simple home, peaceful mind - a year of frugality and intentional living

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Ok, so… this video is a bit all over the place, but it’s the beginning of a big project: a few weeks go my husband and I started a huge and in-depth journey of going through every item in our home to decide how to simplify, minimize our items (while prioritizing our art hobbies and baby supplies, of course) and embrace a new era of living more intentionally, with a focus on slowness, simplicity, and frugality - to prepare for times ahead when we take time away to be parents and both experience some drastic shifts in our careers in the near future. We’ve always been people that just putter about at home and don’t go out much or even travel often, we stay put for the most part and continue on quietly, but we wanted to use this year and encouragement to be just a bit more mindful each day, and build up our resources for unknown future times ahead. I hope this inspires you to spend some time working on projects you’ve been putting off, or just decluttering or simplifying. Next week will be an in-depth look at the process on our end, with hopes of inspiring any of you seeking to do the same in 2024 ❤️
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@TheCottageFairy 4 месяца назад

@asouthernmrs.3714 4 месяца назад

We did this very thing when pregnant with our first child. I am not exaggerating when I say we must have given away or sold 75% of our belongings! I couldn’t believe how much I conformed to the consumer culture before becoming a mother, and I am so very grateful to my daughter for coming along and opening my eyes to it. Enjoy your simplicity journey. It feels so good to let the nonessential things go.

@user-kn4ju1td2q 4 месяца назад

@TheCottageFairy DEAR thank you very much for your channel. perfect and beautiful!!!!!!thank you

@deborahavary5185 4 месяца назад

Good Morning Sweetheart ❤️ This is An Awesome video as usual!!! I Think you were brought up in A Wonderful Loving family!!!💜🤗💜 I was brought up the same way!!!💜🤗💜 I wouldn't change A Thing!!!💗🤗💗 The Simple Life is The Best Life!!!💛🤗💛 You are SUCH A BEAUTIFUL PREGNANT LADY!!!💕🤗💕 Those muffins Look SO Yummy Delicious 😋 We Love y'all so very much sweetheart ❤️ Have A JOYFUL FUN FILLED DAY!!!💚💐💚 GOD IS SO AMAZING!!!🙏💙🙏💙

@naturegirl8944 4 месяца назад

You really don’t know what love is until you have a baby. Your urge to protect this new life becomes all encompassing. A wonderful experience although a little scary due to the unknown will be the most joyful thing you both will have done…

@sumitales3701 4 месяца назад

Was waiting for you eagerly...nd here u are...and when the baby arrives I will be away for a while...dis is what u said in ur last video if m nt wrong...I was just recalling those lines bt anyway happy to see u ...take care paola❤❤❤.when is ur d day???

@maryb.6755 4 месяца назад

I am a young-ish widow, and live alone in a nice, but modest rental home. I had a big clean out during 2023. For a full year I went through my home. Every room, every closet, every drawer, every cupboard. I got rid of 1,123 items in my home. I was very pleased with my effort. I donated everything that was still in good condition and had to throw away very little. It was ridiculous that I owned so much stuff.

@rachelarroyo6050 4 месяца назад

It would look so cool if you painted the door to look like wood planks. Lord knows you have the talent!

@czarina7786 4 месяца назад

I’m 64 1/2 divorced. Doing the same in second round since selling the house and having my own townhouse. It’s very rewarding to get rid of stuff. Paying down a bit of debt before Soc Security at 67.

@livinginthealgarveportugal3357 4 месяца назад

Lovely vlog gives me inspiration…love from Portugal 🇵🇹

@cuppatea4466 4 месяца назад

@@rachelarroyo6050 or maybe even just strip the door down to its wood and stain it to match the other wood. Because the house is a sort of homey cottage with lots of plants and wood around. I think that would look beautiful if the door was just in natural wood.

@Catlily5 4 месяца назад

Good job! I wish I could do that.

@alexlamia9946 4 месяца назад

I’m in my 20s and live with my parents. I’ve lived in this house and had the same bedroom since I was a small child. My aunt, who is disabled, moved in with us. She’s been staying in our living room for now. And I’ve been working hard, going through all of my belongings and moving them (what I’m keeping) upstairs to a bedroom. It’s technically the attic, but it’s nice. And I’m excited about moving up there. My aunt will take my old bedroom, which is on the main floor. She’s a sweet person, and I don’t mind doing this for her.

