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Signs Your Boss Wants You To Leave 

Benjamin Preston
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Bosses are not always the most likable people, but they're bound to be more likable than their employees. So why would your boss want you to leave?
Many people are uncomfortable with the idea of quitting, but it's important to be able to spot the signs that show your boss really wants you gone.
Watch this video and find out what six signs your boss might want you to go!
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00:00 Introduction
1:40 Doesn't Give You Help
2:34 Uses an Angry Tone
3:10 Negatively Compares You to Others
4:15 Constantly Criticize Your Performance
5:25 Doesn't Give You Any Feedback
6:15 Makes Unreasonable Demands
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@BenjaminPreston
@BenjaminPreston 2 года назад
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@maxalberts2003
@maxalberts2003 Год назад
What you're describing is a terrible supervisor.
@chapachapa8162
@chapachapa8162 2 года назад
A good sign i dont care if my boss likes me or not. He can kiss my ass
@jonnitaylor3144
@jonnitaylor3144 Год назад
Damn straight
@gotinogaden
@gotinogaden Год назад
I love this!
@itamar3800
@itamar3800 6 дней назад
What if he fires you tho
@you_only_have_4000_weeks
@you_only_have_4000_weeks Год назад
To all the hard workers that read this. No matter where you go you are going to have assholes that manipulate the system, gang up against you, in order for you to lose your job. Never run from a job or let a bad boss make you quit your good-paying job. You earned that job outright and it is yours to lose. Show up, show out, double-check your work, and ask your boss to quit if he doesn't want to work with you. Bet he won't. If you were doing excellent work then it just means that your boss is threatening of you. Do even better work and make him even more fear of you. NEVER and I mean NEVER quit unless you have too. Take a deep breath each day, show up, and do great work and collect the check for as long as you can. Now if you are on your last write up, then yes, find more employment before it is too late. I anit never gonna quit my job because of a fearful manager.
@growing367
@growing367 2 месяца назад
Thank you..
@jahrednjulie
@jahrednjulie 25 дней назад
Fuck that I won’t work for assholes it’s toxic if your a qualified employee there will be other opportunities. No one has to put up with shit bosses!
@maxalberts2003
@maxalberts2003 Год назад
Being passive-aggressive as a supervisor or manager says A LOT about the culture of an organization. Not to mention, it's unprofessional and a major waste of energy.
@gif24gt60
@gif24gt60 Год назад
Agree. Tell ur boss to stuff it.
@georgiafrancis9059
@georgiafrancis9059 11 месяцев назад
@@gif24gt60 I like your style.
@Jaymzdrmz
@Jaymzdrmz 8 месяцев назад
What about zero feedback and total indifference?
@Powerfulandmotivational
@Powerfulandmotivational 4 месяца назад
Ignoring emails, removing you from previous job responsibilities.
@preciousblackstone5051
@preciousblackstone5051 Год назад
Every job I've had has always been like this. The worst people are always the ones who are put in poisons over other people that they do not deserve.
@smoothiecutie2277
@smoothiecutie2277 Год назад
Exactly. In some cases the ones who work hard don’t get promoted. The wicked get promoted and ABUSE their power. But they SHALL reap the harvest of what they’ve sown sooner or later
@starlightwhispers6781
@starlightwhispers6781 9 месяцев назад
The better they act, the higher their role
@elmobolan4274
@elmobolan4274 6 месяцев назад
Happen to me, they ignored me, easiest job I ever had....Since I'm older, I waited it out until they finally let me go. I got severance pay and unemployment...now I can look more peacefully...
@genx7006
@genx7006 6 месяцев назад
Can you share what "the final straw" was that caused them to send you packing?
@nicholasrosen6342
@nicholasrosen6342 Год назад
You just shouldn't overlook the red flags that are right in front of you such as when your boss asks you "how long do you plan to work with us?" and also they may shadow your work micromanaging you, pointing out every little minute thing you're doing wrong and/or say you're did a "very poor job." So just know when and where you're not wanted.
