The NUMBER ONE sign that your ex- is unhappy in his new relationship...he's sleeping with someone else...especially after they've spent alot of time and energy flaunting the new one in front of their friends/family.
What about if this happens? I warned my ex's girlfriend about him because he used me and lead me on for years. Directly afterward she had her family members and friend message me telling me how "happy" their relationship is. I am in a relationship too but I definitely don't feel a need to convince others that my relationahip is happy.
So, recently my ex had messaged me out of the blue with saying that he knew that it was unexpected, etc. However, everything was normal at first but then, had slowly become weird. He started flirting with me and was expecting me to send certain stuff. Although, this would be technically of him cheating on them but then, tells me he is happy. I knew that was a front and he isn't really happy in that relationship. If he were, he wouldn't have asked. Although he seemed to thoroughly enjoy our conversation but I refuse to be friends with him and I'm not happy for him either.
My ex texts me pretty much daily, asks me to dinner ‘as friends’, comes over frequently just to say hi and catch up, gets upset if I tell him I can’t talk to him because it’s too painful when he’s seeing someone else. We still argue and fight sometimes and then try to work through it “AS FRIENDS” It’s so depressing. He never speaks to me about his current relationship (neither bad or good) despite her meeting his family and him saying it’s so amazing. I even asked him to block me so I can get over him but he refuses. Am I too deep into the friend zone to get out of it? He seems happy with his current relationship on social media and she’s forever bragging about the love of her life 😞 but he will come over and talk forever. He’s an avoidant and I’m anxious so I think this video is spot on.
if there’s one thing i know, social media posts dont always reflect reality. i know a couple that’s been stuggling due to the husband’s infidelity but you’d think they’re the happiest family if you see their posts..
My ex has been in a rebound for 2 months, and weve been in no contact 6 weeks now. recently she unblocked me on instagram after telling her to block me 6 weeks ago. My accound is public and hers is private so its not asif shes trying to make me jealous.. what are your thoughts on this mate ?
My ex only did like 3 things you mentioned he reached out but its once in a while and he talks bad about his girlfriend he we also try flirting with me also trying to take me out to eat but I rearly here from him maybe twice a month and we be on the phone for a hr I blocked him months ago never unblock him so as far as social media he can't see my post during are separation before I found out about the new woman we always was hanging out at his apartment having meals together and conversation but the second he moved out his apartment and moved in with her i was done with talking to him he's blocked on my phone
Mines won’t block/delete me off Snapchat nd he watches my stories nd everytime he do the new person finds out and threatens to leave him but he refuses to delete me tho 🤷🏾♀️
I ended up meeting someone around October and everything was honestly going so well. Her family liked me and my family liked her. Her family and friends would tell her how she had a glow to her and how she seemed happy because of me.. We always had a good time together.. we had an argument and I know that I screwed up by my communicating with. I didn’t chase after her I just let her go.. well all that happen we went the weekend without talking. When I finally reached out to talk to her she started saying how she realized she wasn’t ready to open up to someone because she was still hurting by her ex girlfriend… that she needed time to heal. But I don’t understand how something so good went to that point… she even told me she loved me and how she wanted to marry me and have kids with me. Well I respected her and I left her alone but every time she would reach out it’s like she was getting my hopes up. I would tell her how I missed her and she would back off and say how she’s not ready and this and that. It got to the point where I got frustrated and went off on her because it wasn’t fair for me.. I just don’t understand how something so good went back.. and I know I shouldn’t but I miss her and I want her to reach out but I feel like I screwed it up for good 🙁
Lol i cant see a thing bcs i am blocked everywhere. She unblocked me tho while in her rebound but blocked me everywhere a week ago. Idk maybe the rebound initiated the block?