@dragonfly9209 4 месяца назад

Sounds wonderful that you will have the attic for yourself. If I was young and still at home with my parents---I would prefer it. It would be more private, and you can make it your own little sanctuary. There's so many things you can do to make it a very cute and cozy space. Keep watching creative channels like this one, to come up with some good ideas.

@quinn-wf3kk 4 месяца назад

What a wonderful thing to do for a beloved aunt. Bless your heart and I hope your attic room will be cozy.

@annalaren 4 месяца назад

bless u for your generosity & kindness ❤

@roxybennett3964 4 месяца назад

This is the right thing. I can’t imagine how terrible she must feel being sick and perhaps a burden but people love her and don’t mind. I’m sure. You are amazing you will be very blessed for being unselfish and doing this sacrifice. You will be taken care when I’ll or old age. Karma. ❤ God bless you.

@Natalia-pc7fm 4 месяца назад

You will never regret such a lovely gesture, an act of love to someone in need.

@rubyrein588 4 месяца назад

I want to admit sth...whenever i feel down and depressed i watch your videos they're literally my therapy:)

@MindfulMe-vg8xh 4 месяца назад

Same

@loripringle1018 4 месяца назад

That is the reason i tuned in today as well.

@VillageGirlss Месяц назад

😊😊

@SeaTurtle515 4 месяца назад

Paola, you are even more beautiful and glowing with your pregnancy. And yes, pregnancy and children do cause us to change in many ways, it’s a whole new magical experience. Bravo to you guys for pursuing a frugal, simple lifestyle, like restoring your door instead of it going to a landfill. I am 68 and I love my simple life, it’s where all the true blessings are found; family, nature, good books and good food! Thank you for another peaceful, inspiring and visually beautiful video. 🌿

@JenFlutterby 4 месяца назад

Simple life is so lovely. ❤

@TheCottageFairy 4 месяца назад

Aw ❤ Thank you so much!! I appreciate the lovely message

@LinorMilan 4 месяца назад

I just need to stop spending too much time on my phone (but I am too addicted) and it would be the perfect simple calm life I imagined

@sharonseal9150 4 месяца назад

Motherhood is a great gift, one that is life changing. Your love for your child will transform you without you even trying. It is already beginning. I love that you are working on finishing little details of your "nest" - as soon as you began talking about the door I immediately saw it with hand painted pine boughs and pine cones and a squirrel perched in one corner. Looking forward to seeing what you settle on.

@annettemills3067 4 месяца назад

It's so nice Paola what your saying about your lovely plans is just what I read from the Bible this morning " The plans of the diligent one surely lead to sucess" (Proverbs 21:5) ❤❤

@jayneanderson8057 4 месяца назад

After a long day of watching my twin grandchildren, I came home to a package I was so looking forward to. My Cottage Fairy Book I have treated myself to. I too have spent my life living carefully,,,choosing how I most want to spend my time and money. I was blessed to be able to stay home with my children and raise them and now to help with my grandchildren. We live in a simple home on the shores of Lake Michigan and we feel so blessed. Thank you for sharing all you do. I can't wait to sit down and enjoy my new book.

@evanagib9462 4 месяца назад

I went through hard times when i lost my parents in 4 months 😢and i have 1 disabled sister need to look after her with no support because she is not Citizen and i can't get any support from the government. Have a husband doesn't care about me and teenager boy don't expect too much from him. I went through all this hard times by myself. The only support was God gives me strength & peace. When i am really feeling down watching your videos made me feel up and keep me moving on. Thank u so much for sharing. God Bless U forever ❤❤Love u

@LinorMilan 4 месяца назад

Wow virtual hug!! Stay strong my dear.

@roseg1333 2 месяца назад

Wow that’s amazing! Keep going you got this and God’s got you never fear he is always by your side till the end of days peace be with you 🙏🏼❤️🕊️✝️💕

@VillageGirlss Месяц назад

😊😊

@carrad123456 Месяц назад

Strength and love ❤

@roblebby3765 4 месяца назад

I am retired and live alone. I have been in my house for 10 years now and I have become painfully aware of how I have collected and accumulated things - things that I no longer want or need. So, yes, I am in a major spring cleaning of my own. I can honestly say it is such a freeing feeling to experience the transformation. On another note, I am very intrigued by your husband's crystal collection. I live near the Great Smoky Mountains in East Tennessee and I don't believe we have those here, but it is certainly a good place to keep an eye out for other unique finds from nature! Thank you for the vlog and I hope that rest of your pregnancy goes well for you, your husband, and your child. I enjoy watching your videos from week to week.

