Signs You're Dealing With a Psychopath┃Jordan Peterson 

Do you think learning about psychopathic behaviors can help us better understand people around us, or does it risk creating unfair labels?

fucking piano, can't we just hear him talk?? He's good.

Piano turned me in to a psychopat

Please STOP putting music with every podcast. Your words are enough. No distraction needed.

Psychopath adds piano.

The psychopath I dated was able to fake cry and produce tears. It was used as a tactic so I'd let my guard down and open up... All for him to attack all over again. Two months out... His break up text to me pointed out every insecurity, trauma, or vulnerabilities that I shared with him but all of which was weaponized against me. They are cold. They are ruthless. And they leave a path of victims behind them...

Please stop playing music in the background. Very distracting. Jordan’s content is too valuable and important to be distracted by music. Not a good move. Stop playing music please. Let him talk. He is brilliant.

They will devalue every aspect of your life but this is a sign you have a light within yourself. Thief’s don’t rob an empty store.

You know what really gets me the most is that pyschopathic males are always caught but the female ones… they fly under the radar

My whole family are psychopaths. Took me 40 years to discover it.

It can be tough and painful to get out from under the thumb of someone like that, but it’s worth it. They can be unbelievably vindictive, too, because once you realize who they really are then you become a threat to their facade. So they will try to destroy you if they can. The good news is that once you battle through and get away from them, you can become much stronger and wiser if you apply what you have learned.

This music is making me feel like im a crazy person..

He's brilliant!!! It's so true: Nothing can bring them out of their Inferno! Walk away as fast as you can. Protect yourself ✨🤍

We live next door to psychopaths. It's been a frightening experience. We decided not to engage in any way.

They can destroy everything you built in your life, your financial situation, your relationships, or reputation. They like to spread lies about you behind your back and controll your steps. I felt the anxiety in my body, that is why really important to escape from them. Unfortunately you have to start rebuild your life again and again after narcissits crossed your path. They enjoy when you have pain and will not feel regret for what they did to you.

Unfortunately I tend to attract these types of people... narcissists, psychopaths, etc. At least that's my assessment of who they are, or appear to be. They usually want to know every single thing about you, in order to steer you in the wrong path, or a different path that doesn't mess up their path. False praise they lay on you, while whispering under their breath nasty comments about you, sometimes right near where you can hear it. And of course, the typical petty gossip, when they begin to get jealous of you. What's annoying is when the actual narcissist or psychopath ends up calling yourself the narcissist or psychopath. Not much self awareness within these types. They can actually cause a "normal" person to evoke the same traits, if the normal person is pushed long enough by the narcs/paths.

My son is sadly like this and i had a boyfriend who was a complete narc...i no longer see my son and it's heartbreaking but i realised long ago that i couldn't help him. His manipulation and paranoia are too damaging to my mind body and soul. I chose self love and am much happier without him in my life trying to destroy me completely. The ex boyfriend is all alone too now with only his self loathing. Choose you every time even if it means you lose a loved one because the image you have of them may not be the person they really are.

I was in a relationship with a psychopath, every description defining a psychopath describes who she was as a character. I regret sharing my soul with her. She always used to tell me that if she can’t have me then no one can. I haven’t been bothered except once from her, I broke up with her at the beginning of last month and she reached out at the end of the month and I ignored her. She was a narcissistic, manipulative, and overall toxic person. I’m glad she is out of my life and I sort of deal with a mental tormentor regarding her. I just want her out of my head and out of my life. Thinking about seeing her genuinely brings me fear. My heart drops to my stomach.

I'm not afraid because I was married to one and have some in my family. My life has been a complete nightmare already so threats don't scare me. I can't seem to get out of hell 4+ decades.

Yep, absolutely true! It’s a pit, almost impossible to climb out of and you look like the crazy one. “People say, “you are making too much of whatever”. “He’s such a nice guy.” “You just need to love him better, be there for him, go along with him, stop being so guarded! He won’t listen, goes to the bathroom, goes to get a drink, interrupts, never lets me finish a sentence let alone a thought, he corrects everything I say, googles everything I tell him factually. I’m dumber than a door knob to him and he shows me all the time, trying to convince me. And he had me there for several years. I had a brain tumor and was losing cognitive reasoning. I’m back and what I realize now, is I had given him so much freedom to abuse and belittle me, as I was losing myself to the disease. He knows I have figured him out, so he avoids me now or pretends superficial kindness to pacify me and show others around us, how smart, how fun, how perfect he is. It’s a bad trip! 34yrs of it. Pray for me please.