@Jim-rh2nh
@Jim-rh2nh 2 месяца назад
Intentionally overwhelming or minimizing and demeaning an employee should be a sueable offense
@U-TubeAddict
@U-TubeAddict 2 месяца назад
They keep throwing your mistakes in your face, over and over, and in front of other staff, in a staff meeting.
@feefee8627
@feefee8627 2 года назад
What about when a boss is micromanaging you😡😡😡
@SuperCastilloe
@SuperCastilloe 2 года назад
That’s a good indicator
@User-zzyyxxvv
@User-zzyyxxvv Год назад
If it is a laid back boss and all of a sudden he’s micromanaging you, then ya he’s trying to mess with you and get you to leave
@bbqtool
@bbqtool Год назад
This is a game of who hates who more; your boss hating you or you hating your job? Bro I'm not quitting. Spite is a powerful motivator. I don't have anything better to do at home if all it takes for you to be pissed off is me being here. That's why you have to be careful who you hire. It's very hard to fire someone legally, it's really easy to hire anybody.
@user-ep9fu2be4z
@user-ep9fu2be4z Год назад
Haha ... fuck yeah. I like you.
@you_only_have_4000_weeks
@you_only_have_4000_weeks Год назад
Me Experienced here: Don’t quit your job due to a bad manager. I told my boss I am not quitting, I earned my job out right. HR told you guys that I was the best candidate and HR and Your boss hired me. So he has done everything to get me out the door because he wants friends there. Well, your manager doesn’t own the company and neither do you. That job is yours to lose.
@rickydamiron8762
@rickydamiron8762 Год назад
Literally had my manager add a senior leader to our teams chat, and mind you, they both conspired against me getting promoted.
@eury958
@eury958 2 года назад
Good Video, you are spot on. I made my own list based on my experience: 1-If your boss stops talking to you and starts ignoring you. 2-If your boss does not give you anything to do for a long period of time, so you get bored. 3-If everyone is treating you in a weird way or whispering behind your back. 4-If suddently everyone is lauhging and treating you poorly(Bullying you). 5-If the work you're doing is constantly too easy or is not releated to your position. 6-If suddently there is a new guy in the department and he starts asking you questions or asking for help about your position (good one). 7-If there is an event or a meeting and everyone goes and they don't tell you about it. 8-If there is a meeting in ms teams or zoom and nobody gives you the password and ask you why you did not join. 9-If everyone is talking about firing someone. 10-If your boss threatened you with sending an email to human resources about repeated warnings to record them in your files.
@BenjaminPreston
@BenjaminPreston 2 года назад
Great additions! Thanks for sharing, Eury!
@tomsuh1362
@tomsuh1362 Год назад
If they put you in PIP, watch out!
@jacobgora8942
@jacobgora8942 2 года назад
Im dealing with every single one of these. No joke. I cant believe it.
@montsergirl
@montsergirl 5 месяцев назад
I’m so sorry. I hope you found a better job. I am in this boat right now and i’m mind blown how things change out of no where.
@jacobgora8942
@jacobgora8942 5 месяцев назад
@@montsergirl what’s crazy is the boss of the place I was working at ended up having to let me go because of “payroll.” I later found out he told my coworkers I quit 😂shortly after that one of my coworkers who he would treat like scum ended up taking their own life. I was really close to this person and witnessed the way he would be treated. I have yet to receive my tax refund for last year because he has lied to the IRS about how much I had earned when I worked there. He’s continuing to try and interfere with my life.
@montsergirl
@montsergirl 5 месяцев назад
@@jacobgora8942 i am so so sorry for your loss, that is horrific! 💔 people like your old boss really need to learn how to treat people. I am at a loss for words. Try your best to not let him win and maybe go to the labour board and let them know how he has lied about your earnings.