@peggyduncanbaggenstoss5380 4 месяца назад

In north Arkansas mountains there are crystals. The ones I have I picked up walking on trails. East Tennessee probably have crystals.

@sophiaisabelle0227 4 месяца назад

You look absolutely stunning. Rest assured you'll always have our support no matter what.

@Woodsgal59 4 месяца назад

"... they just keep growing, putting what energy they have into life, because for them there is no point to existing if you can't grow. It's an absolute must". That's life in a nutshell, isn't it? Love it! Thanks as always lovely Paola for sharing with us! Love and hugs!!

@lauramonahan9343 4 месяца назад

Lovely video. Simplicity and frugality bring so much freedom, bravo to you! Newborns need very little in the way of "stuff", too, but it's quite easy to get caught up in thinking they do. Best wishes, I know in my heart you'll do well.

@hughdfukairs1768 4 месяца назад

Every moment to come is unknown, but within each moment is the truth of simply being.

@vickigunnpermaculture1976 4 месяца назад

While I was watching your lovely video, I had a sudden thought - you could create an amazing and beautiful children's book! Your video is so gentle and calming, it cheered me up. And yes, it inspired me.

@sheilavanduynfote5539 4 месяца назад

Being a mother is the greatest gift you will ever receive❤️. Just when you think you have found love, the love you will feel the moment you hold this precious baby it hits you like a ton of bricks. You will remember everything that involved the birth. My daughter is 47 and my son is 39 I still remember that first look, touch and first cry. I really enjoy every video. May you have a Blessed day❤️❤️❤️

@24Jeeya 4 месяца назад

When you simplify... box the things you may pass down to your daughter. Now that mine is 17, it's a joy to see her in my old things. Of course, she doesn't favour my favourites and wears stuff differently. But O, the joy!

@mairishkar 4 месяца назад

Only keep the things that bring you joy!

@GloryBe123 4 месяца назад

I would suggest that you switch to beeswax candles that actually clean the air as other waxes emit particulates that go deep down into the lungs.

@christymason8253 4 месяца назад

How fortunate you are to have realized at your age that "less is more". I'm 70 now, and decluttering is a much greater task, what with all the years of gathering. But I'm working on it! A good book that inspired me is "The Gentle Art of Swedish Death Cleaning". (It's not morbid as the title might suggest, parts are very humorous! 😊)

@janetclaireSays 4 месяца назад

(I'm wondering if my comments are visible here, can anyone tell me? I seem to be having some trouble with RU-vid.) Instead of simplifying for Spring I seem to be drawn to buying new crystals!` I wish I could find them around where I live. I think a terra cotta paint will look great on your door. Paint can make such a difference and you're inspiring me to do some painting. You're muffins looked delicious!

@dragonfly9209 4 месяца назад

Your comment is visible Janet. I too, have gotten a sudden interest in finding some beautiful crystals.

@Sue-np9fp 4 месяца назад

Paola Your videos are absolutely breathtaking, I love them. You are so beautiful, natural, and true in your philosophy of simple living and 'treading gently, on the earth'. You are an inspiration! Love the bunnies, love your dog and little cat! Thank you for the joy you bring! love sue xxx

@user-qh8nh7oe6d 3 месяца назад

'Trading gently on the earth' The world needs millions more Paolas.

@Sharsung 4 месяца назад

You’re nesting, how lovely and precious. Brings back happy memories. Thank you!

@joanhenschel3511 4 месяца назад

Ah, you're so radiant and beautiful, Paola! So good to see the sign of a little human snuggled against his mommy's heart. Enjoy this time of change, dear one. Looking forward to your next video. Hugs and best wishes from Mossel Bay in South Africa 🇿🇦

@thekindmystic 4 месяца назад

The frolicking spring fairy is now a fairy mother🥺❤

@islanding-salishsea 4 месяца назад

Yes, spring is in the air! You look radiant! I am also going through a decluttering phase. For years neighbors in my small island community have been giving me lovely cast off items from their homes which I’ve squirreled away for potential use in my own home build. Now I’m finally working on the interior, and can accurately assess each item and whether it will actually work in my new space. Next month we’ll have a community flea market, so all my unused items will be able to go to other homes in the community to be recycled yet again.

@user-ex9cs9up8b 2 месяца назад

Thank you. Your videos are like meditation for me. It's quiet time, nature, reflection. 🌸

@coletteg.4548 4 месяца назад

Motherhood is the most beautiful gift God gives us , I think. You’ll never love anyone like you will your child. It’s a love like no other.

