I've never understood the point of going to a club. You get to waste time listening to bad music, drinking overpriced, poorly made drinks, meeting low quality women and watching people use drugs.
@@HotDominicanDad That's very true and thank you for saying that. Getting ahead in life requires discipline and hard work. Clubbing and using drugs won't get you there.
@@ModernDatingLifeFJ they don't need to be complimented, your gaze and body language can tell them theyr level of attractivness. and that's only other man woman will still compliment them
Dont believe that BS bro. Girls have some tricks to not look obvious at handsome man. I ve heard that many time 🤷🏾♂️. You can be the most attractive man and some girls can walk past you like your a ghost because she is shy. Im a good looking dude and i get that confirmation when i approach even tho i didnt see a woman look more than 2/3 times at me 🤷🏾♂️
@@BONNIE12YTNah it's just facts. He might let you skip the line if you have status or money, but he's not gonna be like "ooh that guy is really cute I'm gonna let him cut in front of everyone" like wtf 😂
Bouncer won’t but one of my friends in our group was an nba prospect in our city for uni and after march madness the owners would let us in for free and give us sections bc of his status. If ur a dude and u have value to give to a club (I.e ur presence) then it’s applicable.
Being attractive is nonnegotiable in this era. The game has evolved due to social media. Back in the day an average looking guy would set himself apart by approaching. With the internet women now have access to good looking guys. Normal looking guys are mogged. Be happy for the hyper competitive playing field. It’ll make you stronger
If a dude you’re cool with ignores you when he’s around women it’s because of competition. I’ve had too many dudes I’m cool with at the job or outside of it ignore me when the shorties are around shit brazy. Not even quick dap up or nothing. But if it’s only dudes around or no one around they dap ya boy up.
They do not let men skip the line because they are "attractive" - you make a good point about them being stupid waiting in line at the club, but that isn't going to be a determination of their attractiveness, just their intelligence and funds.
Tell him. lol FiT sometimes (and often) says shit that I swear are highly opinionated and from his anecdotal experience and not real world experiences or data from other people.
I like Fit he's funny gives good advice but IMO he focuses too much on looks. Not saying you shouldn't try to maximise your looks as much as you can BUT. Think in real life how many good looking girls have you seen with AVERAGE guys? A LOT! I see it all the time Nothing replaces game, your 'aura' inner confidence that trumps all your looks, you can be a very good looking guy but if your noT confident inside girls will not like you. Plenty average guys be slaying, but that has inner confidence.
Most of those average guys your talking about are very well presentable and look after themselves. Usually has a clean cut. They may not be attractive naturally but they up their by being self aware.
Attraction is also made up of… At, traction & action you have to be on point in all aspects of your being, be a whole being to attract a women who is also who is also whole!
Yeah not quite the same "whole" though. A man's "whole" being is 100% spot on with looks, dress, movement, smile, good eye contact, breath, body scent, verbal tone, verbal substance and overall confidence. Then comes passing numerous psychological women tests. Pass all of this and you are now on the radar and you need to pass the friends "ick" At any time you could give her friend the "ick" and its game over. A women's "whole": Look somewhat cute.
All my life in kindergarten/middle school girl were running after me in high school girls be making rumours of me liking a girl just to get my attention. Now after school I’ve been dealing with fat gain and severe acne. Adulthood is way harder because alot of men are done with puberty and are way better looking so the competition is so much harder and easier at the same time because of lazy people like me. I can get back in my prime I just need some discipline and adjustments, we got this boys!
His coach approach all are bad I got his boy Miguel texted me told that and I gave an example on how to do a cold approach. He didn’t replied back to me. Even duh I wanted some help in 2 other this.
I’ve come to the conclusion that I’m not hot to girls but definitely they see me as attractive. When I go out dancing plenty of them will try to be near me, initiate conversation and I’ll catch them sneaking glances often. The signs are pretty obvious if you know what to look for. Have faith if you’re not a 10 out of 10. You may not get double takes but you’re not hopeless. If you dress well and bring good energy it’s all you need to get some play.
How do you become more confident and less awkward. My guy tells me to start my own business, live life by my rules and make my own decisions. The confidence will come naturally. I feel like my awkward fidgety behavior makes me look less attractive.
I beg to differ on your 4th point. I know a lot of hot girls on social media with limited followers, Ig in particular and no their account isn't private.
This girl I met is really attractive imma Freshman in college she said I’m a 8/10 but not her type I don’t believe in the “not my type” bs was she just trying to be nice?
@@rafaelamorim3527 No that's a big lie... Western women consider Height as beauty standard while asian, african and arab women don't care. For african/arab/south american culture, a woman with curves and big lips are attractive while white people tend to prefer slim built women with no curves. No beauty is very relative and various
Taking notes for… being a wannabe Jason Derulo? Bro’s fucking pretentious, lives for cameras and who the fuck would ever have two girls fighting for you? In which world?
8:00 This actually happened to me. My acquaintances at the gym tried so hard to never invite me to any party because they didn’t want me messing with women in their/ our social circles 😂
@@Andy-jg7vp I have an 8/10 pack, and I’ve been bigger than FitX before before I lost weight to become a cyclist. I have a better jawline and chin than him too. Cope harder.
Took the bus today and omg the girl in front of me spam checked me out. Like every 5-10 seconds for the whole ride I saw her staring at me and then looking away. When I caught her she looked down instantly. Later a girl in my school that I think is feeling me walked towards me and just stood like an NPC next to me, not saying a word, fixing her hair, walking away and coming back for 10 minutes straight. She's like around a 6 though so Im not really sold tbh Not saying I'm a gigachad but I have to be around a 6,5-7 in terms of looks if you take women's reactions into account
Tbh, I've had women approaching me, double stares, been called pretty boy, cousins end their friendship over me, but I still think there's more to improve. The reeeaall bad, leng, 11/10 chicks I want are still a bit out of my reach and that vector is Money.
Sign #1: you can't progress interactions with women in the direction you want them to go. Choosing signals, googly eyes, all of that is cap until she's in front of you want it actually goes somewhere. Some women are in whole relationships they have no intentions on leaving, but they might simply enjoy the eye candy and free attention. Women can break their necks all they want. All that matters is whether or not she's willing to go the distance beyond that. You'll never know where you stand until you put yourself in situations that allow you to test a woman's interest and compliance. So if you're legitimately exposing yourself to a large enough group of women, you should already roughly know where you are by how many women are in your life.
Overly obsessing over your looks or others' looks is incredibly vain. People who have plastic surgeries and similar alterations usually have toxic personality traits.
Handsome guys get lots of perks…not waiting in lines at clubs is not one of them…once you get in getting free drinks is a perk haha I drink for free haha