They will start with the mirroring, pretending to love everything you do, its the start of the love bomb phase, listen to your gut, if you sense something is off, run for your life

This is how we slide into the pit of hell and we become monsters ,. We must let ourselves be led by Our Beloved JESUS CHRIST ❤.

My dad had "antisocial personality disorder." That's what they called it in the 90s and early 2000s. He also had borderline personality disorder and the worst case of OCD I've ever seen outside mental health facilities. He went to jail for 10 years instead of treatment because he smoked pot to self medicate and there was no treatment back then. He got out and was way worse than when he went in and wreaked havoc on us until he went back for a shorter stint. I feel guilty about not seeing him after that until he died. If this country had real healthcare instead of whatever it is, I might've had a father.

Stop the damn music

Yes the intoxication made him SO much more dangerous

Its scary. Its good to be educated about these monsters that live among us.

While I have conversations with my husband I believe him almost every time than I realize oh he tricked me again he twist again It’s so annoying to feel stupid over and over

Been sourounded raised buy even people like this .. what a nightmare life has been , absolute waste of life 0 💔

I agree, been going through it for the last 4 years, and it's probably not going to stop.

Psychopaths are very good at telling people your a psychopath” They are very dangerous when they get their vengeance So much misleading information to shield the truth that will drain your energy

❤✝ *A man’s enemies will be the members of his own household.* - Matthew 10:36

They want you to disregard their bad behavior. They want you to agree to forget and forgive their nasty doings claiming that you should get over it. So gross.

In his books, Robert Hare said that he would take grad students with him to the interviews of the psychopaths in prison. Despite knowing they were psychopaths, the psychopaths manipulated the students. Even with knowledge not available to a common person in public - the person is a psychopath - they were manipulated.

yeah they suck. run when you figure it out.

😂 I find background music very distracting. I just want to hear the message. Period

AMEN. As gentle as a 🕊 but as wise as a serpent 🐍

Thank you for reminding me what it is like to deal with a psychopath. My ex scored a perfect score on the Hare Psychopathy Checklist. I thought he would go away.

My mother was in a nursing home. I went every day to see her. I found out that a new doctor had been hired. They told me his name he was a psychopath. I am mediately, went to the head nurse, and told her that he was not to see, or do anything with my mother I went to the head of the nursing home told her the same thing and that I had power of attorney and medical power of attorney he called me into his office a psychopath and said that he would love to work with my mother and why I said he couldn’t. I told him I knew him And he said he was a great doctor and I said no you’re not and if you see my mother because I have power of attorney and medical power of attorney that I will have you in prison and he says, but my patients love me I told him no they don’t. I know your patience, that was the end of the conversation

The background music doesn't distract me. I'm too engrossed in what is being said. I love listening to this man. He elevates your mind in an accessible way.

I was at the receiving end of controlling, envious, competitive behaviour by a charasmatic pastor...... Wow!! Unreal how charmimg, smiles like a barbie doll

Thank you Mr. Peterson - on what to look for.

my own son. I’m only thankful that he’s not violent. Oh, he’s intimidating, but he’s never had the nerve to actually be violent. I could see it before he was two.

Always aware, never naïve. Your heart lies your brain tricks you, but your gut never stares you in the wrong direction when a psychopath has a specific sequence of wording while looking through you not at you then you know that he’s brewing something in his head that he wants to completebecause the person feels inferior to you for all the wrong reasons always aware never naïve time to fold time to play

Restraining orders is just a piece of paper to someone that has no boundary lines for their selves or others around them. It’s just a piece of paper. It means nothing to those types of people that’s just disrespectful people with no boundary lines that wanna act like they have more mental problems than they have to make themselves seem bigger than they are, I’ve met quite a few people like that actually in my 40 years mostly 80% of people I’ve ever been around actually acted like that it’s aggravating after a while

What's really fun is getting two narcissist in a room together and just watching what happens, easiest way to do this is just to go to your neighborhood bar. It's like you're watching a rat, watch a snake.

