Signs That Your Ex Is Scared To Get Back With You 

I cannot make the first move after no contact because we were together for five months and he decided that he just wanted to be friends and I said no. He knew exactly how he felt and still led me to believe that he cared for me, but taking me on dates, holding hands and kissing. not cool. so if he wants me, he needs to make the first move, if not oh well.

"Come to jesus moment "🤣👈 THAT PART🙌😊❤!! MAKE ME WANNA HOLLA AND THROW UP BOTH OF MY HANDS!! Thank you

Great video.. helps me understand my ex better

Another solid video! TYSM 😊❤

My ex recently contacted me after 2 weeks. Our last talk, I asked for us to work things out but he wants to be friends. Well today he got upset that I have friend zoned him. What gives? He chose to be friends but now he's saying we will be what we choose to be. I'm baffled but I'm just gonna be U.G.

Reason number 5…he told me he loved me, and always had. And then one week later started dating someone else. One month later, he’s reaching out to me. More than ever. 💔

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Sorry, but if they start a new relationship aka "rebound", then I'm no longer in the same mental space and if he's THAT flip floppy, then he's unpredictable. And my question would be WHY is he using this "I'm scared of getting hurt" crao with ME, yet will freely dive into other things. No no no... we don't reward out of line behavior. You either want me and love me enough to break your walls down (because so dont i!) Or you're "too scared" and will play this cat and mouse game until who knows when. Just remember-there ARE other people out there...and if he pulls this crap with you, then he's just going to scare all the rest away to! And I wouldn't want it done to me.....sooo WHY in the hell would I want to be "that thirsty woman" when hes SOMEONE ELSE'S MAN NOW?? If anything, I'd NEVER take him back after pulling that because how could I trust he wouldn't do it again? And I'd be helping him LEARN from his mistakes for his own future and helping myself in the long run by not being with such an unpredictable person. Unpredictable =NOT TRUSTWORTHY....don't do it, ladies and gentlemen, it's not worth it. I wasted 12 yrs of my life playing these games, rewarding bad behavior. .....just to find someone else that played even worse games...and I let him come back repeatedly too! A leopard NEVER changes it's spots. I've had two 3 yr long relationships, then the 12 yr one, and then this last....whatever you want to even call it because he was hot/cold and playing games like it was his damn career! That last one was worse then the 1st 3 all together. ...which is really saying something, given what I went through with the 12 year one alone! Stop putting one person's happiness, opinions, etc first if they don't do the same for you- I PROMISE it is NOT WORTH IT and you WILL GET HURT IN THE END. It hurts..it sucks, I know. We as humans generally do NOT like change, especially when it comes to the comfort of having someone that you have an emotional attachment to... but you WILL find that elsewhere if you exude the right energy. Keeo yourself busy and focus on YOU, maybe even date around. .then after a while, keeping yourself busy becomes a habit and not something you're even trying to do anymore. The feelings will fade I PROMISE. At least give YOURSELF a chance.. I hope whoever reads this takes my advice; you will be happier in the grand scheme of things!

Well went on no contact for one n half months now.He posted a girl on his status.It never shook me though I felt a lil hurt.Now he's posting emotional quotes n viewing all my status.Am not interested. No more pain.I have someone who's treating me right.No contact changed n strengthened me.

Was texting me ex regularly finally got the nerve to ask to hang out and play cards and he ghosted me 🤦‍♀️💀💀

He’s still texting at 4 months of breakup with NO indication of wanting to meet up. I feel like a help desk text line. When he is feeling lost, sad or alone he’s texting me but won’t meet up. It is frustrating feeling used like this. I just want to go get coffee and chat.

Out of the 5 signs, I can only relate to sign 3, our conversations are awesome then they stop ... Can you make a version or say her, as I feel this video is from the ex bf recovery side . 7 weeks ago during covid19 she called us off, as of 1 week ago we’ve been communicating again, my beautiful little lady is contacting me morning and night telling me she is thinking about me, telling me she misses me and that she’s having lots of sexual dreams about me and remember she broke up with me but then nothing throughout the day unless I contact her first, things are slowly happening between us but they don’t seem to be moving as fast as I like !!!!. We are actually meeting up for the first time 1 week from today.....

