ever felt what was like in a true relationship.I felt like a trash :').Thank youu for this.I love your vid.🤗

Terrific video.

Thanks for making this

At this point I don't care what the content is about. I just want to hear psych2go's narrator's lovely voice

noo but i dont want to leave him i swear its just my adhd that makes me so impatient and that i have high expectation

I'm afraid that I'm in the middle of a toxic relationship..Thanks anyway bc now I know that it's not all my fault

All relationships can be toxic. My relationship with my brother is kinda like this with me.

Holy, when you realise that your friend that you known for 7 years is a toxic friend

Ive tried to fix this, ive tried to leave. Im so tired.

16 SECONDS AGO!!! I DONT THINK IVE EVER BEEN THIS EARLY BEFORE

This hits pretty close to home :/

Ok... Im crying.

Sugestion: How to know if you are in love?

I’m in a toxic marriage

The first one describes my relationship with my friends perfectly

I wish I had this video 3 years ago

The signs show I’m in a toxic relationship, its been more than five years. I know its not right, but why do I still love him and am sad to leave him? 🙁

Well this is gonna hurt...a lot

I once had a friend who was,well,a friend,but she never talked to me after 4 weeks,no support,and sorta picked on me again. One a wise man said “Throw -it- in the trash” her. -OverSimplified

Ohhhhh my last relationship! I am so glad I ran away...well he did cause I am selfish and so self centered!

Could you maybe do one on a toxic friendship? I feel like I’m in a toxic friendship but I have no clue

If you see these signs In friendships too then run

Everything you said, I felt that. But thankfully I broke up with him.

I can relate to the first two points but not the others.

Set me free

im here because i feel like im in a toxic relationship.

Perfect timing i was just asking me this question