The music isn’t the problem. It’s that you can’t overcome it to hear his wonderful voice of teaching and tune into the message. It’s a talent to hear music but yet focus on what he says. Sound it out and hear the message. Try it focus and overcome the music. ❤

I just confronted a drunk who tried this with me and then apologized for abusing me. He continually tried to down play my education, my current state, and low blows about being abandoned by my family.

I clearly remember spotting people with some of the tendencies when I was very young...around 10 years old more or less....and probably more in kids my own age and slightly older that were always trying to get away with something and get over on people, consistently....there were adults as well, but I was always with friends for the most part...there might have been one or two close calls when I was alone, but I basically asserted myself and nothing came of it

Wtf is with piano 🎹 in the background.

Thank you for sharing🙏🏻

Thank you.

This was so informative. The Paul Bernado reference was very good. Pychopath's seem to enjoy Schadenfreude - Schadenfreude is of the German nouns Schaden, meaning "damage" or "harm," and Freude, meaning "joy." So it makes sense that schadenfreude means joy over some harm or misfortune suffered by another. Alert Trust

I love the background music. Great choice!😉🙌

I came here for good piano music. I keep hearing talking in the background. Kinda distracting

About there being more male than female psychopaths. Females are far more cunning and better at veiling and covering behaviour so, in my opinion, they don't get diagnosed as often.

Stop the goddamn music

Look for people with crazy (wide af) eyes, and people who don't blink. If somebody doesn't blink or blinks weird (like they're making themselves blink) you'll know. It's difficult to see the dif between the psychopath and narcissist. If they don't destroy your life, it's good to be exposed to them, b/c it'll make you more resilient.

Good information thanks.

Not all psychopaths are killers. They can look very normal, have normal family, normal job. Similar to a sociopath but they don't show emotions. Sociopaths are are not in control of their emotions, they flip out easy. That's how you can tell the difference but both are dangerous and you should run from both.

The Paul Bernardo interview/ interrogation is highly recommended. Was astounded at how he acted and sounded nearly identically to Tom Cruise.

Thanks for the information. Aweful😢

With me no chance. I sense manipulation imediately. Never had a closer relationship to a narcicistic personality.

Love The Music! Keep making your beautyfull videos❤

Thank you! I have some doubts about some guys.

At 7:26 on through to the end, He somewhat describes what could also could be described as a psychological black hole, which is not the person's fault at all. It comes from attachment trauma in infancy.

Hearing him always does me good❤

Be aware of this stuff. You can set a protective wall around yourself. Never be in a victim state, ultimate ownership helps you to repel this kind of evil. Rise your energy level to the maximum, your inner energy, let the people around you feel it. Never be afraid to break up with toxic psychos, whether it’s your partner, friends or colleagues. Ideally you improve your connection to God, talk and pray to him. Ask to give you more strength, not just fewer temptations. This are demonic temptations, you can see it in every video of exorcists. God’s assistance may help you!

Thank you Jordan

Please, go ahead and "fool" me. Let me know who you are. The enemy so much easier to destroy once you know who he is.

Don’t trust people that are too befriending, don’t trust people that know everybody, you have to be fake if everybody likes you right, just bc somebody is smiling and playful all the time doesn’t mean their a good person they get you to trust them & let your guard down so they can strike

I’m sorry is there any way to reupload this without the background piano? It’s honestly really distracting from the content

I found that if you let people talk they'll just give themselves away you don't have to be very manipulative or narcissistic or any of that you just ask a couple of questions and then let them talk they'll tell you just exactly what you're looking to find out and then the Wet games begin

My mom is definitely a psychopath. She's always gaslighting and manipulating with her emotions and loud noises etc. I tend to fight fire with fire unfortunately. If someone is loud to me, I'm even louder.

My ex best friend is on the psychopathy spectrum. Their inability to empathize with others is astounding. They are NEVER the back guy in any situation and they have a clever way of manipulating your emotions to make you feel as though you're in the wrong. It does severe damage to the victim amd causes them to doubt their own senses. Which, of you ask me, os even more evil than lying

Once again i tell you, Ive been burned since a kid 🙂

So very true.

Why the need to add cringy music :D

I left previous video to escape that famn piano and here it it again !

Clowns make up is not the psychopath! It’s the people in the suits that look so good! 😂

Love him

I never realized how lovly the piano is. Can you please continue to use the piano.