@tedpreston4155 4 месяца назад

Just admiring Paola's baby bump is enough to convey some of the joy of motherhood to those of us who will never know it firsthand! Paola seems to convey joy in everything she does!

@connieboylan9159 4 месяца назад

Motherhood is not for everyone

@tedpreston4155 4 месяца назад

@@connieboylan9159 Nope. It's not for my my household. My wife didn't want to bear children, and I didn't want to pass my genes. Match made in heaven! 🙂 But Paola wears her motherhood magically, and I'm glad she's passing on her genes!

@CherylAnderson0 4 месяца назад

It is a gift from God. A miracle of God.

@dragonfly9209 4 месяца назад

@@connieboylan9159 In my opinion--every woman is a "mother", whether she's borne children--or not. It's a loving, nurturing spirit that is part of being female. My childless, middle-aged daughter is one of the greatest mothers I've ever known. Her tender, devoted care that she has always exhibited toward her nieces and nephews, her pets, even plants---every living thing...is the universal mothering spirit that is inherent in the female nature.

@jannybranciforte9295 4 месяца назад

So beautiful, Paola, your home with the lace curtains and beautiful colors, your soul, Luke’s Chrystal’s, it’s all magical. Thank you always for every episode. 🙏💜🕊

@theprimitiveblackhatsociet8274 4 месяца назад

I understand what you are doing and how you want to live. In the past I had the big life, big job, big house, big car, even lived in a big city. With all I had the one thing I was not...was happy. My husband and I had grown apart and were no longer on the same page. We went our separate ways. 10 years later at age 50 I met my now husband; we have been together for 15 years. We live a simple life in a 4-room house in the mountains of NC. I retired early and spend my time in my art studio. I have been living a frugal life and want to make it even more so. I have been spending the past month looking at my home and seeing where I can simplify it even more.

@jackiegagne2625 4 месяца назад

I have been undergoing phases of 'decluttering' over the past 6 years. Following a big move (drastic) and the deaths of my mother and brother it made me realize (finally) that decluttering is not just about 'stuff'. For me, it is about myself, my value, and prioritizing the physical stuff and needs in and into my life. My next stage is drastic decluttering. I am not moving, but want to create more 'space' in my home. I am not going to refill it. I need a space for my new art passion (no need to buy, have it all) however and this process will enable it. 2024 for me is a mindful journey as well. One day at a time.

@Englishroserebecca 4 месяца назад

Love your hairstyle Paola and the inside of your lovely home always calms me. ❤

@viccimauldin9786 4 месяца назад

I always love your videos. I love the simplicity and mindful life that you live. Thank you for sharing with us your thoughts and feelings. They help a lot. You look radiant pregnant Paola. You are on the right track. Hopefully you will share you child with us, but keeping in mind that he needs to be kept safe. Love to you and your family. ❤

@kathylibby3676 4 месяца назад

When I saw the purple door, my reaction was that it was a delightful color! If it were mine, I wouldn't change it.

@rhondabeaman1 4 месяца назад

I appreciate your journey to simplify and declutter things no longer needed. Holding onto things can often indicate holding onto the past in a nonproductive way that can block growth. I am trying to do that too and your video softly supports me❤ Sending 💕love

@gladysperez8156 4 месяца назад

I’m just doing spring cleaning and it’s helping me declutter the small closets I have in my two bedroom apartment in the city I’m located. I’ve listened to Mrs. Sylvia Ahora, and she indicated to me that washing the dishes right after I used it became so simple and less tedious than when I piled them up. Living intentionally and frugality is the ways to go in this fast paced world. Enjoy your beautiful motherhood. When I was pregnant almost forty years ago, I had treasure every moment ( almost , not the morning sickness). Blessed 🙏

@bryonmacpherson1470 4 месяца назад

Thx Paola. You have a baby bump! Cheering you on from here. Let us know when you start feeling little kicks!

@user-lx4bz1xc7j 4 месяца назад

You could do a painted stain glass on the door window I've done a few projects like that in my home and it's fun and turns out beautiful

@debiebrumley3104 4 месяца назад

I have just retired and finally decluttered my entire home and the feeling of relief is wonderful !