@riddheshzaveri8103
@riddheshzaveri8103 Год назад
Such bosses are the culprit of fucked up corporate culture.
@priyaakshita334
@priyaakshita334 Год назад
Play wise so that your boss gets terminated. God is with you
@redbabyva166
@redbabyva166 2 года назад
I found your videos today. And so much of this stuff is true. Sometimes all u have to do is be good at your job and that's to much for them. Such a sad 😥 world for people like this. This is why everyone can't and shouldn't be a boss.
@BenjaminPreston
@BenjaminPreston 2 года назад
I completely agree... I appreciate you watching my vids! But yeah, not everyone should be a boss, and they're definitely not trained on being a manager
@allanbrito13
@allanbrito13 Год назад
That shows jealousy and competition
@bryce3851
@bryce3851 Год назад
Well everything you said justifies me leaving I'm tired , don't really have the mental capacity dealing with someone gaslighting and always publicily humiliating even I try doing my best to improve but always get talked down 👇
@christinem7156
@christinem7156 Год назад
What if I don't care what my boss thinks? I work for money, not approval.....and what if your supervisor actually wants you to work?
@tomsuh1362
@tomsuh1362 Год назад
Fu__k all bosese! You pay me, I work. If you dont pay me, see you in court just like any other civil matters. These class of people are out-of-control.
@boutiquebitcoin809
@boutiquebitcoin809 2 года назад
My boss keeps giving me days off. A whole week and now.... 😟😢 😭 💔
@SyluxYT
@SyluxYT 9 месяцев назад
Especially the last point: My former boss always gave me projects, but didnt explain shit and just gave neutral instructions so that i had to figure everything out by myself and he just added: „Yeah go ask other ppl they can help.“ Well most of the time THEY ALSO didnt even knew what he was on about. So i managed to finish a project, and then my boss would come up, criticize me for doing it the way i did, telling me how i should have done it. That was the point i knew imma have to leave that shitshow. Shit gotten unbereable.
@patriciaojigbo2976
@patriciaojigbo2976 2 года назад
Yes, he wants me to live. That what my boss did. And I left suddenly. He gives narrative to his superior that I'm the bad person.
@N.F.E.
@N.F.E. Год назад
Some of these things you described were things I saw from my old job. Got laid off two weeks ago but I know they were doing everything they can to get me to quit so I decided to continue doing minimal work even with how I was treated.
@justimagine2403
@justimagine2403 10 месяцев назад
Remain positive. Don't let them force you out. Especially if you are over 50. Or, don't even ask yourself if they don't like you. Assume good intent. Even if you are delusional. Jobs are scarce.
@Uksoapfan
@Uksoapfan 2 года назад
One common trait is they give you very menial and mundane tasks. Such as they have you working in the dirty jobs such as mucking out the toilets/working in the very smelly workplace waste management area.
@freedomdude5420
@freedomdude5420 Год назад
They know better than that, because there financial rip you off, if your doing yourself specially in restaurants, Janitorial work is always more unless your a chef. Know what your paying, they know better make the clean you for low pay.
@bmoshareholderappleshareho855
@@freedomdude5420 That reminds me of the downsizing 90s. Careers were ruined. Lives were ruined.
@freedomdude5420
@freedomdude5420 Год назад
@@bmoshareholderappleshareho855, tell more about this downsize, we need to stop fighting against each other. And look at the top, they are the real threat to all. Take manufactures for example, we can't not keep buy cheap products in other countries, we don't make anything anymore, or if it is here it is automated. This money low key getting taken by the poor and give to the rich by low jobs for Americans and cheap products made by poor in other countries. They know what they doing. I call it, factory hoping. It is a disgusting practice.
@BusinessAndEntrepreneurship.
I absolutely enjoy your approach and authority in this area.
@juststoppingby1602
@juststoppingby1602 4 месяца назад
My previous boss did not want me to leave as he was desperate (imo), but did ALL of these things. I left.