Excellent assessment Master Mentor. And it appears to also be a description of the antichrist we just found. I ask every day..."How did we create such a monster?"

Prefect Antidot for a Psychopath: Beeing a (Dark)-Empath with sociopathic skills and Sigma-Personality. The Psychopaths have no clue, what's going on 😂😂😂 and they fear what they can't understand. You can lean back with a smile, while they wait for a slap that never will come, rest of their life in an own hell. While they try to warn normals of you, to them you act allways in a correct behavior, the Psychos will end isolated and explored. 🤗

This topic is sooooo important but the music is soooooo distracting/unnessessary/loud and annoying when so many of us dealing with ADD/ADHD. Please don't torture your viewers, we want to hear the talk, not a piano concert. Thank you!

Hare took the psychopath checklist and actually tested very high for psychopathy. I think it was years before he took it himself. Maybe he was gaining insight to himself as he studied criminal psychopaths.

Sorry left after 60 seconds. Piano too distracting.

We're all a planet of broken people spinning like a top yet floating around in an almost immeasurable expanse. This universe we can't touch and feel as if were cast alone here to ourself. The outcome can't be good. The ironic thing is that if that is truth. Then each and every one of us is exceptional. Pehaps even precious.🤔

Can’t hear over music

I mean, what would you have me do forgive? How can I forgive when every moment in life I notice people saying one thing but the tone and vibe rather their body language is telling me something else. And this has me to the point where I can't tell whether to follow the tone or vibe or what the other person is saying, which in my case I can feel it change instantly when someone slips to the point it just takes a conversation before your labeled hate or an alright person. It's not 100% it's not 90%, it's 110% of the time that the tone and vibe are correct in my experience but it's so draining to the point it's easier just to lable everyone as hate and are out to manipulate for what's best for them not everyone else, it's like I'm in a world where I hate humans because everyone only is out to help themselves and only there to kinda help you if it benefits them. So imagine never being convicted of a crime or any sort of experience with cops the whole process of a court innocent until proven guilty deal, now then why is it that you here so many people tell you don't talk to the police or anything of the sort because they are trying to subtlety get you to say anything that can make it where you have shown some kind of involvement in that crime all while they are saying we just want to help you. Where alot of people talk because they think the police are only trying to help you the tone and vibe of them doing this is so apparent to me that it's disgusting and are instantly labeled as I hate this person but if he thinks he can manipulate my words, all I can say to him is okay... let's play a little game of me ruining your whole life to where you want to end It. Because at the point that said person tried to hurt me or any negative aspects, they are essentially the scum of the lowest and if they are not in a loop of continuous pain anguish then I am, just off 1 conversation gives me that outlook with every person I talk too not just in the example. Now tell me if this was the case for you how would you feel about life and what path would you take and what would you do?

This is soo true

What kind of person puts nauseating piano music in a video? A psychopath!

Music manic GONE CAN'T HEAR TWO THINGS AT ONCE F THIS

...you won't even want to fix it. You will be so angry at yourself. Exactly the point I reached today with someone.

Yes stop the music please it’s distracting, or lower it way down. Beware of a male playing victim or abuse from a woman a foot shorter then them

Yes its all making sense. 🎉

I am not returning back to the home I was in IM LIVING MY LIFE AND HEALING shit this shit scared me cuz I was adding up a lot of shit in my abusive household they even kicked me out at 18! The best revenge is to not become the abuser treat this world with kindness and compassion

My mom. I have seen that face before in person and in dreams. Trying to keep me trapped. . It's no joke... Dealing with a sinister person. But everybody that don't know them for real believes that they're who they really are. Smh ....then it's her other kids my sick older brother and sister. Same cloth from our mother. I felt all my life like omg what am I going through!!! My mom was like Cinderellas evil step mother and my bro and sister were her kids and let them do and say whatever to me. Even her boyfriends (whoever) and give that smirk. I always felt like why do they hate me so much!?!

“The harder you work on offering other people what they need and want, the more people line up to play with you.” I like that one, be the best you can be for others, by working on yourself to be a better self. As I would interpret it.

Soziopath is the worst I ever meet, a Psychopath is gold against a Soziophath

This is an exact explain of being an American Business owner.