@dorarebelo673 4 месяца назад

Hello, dear Paola! It is great to hear from you. Be very careful with painting during pregnancy. When I was pregnant, I decided to paint a basket for the baby's room. The smell of the paint was very toxic, and I remember that it made my stomach upset but I did it anyway. The following day, I had to spend half a day at the hospital. They could not figure out what it was, and it did not occur to me that it was the toxicity of the paint. Well, coincidence or not, when my son was born at 8.5 months the doctor said that a portion of the placenta had detached sometime during the pregnancy. Thank God he was fine, and his health was perfect. However, be very careful with what you inhale 'during pregnancy.' Our bodies "behave" differently than usual when we are pregnant. I remember that my sugar levels were higher than usual...close to the limit. Take care of yourself! 🦋🦋🌷🌷

@Cindy-bee 4 месяца назад

You can paint the glass window in your door. There are product that look like lead but are easy to mold. With your artistic talent it could be simple but beautiful. The best part is you can remove it if you get tired of it. Even glue will give you a frosted look when it dries.

@user-cd8dk3gd7v 3 месяца назад

It's the kindest blog I have ever seen. Can't stop admiring it! You are going to be an excellent mother! Lots of love from Russia ❤

@dianamarie1652 4 месяца назад

I love how you have transformed your home into a beautiful, warm, lovely cottage 🏠 the eggs are beautiful! I have been decluttering as well. It’s amazing how quickly we consume things! Thanks for sharing with me 💖💐🌹🧁

@brendastratton1306 4 месяца назад

I am downsizing my home in a big way. My husband passed away in September 2022. For several years prior to his passing, I was his sole caregiver. At the same time, I was also ill, so all of my effort went to taking care of him. In the time since, I have been focused on getting myself healthy, including several surgeries. All that to say that it has been several years since I had the ability to go through my home and rid myself of the things that are no longer needed. It is going to take some time, but I look forward to clearing things out. Most of what I clear out will be donated.

@KENTUCKYUSA1 4 месяца назад

You have been through so much. As a 76 year old, I feel for you. Life is a journey and some of the paths are very difficult. i wish you well.

@DianEnglish56 4 месяца назад

Enjoy your videos so much. I will also be simplifying this spring as I am feeling overwhelmed with the clutter around me.

@itsmewende 4 месяца назад

After your video telling how you all were raised, there's no doubt in my mind, you are going to be the most wonderful of mom's. Speaking of your artwork, curious if the nursery will have some nature mural. I can see the baby being looked after by bunnies, fox, deer & birds.

@francescawollaston2227 4 месяца назад

Dear Paola, you look radiant and at peace with yourself and the world ❤ just want you to know how much we all love and appreciate the beautiful person you are. A fabulous journey awaits when the birth of the fairy prince graces your lives. Xx sending love from Australia. Francesca

@leannehendrickson376 4 месяца назад

..... Meaning...you ARE Authentic... You be who you are.... I Love that about you...

@shannonodell6207 4 месяца назад

I so enjoy your videos. They bring memories of the life we had as a couple preparing ourselves and our home for first baby. We lived for many years in rural, forested, hilly upstate NY. Lots of concerns by our generation of preserving history and nature. Loved taking our babes in arms for hikes and attending bluegrass festivals. My first born is nearly 40 now. Thank you for this sweet, tender egg gathering, muffin making and eating moment. You are loved by many, including me! ❤️

@marciamellow1211 4 месяца назад

I am 72 yrs old, and my thinking is opposite of yours.I am a artist, in many ways..my home is filled with beautiful things, I love collecting, very chosen items... no clutter, not sure That word is used in a right way sometimes..my home in very clean balanced and Interesting. Even at my age, I am interested in discovering beautiful items for my yard and home.. I hope I have many years of collecting, staying healthy and enjoying my life.I am very grateful and blessed..❤

@TheCottageFairy 4 месяца назад

Thank you for sharing - my intention as well is to be thoughtful about the items I have in my home, for me it’s not about getting rid of everything, instead valuing and keeping what I love and enjoy ❤

@junejunejuniejune 4 месяца назад

its all about intention! Whats right for one, may not be right for another. My dad is also a collector of things, but its overwhelming, and he often does not know what he has, because he has too much. I am now at the age where I find myself very happy with what I have, but want to edit down these things, because I couldn't possibly use it all, and it can be better loved elsewhere. I also find that by editing down what I have, I can better enjoy and treasure what really brings me joy.

@Yeodoongiiie 4 месяца назад

you look SO ADORABLE 🥺 in your pink shirt/dress and your growing belly 💕 it looks so good on you dear.