@samswirsky3654
@samswirsky3654 2 года назад
Number 4 is dead on. I just didn't think of it in those terms. Very helpful.
@BenjaminPreston
@BenjaminPreston 2 года назад
Thanks! I appreciate you watching. Glad it was helpful!
@Katie-Melissa
@Katie-Melissa 2 года назад
I love this video! Enjoyable yet informative at the same time! Thanks for sharing this..
@BenjaminPreston
@BenjaminPreston 2 года назад
Thanks for watching! Glad you liked it 😊
@ResilientFighter
@ResilientFighter 10 месяцев назад
Really helpful. Very mcuh needed
@unknownuser6757
@unknownuser6757 11 месяцев назад
My coworkers HATE me
@itamar3800
@itamar3800 6 дней назад
18 years old here, i see that he’s picking on me every time even when im getting more stuff done than other
@User-zzyyxxvv
@User-zzyyxxvv Год назад
Oh man, I think my boss is trying to get rid of me lol… He started to nitpick everything the past month or so. Everything I do, I somehow did it wrong and he’s occasionally snapping at me. He is now sending these emails on how to sort these “problems”. These were not problems at all 2 months ago. It is like I am talking to a different person. Also not really sure to be honest what the issue is and what he needs me to do. I honestly wish they’d just get rid of me. I am going to look for another job
@jonnitaylor3144
@jonnitaylor3144 Год назад
Get outta there... totally understand.. you are probably a threat.... maybe all the girls/boys like you and your boss is jealous
@freedomdude5420
@freedomdude5420 Год назад
Because fire involves writing and accountability and if there wrong, it will lead them leaving, not you, so the use gaslight techniques to get rid of you.
@kino7539
@kino7539 8 месяцев назад
How’d it go? Did you escape?
@lizreid-pi1pl
@lizreid-pi1pl Год назад
Many bosses are the 17 hands in Black Jack--you really want to hit them but you just can't!
@BenjaminPreston
@BenjaminPreston Год назад
This is one of the best analogies I’ve heard 😂😂
@His_creation
@His_creation 10 месяцев назад
Good information.
@unknownuser6757
@unknownuser6757 11 месяцев назад
I can sense that I’m going to be fired. They cut my hours!!!!!!
@alinowak2619
@alinowak2619 2 года назад
All very good points
@BenjaminPreston
@BenjaminPreston 2 года назад
Thanks, Ali!
@Theheavymetalshop
@Theheavymetalshop 2 месяца назад
If my boss wants me to leave he better have the balls to tell me what the problem is or straight up fire me. It's not my responsibility to be a mind-reader. That creates a nasty awkward toxic environment. Good workers are getting harder to find .
@yn9861
@yn9861 Год назад
I resigned yesterday
@masakololaisa325
@masakololaisa325 2 года назад
My boss never tell me about any chances of the company, high tone voice to us employees
@BenjaminPreston
@BenjaminPreston 2 года назад
Sometimes there isn't any opportunities... but it's not a good management strategy to withhold opportunities from you and your team
@RayS1384
@RayS1384 2 года назад
Hey please add timestamps to make the video more accessible. Keep up the good work 😸
@BenjaminPreston
@BenjaminPreston 2 года назад
Can do! Thanks for the feedback
@teejaylecapois9741
@teejaylecapois9741 Год назад
I got the same feeling
@outroseok
@outroseok 11 месяцев назад
only my hours were cut, meanwhile everyone else has good hours. That's when I knew something was wrong, time to start looking elsewhere bc I can't survive on this little of hours.
@alliecopeland3827
@alliecopeland3827 Год назад
This literally just makes you go into overthinking mode 😅 what would be helpful is giving advice, on what to say to your boss to ACTUALLY know if what you think is true. Everyone’s experiences are different so how fo we know this is the case ? And we aren’t just reading it all wrong
@BenjaminPreston
@BenjaminPreston Год назад
Hi Allie, you bring up great points! From my perspective, it's very rarely just one or two things that are clear definers. If you're seeing a lot of these behaviors happening together, it's something to keep an eye on. I definitely don't want to feed into people's confirmation bias in a negative way, but it's usually easier to navigate a situation if you have some indicators as to what's happening behind the scenes. It's definitely a situation by situation thing, so you'll have to feel it out for yourself.