No contact never lasts long. Soon as I make up in my mind I am, not even 2 days goes by before he contacts me

Very helpful. Thank you so much for your hard work💖

I experience #1,#3,#4,#5 sign - maybe he just want to check up on me if I will reply or not. But not even asking how I am even if I ask how he was, 🤦🤦🤦 very immature man, don't even notice my feelings. 🤔

Hi chris, i fully experience 1# and #3..like intense! but "my ex is scared to come back to me" - does it mean she is definetely not coming back cause she is scared, so its game over? or it means - she wants to but she is scared and thus I need to play my cards right in order for her to stop being afraid? this title could mean good or bad..right? what do we do then? thanks

Today is supposed to be our 1st anniversary. But we broke up last month and now, I'm doing no contact. The last time my best friend talked to him about us, he said that he will never come back again coz he really lost his feelings. Weeks after I did no contact, he still viewed my stories on fb but now he stopped. I don't know but I'm starting to believe he really doesn't care anymore especially now that he's already talking to another girl. But I'll still do no contact. No plans to chat him first.

Hi Chris, my ex told me he misses our relationship but scared of getting hurt again. He wants to start over and be friends and possibly hangout. He is very responsive when we text but never starts a conversation or asks questions. Am i going to fast? I don't want want him to run away. I want this meet up to happen and show i changed. And OW broke up with him after a month together when i have been doing BTM.

Thank you so much I am now on a process of no contact as I was always wrong i never been right to his eyes. He blames me for everything recently

Incredible video Chris. I try to ask you. If I remeber right the optimal timing to get together after brake up is 7-11months. Is it good or bad sign if ex tells you "I have to get used to you" / "I have bad feel when Im with you but I want remove this feel." And now we are trapped! It can be anytime - longer or shorter then 7-11months. Is it good to wait if I haven't some newone (Cuz I dont want new one) Or is this sign that's infinite loop and I have to give up. Thank you for your answer.

My ex and I have been broken up since Feb. he has made indications that we would restart our relationship and we have seen each other a couple of times when it was convenient with his job travel.. he’s long distance and a College football coach with little time… he recently left me and returned home and then went to Cancun.. didn’t mention it to me and my major issue with him has been him not prioritizing me and making time for everything and everyone else in the world… I sent him a text to send me my things. He text me on This past Friday morning at 4:38 am that he wanted to talk this weekend… crickets still… haven’t heard from him… he knows he has exhausted me… but why reach out to talk and not follow through

Toooooo complicated, staying with my cat. Men are children, they do not understand themselves...poor things 🥺

so your ex have someone but he never call you he who broke up with me I have not call or text him for a week

Hey I like this video but the sound you use repeatedly for your screen swipes is loud, annoying and very distracting. Id recommend not using sound effects at all

No one told me she had a husband, till 8 years later dad tells me

well .. and now ,, the solution is ?

My ex told my mamaw he is scared, he said I have trust issues but so does he. Sadly he won’t word on these things with me.

All I wanted was to be a good friend with 2 shoulders for her to cry on.

I got blocked and unblocked many times, she checked on me and now blocked again.

Wtf is wrong with people? Why do we have to get a PHD in playing games and treating ppl like sht in relationships? Why can't we just treat each other as we would like them to treat us? You know act in love to the person who you claim to love.

Would you add anything new to this video?

I rang my ex panicked then hung up. He rang me back twice straight after. I then rang after and he answered the phone pretending to not know who it was, even though my what's app showed my pic. I stupidly replied with im so sorry i rang you by accident. He then hung up on me and blocked me on WhatsApp. Im such an idiot but im left super confused

Gosh those sound effects are so annoying. Can’t finish this

Text my ex all the time and we were good he responded in a good time never too late or waiting I went out on a limb and asked if he wants to get together and play cards he never answered 🤦‍♀️

Well my ex reached out last week with a hey what i doing I'm bored text and he said called him and I called him so we so we talked and asking how I'm doing and how is online classes I told I'm going great and online classes stressful and annoying and he told me he's done with girls but he has a new girlfriend he even when I asked him how is him and his new girlfriend and he said on and off lately its and u know what turn me off out of the blue he start telling me how he talk to my other ex I stayed quiet its a good thing I didn't trip off to put to give him hot mouth talks about it

What's the difference between being blocked or being muted in posts and myday's? My ex muted me.

my ex said he felt something but he rejects it..cause he wanna be with this girl..and he wants to lose feelings first before getting with her..and he said he's not risking it with me..please help

My ex Ask me for a hug 🤷

Bro, he came after no contact rule. But again he left me, blocked me, what can I do now??? Can I wait for him ???

Hi Chris my spouse left me but he still wear his wedding ring

Hello I m from india Can I help my ex girlfriend to fill her tution fees, I know she need money but she doesn't ask me for help because she is too stubborn, and we are not talking fr few months Please tell me