@ninazapalaENTP 4 месяца назад

Love the terracotta color for the door. Maybe a cool color from the inner window frame...turquoise? Just an idea! As I tell a super creative soul, but I could not help myself. 🕊

@phinesdaughter1737 4 месяца назад

Watching your videos always makes me feel so relaxed and settled - thank you ❤️

@ladyquinn2559 4 месяца назад

You are so lovely in that pink!! I am also changing inwardly and outwardly, making my home and finances more supportive. There is a Taoist saying “The root’s stability makes possible the leaf’s communion with the air.” (Waterway,translated by Crispin Sartwell), so I am calling this phase “tending the roots”.

@sheryldelind2628 4 месяца назад

I, too, am purging as I have accumulated so much over 64 years. We have downsized homes a couple of times over the past decade and have found that the purging has not kept in step with the loss of square footage. You inspire me in so many ways and love the happy and motivated way I feel each time I watch your lovely videos. You are so beautiful and radiant as you grow your precious baby boy. Best wishes to you in the months ahead and I will think of you very fondly as I gather my goods for the Mission and Goodwill. 🙏✨💛

@darviecampbell2763 4 месяца назад

March first starts my Spring cleaning yearly. It's a renewal of sorts, a refreshing in the heart and soul as well as the home!

@thecottagewitch 4 месяца назад

I’ve been cleaning for the past two days. My son is at school. But I have yet to work on my closet… Thank you for the inspiration, and the reminder to get to that closet!

@annapugh2222 4 месяца назад

You are even more lovely these days! I love the clothes and colors. Motherhood is a lovely time. Thank you for including us as you bake and live each day to the best of heart. Anna

@Colorado617 4 месяца назад

Perfect timing! Synchronicity! At 76 and partially disabled I’m learning it’s quite alright to take things slower and to take frequent breaks! I live in a small Victorian that was built in 1907 and I have lived here over 35 years and have accumulated quite a lot. Things I used to love no longer evoke the same feelings within me or are no longer useful to me. I’ve been decluttering on and off since the first of the year, took a bit of a break and am now ready to continue on! I’ll look forward to your next video in hopes of being inspired and encouraged. Do take good care as you navigate these new waters! 😊

@kimberlystone3987 4 месяца назад

Helllo Paola.. Your voice it self is so refreshing, restoring, And of course calming ❤❤

@mch12311969 4 месяца назад

In anticipation of the future relocation, I have started doing a clean out of my apartment. The last time I did this was ten years ago after my wife passed away. One would be amazed at how much stuff one accumulates in ten years' time even without trying. Relocation aside, I am trying to focus on decorating in a style that reflects my present self.

@amberhawke 4 месяца назад

Decluttering is important and necessary, but my observation is that it needs to be mindfully done with good communication. My wife and I decluttered years ago, and we used to have "discussions" regarding what to keep and what to get rid of. There were items of mine that I valued, yet bowing to pressure, it was decided to get rid of them. Years later, I still think about some of the items and wish that I still had them, they may be inconsequential to others, but to me they were important. We are going to be decluttering again soon, but with age and maturity have decided to move slower on getting rid of stuff and truly listening to each other. It helps that we have been doing mini cleaning/decluttering sessions, this has brought understanding between us. So, the short version is, don't rush the decluttering, take your time and communicate with each other when deciding what should leave.

@TheCottageFairy 4 месяца назад

That is great advice ❤️ thank you so much!

@jeanmullins3284 4 месяца назад

❤❤ The muffins look so yummy. Love your husband's crystal collection. Your hanging herbs and flowers brought back fond memories for me of picking herbs and flowers most everywhere I went as a young adult. I would stick them over my visors in my VW bug. It was so full ......I loved it!! You make a beautiful expecting lady. May many blessings come your way.❤❤

@lisamurray7086 4 месяца назад

After the first of the year I began going through our historical bungalow to clean and declutter. It’s amazing how many things you can easily let go. I find I have to do it in stages because decision fatigue sets in if I try to do too much in a session. I feel so much freedom and it reminds me how much I have to be thankful for! I have found if I have to spend too much time justifying why I should keep something it usually means it should go. Happy decluttering! ❤