@joshcortez2903
@joshcortez2903 Год назад
Thank you so much for this advise!!! So helpful! 🙏🏼
@anidaralopez5676
@anidaralopez5676 Год назад
I'm low paid even though I have way more experience and have a level of business savvy that is nonexistent in my department. My coworker says she was 'complementing ' me to the manager so that they would make me the lead on what had been assigned to her, so they did. Yet, my manager hasn't even bothered to put the accounts in my name and still have them listed in the name of my coworker (who is quite frankly inept) even after announcing me as the 'official' lead 6 months ago. I can out think and out perform the majority (and for sure my coworker; she's been here over 20 years seems to take pride her inabilities)......but I'm also 60+ and I think they know I really can't go anywhere else, so they can keep paying me less than the youngsters they hire with zero experience.
@fanfam
@fanfam 6 месяцев назад
The nice thing is that if you step up your game and do all the tasks very fast and within budget and keep on smiling. At the end the will view you differently...... but then I wouls say...... good by my friend.
@bac0nknight691
@bac0nknight691 4 месяца назад
Its not worth it
@kfing1
@kfing1 Месяц назад
No way I'm busting my a$s at my current job. The expectation is ridiculous. Also I'm a temp(!)
@ryancraig7695
@ryancraig7695 Месяц назад
I work in a warehouse I have a lead that is always singling me out having me work alone has even told me he doesn't want me in his section now that he is on vacation my true boss an assistant manager of the warehouse treats me as if I'm currently in charge of my section gives me updates and information on any changes that might be coming and never once told me he wants me out I also have co workers from other sections asking for me by name to answer any questions they might have or give any advice they need
@teams3345
@teams3345 Год назад
This has been the same info on six or seven VLOGs.
@PotterSpurn1
@PotterSpurn1 11 месяцев назад
They say 'good riddance' instead of 'good morning' when they arrive at the office.
@Macksbet
@Macksbet 8 месяцев назад
6:53 best advice
@MissTalmo
@MissTalmo Год назад
My boss keeps texting me after 7pm and wants me to respond
@brendamoosa2636
@brendamoosa2636 8 месяцев назад
That lady does that to me she very angry, I think it's bcoz of pace where running I do a lot of marathon and train harder in races sometimes I slow done that she finish early than me but when I have my tackies on I'm untouchable she is treating miserable but I'm positive person all her negative I'm resistant to her attitude, but it hit me hard at night mentally at night, I pray to God to open another job sometimes I feel like I'm a data capturer instead of clinical person,
@Tea962
@Tea962 Год назад
If youre doing a great job working under them you're just making them look good while they probably making look really bad.
@SuperNeutronX
@SuperNeutronX Год назад
When i work in an Company i feel eyverytime like i am Idiot!
@youknowwhatflav9916
@youknowwhatflav9916 Год назад
How can you report them
@metalbelles3662
@metalbelles3662 Год назад
Difficult.
@silvana8246
@silvana8246 Год назад
Report them to HR but good luck with that!!!!!!!!!!!!
@daze77gaming
@daze77gaming 8 месяцев назад
@@silvana8246HR most likely do not care
@amandakropen3273
@amandakropen3273 10 месяцев назад
"Are you sure this is the right career for you?" LOL.
@CULINARESS
@CULINARESS 8 дней назад
I laugh at the replacements. They find other full-time jobs so they can't be scheduled full-time once they have been there for two weeks. It's not the employees, it's the owner. They eventually quit.
