the source of your drooling is Jealousy...not attraction...your subconscious replaces the feelings of jealousy by attraction because it's easier to live as attracted to other women than jealous of them...unless you're a man born in the wrong body thren time for srs.
but now you're jealous of your straight friends' status and egocentric self-love as a high value woman which you can never have now considering you have a huge list of other women you prefer over yourself...
omg yess then my mum would walk in and see what I was doing and I got nervous and zoomed out the camera so she couldn't see my holding hands with another girl ahh
Lmao I’ve hooked up with ladies and had a girlfriend when I was 16. String of many hetero breakups. 34 now. Am I gay? Yes I am. Who woulda thought. Thanks mom for telling me I was going to hell for messing with women growing up.
The celebrities one was a real give away for me. My first childhood crushes were Debbie Harry and Gabtiele from Nena . I am in my mid 40s so they were really prominent musicians back in the early 80s.
Mood, I literally had lesbian ships when I was really little, like before I even knew what being gay or lesbian meant- I shipped Pinkie pie and rainbow dash so much I even drew what their kids would look like lol.
Most games i played didnt allow women to choose the women dating routes so id always choose the man character just to date chicks too, plus i never made my boy dolls date my girl dolls cuz i thought they (the boy dolls) werent hot enough or worthy
That's not bad, I didn't realize I was gay until I was 51 and twice divorced. I'm a soft butch and everything about my life was clues to everyone but me. Now I got an awesome wife.
Yeah, these were some of my signs. And I mean SOME, I have way more 1. Wherever I did something like write stories, read romance and make scenarios in my head (stuff like that) 2. I have never had a male celeb crush, only females 3. I always commented on female characters in movies, like “she is so pretty/hot” “her hair is gorgeous” “wow, she is toned” and I don’t remember ever commenting on male characters 4. If there was a option between a hetero romance or a lesbian romance I always chose the latter 5. When I was younger I knew that a crush was supposed to be like “butterfly’s in your stomach” so I tried seeing if I had butterfly’s around my male friends, which I never did. I never realized the feeling in my stomach when seeing some women was a crush (on big one I r ember was Rikki Chadwick from H2O just add water. I had a crush, that I didn’t realize was a crush, on her when I watched it first at 8, now I rewatched the show and remembered the feeling and realized I have had a crush on her for 5 years and I still do) Also another thing I just remembered is when I was 11 (I’m 13 now, so not that long ago) I was talking about my ex best friend and in my language there is only the word “vriendin” which translates to both “girlfriend” and “friend, so there is no distinguishing. So I said “yeah my ex-girlfriend -“ and then a guy I was friends with asked me “oh are you gay?” And I was like “oh I was just talking about a platonic friend” (I didn’t even specify that I wasn’t, which could also have been a sign) and to thsi day I’m not sure if he either, had a crush on me, was just super lgbtq+ supportive or if I give off a gay vibe. Okay more signs because I’m bored 1. I don’t like abs on men, but I do on women 2. I always thought a women’s body was was prettier then a men’s body, like I would never stare at a man and think “oh he has such a good body” but I did with women 3. I’m not sure if this is a sign since I wasn’t attracted to (at that moment “her”) and I’m not trans, but the ex- best friend from the “are you gay” story above is trans (ftom) Actually after watching/reading more early gay signs, I think my 8 yo sister might also be gay. She walks around without her shirt still (there is nothing there, but still) she always says she wants to marry me (because she doesn’t really understand the difference between romantic and platonic love) she is disgusted by the boy that was a crush on her and she finds him annoying and she wants to adopt kids cause she is scared to give birth (she still thinks a baby just spawns or something so idk if this is a gay sign or her just being scared of the pain) Another edit: I just remembered I also used to make lgbtq+ drawing (like a love = love drawing) which also, I’m so happy I made, because I made it on FaceTime with that trans friend I talked about earlier. He ended up never telling me (my mom found out through Facebook) but I hope it gave him some confidence to know that at least I supported him (even when I did it know either of us where queer) he never told me and we grew apart, he kind of broke me, but I hope that maybe it helped him come out and he can live a better and free life.
Okay no but… I was playing a game where you could choose who you wanted to be with, and I kid you not, I cried when I found out the female character was unavailable for me to date
Lesbian here. The “no male celebrities” thing is so true. Never had a male celebrity crush. In fact, I always joke with my girlfriend that I have 3 wives (listed in no particular order): 1. My girlfriend 2. Marilyn Monroe 3. Zendaya Don’t judge me please 🙏
These were my 3 signs: First, I have pictures of me dressed up as Batman when I was like, 3 Next, I REFUSED to wear dresses as a kid. And 3rd, I was always a tomboy. I climbed trees since before I can remember. Idk how it took me so long to figure out I a was a lesbian 🤣🤣🤣
So I played volleyball on my school team and there was a girl that when i first laid eyes on her I fell in love so now I think I'm a lesbian but I don't think she is lesbian😭😭😭
Signs - when I had a boyfriend I didn't care if they wanted to kiss other girls, as long as I could kiss them too. Seeing pole dancers etc is cool. Thought I was just a really chill gf, nope just gay asf subconsciously trying find loopholes in a heteronormative society. Also kissing girls and being physically affectionate and deeply intimate like it's the 1800's. Because friends should be able to kiss friends. I was fine if my bf wanted to kiss his mates. I encouraged my friends bf to kiss his friend so I could kiss his gf 'as a dare' lol. Fun times.