@peggyduncanbaggenstoss5380 4 месяца назад

You are beautiful…I love seeing your home. Decluttering is Freedom. Six months before my retirement In 2015 I started cleaning out closets, cabinets and clothes. I only kept minimal number of dishes, 2 sets of summer sheets and 2 sets of winter sheets, enough blankets and quilts in the event of electricity loss and clothes for the new lifestyle of retirement. I donated coffee cups to a local restaurant, clothes , sheets, blankets and dishes to 3 young mothers that lost things in house fires. I only buy needed items of clothes. I make my laundry detergent for less than $5.00 for 5 gallon bucket, which lasts me over a year. I use natural cleaners: baking soda, white vinegar, salt for cleaning. I bathe and shampoo my hair with liquid Dr. Bronner’s Castile soap. A little goes a long way. There are so many ways to live frugal and healthy. I’m excited to see you and your husband with your baby. A baby changes everything… Hugs and much Love from Arkansas. ❤️

@user-zh5zy2gr2j 4 месяца назад

You look lovely, Paola. Thank you for the new insparing video! ❤

@grandmad3823 4 месяца назад

Your baby is so blessed to have you as a mama. It's going to have an incredble childhood! Love watching your nesting.

@amandajohns1299 4 месяца назад

I too have been simplifying. I finally went through my closet going through all clothes and things. I too had many clothes that brought back memories of a time in my life that was not happy. And so I let them go to a local charity where someone would find them anew and bring happier memories for them. It was very freeing and to go through our apartment and have only things that are of importance is fun too. I too am an artist and book lover so my whimsy and books have stayed with me as well. I hope you enjoy your going through like I did and I look forward to seeing your video. P.S. The small amount of childhood sentimental things I have, I kept. I hope you keep yours too....❤

@zoy8779 4 месяца назад

your voice makes me feel relaxed .be simple be true be here are the most meaningful goals at all . with u i can feel that so well .thank you for your simplicity ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

@elutkapestka8533 4 месяца назад

All the best to you and your family Paola, I soooo enjoy your videos, they are breath of tranquility and peace!!❤

@mariaisabelmunoz1655 4 месяца назад

Hermoso hogar! Hermosos cristales🎉 Cuidese y cuide a su guawuita (bebe) 🎉 Un abrazo desde Chile😊❤

@kimulm0619 22 дня назад

Frugality is a very good thing.Luv all your videos Paola,you have a knack for doing it well.❤

@evangeline3152 4 месяца назад

I think the terracotta paint will be lovely. You are absolutely glowing. I hope this means you are over morning sickness. You look healthy and beautiful.

@lindawoltz6058 4 месяца назад

My husband and I both have started cleaning out/reorganizing things and it always feels good to do so. A suggestion for “dressing up” the window in your front door, or any window, is faux stained glass. I purchased several kits nearly 30 years ago and had great success with them. You essentially use a pattern and paint on the glass, with light still coming through but also giving you privacy. The paint dries like a thin film of plastic, so peels right off if you decide at some point you don’t want it. Doesn’t harm the glass at all. There is usually faux leading included as well. Wishing you and your family the best year ever😊

@dona62851 4 месяца назад

I just LOVE your channel! Wishing you love, hope, and positive energy for the new baby! You are going to be a great mommy!!

@miltongurl28 4 месяца назад

You look so beautiful! That blush tunic top is just gorgeous on you. Simplifying is a great idea right now - that teeny little person will take up a lot of space in your home. It’s quite surprising! Lol! You’re nesting! How exciting! 🤗☺️🪹

@andeechristian9436 4 месяца назад

These words I needed to hear exactly right now at a transitional time in my life. I am a minimalist, making things harder for myself than they need to be. I sense a turning point. Btw you are simply glowing, look very healthy and well. Nice to see you

@hberrysc3517 4 месяца назад

"Live as simply as possible, Be humble in one's desires Consume with intention." - Paola Merrill You are so beautiful, Paola. Inside and out. You always say what my heart needs to hear. Thank you.

@teresaplew7714 4 месяца назад

Yes I am doing spring cleaning little by little. My little dog companion of 15 years just passed away and I feel that it's a time to let go. Much love to you and yours Peola

@alanmralphsralphs7434 4 месяца назад

Lovely reminder to slow things down and simplify as we cross these big thresholds. And what better way to elevate the senses (within and without) than those freshly baked cranberry muffins 😍

@Joanneofarc360 4 месяца назад

Thank you for your sweet spirit. I really enjoy watching and listening as I do my own chores. I feel that as I work alone, I am accompanied. I love you life perspectives. They help to ground me as well.