@bmoshareholderappleshareho855
What about if they laugh at you every time they see you? What about if they give you dirty looks every time they see you? What about if your hours keep on getting reduced? What about if you are blamed for things other coworkers did?
@you_only_have_4000_weeks
@you_only_have_4000_weeks Год назад
Never quit , improve on your performance. Your unemployment center has programs that will pay for any trade you want including LVN 20 grand and you can have a career.
@pconrz
@pconrz 9 месяцев назад
When he doesn’t speak to you for months, that’s usually a sign.
@SuperNeutronX
@SuperNeutronX Год назад
My Boss has stolen Money and my hard working Time ! He wants me to leave !
@drsundipshenoy2471
@drsundipshenoy2471 2 года назад
👍👏
@MWALevi
@MWALevi 4 месяца назад
"You want to make employees lives miserable so they leave on their own"= Occupational Sabotage
@thelonehiker4698
@thelonehiker4698 11 месяцев назад
I had a job that paid minimum wage and my boss at the time expected perfection and wrote me up for the smallest things, I still want to kick his a** haha
@jjg8605
@jjg8605 Год назад
They illegally hack into my home pc They don’t pay money and force me to work for free I already quit and they harass me in my personal life
@MrNelsonnaruto1
@MrNelsonnaruto1 Год назад
Sounds like they need to get sued. That’s a crime and if a company is doing this or an individual someone needs to pay.
@kelpiegirl
@kelpiegirl 2 года назад
Unsolicited advice :Stop using "like", and 'kind of".
@Powerfulandmotivational
@Powerfulandmotivational 4 месяца назад
Isolation.
@katebueno191
@katebueno191 3 месяца назад
I'm good at my job !! Is time for you to stop sabotaging manipulating any issues add your name to list of accusers be ause you can't brake into my phone and get mad when you realize that what you though happened didn't happened !! As this was the only way I had to say what had happened to me !!
@rohittalwar5602
@rohittalwar5602 5 месяцев назад
MAKE VIDEOS ON HOW TOXIC SUPERVISORS CAN BE FIRED ... ITS POSSIBLE IN REAL LIFE THENNIT SOLVES YHE BIGGEST PROBLEM OF WHITE COLLAR CRIME
@rebeccaliew2247
@rebeccaliew2247 2 года назад
5 years ago, my ex-boss higher-up manager did all he could to get me leave the company. He did all those 6 signs mentioned in this video, plus 2 more: 1. My ex-boss hired 2 (yes, not 1 but 2) middle managers quite quickly to do one job - fire me on his behalf. The 1st one refused to do it because he found nothing wrong with my work performance, so the higher-up manager fired him after only 3 months on the job. The second one knew that he was going to get fired too AFTER he do what the higher-up boss wants, a.k.a. urge me to serve up resignation letter a.s.a.p. 2. When I served the resignation letter eventually, my boss laughed at me triumphantly. Bosses who want you to stay will find ways to make you stay, or at least put on a sad, 'reluctant-to-let-you-go' face of seeing you go. But nope, my ex-boss was joyful instead that I finally succumbed to him. Epilogue: my ex-boss was fired by the managing director of the company too, for messing up a sales contract mainly. 2nd (secret) reason was, my ex-boss brought in his mistress aboard the company, who has no qualifications needed by the company to work there, but she was brought in as compensation for the abortion my ex-boss' baby she carried. My ex-boss left less than a year after I left the company. During that time of his firing, I was busy upgrading a new language skill to complement my usual job requirements, but only this month, will I be putting that new language skills to use in a much bigger & better company I am confirmed entering into.
@fabianasouza3831
@fabianasouza3831 2 года назад
This is what we call Karma for him
@fabianasouza3831
@fabianasouza3831 2 года назад
Yes , while your boss trying trying mess with you and make your life miserable just focus on your work , Study, upgrade your skills , get power and let the karma works
@rockstarofredondo
@rockstarofredondo 10 месяцев назад
That is one gnarly toxic workplace story.
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