when I was in elementary school I used to fantasize that I was the green power ranger so i could spend more time with the pink power ranger. I had a bit of a crush
omg when I'm near a girl and they're just nice like girls help girls whatever I get BUTTERFLIES I just love how girls help girls. I really feel like I'd wanna DATE a girl but I wouldn't wanna spend the rest of my life with one because of the children thing 😭
like when I’m in a relationship with a girl I feel like we’re soulmates but with boys I jus lose feelings a lot but my parents don’t allow me being lesbians 😢
it was so confusing for me bc i thought o was aroace for years since i don’t get crushes that often but when i do they’re all girls but i liked a boy once so i thought i was pan. turns out im just demi and lesbian 😭
I always think like that. When someone asks me- How it's going whit the boys? And i'm like- 🤔Idk 😅... I don't know if i like both or not:( But i TEAKLY agree whit that i always chose the male character in games and stuff
For me the signs were . 1)obsession over female charecters who never like men 2)looking under the dolls skirt (i should have not wrote this ) 3)have feelings for some female friends but I never understood that feelings . 4)the idea of dating men and having crushes on them feels odd 5)shy areound older young woman
I don't need signs to know my spirit is Mama and the lesbian is man. Drop the n and you have Ma, half of who I am crowning life. Awakened My Body My choice who creates in me MAMA
So I keep thinking and keep being told that I’m either a lesbian or a Neptunic in denial because I’m bisexual but my two genders of attraction are female and nonbinary (sometimes gender fluid), so am I just gay or is it ok?
GUYS HELPP so I feel attracted to men and women, more emotionally than sexually with women, I can totally imagine myself making out with a woman but thinking of that with a man doesn't sound as nice, what am I?
I’m not gonna lie I really want to be lesbian I don’t even know why I just wanna be attracted to female, but I’m not. I genuinely think there’s something wrong with me.😂😂😂
Same,... Its troubling to see and hear all these stories of people whose experience is that it took them a really long time to find out they tried to supress it they always thought they were straight and for me its not the same thing at all i'm glad to see im not alone
I am lesbian but I can’t[im 11 btw]my granny is a total homophobic and I think she’d really disown me.and my friends would just judge me until I break down and cry 😢
Videos games if I have to be a male or female and had to date the other gender, I'm going male lol but I'm always a women with a wife. 😂 That was the major hint for me. All my crushes were females, I only wanted to be friends with guys and do masculine stuff. When I was a teen and a guy hit on me I would say yuck that's gay 😂 confused the heck out of them 😆
I was 6, and had a crush on Whiteney Houston, and always crushed on black girls with blonde or black hair, curvy or chubby, so I had a type, but dated men, because I was scared, i came out, and my mum don't believe im gay
Guy here, hetero. When playing a game I usually choose the female character, because I don't give a flying rats fart, because the story will mostly be the same, but I get to look at a buttox I enjoy, rather than a buff dudes behind. So that's not an argument there.
It is because of the reason. You chose female because you didn't care. She chose male because she wanted to get with the girl characters but probably wouldn't be able to if she chose a girl character.
@@Ellie-bj2uw depends on the game. Skyrim and fallout 4 I always play as a female, reason is mentioned above. Mass effect on the other hand I always play as male Shepard because I want Tali. I the end, it doesn't matter.
I'm pansexual but I'm definitely not a lesbian because I like 2 boys yet I'm dating a girl who's lesbian and she goes by she/they and she knows about me liking them and our relationship isn't even romantic or cute we are a friend type of couple I guess
I was playing a game today and this girl came up to me and asked if I was gay at first I was like …. Then I said yeah why then she said your a girl right I said yes it’s night time to and I had to go to bed at the same freaking time to 😭😭😭I hope I can she her tomorrow not to get me wrong I did blush as much as she did
So kinda random, the only way I could see me being lesbian is I’m attracted to like more masculine women or trans men….. I don’t understand can anyone help?
I think it’s called androsexual, I’ve never heard of it I’ve just googled it up but it means that you are attracted to people who have masculine traits, such as masculine women and trans men
“If a man lies with a male as with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination; they shall surely be put to death; their blood is upon them.” Leviticus 20:13 ESV Jesus loves you ❤ Not the sin