@metislamestiza3708 4 месяца назад

the terracotta color for the door is a wonderful choice with regard to your green walls. i appreciate you sharing links to treats that you make also! you are glowing with motherhood, and i remember that cleaning/organizing realm too. we were selling our old house and i put in new kitchen flooring close to my due date! your videos are such a treat always Paola. thank you for your honesty and sharing

@user-ro8fq7wo7f 4 месяца назад

You are nesting. Preparing your home and your life for your coming baby and Spring is the perfect time for nesting.

@user-dz7yc5fn4i 3 месяца назад

I like to follow your way of living . Simple and content . No worry of what's going on outside the world .

@tanyagrala4281 4 месяца назад

Hello Paola! I'm also decluttering and simplifying my home/life. After some health problems in my household, it seems the time to do it. Too many dusty items taking up space and time that could be put to better use elsewhere. Time to start living and stop collecting dust! Lol. Much love to you and yours from Connecticut! ❤

@molinajoseph7315 2 месяца назад

You have a very creative mind. Can't wait to see the things you create for the baby. God bless you. 🙏🥰

@Ck-hp8zq 4 месяца назад

When I see your house it feels like I’m watching a scene of warm spring nature ❤

@homeatmerehaven 4 месяца назад

I am an artist of words and home making and a mother and home educator of almost five little people, and your reflective words and beautiful videos have been a source of inspiration and encouragement. I feel I am on a similar journey in many ways of learning to enjoy who I’ve been created to be and do my own thing, finding strength gently and confidently. I’ve been a quiet observer of your channel for so long, but wanted to say thank you today. I am so excited for your own mothering journey beginning, and found comfort today in your words about feeling like nothing will change, but then suddenly seeing the signs of life and Spring. My own little one is taking their time in arriving, so I’m working to accept the longer wait, knowing this slow period has a meaningful reason for me and for Baby. I, too, am on a roll with finding more and more ways to simplify for frugality and peace of mind this year! And I think it’s the prenatal nesting on top of spring cleaning right now, making it feel even more exciting! Looking forward to your next video. ❤

@giulianasani8448 4 месяца назад

Thanks dear Paula!you are so precious! I appreciate your videos solo muchi!❤

@trishawall9619 4 месяца назад

Consider a "stained glass sticker" film for your front door window. Still let's in light, but adds character.

@moonstone-mama 4 месяца назад

I too have gone through rapid change and big challenges this winter. I barely recognize myself, coming out at the other end. Amplified by spring fever, I felt a good wardrobe clean out was in order. Donated a big bag of it to charity, and I don't regret a single thing. Simplifying feels like coming back to base with our core values and desires. That's how I experience it.

@Mountain_Climb 4 месяца назад

Yes to spring cleaning. I had not stepped into my pottery studio (basement of my home) since November. It was a mess! I spent the last couple of weeks, making it a space that I enjoy working in.

@kellybridge5112 4 месяца назад

Hearing you talk about de-cluttering has resonated with me today, we have to move home but I am struggling with packing as we do not know where we are moving to , and only have 8 weeks left- our landlord is moving back in or selling this home. I am struggling but I know something will come along as everything happens for a reason. Thank you for your video, it has helped me today xxx

@10daydreams 4 месяца назад

Your bowl! My mother had one just like it (and I am 73). Was that handed down to you? Thank you for the wonderful long ago memory of my mother mixing up cookie dough in that bowl. hugs

@forrest_life23 4 месяца назад

Hello beautiful soul Love your video as I am also like cleaning all my falt, reajusting, gibving a new life to some old furniture I don't throw away but still wanna use. One of my cupboard look so nice now that I custom it way more bettet than it was. Next step will be my kitchen. Bought so many little stuff to reorganise all my cupboards. Will even build a new shell so it will be neat and clean Spring is here now, way too much in advance, as I already picked my first wild garlic and I could see already so many wild primroses 😳 I hope spring will arrive soon for you too and take advantage of these last few weeks you still have for yourself. Love

@merryfergie 4 месяца назад

7:58 I appreciate what you said here. Even as an older person, I do my best to check in within self authenticity

@teribartusek1125 2 месяца назад

Love and light of Christ Jesus coming your way !!🎉❤

@kizzymulcaster6057 4 месяца назад

I love your whimsical decorations art 🎭🎨 and wisdom. ❤ Hope your getting enough rest your a busy pregnant bee by the sounds of everything your doing 🐝 Make sure you rest and enjoy your pregnancy sending well wishes and lots of good luck and happiness for yours and your families future all the way from the lake District uk ❤🌍